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furby - 02 Oct 2006 23:58 GMT
I brought my new kitty home on saturday. She was very playful at the
pound, but once she got here she went into the bedroom and slept for
most of the weekend. I'm worried since she doesn't show any interest in
playing and doesn't eat much yet. She doesn't seem to be sick, but I'm
mildly worried. She's about 4 months old and I was under the impression
kittens have more energy....

Do I try to convince her to come out of the bedroom more, or do I let
her make the decision?
The Polish-Kraut - 03 Oct 2006 02:19 GMT
>I brought my new kitty home on saturday. She was very playful at the
>pound, but once she got here she went into the bedroom and slept for
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>Do I try to convince her to come out of the bedroom more, or do I let
>her make the decision?

Leave her alone and when she is ready she will come around if she
wants to !!!
Beth - 04 Oct 2006 00:16 GMT
>>I brought my new kitty home on saturday. She was very playful at the
>>pound, but once she got here she went into the bedroom and slept for
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> Leave her alone and when she is ready she will come around if she
> wants to !!!

My cat did the same thing.  She found small places to hide in most of the
time when I first got her home.  She came out to play when she was ready to.
Don't force her or you'll cause some resentment and she won't be fully
comfortable.
~*Connie*~ - 05 Oct 2006 00:00 GMT
Since today is the 4th, I hope your little one has come around.  If not, I
would highly suggest a vet visit.  there are many different issues that crop
up from shelter cats, many are easily treatable in the early stages.
>I brought my new kitty home on saturday. She was very playful at the
> pound, but once she got here she went into the bedroom and slept for
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> Do I try to convince her to come out of the bedroom more, or do I let
> her make the decision?
furby - 05 Oct 2006 13:42 GMT
She's starting to last night - I got a nice little rubbing while I was
feeding her and then later on she rolled over on her back and let me
rub her belly. She still doesn't particularly want to come too close
yet and sleeping in the same bed is something she is not overly
interested in and playing is not a big thing with her (Although she
does seem to show some interest in a laser pointer I brought home).

In other words, she is slowly thawing. Of course it doesn't help that
she has a stuffed up nose (Which the shelter warned me is a common
thing to happen to cats brought home from a shelter), so I think she is
sort of sorting through that as well.

> Since today is the 4th, I hope your little one has come around.  If not, I
> would highly suggest a vet visit.  there are many different issues that crop
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> > Do I try to convince her to come out of the bedroom more, or do I let
> > her make the decision?
The Polish-Kraut - 05 Oct 2006 14:14 GMT
One thing that people who gwt new cats need to learn is that things
take time and are not going to happen overnight!!  They need to learn
to let the new additions work things out for themselves and learn that
all cats are different!!  Some will be friendly right away and some
may take weeks.

Thing is that the more you try to rush them the more frightened SOME
of them become.

>She's starting to last night - I got a nice little rubbing while I was
>feeding her and then later on she rolled over on her back and let me
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>thing to happen to cats brought home from a shelter), so I think she is
>sort of sorting through that as well.

>> Since today is the 4th, I hope your little one has come around.  If not, I
>> would highly suggest a vet visit.  there are many different issues that crop
>> up from shelter cats, many are easily treatable in the early stages.

>> >I brought my new kitty home on saturday. She was very playful at the
>> > pound, but once she got here she went into the bedroom and slept for
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>> > Do I try to convince her to come out of the bedroom more, or do I let
>> > her make the decision?
Catjoy - 05 Oct 2006 17:36 GMT
Glad to hear that she is slowly starting to come around.  Like many have said,
some cats are slower at adjusting to a new environment than others (like
humans), so pls be patient with kitty.    

As well, like you said, she might be working through a upper respiratory
infection, which many shelter kitties can have.  If the URI seems to get
worse, and her appetite continues to be on the low end, I would definitely
take her to a vet.

Best regards,
Jan

>She's starting to last night - I got a nice little rubbing while I was
>feeding her and then later on she rolled over on her back and let me
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>> > Do I try to convince her to come out of the bedroom more, or do I let
>> > her make the decision?
furby - 06 Oct 2006 01:00 GMT
Just as a question - how do I know when it is time to take her to the
vet because of her cold? She is sneezing and (sometimes) kind of
sniffly, but I have seen this in cats before (a freind adopted one from
the pound and it sounded just like Mothra for about a week then
suddenly it got better). I don't want to wait so long that it develops
into something worse, but at the same time, I don't have the money in
the bank to just take her to the Vet's just for a cold that would clear
itself up (I'll gladly pay the money if I have to, but I would rather
keep the money if it is just a cold).

When do I know to take her to the doctor?
tension_on_the_wire - 06 Oct 2006 06:27 GMT
> Just as a question - how do I know when it is time to take her to the
> vet because of her cold? She is sneezing and (sometimes) kind of
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>
> When do I know to take her to the doctor?

1)When she looks *sick*, not just sniffly
2)If her ears are hot, or her paw pads....fever
3)If you can hear liquid in her breathing, or breathing looks difficult
for her
4)If she becomes apathetic, or lethargic
5)If she stops eating or drinking
6)If she stops peeing
7)If she starts putting out discharge, especially coloured
8)If the cold doesn't get better after a week

I don't think I've covered all the possibilities...but those
are some red flags to consider

--tension
Space - 06 Oct 2006 17:01 GMT
keep a close check on her eyes.  are they weeping a little/constantly? it
could be cat flu'?

the potential cost of visits to the vet should always be a consideration
when you decide to get a pet.

> Just as a question - how do I know when it is time to take her to the
> vet because of her cold? She is sneezing and (sometimes) kind of
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>
> When do I know to take her to the doctor?
furby - 06 Oct 2006 17:34 GMT
I'm taking her to see a vet tomorrow.

I agree - the potential costs should be considered. I have the money,
and I have no problem spending it on her. But at the same time, it's
also something along the lines of going to a store - if I don't need
the stuff I am buying, I have to ask myself if it is something I really
want to buy. It's a holdover from when I was a poor college student, I
guess (Nowadays I'm not hurting for money, but I still have that
knee-jerk reaction to spending it).

Plus, I somewhat dislike the idea of disturbing her while she is slowly
adjusting to her new home by putting her back in her cat carrier to
take her to the vets. The perfect vet would be one that makes
housecalls, since that way I could have a vet see her and not bother
her adjustment period too much... But I have a sneaking suspicion that
vet's like that may be on the way out (Except in reruns of "All
creatures great and small")....
Space - 06 Oct 2006 18:23 GMT
good to see she is going to the vet tomorrow.  I have had my kitten five
days and she already has had two trips to the vet.  once for vaccinations
and yesterday for a sore paw (bless).  in five days she has been inside a
cat basket four times (she was micro chipped today).  your cat will deal
with it.  she's a cat.

I agree partly with your comments about cost / visits to the vet etc.

however when you go the store you make an informed choice about whether you
need or want.  and the you consider can you afford what you want.
vets spend more time than doctors to train and they will have (we hope) the
answers.

the perfect vet will make house calls and will also triple the fee.  Mr
Herriot did housecalls for cows and sheep not cats !!

> I'm taking her to see a vet tomorrow.
>
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> vet's like that may be on the way out (Except in reruns of "All
> creatures great and small")....
furby - 06 Oct 2006 19:55 GMT
Of ocurse you are completely correct....

I wish I lived in the Star Trek universe. The universal translator
would come in very handy - then I could just say to Mothra "Are you
sick?" and she could respond with either "Yes" or "No - I am just not
completely attuned with your life yet and will become so soon enough."
That way there would be no more guessing based on her body language!
Space - 06 Oct 2006 20:28 GMT
furby - it would so much easier if you amended your newsgroup to show the
post you are replying to.  I could try and second guess but your post seems
so random.

have you posted to the right newsgroup?

> Of ocurse you are completely correct....
>
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> completely attuned with your life yet and will become so soon enough."
> That way there would be no more guessing based on her body language!
tension_on_the_wire - 06 Oct 2006 21:06 GMT
> vets spend more time than doctors to train and they will have (we hope) the
> answers.

And rightly so, considering the exponentially higher number of species
they must learn about.

> the perfect vet will make house calls and will also triple the fee.  Mr
> Herriot did housecalls for cows and sheep not cats !!

Actually, I cannot speak for the shows, but in the books,
they *did* make housecalls for small animals too, under
certain circumstances.

--tension
Space - 06 Oct 2006 21:44 GMT
> > vets spend more time than doctors to train and they will have (we hope) the
> > answers.
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>
> --tension

ok...
under certain circumstances.

it was also set in a rural village, pre-war.

great show though
Catjoy - 06 Oct 2006 21:07 GMT
Let us know what the doc says, and best of luck!!

>I'm taking her to see a vet tomorrow.
>
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>vet's like that may be on the way out (Except in reruns of "All
>creatures great and small")....
furby - 06 Oct 2006 23:26 GMT
Well, Mothra has an upper respiratory infection. I just got back from
the Vets, and they gave her an injection of fluids and sent some
medicine home.

I have two different medicines to squirt into her mouth, plus nosedrops
to give her. In other words, I'm not looking forward to the next couple
days! But hopefully it'll help the little kitty start feeling better.

> Let us know what the doc says, and best of luck!!
>
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> >vet's like that may be on the way out (Except in reruns of "All
> >creatures great and small")....
Catjoy - 07 Oct 2006 15:39 GMT
Hey Furby,

I hope Mothra will be feeling better soon.  Good nurition (good quality
wet/canned) and lots of love will go a long way to helping her recover.  I
hope you'll keep us posted on her progress.  By the way, Mothra is an awesome
name, is she fluffy looking like the monster?  Any pics?  

>Well, Mothra has an upper respiratory infection. I just got back from
>the Vets, and they gave her an injection of fluids and sent some
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>> >vet's like that may be on the way out (Except in reruns of "All
>> >creatures great and small")....
Space - 06 Oct 2006 20:30 GMT
oops should have said newsreader.....

"Space" <space@btinternet.com> wrote in message news:...
> furby - it would so much easier if you amended your newsgroup to show the
> post you are replying to.  I could try and second guess but your post
seems
> so random.
>
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> > completely attuned with your life yet and will become so soon enough."
> > That way there would be no more guessing based on her body language!
 
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