Or just move. I know that sounds cold, but the cat will sense when you are
in need and vice versa. Kind of like when a couple get burned out of where
they live. Then if you find some things that are a bit much for you, go with
NMR's post.

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> First We are glad both of you made it out
> Second You are going to need some counseling your self for post traumatic
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> will help you out with the necessasities for your cat Red cross should
> be able to help you out and point you in the right way with the cat