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Help!!! Cats meows constantly
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rob - 25 Mar 2004 07:19 GMT Hi All,
I'm about to go insane - our cat will not shut up. He's taken to meowing, literally, once every 2 seconds or so for up to an hour at a time or more in an effort to get me to let him outside. He was an indoor cat for a long time until we moved to a house with a back yard that we could completely close off. Now, he wants nothing but to be outside, all the time. Morning, noon & night he meows... constantly. It's like his brain is stuck in some endless loop. He is neither ill nor injured, btw. We never let him out when he is meowing, only when he's quiet & pleasant - it's our feeble attempt at positive reinforcement. We're also attempting negative reinforcement (squirt him with a water pistol, soak his tail in the bath, tether him to the furniture, etc, when he meows constantly), but nothing is working. We're half starting to consider options like a shock collar or even de-meowing surgery. Those are the last things we'd want to do, but honestly, we are at the end of our rope. Any suggestions?
Thanks in advance...
Rob
Agua Girl - 25 Mar 2004 05:06 GMT > Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > > Thanks in advance... Get him a cat door. If he is safe in the back yard and you are comfortable with him back there. that is. He isn't "meowing"...he is communicating. He wants something and this is his way of letting you know. If it's at a time of day when he can't be let out, tell him no and then do your best to ignore him. No negative reinforcement...just "no". I talk to Sasha. Not just kitty talk but real talk. I tell her "No Sash, no going outside right now, I have to leave in 10 minutes but maybe when I get back...etc.". Obviously she doesn't comprehend all that but it seems like she gets the idea. I am assuming your cat is neutered. (if not, that IS the problem). Does he have adequate toys and climbing stuff inside? Could be he is yammering all the time out of boredom.
AG
> Rob rob - 25 Mar 2004 16:09 GMT > > Hi All, > > [quoted text clipped - 23 lines] > with him back there. that is. > He isn't "meowing"... Trust me - he's meowing...
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> he is communicating. He wants something and this is > his way of letting you know. I know this.
> If it's at a time of day when he can't be let > out, tell him no and then do your best to ignore him. No negative > reinforcement...just "no". I porobably haven't expressed the scale of the problem properly. There is no ignoring this - he will truly meow until he becomes hoarse. Literally, hours on end.
> I talk to Sasha. Not just kitty talk but real talk. I tell her "No Sash, > no > going outside right now, I have to leave in 10 minutes but maybe when > I get back...etc.". Obviously she doesn't comprehend all that but it > seems like she gets the idea. We've pretty much been the same way his whole life.
> I am assuming your cat is neutered. (if not, that IS the problem). Yes, he is neutered.
> Does > he have adequate toys and climbing stuff inside? Could be he is yammering > all the time out of boredom. Plenty of toys & distractions....
Thx,
Rob
> AG > > > > Rob 'cedes - 25 Mar 2004 08:13 GMT PS...Here is another link, that goes with the ones that I sent in my previous post; http://www.radiofence.com/cat_doors.htm
> Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > > Rob M.C. Mullen - 25 Mar 2004 08:41 GMT | Hi All, | [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] | meowing, only when he's quiet & pleasant - it's our feeble attempt at | positive reinforcement. Cats are not like dogs - forget about this one.
| We're also attempting negative reinforcement (squirt | him with a water pistol, soak his tail in the bath, tether him to the | furniture, etc, when he meows constantly), but nothing is working. If I got this treatment I'd meow too!
| We're | half starting to consider options like a shock collar or even de-meowing [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] | | Rob Why can't he have a cat door?
'cedes - 25 Mar 2004 08:42 GMT Rob, How about you make your back yard escape proof and let him out there as much as he wants? In order to save your sanity, I am sending you some really good links on how to make your yard escape-proof for your cat. Provide him with an indoor-outdoor door, and the meowing will forever stop. I feel your frustration, but I KNOW that there is an answer to be found in the links below. By the way, no reputable vet will "de-meow" a cat. A shock collar could easily give him a heart attack. Tethering him to something could lead to strangulation. Consider the below links; http://www.just4cats.com/page7.html http://www.lisaviolet.com/cathouse/backyard.html
Screened-in veranda; http://www.cat-world.com.au/Veranda.jpg
http://www.catfencein.com/http://www.catfence.com/pictures.htm
http://www.feralcat.com/fence.html
http://www.friendlyfence.com/ff/prod_fence_cat_houdini.asp?OVRAW=cat%20fence&OVK EY=cat%20fence&OVMTC=standard
Rob, let me know if I can provide you with any more help on this. One other suggestion; How about a companion kitty for your cat? This is a sure-fire solution. Good luck! Carol Take the nospam out of jmilamnospam@bak.rr.com ----- Original Message ----- From: "rob" <not@chan.ce> Newsgroups: alt.cats,alt.pets.cats,rec.pets.cats.health+behav Sent: Wednesday, March 24, 2004 10:19 PM Subject: Help!!! Cats meows constantly
> Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > > Rob
> Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > > Rob rob - 25 Mar 2004 16:04 GMT > Rob, > How about you make your back yard escape proof and let him out there as much > as he wants? > In order to save your sanity, I am sending you some really good > links on how to make your yard escape-proof for your cat. Thanks for the info.
> Provide him with > an indoor-outdoor door, and the meowing will forever stop. For a variety of reasons, this probably isn't feasible where I live. I'll look into it, however...
> I feel your frustration, but I KNOW that there is an answer to be found in > the links below. By the way, no reputable vet will "de-meow" a cat. It's not something we would ever do anyways - I was really just underscoring my frustration more than anything. There is a dog who lives across the way who has been de-barked & while it's unspeakably (no pun intended) cruel, it sometimes seems like a pretty attractive option.
> A shock > collar could easily give him a heart attack. Same as above...
> Tethering him to something > could lead to strangulation. The only time he is tethered is when we are in the room. Usually, one of us is holding the leash - when we need the use of our hands we move the leash to a chair leg, etc. We are very aware of the possibility of strangulation.
Consider the below links;
> http://www.just4cats.com/page7.html > http://www.lisaviolet.com/cathouse/backyard.html [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > http://www.feralcat.com/fence.html http://www.friendlyfence.com/ff/prod_fence_cat_houdini.asp?OVRAW=cat%20fence&OVK EY=cat%20fence&OVMTC=standard
> Rob, let me know if I can provide you with any more help on this. One other > suggestion; How about a companion kitty for your cat? This is a sure-fire > solution. I wish it were - he's had a companion since we got him.
Good luck! Carol Take the nospam out of jmilamnospam@bak.rr.com
> ----- Original Message ----- > From: "rob" <not@chan.ce> [quoted text clipped - 53 lines] > > > > Rob AK - 25 Mar 2004 19:28 GMT > > I feel your frustration, but I KNOW that there is an answer to be found in > > the links below. By the way, no reputable vet will "de-meow" a cat. [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > who has been de-barked & while it's unspeakably (no pun intended) cruel, it > sometimes seems like a pretty attractive option. If it really is so bad that you even jest about considering something like this, maybe you should consider rehoming him with someone who can tolerate it more. Those of us that own oriental cats like Siamese or Bengals know how to live with constant chatter from the cat!
Jeannie - 25 Mar 2004 10:24 GMT Put a cat flap in the door to your yard. I would suggest getting one with a magnetically operated catch otherwise you may encounter the problem (as I did) of stray cats appearing in your house whenever they like. Another plus with these kind of cat flaps is that you can totally lock them at night so your cat can't get out at all.
Jeannie
> Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > > Rob rob - 25 Mar 2004 16:10 GMT > Put a cat flap in the door to your yard. I would suggest getting one with a > magnetically operated catch otherwise you may encounter the problem (as I [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > Jeannie I'm going to look into it, but it's probably not feasible for where I live.
> > Hi All, > > [quoted text clipped - 21 lines] > > > > Rob ~*Connie*~ - 26 Mar 2004 01:54 GMT > > with these kind of cat flaps is that you can totally lock them at night so > > your cat can't get out at all. > > > > Jeannie > > I'm going to look into it, but it's probably not feasible for where I live. Why not? they have ones you can put inside a window, so even if you don't own the home, you can put one in with out making permanent changes
Alison - 25 Mar 2004 10:31 GMT Hi Rob, How old is your cat and how long have you lived in your new house? Letting him out at night is not a good idea even if your garden is enclosed but what reason do you have for keeping him in during the day?
>>>We're also attempting negative reinforcement (squirt > him with a water pistol, soak his tail in the bath, tether him to the > furniture, etc, when he meows constantly), but nothing is working.We're
> half starting to consider options like a shock collar or even de-meowing > surgery. >>>> It won't work because he's not connecting his meowing to your punishment. I'm sorry but I think this is jus plain cruel. If you've recently moved maybe the novelty of going out hasn't worn off yet. Decide what times you are going to let your cat out every day and stick to a routine so he knows what's what. If he cries to go out at other times you can distract him with interactive toys or if at night put him in another room the moment he starts crying and ignore him. Alison
> Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > him with a water pistol, soak his tail in the bath, tether him to the > furniture, etc, when he meows constantly), but nothing is working. e're
> half starting to consider options like a shock collar or even de-meowingW > surgery. Those are the last things we'd want to do, but honestly, we are at [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > Rob rob - 25 Mar 2004 16:20 GMT > Hi Rob, > How old is your cat and how long have you lived in your new house? ~6 & 2 years, respectively
> Letting him out at night is not a good idea even if your garden is > enclosed but what reason do you have for keeping him in during the [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > It won't work because he's not connecting his meowing to your > punishment. Actually, he does. When he starts meowing like this, he knows he is doing something "bad". If we approach him, he'll run away from us, but *only* when he is in the middle of one of these meowing sessions. He knows that he is not supposed to be doing it, but carries on just the same.
> I'm sorry but I think this is jus plain cruel. I'm sorry, but you are jumping to conclusions. The water pistol doesn't work anymore because it has become a fun game to him. Wetting his tail down sort of works in that it occupies him while he licks it dry - shortly thereafter, though, he's back at it. He gets regular baths & doesn't find water to be traumatic in any way. The tethering, as I mentioned in another reply, only occurs when we are in the room and observing him directly.
> If you've recently moved maybe the novelty of going out hasn't worn > off yet. It's been 2 years ...
> Decide what times you are going to let your cat out every > day and stick to a routine so he knows what's what. That's exactly what we do
> If he cries to go > out at other times you can distract him with interactive toys Thats an option for only so long
> or if at > night put him in another room the moment he starts crying and ignore > him. Unfortunately, when we've tried this, a) he meows louder and longer and b) he pees on something to express his displeasure.
I've had cats all my life and I have never come across anything like this. He simply will not be deterred
> Alison > [quoted text clipped - 31 lines] > > > > Rob cati - 25 Mar 2004 21:26 GMT youu have my sympathy. i have Grizzy, my almost 2 year old moggie. she has a similar habit, she howls at night. For the past month i have had noghts of broken sleep as my little darling howls her way through the night. i tried shutting her out the bedroom - she sits at door and howls, shouting at her so she knows i am around - howling stops temporarily, telling her not to howl as it is keeping me awake - works for a nhour max, openiing door and giving her a cuddle and returning her to where she sleeps - lasts 90 minutes. she wasnt allowed in the room as she doesnt settle at night and just runs everywhere and plays all night.
I tried feilway and so far it is having some success, she now lies on my bed all of the night and wakes me up twice so she can get a cuddle. Grizzy was a rescue cat and i now feel that she just doesnt like being on her own. she was got as a companion to mistoffelees as he had just lost his friend.
She also wet carpets when given a row or was in a mood, again feliway worked.
guess it is kinda a long way to say it might be worth giving feliway a try.
Cati
> > Hi Rob, > > How old is your cat and how long have you lived in your new house? [quoted text clipped - 90 lines] > > > > > > Rob m. L. Briggs - 26 Mar 2004 02:11 GMT >youu have my sympathy. i have Grizzy, my almost 2 year old moggie. she has a >similar habit, she howls at night. For the past month i have had noghts of [quoted text clipped - 123 lines] >Checked by AVG anti-virus system (http://www.grisoft.com). >Version: 6.0.642 / Virus Database: 410 - Release Date: 24/03/2004 Alison - 27 Mar 2004 00:08 GMT > . > > Actually, he does. When he starts meowing like this, he knows he is doing > something "bad". If we approach him, he'll run away from us, but *only* when > he is in the middle of one of these meowing sessions. He knows that he is > not supposed to be doing it, but carries on just the same. Hi Rob, Cats are very good at reading body language and sensing how you feel, they can pick up the slightest signs so when you approach him, it he can sense your approach is different or you are tense and maybe not because he connects it to his meowing. I'm still not clear about some things . How much time does he actually spend outside? Does he tend to want to come in and out all the time or does he spend long periods outside. Alison
Chris - 25 Mar 2004 18:08 GMT Is there something outside that you may not have noticed? other cats maybe? or does he see some wildlife from the window?
> Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > > Rob Diana - 25 Mar 2004 18:45 GMT rob at not@chan.ce wrote on3/25/04 1:19 AM:
> Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > > Rob First of all, 50 lashes and some appropriate penance for ever letting him out in the first place if he was once contented to be an indoor cat. Brought it all on yourself, etc., etc., blah, blah.
Now that we have *that* part over with, let me tell you what I would do. I would start leaving him out all day, with fresh water available at all times, of course, and at night I would have him indoors during my sleeping hours, bedroom door closed and earplugs or white noise machine so as not to hear him if he meows. I would also create an indoor garden of sorts, with plenty of cat-safe plants, a bit of grass to eat, even a bit of catnip.
The main rationale is twofold: (#1) he should satiate somewhat on being outdoors if out for long periods, and become less gung-ho on needing to be out; and (#2) perhaps he has more right to self-determination that you are granting him. Although being outside is risky, he seems to consider it a quality of life issue.
The indoor garden may be very attractive to him and in time sway his preference to the indoors. And removing the "power struggle" aspect of the whole situation may also in time make the outdoors less appealing.
I'm not at all opposed to mild forms of punishment such as water squirts or air horns to startle, but as you're finding, these are not terribly useful, or terribly nice on your part, in the case of meowing, which is both "wired in" and intelligent behavior. (He probably has some Siamese genes in him to be so vocal!) And tethering him will increase his frustration and exacerbate the problem.
Please try the suggestions above for a few weeks. You have nothing to lose, as it sounds very much like he has his mind firmly made up, and you will not have a happy cat (or a moments peace) until he is given more autonomy.
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m. L. Briggs - 25 Mar 2004 19:32 GMT >Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > >Rob My suggestion -- let him be outside if he is safe there. While you are trying to bend him to your will, he is trying to bend you to his. They also love the "in and out game". Quit all the punishments, the shock collar idea and the surgery -- this just shows how inept your training is. Let him be what nature intended -- a cat.
Matt - 25 Mar 2004 22:30 GMT Well, look at it this way at least you can let your cat out and there is hope of shutting it up. My tomcat escaped about a month ago by breaking through a screen window and ever since then he is convinced that being an outdoor cat is his destiny. He cries all the time now wanting to go out again and makes daily breakout attempts. The problem is that we live next to (50 feet/20 meters) a major road with heavy round the clock (even at 2 AM) traffic so there is no way that I will let him out especially since he is a daredevilÂ….
Maria - 03 Apr 2004 08:11 GMT Please see 4/02/04 posting, Advice Needed Please, Maria Stencill. Igave instructions to build a good and easy and cheap cat fence using 5' chicken wire, metal posts, thin wire to secure the mesh to posts and tent pegs to secure the bottom into the ground. Keeps cat in yard and all other animals out.
> Well, look at it this way at least you can let your cat out and there > is hope of shutting it up. My tomcat escaped about a month ago by [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > round the clock (even at 2 AM) traffic so there is no way that I will > let him out especially since he is a daredevil.. rangitotogirl - 03 Apr 2004 23:19 GMT > Please see 4/02/04 posting, Advice Needed Please, Maria Stencill. Igave > instructions to build a good and easy and cheap cat fence using 5' chicken > wire, metal posts, thin wire to secure the mesh to posts and tent pegs to > secure the bottom into the ground. Keeps cat in yard and all other animals > out. I'm curious though as to how 5 foot of chicken wire would keep them inside. My cat used to run straight up a 5 foot high concrete water tank and I would have thought that chicken wire was even easier. I guess the fact there is nothing at the top to sit on before they make their descent might deter them slightly.
mmhsb4me - 05 Apr 2004 22:34 GMT The thing with using chicken wire 5' roll attached/wired to metal poles using pegs to drive bottom into grass, is this; though fence is very strong cats feet/claws get caught in mesh and fence sways lightly with weight on it (and cannot sit on top). Once they test fence with claws and find these things they dislike, that's it they never try to climb it. My cats could actually jump over it and do climb trees in yard but they leave the fence alone, even strays do... It's worked for 7 yrs.
> > Please see 4/02/04 posting, Advice Needed Please, Maria Stencill. Igave > > instructions to build a good and easy and cheap cat fence using 5' chicken [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > nothing at the top to sit on before they make their descent might deter them > slightly. Ronda - 04 Apr 2004 02:00 GMT Rob: I first suggest talking to a vet. See if you can find one who is familiar with natural remedies such as homeopathic and flower essences. If you don't know what these are, research them. Animals respond extremely well to these types of treatments. One I would try if the animal were mine would be the homeopathic, Ignatia amara (St. Ignatius bean). You can get this at a natural health food store (not GNC). The people there may can help too. I use homeopathics for my cat and dog that have hot spots and it works great. They stop chewing their fur off! Homeopathics work very well on emotional and behavioural problems. Also consider a cat cage (cattery) that opens from a pet door or window. Cats are cats and will often want to be out. You can give the cat a taste of the out doors by planting some wheat or rye grass seeds in a pot. They like to eat grass and will sometimes have a fit to get to some. Just be prepared for them to throw it up at times. Good luck. R
AC - 06 Apr 2004 20:14 GMT You can't shape a cat the same way you can a lab rat. Once you fail once, (and you will) the cat will lose the plot.
Cats are also highly individual. To quote doc. Phil, "you need to work out what their currency is".
> Hi All, > [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > > Rob countertroll - 07 Apr 2004 00:32 GMT > You can't shape a cat the same way you can a lab rat. Once you fail once, > (and you will) the cat will lose the plot. [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > "rob" <not@chan.ce> wrote in message kill it, cook it, eat it, sandwich or soup is fine
Mars Project - 07 Apr 2004 09:05 GMT > You can't shape a cat the same way you can a lab rat. Once you fail once, > (and you will) the cat will lose the plot. > > Cats are also highly individual. To quote doc. Phil, "you need to work out > what their currency is". Yeah good ol' cat cash, eh Hayseed?
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