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Sylvie Lauzon - 12 Oct 2003 20:06 GMT
I have a Norwegian Forest cat, age 7 and neutered - good tempered animal
with a mind of its own at times!!!  I now have the opportunity to adopt a
pure bred Main Coon, also 7 and neutered.  My dilemma is, will my cat accept
this new comer; I do not want to traumatize my cat.  Has any of you  had the
experience of introducing an older cat into your home?  I am open to any
suggestion. Thank you, Sylvie
Tigg - 12 Oct 2003 21:05 GMT
> I have a Norwegian Forest cat, age 7 and neutered - good tempered animal
> with a mind of its own at times!!!  I now have the opportunity to adopt a
> pure bred Main Coon, also 7 and neutered.  My dilemma is, will my cat accept
> this new comer; I do not want to traumatize my cat.  Has any of you  had the
> experience of introducing an older cat into your home?  I am open to any
> suggestion. Thank you, Sylvie

The true answer for you will come when the two cats are introduced to
each other, I may get the same problem. I have a declawed cat, not my
choice, happened before I adopted him at the SPCA. I may get another
cat, but to be fair for the one I have the next must be declawed as
well.
Sunflower - 14 Oct 2003 02:21 GMT
> > I have a Norwegian Forest cat, age 7 and neutered - good tempered
> animal
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> cat, but to be fair for the one I have the next must be declawed as
> well.

My declawed rescue is actually one of the tougher ones in the "kitty
wrestling" competitions with my other 7 who are clawed.  There is no need to
"protect" your declawed cat by only looking to declaws for future adoptions.
Clawed and declawed can live together just fine.  Only *real* fighting
involves claws anyway, and if they hate each other bad enough to bring out
the claws, then you are going to have other problems as well.  Speaking as
one who fosters additional animals constantly as well, someone always has
their nose out of joint anyway, but they always work it out without blood
shed. It's rare that I have to segregate one of the kids because they can't
adjust, but it has happened.

Sunflower
Tigg - 14 Oct 2003 03:59 GMT
> > "Sylvie Lauzon" <sylvie.lauzon@rogers.com> wrote in message

news:UChib.304211$Lnr1.247568@news01.bloor.is.net.cable.rogers.com...
> > > I have a Norwegian Forest cat, age 7 and neutered - good tempered
> > animal
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>
> Sunflower

Thanks.
~*Connie*~ - 13 Oct 2003 01:50 GMT
wow.. you will have a pair of amazing cats if this works well.

Have you had a chance to see how your cat reacts to other cats?

Id recommend getting the other cat and keeping separated in a spare room for
a while.  Don't do the introduction for a while.  You'll be able to judge
when by your cat.  If he reacts to the smells in the room badly, it will
take a while.  If he doesn't care, then you'll be able to do the intros
sooner.

Give your resident cat lots of love and praise for all behaviors that aren't
counterproductive to the intro.  do not scold for aggressive behaviors, but
say no strongly and  calmly talk to your kitty and explain why he shouldn't
do that, how you both need to help the new comer feel welcome.  once your
guy shows no aggressive behaviors, switch rooms for a bit.  Let the resident
sniff around the coon's room, smelling everything.  praise him again for all
non aggressive behavior, and once he's done in the room..

so once this all goes well, your ready for introductions.  do it in a
neutral room.. away from areas he considers his. yes.. the whole house is
his, but there are areas that aren't so much so.

It can be done, then again there are times when a kitty just wont get over a
new pet.. but given the right set of introductions you've got a really good
shot.  Good luck.. and don't forget to get the new guy a clean bill of
health before the intro.

> I have a Norwegian Forest cat, age 7 and neutered - good tempered animal
> with a mind of its own at times!!!  I now have the opportunity to adopt a
> pure bred Main Coon, also 7 and neutered.  My dilemma is, will my cat accept
> this new comer; I do not want to traumatize my cat.  Has any of you  had the
> experience of introducing an older cat into your home?  I am open to any
> suggestion. Thank you, Sylvie
Sunflower - 14 Oct 2003 02:25 GMT
> I have a Norwegian Forest cat, age 7 and neutered - good tempered animal
> with a mind of its own at times!!!  I now have the opportunity to adopt a
> pure bred Main Coon, also 7 and neutered.  My dilemma is, will my cat accept
> this new comer; I do not want to traumatize my cat.  Has any of you  had the
> experience of introducing an older cat into your home?  I am open to any
> suggestion. Thank you, Sylvie

Slow and easy is the way to go with adults.  Make sure they are aware of one
another for a while before ever being confronted physically with the other's
presence.  Give the new boy his own room, and let them sniff each other from
under the door.  When you have to clean the new guy's litterbox, bring him
out in a carrier and let the old guy in to smell where the new one has been
living.  Let the new guy explore while the old one is in the room.  Do that
for a week or so, and then bring the new guy out in a carrier and just set
it in the floor and let him get sniffed.  Plenty of love and reassurance for
the old guy, and some Feliway all around and in 2-3 weeks, they'll be
tolerating each other.  They may never bond as "friends", but again, they
might become inseparable. It's all up to the individual personalities
involved.

Sunflower
Ashton Hayes - 17 Oct 2003 21:56 GMT
Yes, ive had this experiance. truthfully, a kitten can tramitize your cats.
but my cats still dont excalty get along. the last cat i got was 6, about 2
years ago. i also had a 2, 1, and 4 year old cat in the house at the same
time. one just hissed and ignored the newbie, and one tryed to attack her,
and the other didnt care at all. all cats have different reactions. they all
get along fairly well now though. good luck!

> I have a Norwegian Forest cat, age 7 and neutered - good tempered animal
> with a mind of its own at times!!!  I now have the opportunity to adopt a
> pure bred Main Coon, also 7 and neutered.  My dilemma is, will my cat accept
> this new comer; I do not want to traumatize my cat.  Has any of you  had the
> experience of introducing an older cat into your home?  I am open to any
> suggestion. Thank you, Sylvie
CM - 08 Nov 2003 00:59 GMT
> Yes, ive had this experiance. truthfully, a kitten can tramitize your cats.
> but my cats still dont excalty get along. the last cat i got was 6, about 2
> years ago. i also had a 2, 1, and 4 year old cat in the house at the same
> time. one just hissed and ignored the newbie, and one tryed to attack her,
> and the other didnt care at all. all cats have different reactions. they all
> get along fairly well now though. good luck!

Yes, they are all different. I have 10 now, down from 11 last year.
Some came as adults and some were born here. Their relationships
change, too. When I brought a very young male adult into the house, he
and a small young female I have immediately bonded. They were like
bookends for a couple years. Now, they don't fight but aren't very
close either. 2 of my boys who were born here in the same litter and
have been raised together for all their 5 years have had to be pulled
apart more than once in the last couple years because they were
fighting and seriously ready to tear each other apart. Everyone is
neutered/spayed so I don't think it has much too do with hormones.
More with personality clashes. Though I can't do it permanently
because the law here does not allow, I have had as many as 19 at once.
They learn from experience how to deal with each other. Even if they
avoid each other, I think it still makes them comfortable, to a point,
to see someone like them in the same house.
 
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