I don't understand. . . my cat loves my boyfriend but is mainly indifferent
to me.  I've had him since his birth and he is now about 2 1/2.  He was
never a very cuddly cat, but he does like to be pet now and then, when he
wants it.  The weird thing is that even though I am the one who feeds him,
cleans his box, takes him to the vet and always pays attention to him, he
gives my boyfriend all the attention.  He always hops up in my boyfriend's
lap, and meows to be pet when he never does this to me.  My boyfriend
recently went away for the weekend, and the cat didn't even come in my room
once.  When my boyfriend came home he went crazy and begged to be pet and
hopped up on the bed and purred.  I get so frustrated because I try to give
my cat all the love I can whenever he wants, while my boyfriend often times
will kick the cat out of the room when he wants to be pet or ignore him.  I
would never do that, and yet he seems to love my boyfriend and not me.  Why
does my cat hate me??!
-Jennifer