Recently adopted a half grown cat-stray found by a friend-and this
half grown female cat is now chasing and attacking my 10 YO male who
was declawed by his previous owner.
I kept them apart for the first few days and they have been getting
closer but the kitten likes to chase and attack the older cat. I only
see 2 options either get the kitten declawed-which I do not want to do
or turn her over to the local humane society.
I won't tolerate my 10 YO cat getting beat up but don't like my
options.
Any suggestions.
Victor Martinez - 19 Jan 2004 17:43 GMT
> I won't tolerate my 10 YO cat getting beat up but don't like my
> options.
It can take months for a new cat to settle in. During this time, they
will fight to establish a pecking order. Give it time. A feliway
diffuser has worked wonders for lots of people.
Good luck! Give them time, they'll figure it out.

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Ze alluring ailurophile - 20 Jan 2004 04:58 GMT
> Recently adopted a half grown cat-stray found by a friend-and this
> half grown female cat is now chasing and attacking my 10 YO male who
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> I won't tolerate my 10 YO cat getting beat up but don't like my
> options.
first make sure the stray dosent have any diseases....if the female is
clean from any diseases let them play together and see what
happens..........i used to have two kittens who would attack a 10 yo
cat and he would let them up to a point......then he would grab them
with his paws and gently bite into their fur........it was very
playful......but to the untrained eye it looked like they were
attacking each other....after that they slept together every
night....the three of them....but they knew who was boss.........
~*Connie*~ - 20 Jan 2004 11:45 GMT
even if you get the kitten declawed, it is still going to "beat up" on your
elder cat. cats very rarely use their claws, but if your worried about it,
just keep them trimmed. there is NO need to declaw the younger one
> Recently adopted a half grown cat-stray found by a friend-and this
> half grown female cat is now chasing and attacking my 10 YO male who
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> Any suggestions.
chris - 22 Jan 2004 16:32 GMT
I recently also adopted a kitten as well she is now 3 months old and the
older one is 3 years old. The little one is also always beating up on the
older one, they have been together now for about 1 month. They sometimes
play together nicely and other times they fight. It will take them a while
before they get used to eachother. I don't like it too when my older cat
gets beat up, but she stops the younger one when she has had enough. They
are very good at that. Once the older one has enough, she will run and
hide, so that she can be left alone. You just have to give them time.
> Recently adopted a half grown cat-stray found by a friend-and this
> half grown female cat is now chasing and attacking my 10 YO male who
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> Any suggestions.
Adam Helberg - 01 Feb 2004 04:42 GMT
> Recently adopted a half grown cat-stray found by a friend-and this
> half grown female cat is now chasing and attacking my 10 YO male who
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> Any suggestions.
Very similar to my situation. I have a 4 year old declawed (by someone else)
very mellow female and a 8 month very active hyper male. The kitten keeps
teasing and "attacking" the older cat who growls and hisses. Closer
observation however reveals the kitten is mostly playing as he gets bored
and does not put his claws out. Also I've noticed that since I've had the
kitten (except the first month) the older cat actually prefers to stay home,
so she cannot be that bothered by the kitten.
I suggest not interfering in their interaction, your older cat will be fine.
Adam
butch burton - 05 Feb 2004 18:06 GMT
> > Recently adopted a half grown cat-stray found by a friend-and this
> > half grown female cat is now chasing and attacking my 10 YO male who
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> > Any suggestions.
UPDATE
Well the 10 YO cat and the newly adopted stray female are now getting
along quite well-no more hisses/growls just a few friendly paw swats
w/o claws. They are actually starting to play together.
New Issue
The stray female is about 4 months old and a couple of nights ago she
started soft meowing which turned into caterwalling. I thought she
was too young to go into heat but seeing a neighborhood tom cat parked
at my front door sez she is in heat. Also she is pestering my
neutered male by parking her raised rear end in front of him. I
suppose it is time to get her neutered but would like to wait a bit.
How often do cats go into heat and how long does it last. Would like
for her to get more comfortable with her new living arrangement before
having her neutered. Am very careful not to let her out-don't need
any more cats in this neighborhood.
JoJo - 07 Feb 2004 20:42 GMT
Get her butt to the vets and get her fixed! Cats are "polyestrus" meaning
they will go into heat whenever they damn well please, and depending on
where you live that could be often (typically their "libido" dissappears in
cold climates). She can stay in heat for a couple weeks, be off a couple
and go back in. Plus the caterwaulling can get to be nuts. Cats have also
been known to be nursing a litter and pregnant with another. Get her fixed
soon!
Most vets will not fix until the cats are 6 months old, my shelter will fix
them when they are over 2 lbs, then they get adopted. There is a chance she
may be six months old (look and see if her adult canine teeth (the longer
"fangs"), if they are your vet will probably fix her. Call around and check
before you end up w/an accidental litter on your hands! :)
> > > Recently adopted a half grown cat-stray found by a friend-and this
> > > half grown female cat is now chasing and attacking my 10 YO male who
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> having her neutered. Am very careful not to let her out-don't need
> any more cats in this neighborhood.