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rob - 25 Mar 2004 07:19 GMT
Hi All,

I'm about to go insane - our cat will not shut up. He's taken to meowing,
literally, once every 2 seconds or so for up to an hour at a time or more in
an effort to get me to let him outside. He was an indoor cat for a long time
until we moved to a house with a back yard that we could completely close
off. Now, he wants nothing but to be outside, all the time. Morning, noon &
night he meows... constantly. It's like his brain is stuck in some endless
loop. He is neither ill nor injured, btw. We never let him out when he is
meowing, only when he's quiet & pleasant - it's our feeble attempt at
positive reinforcement. We're also attempting negative reinforcement (squirt
him with a water pistol, soak his tail in the bath, tether him to the
furniture, etc, when he meows constantly), but nothing is working. We're
half starting to consider options like a shock collar or even de-meowing
surgery. Those are the last things we'd want to do, but honestly, we are at
the end of our rope. Any suggestions?

Thanks in advance...

Rob
Agua Girl - 25 Mar 2004 05:06 GMT
> Hi All,
>
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>
> Thanks in advance...

Get him a cat door.  If he is safe in the back yard and you are comfortable
with him back there. that is.
He isn't "meowing"...he is communicating.  He wants something and this is
his way of letting you know.  If it's at a time of day when he can't be let
out, tell him no and then do your best to ignore him.  No negative
reinforcement...just "no".
I talk to Sasha.  Not just kitty talk but real talk.  I tell her "No Sash,
no
going outside right now, I have to leave in 10 minutes but maybe when
I get back...etc.".  Obviously she doesn't comprehend all that but it
seems like she gets the idea.
I am assuming your cat is neutered.  (if not, that IS the problem).  Does
he have adequate toys and climbing stuff inside?  Could be he is yammering
all the time out of boredom.

AG

> Rob
rob - 25 Mar 2004 16:09 GMT
> > Hi All,
> >
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> with him back there. that is.
> He isn't "meowing"...

Trust me - he's meowing...

;)

> he is communicating.  He wants something and this is
> his way of letting you know.

I know this.

> If it's at a time of day when he can't be let
> out, tell him no and then do your best to ignore him.  No negative
> reinforcement...just "no".

I porobably haven't expressed the scale of the problem properly. There is no
ignoring this - he will truly meow until he becomes hoarse. Literally, hours
on end.

> I talk to Sasha.  Not just kitty talk but real talk.  I tell her "No Sash,
> no
> going outside right now, I have to leave in 10 minutes but maybe when
> I get back...etc.".  Obviously she doesn't comprehend all that but it
> seems like she gets the idea.

We've pretty much been the same way his whole life.

> I am assuming your cat is neutered.  (if not, that IS the problem).

Yes, he is neutered.

> Does
> he have adequate toys and climbing stuff inside?  Could be he is yammering
> all the time out of boredom.

Plenty of toys & distractions....

Thx,

Rob

> AG
> >
> > Rob
'cedes - 25 Mar 2004 08:13 GMT
PS...Here is another link, that goes with the ones that I sent in my
previous post;  http://www.radiofence.com/cat_doors.htm
> Hi All,
>
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>
> Rob
M.C. Mullen - 25 Mar 2004 08:41 GMT
| Hi All,
|
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| meowing, only when he's quiet & pleasant - it's our feeble attempt at
| positive reinforcement.

Cats are not like dogs - forget about this one.

| We're also attempting negative reinforcement (squirt
| him with a water pistol, soak his tail in the bath, tether him to the
| furniture, etc, when he meows constantly), but nothing is working.

If I got this treatment I'd meow too!

| We're
| half starting to consider options like a shock collar or even de-meowing
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|
| Rob

Why can't he have a cat door?
'cedes - 25 Mar 2004 08:42 GMT
Rob,
How about you make your back yard escape proof and let him out there as much
as he wants? In order to save your sanity, I am sending you some really good
links on how to make your yard escape-proof for your cat. Provide him with
an indoor-outdoor door, and the meowing will forever stop.
I feel your frustration, but I KNOW that there is an answer to be found in
the links below. By the way, no reputable vet will "de-meow" a cat. A shock
collar could easily give him a heart attack. Tethering him to something
could lead to strangulation. Consider the below links;
http://www.just4cats.com/page7.html
http://www.lisaviolet.com/cathouse/backyard.html

Screened-in veranda;  http://www.cat-world.com.au/Veranda.jpg

http://www.catfencein.com/http://www.catfence.com/pictures.htm

  http://www.feralcat.com/fence.html

http://www.friendlyfence.com/ff/prod_fence_cat_houdini.asp?OVRAW=cat%20fence&OVK
EY=cat%20fence&OVMTC=standard


Rob, let me know if I can provide you with any more help on this. One other
suggestion; How about a companion kitty for your cat? This is a sure-fire
solution.  Good luck! Carol  Take the nospam out of jmilamnospam@bak.rr.com
----- Original Message -----
From: "rob" <not@chan.ce>
Newsgroups: alt.cats,alt.pets.cats,rec.pets.cats.health+behav
Sent: Wednesday, March 24, 2004 10:19 PM
Subject: Help!!! Cats meows constantly

> Hi All,
>
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>
> Rob

> Hi All,
>
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>
> Rob
rob - 25 Mar 2004 16:04 GMT
> Rob,
> How about you make your back yard escape proof and let him out there as much
> as he wants?
> In order to save your sanity, I am sending you some really good
> links on how to make your yard escape-proof for your cat.

Thanks for the info.

> Provide him with
> an indoor-outdoor door, and the meowing will forever stop.

For a variety of reasons, this probably isn't feasible where I live. I'll
look into it, however...

> I feel your frustration, but I KNOW that there is an answer to be found in
> the links below. By the way, no reputable vet will "de-meow" a cat.

It's not something we would ever do anyways - I was really just underscoring
my frustration more than anything. There is a dog who lives across the way
who has been de-barked & while it's unspeakably (no pun intended) cruel, it
sometimes seems like a pretty attractive option.

> A shock
> collar could easily give him a heart attack.

Same as above...

> Tethering him to something
> could lead to strangulation.

The only time he is tethered is when we are in the room. Usually, one of us
is holding the leash - when we need the use of our hands we move the leash
to a chair leg, etc. We are very aware of the possibility of strangulation.

Consider the below links;
> http://www.just4cats.com/page7.html
> http://www.lisaviolet.com/cathouse/backyard.html
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>
>    http://www.feralcat.com/fence.html

http://www.friendlyfence.com/ff/prod_fence_cat_houdini.asp?OVRAW=cat%20fence&OVK
EY=cat%20fence&OVMTC=standard


> Rob, let me know if I can provide you with any more help on this. One other
> suggestion; How about a companion kitty for your cat? This is a sure-fire
> solution.

I wish it were - he's had a companion since we got him.

Good luck! Carol  Take the nospam out of jmilamnospam@bak.rr.com
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "rob" <not@chan.ce>
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> >
> > Rob
AK - 25 Mar 2004 19:28 GMT
> > I feel your frustration, but I KNOW that there is an answer to be found in
> > the links below. By the way, no reputable vet will "de-meow" a cat.
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> who has been de-barked & while it's unspeakably (no pun intended) cruel, it
> sometimes seems like a pretty attractive option.

If it really is so bad that you even jest about considering something like
this, maybe you should consider rehoming him with someone who can tolerate
it more.  Those of us that own oriental cats  like Siamese or Bengals know
how to live with constant chatter from the cat!
Jeannie - 25 Mar 2004 10:24 GMT
Put a cat flap in the door to your yard.  I would suggest getting one with a
magnetically operated catch otherwise you may encounter the problem (as I
did) of stray cats appearing in your house whenever they like.  Another plus
with these kind of cat flaps is that you can totally lock them at night so
your cat can't get out at all.

Jeannie

> Hi All,
>
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>
> Rob
rob - 25 Mar 2004 16:10 GMT
> Put a cat flap in the door to your yard.  I would suggest getting one with a
> magnetically operated catch otherwise you may encounter the problem (as I
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>
> Jeannie

I'm going to look into it, but it's probably not feasible for where I live.

> > Hi All,
> >
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> >
> > Rob
~*Connie*~ - 26 Mar 2004 01:54 GMT
> > with these kind of cat flaps is that you can totally lock them at night so
> > your cat can't get out at all.
> >
> > Jeannie
>
> I'm going to look into it, but it's probably not feasible for where I live.

Why not?  they have ones you can put inside a window, so even if you don't
own the home, you can put one in with out making permanent changes
Alison - 25 Mar 2004 10:31 GMT
Hi Rob,
 How old is your cat and how long have you lived in your new house?
Letting him out at night is not a good idea even if your garden is
enclosed but what reason do you have for keeping him in during the
day?
>>>We're also attempting negative reinforcement (squirt
> him with a water pistol, soak his tail in the bath, tether him to the
> furniture, etc, when he meows constantly), but nothing is
working.We're
> half starting to consider options like a shock collar or even de-meowing
> surgery. >>>>

It won't work because he's not connecting his meowing to your
punishment. I'm sorry but I think this is jus plain cruel.
 If you've recently moved maybe the novelty of going out hasn't worn
off yet.  Decide what times you are going to let your cat out every
day and stick to a routine so he knows what's what. If he cries to go
out at other times you can distract him with interactive toys or if at
night put him in another room the moment he starts crying and ignore
him.
Alison

> Hi All,
>
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> him with a water pistol, soak his tail in the bath, tether him to the
> furniture, etc, when he meows constantly), but nothing is working.
e're
> half starting to consider options like a shock collar or even de-meowingW
> surgery. Those are the last things we'd want to do, but honestly, we are at
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Rob
rob - 25 Mar 2004 16:20 GMT
> Hi Rob,
>   How old is your cat and how long have you lived in your new house?

~6 & 2 years, respectively

> Letting him out at night is not a good idea even if your garden is
> enclosed but what reason do you have for keeping him in during the
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>  It won't work because he's not connecting his meowing to your
> punishment.

Actually, he does. When he starts meowing like this, he knows he is doing
something "bad". If we approach him, he'll run away from us, but *only* when
he is in the middle of one of these meowing sessions. He knows that he is
not supposed to be doing it, but carries on just the same.

>  I'm sorry but I think this is jus plain cruel.

I'm sorry, but you are jumping to conclusions. The water pistol doesn't work
anymore because it has become a fun game to him. Wetting his tail down sort
of works in that it occupies him while he licks it dry - shortly thereafter,
though, he's back at it. He gets regular baths & doesn't find water to be
traumatic in any way. The tethering, as I mentioned in another reply, only
occurs when we are in the room and observing him directly.

>   If you've recently moved maybe the novelty of going out hasn't worn
> off yet.

It's been 2 years ...

> Decide what times you are going to let your cat out every
> day and stick to a routine so he knows what's what.

That's exactly what we do

> If he cries to go
> out at other times you can distract him with interactive toys

Thats an option for only so long

> or if at
> night put him in another room the moment he starts crying and ignore
> him.

Unfortunately, when we've tried this, a) he meows louder and longer and b)
he pees on something to express his displeasure.

I've had cats all my life and I have never come across anything like this.
He simply will not be deterred

>  Alison
>
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> >
> > Rob
cati - 25 Mar 2004 21:26 GMT
youu have my sympathy. i have Grizzy, my almost 2 year old moggie. she has a
similar habit, she howls at night. For the past month i have had noghts of
broken sleep as my little darling howls her way through the night. i tried
shutting her out the bedroom - she sits at door and howls, shouting at her
so she knows i am around - howling stops temporarily, telling her not to
howl as it is keeping me awake - works for a nhour max, openiing door and
giving her a cuddle and returning her to where she sleeps - lasts 90
minutes. she wasnt allowed in the room as she doesnt settle at night and
just runs everywhere and plays all night.

I tried feilway and  so far it is having some success, she now lies on my
bed all of the night and wakes me up twice so she can get a cuddle. Grizzy
was a rescue cat and i now feel that she just doesnt like being on her own.
she was got as a companion to mistoffelees as he had just lost his friend.

She also wet carpets when given a row or was in a mood, again feliway
worked.

guess it is kinda a long way to say it might be worth giving feliway a try.

Cati

> > Hi Rob,
> >   How old is your cat and how long have you lived in your new house?
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> > >
> > > Rob
m. L. Briggs - 26 Mar 2004 02:11 GMT
>youu have my sympathy. i have Grizzy, my almost 2 year old moggie. she has a
>similar habit, she howls at night. For the past month i have had noghts of
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Alison - 27 Mar 2004 00:08 GMT
> .
>
> Actually, he does. When he starts meowing like this, he knows he is doing
> something "bad". If we approach him, he'll run away from us, but *only* when
> he is in the middle of one of these meowing sessions. He knows that he is
> not supposed to be doing it, but carries on just the same.

Hi Rob,
  Cats are very good at reading body language and sensing how you
feel, they can pick up the slightest signs so when you approach him,
it he can sense your approach is different or you are tense and maybe
not because he connects it to his meowing.
I'm still not clear about some things . How much time does he
actually spend outside? Does he tend to want to come in and out all
the time or does he spend long periods outside.
  Alison
Chris - 25 Mar 2004 18:08 GMT
Is there something outside that you may not have noticed?  other cats maybe?
or does he see some wildlife from the window?
> Hi All,
>
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>
> Rob
Diana - 25 Mar 2004 18:45 GMT
rob at not@chan.ce wrote on3/25/04 1:19 AM:

> Hi All,
>
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>
> Rob

First of all, 50 lashes and some appropriate penance for ever letting him
out in the first place if he was once contented to be an indoor cat.
Brought it all on yourself, etc., etc., blah, blah.

Now that we have *that* part over with, let me tell you what I would do.  I
would start leaving him out all day, with fresh water available at all
times, of course, and at night I would have him indoors during my sleeping
hours, bedroom door closed and earplugs or white noise machine so as not to
hear him if he meows. I would also create an indoor garden of sorts, with
plenty of cat-safe plants, a bit of grass to eat, even a bit of catnip.

The main rationale is twofold: (#1) he should satiate somewhat on being
outdoors if out for long periods, and become less gung-ho on needing to be
out; and (#2) perhaps he has more right to self-determination that you are
granting him.  Although being outside is risky, he seems to consider it a
quality of life issue.

The indoor garden may be very attractive to him and in time sway his
preference to the indoors.  And removing the "power struggle" aspect of the
whole situation may also in time make the outdoors less appealing.

I'm not at all opposed to mild forms of punishment such as water squirts or
air horns to startle, but as you're finding, these are not terribly useful,
or terribly nice on  your part, in the case of meowing, which is both "wired
in" and intelligent behavior. (He probably has some Siamese genes in him to
be so vocal!)  And tethering him will increase his frustration and
exacerbate the problem.

Please try the suggestions above for a few weeks.  You have nothing to lose,
as it sounds very much like he has his mind firmly made up, and you will not
have a happy cat (or a moments peace) until he is given more autonomy.
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m. L. Briggs - 25 Mar 2004 19:32 GMT
>Hi All,
>
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>
>Rob

My suggestion -- let him be outside if he is safe there.  While you
are trying to bend him to your will, he is trying to bend you to his.
They  also love the "in and out game".  Quit all the punishments, the
shock collar idea and the surgery -- this just shows how inept your
training is.  Let him be what nature intended -- a cat.
Matt - 25 Mar 2004 22:30 GMT
Well, look at it this way at least you can let your cat out and there
is hope of shutting it up. My tomcat escaped about a month ago by
breaking through a screen window and ever since then he is convinced
that being an outdoor cat is his destiny. He cries all the time now
wanting to go out again and makes daily breakout attempts. The problem
is that we live next to (50 feet/20 meters) a major road with heavy
round the clock (even at 2 AM) traffic so there is no way that I will
let him out especially since he is a daredevilÂ….
Maria - 03 Apr 2004 08:11 GMT
Please see 4/02/04 posting, Advice Needed Please, Maria Stencill. Igave
instructions to build a good and easy and cheap cat fence using 5' chicken
wire, metal posts, thin wire to secure the mesh to posts and tent pegs to
secure the bottom into the ground. Keeps cat in yard and all other animals
out.
> Well, look at it this way at least you can let your cat out and there
> is hope of shutting it up. My tomcat escaped about a month ago by
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> round the clock (even at 2 AM) traffic so there is no way that I will
> let him out especially since he is a daredevil..
rangitotogirl - 03 Apr 2004 23:19 GMT
> Please see 4/02/04 posting, Advice Needed Please, Maria Stencill. Igave
> instructions to build a good and easy and cheap cat fence using 5' chicken
> wire, metal posts, thin wire to secure the mesh to posts and tent pegs to
> secure the bottom into the ground. Keeps cat in yard and all other animals
> out.

I'm curious though as to how 5 foot of chicken wire would keep them inside.
My cat used to run straight up a 5 foot high concrete water tank and I would
have thought that chicken wire was even easier.  I guess the fact there is
nothing at the top to sit on before they make their descent might deter them
slightly.
mmhsb4me - 05 Apr 2004 22:34 GMT
The thing with using chicken wire 5' roll attached/wired to metal poles
using pegs to drive bottom into grass, is this; though fence is very strong
cats feet/claws get caught in mesh and fence sways lightly with weight on it
(and cannot sit on top). Once they test fence with claws and find these
things they dislike, that's it they never try to climb it. My cats could
actually jump over it and do climb trees in yard but they leave the fence
alone, even strays do... It's worked for 7 yrs.

> > Please see 4/02/04 posting, Advice Needed Please, Maria Stencill. Igave
> > instructions to build a good and easy and cheap cat fence using 5' chicken
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> nothing at the top to sit on before they make their descent might deter them
> slightly.
Ronda - 04 Apr 2004 02:00 GMT
Rob:
I first suggest talking to a vet.  See if you can find one who is
familiar with natural remedies such as homeopathic and flower
essences.  If you don't know what these are, research them.  Animals
respond extremely well to these types of treatments.  One I would try
if the animal were mine would be the homeopathic, Ignatia amara (St.
Ignatius bean). You can get this at a natural health food store (not
GNC).  The people there may can help too.  I use homeopathics for my
cat and dog that have hot spots and it works great.  They stop chewing
their fur off!  Homeopathics work very well on emotional and
behavioural problems.  Also consider a cat cage (cattery) that opens
from a pet door or window.  Cats are cats and will often want to be
out.  You can give the cat a taste of the out doors by planting some
wheat or rye grass seeds in a pot.  They like to eat grass and will
sometimes have a fit to get to some.  Just be prepared for them to
throw it up at times.  Good luck. R
AC - 06 Apr 2004 20:14 GMT
You can't shape a cat the same way you can a lab rat. Once you fail once,
(and you will) the cat will lose the plot.

Cats are also highly individual. To quote doc. Phil, "you need to work out
what their currency is".

> Hi All,
>
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>
> Rob
countertroll - 07 Apr 2004 00:32 GMT
> You can't shape a cat the same way you can a lab rat. Once you fail once,
> (and you will) the cat will lose the plot.
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>
> "rob" <not@chan.ce> wrote in message

kill it, cook it, eat it, sandwich or soup is fine
Mars Project - 07 Apr 2004 09:05 GMT
> You can't shape a cat the same way you can a lab rat. Once you fail once,
> (and you will) the cat will lose the plot.
>
> Cats are also highly individual. To quote doc. Phil, "you need to work out
> what their currency is".

Yeah good ol' cat cash, eh Hayseed?
 
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