> The woman who gave them to us was moving and really wanted (I think) to find
> homes for all her pets (4 cats, 2 dogs). She seemed a little evasive about
> questions about them and their behaviour, though she assured us they were
> great with her little girl. I wonder if they were very social at their home
> either, but I don't know.
Maybe that's what she meant when she said that they were "great with
her little girl." If the cats stayed hidden all of the time, there
wouldn't be many problems between the cats and the child.
A few years back we had a stray cat show up at another house where we
lived at the time. When the weather turned cold in the fall (we live
in Wisconsin), the cat moved into the crawlspace under the house (one
story built into the hillside). I put out food for him every day and
gave him fresh water but it was four months before he would let me
pet him. Maybe your kitty cats just need more time to decide for
themselves that you're "okay" and don't mean them any harm. Sometimes
it takes cats a looooong time to come around. I've known a few other
cats, too, who took a long time to come around. In the end, it seems
like, once they decide the situation is all right and that they're
safe and secure, they become much more friendly.
I've also known cats that the harder I've tried to make friends with
them, the more evasive they have become.
Good luck with your kitties.
LeAnn
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Jerry Gaiser - 07 Jul 2003 22:34 GMT
> I've also known cats that the harder I've tried to make friends with
> them, the more evasive they have become.
We've been working on socializing a litter pair since the first of the year.
They were feral born and were about 6 weeks old when we caught them. Both
were weaned and pretty feral themselves.
The male half of the litter was very easy to tame and socalize, to the point
where is somewhat of a pest now.
His sister would have nothing to do with us until very recently. Over the
past two weeks, she has started vocalizing and has approached me to be
petted. She still gets very anxious when I try to pick her up, but will
even put up with that for 10-15 seconds at a time.
I would suggest to continue to make friends, but don't push the issue.
I think that sooner or later you'll break down their shyness.

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