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Fred Bloggs - 11 Jul 2005 14:05 GMT Hi All,
I am so sad at the moment and so are my 2 cats..... On Thursday I went out and as usual I let the cats outside, when I came home I caught my one cat just about crossing the main road not far from us. Well my heart skipped a beat, "hey you, get home nowwwwww" I calmly shouted. She looked at me and ran towards me meowing (thank goodness). So to get her to come inside was a pain, cause she was up to her tricks again ( she comes closer and runs away, again and again). So this woman is trying to park her car and this cat of mine decides to lay in the middle of our cul-de-sac and look all cute(never mind the roar of the big machine).
When she finally came in, I said "now you've gone and done it, I'm never ever letting you out again as long as you live". How unfair am I now.... I feel so crap, but I feel that this way at least I'll keep them alive. They cry all the time now and look at me with such sorrow that I want to give in and give them a lecture and they will listen to me and not go in the road again..... (fat chance)
Sadly Blazef
Spider - 11 Jul 2005 17:29 GMT > Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 22 lines] > Sadly > Blazef Hi Blaze,
I know just how you feel. In March last year my beautiful Cougar was hit by a car and killed. I was distraught, holding him in my arms with his dislodged eyeball in my hand. That memory haunts me.
I now have two precious cats, Cheetah and Panther. It took me a long time to allow them outside, and at first I always called them in at night. However, they truly love being outside. I deeply hope that I won't live to regret it, but I allow them out during the day. I know this makes them happy. At night, I lock them in IF I can get them both in by 11 o/c. When I can't get them in, I simply worry more.
I've always had outdoor cats. My first two cats died at the ages of 19y 6m and 22yrs, each of natural causes. I can only hope that Cougar's death at 17mths was extraordinary. I certainly don't treat it lightly. However, I love my cats enough to allow them reasonable freedom, knowing they're home-loving cats who usually come to call. Mine is a very personal, frequently assessed, decision. I know I couldn't bear to hear and watch two miserable, crying cats who have been used to the outdoor life and obviously love it.
If your decision stands, at least spend much more time playing with your cats so they get sufficient exercise and stimulation. I certainly can't tell you to change your mind, but I think your cats are doing exactly that.
I really don't envy you - or your cats - just now. Hope you'll all soon be happy.
Spider
Roberta Bagshaw - 12 Jul 2005 02:37 GMT This is a long reply - sorry to be so verbose, but we feel a bit elated at having success with this!!!
Blaze......... we have two cats, and until recently they have both been indoor cats, going outside into the backyard only under supervision. We have spent a lot of time and effort making the back garden "cat-proof", and, at long last, we think we have succeeded!!!
One of our cats, Rosie, is a bit of an escape artist, and we have a pergola at the back of the house with an old grape vine growing up it. This was a favourite method of escape, as Rosie would climb up the trunk of the grapevine and then up some trellis work and through the shade slats of the pergola, jump onto the fence and into the neighbour's yard. (He has several large bird aviaries, and I can understand that he doesn't appreciate cats coming into his yard and frightening his breeding parrots!).
We fixed some of that green plastic wire between the trunk of the grapevine and the fence to prevent Rosie climbing up it (kind of like a rat-guard on big ships), but she still managed to get past it and up and over. So..... we fixed some of this wire (which is just about invisible amongst the greenery) onto the top of the pergola, but she would climb and hang there like a circus acrobat and haul herself up and over. So..... we added some more wire coming backwards and over...... and we made the backwards angle so severe that it was now impossible for her to haul herself up....at last we think we have her foiled!
Other parts of the garden have climbing roses growing along the fence, and we have encouraged the longer thorny branches to run along the top of the fence, to discourage any attempts to climb over. In parts of the garden where the fence does not have anything planted, we have bought some decorative trellis to fix to the top of the fence, and have removed anything that would allow the cats to get a "leg-up" and over the fence e.g. we have a worm-farm which used to be a perfect step-up platform. By shifting that away from the fence, and with the trellis on the top, it is now too high for them to climb over.
It has taken us more than 6 weeks (much of it in experimental stages......observing where Rosie would make her escape) to make the garden virtually cat proof, but we have managed to do this, with some thinking, lots of persistence, but with very little expense. One of the benefits also is that as well as keeping our cats in, we have far less problems with strange cats visiting our garden.
I know that most gardens are difficult to cat proof, and if you are going to do anything with your dividing fence, talk to your neighbour first to make sure that they don't object, and try to keep the whole structure attractive.
It is so nice to see Rosie and Bonnie in the back garden, running and playing, trying to catch butterflies etc., and enjoying their added "freedom". It has certainly been worth the effort for us, knowing that there is much less chance of the cats' escape, and perhaps being accidentally injured. In the last couple of weeks they have become used to being able to let themselves out through the pet-door after breakfast, and spending most of the day in the garden. About 4 in the afternoon I call them indoors to have their dinner, and then I lock the pet-door to prevent them going out at night. So, another advantage is that they are using their indoor litter tray much less (saving on kitty-litter as well!).
Blaze...... if your situation is such that it would be economically and practically possible to cat-proof your garden, it would certainly be worth the effort.
Cheers
Roberta Bagshaw (Sec.) Friends of the RSPCA Geraldton Auxiliary West Australia email: rbagshaw@midwest.com.au
>> Hi All, >> [quoted text clipped - 63 lines] > > Spider Lee Waun - 11 Jul 2005 19:14 GMT > Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 23 lines] > Sadly > Blazef I have 2 cats and they are constantly doing cute things. However I live in an apartment so they don't get to go out ever and I never have to worry about them being run over by anything but may be the vacuum. That would be a good thing as it would vacuum up a lot of fluff I want gone.
James A. Donald - 12 Jul 2005 07:28 GMT --
> When she finally came in, I said "now you've gone and > done it, I'm never ever letting you out again as long [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > lecture and they will listen to me and not go in the > road again..... (fat chance) When I let my cat out the back, she almost never goes in front, though there is nothing stopping her from doing so. Sometimes, however, she demands to be let out the front. When I let her out the front, I supervise her continuously. If she gets too close to the road, or too far from the house, I tell her to go inside. She behaves quite well - sticking close to the house, and not going on the road or the pavement.
Sometimes she asks to be let out in front, and instead I let her out the back. One would think that she would then simply climb over the fence from the back yard to the front yard but she has very rarely done this, though she often climbs the fence to taunt the neighbor's dogs.
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