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I miss her so much I can't bear it > I miss her so much I can't bear it i'm so sorry. Did your cat leave. Talk to me i'm a true cat lover send me a private email. it'll get better:) Hope to hear from you. >> I miss her so much I can't bear it > i'm so sorry. Did your cat leave. Talk to me i'm a true cat lover send > me a private email. it'll get better:) Hope to hear from you. I had to put her to sleep, kidney failure, she wasn't even that old. I should get her ashes this week >>>I miss her so much I can't bear it >> [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > I had to put her to sleep, kidney failure, she wasn't even that old. I > should get her ashes this week i am very sorry to hear about your loss . Cat we had growing up had to be put to sleep cause of kidney failure. I wish you well. If you wanna talk email me. It'll get better:) >>>>I miss her so much I can't bear it >>> [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > put to sleep cause of kidney failure. I wish you well. If you wanna talk > email me. It'll get better:) Thank you. Emailing is hard for me cause I'm afaraid of people. Maybe I'll try tomorrow I don't feel good so I'm going to sleep Thank you for your interest Bryan >>>>>I miss her so much I can't bear it >>>> [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > I don't feel good so I'm going to sleep > Thank you for your interest Bryan http://www.petloss.com is a wonderful group of caring and compassionate animal lovers. Every Monday evening at 9PM Eastern Standard Time there is a short candle lighting ceremony. Also, you can email the site owner to have your kitty's name put on the "Bridge List" (read about the Rainbow Bridge there). I urge you to visit the site and strike up conversations (or just lurk) in the chat room. Many kind people with words of comfort can be found there. I'm so sorry about your cat. HLS beware of who you meet on the internet. you never know who is trying to exploit your moment of vulnerability. > beware of who you meet on the internet. you never know who is trying > to exploit your moment > of vulnerability. nevermind humperdink he is a troll who cares nothing about anything but himself. Usually i find him humorous but i think he has nerve poking fun at such a subject. Never mind him. >beware of who you meet on the internet. you never know who is trying >to exploit your moment >of vulnerability. Balderdash. Be careful of who you meet on the street!  Signature-john wide-open at throttle dot info >>>>>I miss her so much I can't bear it >>>> [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > I don't feel good so I'm going to sleep > Thank you for your interest Bryan that is up to you. I'm willing to listen and talk. >>>>>>I miss her so much I can't bear it >>>>> [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] >> > that is up to you. I'm willing to listen and talk. Thank you for your offer Bryan and your caring. There's so much emptiness, I'm worn out from the tears ~~ >>>>>>>I miss her so much I can't bear it >>>>>> [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > I'm worn out from the tears > ~~ Your going through a very tough time. Just take it one day at a time. >>>>>>>>I miss her so much I can't bear it >>>>>>> [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] >> ~~ > Your going through a very tough time. Just take it one day at a time. It's such a set-back, has stopped my progress cold ( I have other problems & was doing better) Anyway, those problems should be posted elsewhere, so I'll just say again, thank you ~~ [snip] > Thank you. Emailing is hard for me cause I'm afaraid of > people. Maybe I'll try tomorrow > I don't feel good so I'm going to sleep > Thank you for your interest Bryan It won't help just yet, but I know *exactly* how you're feeling. I volunteer at a rescue shelter and sometimes we have to let them go. It's never easy; Sheba, my favourite cat there, had to be put to sleep last month, you can see some photos of her here if you want: www.g6urp.co.uk/sheba - do you have any photos of your cat you could share with us..? (Note this is a non-binary group so if you do have some photos, put a link to them here rather than posting directly). All the best, Ivor > >> I miss her so much I can't bear it > > i'm so sorry. Did your cat leave. Talk to me i'm a true cat lover send > > me a private email. it'll get better:) Hope to hear from you. > > I had to put her to sleep, kidney failure, she wasn't even that old. I > should get her ashes this week Allow me to add my condolences to the others. I had the very same experience many years ago -- her name was Elizabeth. It's so hard to go through. What was your dear girl's name? SignatureDiana <http://personal.bellsouth.net/d/r/drdrive/hereiam.html> <snip> Rainbow Bridge revised by, No More Retail Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, whom had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. Their bright eyes are intent; Their eager bodies quiver. Suddenly they begin to run from the group, flying over the green grass, Their legs carrying them faster and faster. You have been spotted, and when you and your special friends finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress their beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your friends, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart. Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together.... *** "And nothing but peace and the love of your Dear Friends"**** * Author Unknown of the original poem a few lines have been changed * *** This should be added *** ****"Always remember We will be there even if you can't see us. We are always Watching and Waiting. That cool puff of air you feel across your cheek, that fleeting touch, the feeling you have that I was walking across your bed, that moment you swear you can hear us, that flicker of movement out of the corner of your eye. Is just our way of saying I love you and I am with you always even in the darkest time We Will Always Be There. Till our paws touch again always know we love you and cherished our special time together"*** Ending Added By: NO MORE RETAIL I take it you got my new email No More Retail wrote: > I take it you got my new email i did get, thought i replied sorry, must be old age ;) ghost I thought I did a good job revising it brought my wife to tears. I blew it up and it is one the shelter door leading to my office No More Retail wrote: > I thought I did a good job revising it brought my wife to tears. I blew it > up and it is one the shelter door leading to my office sorry nmr, i'm just not good at putting my thoughts into words. you did an excelent job revising it. ghost >> >> I miss her so much I can't bear it >> > i'm so sorry. Did your cat leave. Talk to me i'm a true cat lover [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > experience many years ago -- her name was Elizabeth. It's so hard to go > through. What was your dear girl's name? Her name was Mazer-originally Maizey, but she was a big girl, Maizey didn't quite fit I have printed off many things from the Rainbow Bridge that are so beautiful But I can stop this crying. And, this is the first time I've admitted this-I don't like my other cat-she's not the Mazer ~~ > >> >> I miss her so much I can't bear it > >> > i'm so sorry. Did your cat leave. Talk to me i'm a true cat lover [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > don't like my other cat-she's not the Mazer > ~~ As long as you don't let on to her-- it's not her fault, after all. Just as we don't really love all our kids the same (or at least we LIKE them in different amounts), we feel differently about our cats. The same rules apply: we have a perfect right to our feelings, and we treat them pretty much the same nonetheless. My last to cross the Rainbow Bridge was Camille. Informally, she was known as "Mealer". So I believe we have something in common. :) SignatureDiana <http://personal.bellsouth.net/d/r/drdrive/hereiam.html> >> >> >> I miss her so much I can't bear it >> >> > i'm so sorry. Did your cat leave. Talk to me i'm a true cat lover [quoted text clipped - 27 lines] > My last to cross the Rainbow Bridge was Camille. Informally, she was > known as "Mealer". So I believe we have something in common. :) How did you come up with the name "Mealer"? I'm trying to give my other more affection, it's just hard ~~ >>> >> >> I miss her so much I can't bear it >>> >> > i'm so sorry. Did your cat leave. Talk to me i'm a true cat [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > > Hello Sad eyed Lady, i'm sorry for your loss,..I know the feeling. If neccesary ask your doctor for something like xanax..When my mother died.I was going to pieces..the Xanax realy helped,especially with sleep.If you do get them only take them when neccessary during the day..but take one at night before bed. They really helped me get thru the worst part of the grieving procces. I know its hard to believe,but you will start feeling better. I wish I could help you more. zippy >>>> "Diana" <imdianawithnospam@bellsouth.not> wrote in message >>>> news:imdianawithnospam-847A75.09150007112005 [quoted text clipped - 46 lines] > I wish I could help you more. > zippy Thank you, zippy. I'm already on meds for depression & anxiety (Xanax in fact) but I try not to take them during the day It's weird, I was ok for 2 days a couple of says ago, my depression was somewhat under control, now I'm regressing, all the good I'd reached has disappeared So, guess I start over. Thank you so much for taking the time to reply ~~ >>>>>"Diana" <imdianawithnospam@bellsouth.not> wrote in message >>>>>news:imdianawithnospam-847A75.09150007112005 [quoted text clipped - 57 lines] > So, guess I start over. Thank you so much for taking the time to reply > ~~ no sad-eyed lady i don't agree with you. Your not starting over with any progress you made with your past depression. Your at a point of grief now and sadness due to loss of your cat. I do not specifically know what YOU are going through, but i know what your going through in a general sense. It's a normal human reaction, but your definitely not starting over from before. It's ok to be sad over your loss. Just try not to think of losing any progress you made before. I don't think that's the case. You'll be ok, just take it as it comes. You wanna talk feel free to email me. Bryan >>>>>>"Diana" <imdianawithnospam@bellsouth.not> wrote in message >>>>>>news:imdianawithnospam-847A75.09150007112005 [quoted text clipped - 69 lines] > > Bryan Thank you Bryan, I'm reazlizing now that my other cat who is blind & brain damaged & other medical problems, is feeling this loss also, I've been too self absorbed to notice. She never had a real voice before, just kinda chirped, and now in the mornings she just cries So I'm making a special effort for her, cause she misses The Mazer too, we talk about her (crazy, huh?) But I still have no motivation, just sit in front of TV all day-I think tomorrow they will call me to pick up her ashes. I have her place ready with my 2 other cats who died long ago Thank you, I really am trying not to obssess about this, but I can't turn off my brain ~~ tell us about your blind and brain damaged cat. her vet bills must cost a fortune! how can she see the litter box? > tell us about your blind and brain damaged cat. her vet bills must > cost a fortune! how can she see the litter box? I don't take her to the vet. when I got her in 1995, they said she'd be dead in 6 months...so, now 10 years later She gets along fine mostly with sense of smell & hearing lady Do you know that cats talk to each other in their own special vocabulary that is different from what they say to humans? You don't want your cat to lose her ability for cat-to-cat chat, so you need to get her out to socialize with other cats eventually. > Do you know that cats talk to each other in their own special > vocabulary that is different from what > they say to humans? You don't want your cat to lose her ability for > cat-to-cat chat, so you need to get her out to socialize with other > cats eventually. Hi edie, Unfortunately, this blind cat can't be around others. I've thought about that in terms of adopting another, butI don't think she could handle it. Maybe I'll change my mind after a while & give it a try. She was close the the other act because they were rescued & adopted together Thank you for your ideas and writing back lady > >> Her name was Mazer-originally Maizey, but she was a big girl, Maizey > >> didn't [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > I'm trying to give my other more affection, it's just hard > ~~ How did I come up with "Mealer" for Camille? It's rather like "Mazer" for Maizey, don't you think? (Ca)mille-er, phonetically is "meeler", and I suppose the spelling of Mealer came from her being such an enthusiastic eater. It was just so "her"! Perhaps if you give your other cat a nickname that seems to be especially "her", you'll grow closer to her. I would guess also that the more you go out of your way to show her affection, the more you will come to genuinely feel it. Talk to her about the Mazer, as well. Cats can be very empathic listeners, and she probably feels the loss herself. These are things I would do as a part of turning grieving in a positive direction, but of course they're only suggestions... It's always so hard to go on without a loved one, but in my experience at some point there comes a realization that we are never _really_ without the loved one. SignatureDiana <http://personal.bellsouth.net/d/r/drdrive/hereiam.html> >> >> Her name was Mazer-originally Maizey, but she was a big girl, Maizey >> >> didn't [quoted text clipped - 35 lines] > at some point there comes a realization that we are never _really_ > without the loved one. I like that name Mealer. My other blind cat's original name was Zoey, but mostly I call her Doggie, because even from the very beginning, she is constantly at my side and follows me everywhere, so she's "little Dog" or Doggie Yes I'm really trying to be closer with her-she isn;t crying as much, and i do talk to her about Mazer, cause i know she misses her too. I've started letting her sleep with me-at least until dawn when she starts romping on my head, they she's out of the bedroom Thank you Diana for talking with me. I know it all takes time. Take care lady >I miss her so much I can't bear it I feel your grief. http://www.petloss.com/ http://www.pet-loss.net/ Signature-john wide-open at throttle dot info >>I miss her so much I can't bear it > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > http://www.pet-loss.net/ Thank you John (and thanks for making me smile a bit at your comment about being careful of people you meet on the street) ~~ |
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