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Christina Szeman
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This is an argument that has been going on for a very long time. There are
good points and bad points on both sides
http://www.maxshouse.com/outdoor_risks.htm Phil site about out door cats
It sounds kind of childish that your parents are doing this what else is
going on do then not like the cat or are they just plain ignorant about
the fact there is predators in the area.
If you present them with material and they don't listen. This might be
crude but point out the next unfortunate cat that has been hit by a car and
tell them this is what happens to out doors cats do you want that to happen
to ours. If they don't listen or seem to listen. Well it is time to find
your own place and rule your own roost very unfortunate for the furball it
is their house and their rules.
It only takes a second for a kitten to escape from your house or the yard.
The outside world is full of kitty dangers, from chemicals to cars to
intolerant neighbors.
But the number-one killer and crippler of outdoor cats is car accidents.
Even usually attentive cats lose their concentration and dash into oncoming
traffic when being chased by a dog, pursuing prey, or distracted by other
kitty delights.
"Free-ranging cats in the United States have an average lifespan in the
general population of only 3 to 5 years; indoor cats have an average
lifespan of 12 years and frequently live longer than 20 years. Car accidents
are the biggest killers of free-ranging cats"
(Karen L. Overall, M.A., V.M.D., Ph.D., Diplomate, American College of
Veterinary Behavior; Department of Clinical Studies School of Veterinary
Medicine, University of Pennsylvania, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania)
By the way I like the poem on your Blob
Hello all,
I am still arguing with my parents over this. I am in my 30s and the cat is
mine, but the house is theirs. But my parents still do not understand the
dangers of cats being outdoors.
They think that is bad to keep a cat indoors. They think that my cat (Who
hates being by herself), will be close by them. But my parents do not
understand that she will uncharacteristically, when they are not looking, be
lost. I should also mention that there are coyotes in my neighborhood too.
Plus my parents think that I am being too over protective. And I have talked
to my own mother before we got the cat that I would like my cat to stay
indoors.
No matter what material I have presented to them, they still think that my
cat needs freedom. I know that my parents are going to bring up the fact
that I don't take care of my cat, but I work all the time. Can anybody help
me with this situation?

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TaliesinSoft - 06 Aug 2006 06:13 GMT
> But the number-one killer and crippler of outdoor cats is car accidents. Even
> usually attentive cats lose their concentration and dash into oncoming
> traffic when being chased by a dog, pursuing prey, or distracted by other
> kitty delights.
What is commonly misunderstood is that a cat's natural and instinctive
defense mechanism is to run towards their pursuer and then at the last minute
make a quick turn, a turn that they are convinced that their pursuer cant
make. The problem is that cats perceive an oncoming car as if it were an
animal and then apply that quick turn. The unfortunate reality is that that
quick turn is not quick enough and the cat gets run over.

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James Leo Ryan ..... Austin, Texas ..... taliesinsoft@mac.com
Hello all,
I am still arguing with my parents over this. I am in my 30s and the cat is mine, but the house is theirs. But my parents still do not understand the dangers of cats being outdoors.
They think that is bad to keep a cat indoors. They think that my cat (Who hates being by herself), will be close by them. But my parents do not understand that she will uncharacteristically, when they are not looking, be lost. I should also mention that there are coyotes in my neighborhood too.
Plus my parents think that I am being too over protective. And I have talked to my own mother before we got the cat that I would like my cat to stay indoors.
No matter what material I have presented to them, they still think that my cat needs freedom. I know that my parents are going to bring up the fact that I don't take care of my cat, but I work all the time. Can anybody help me with this situation?
Seeing as you work all of the time, why do you have a cat in the first place? And why do you impose on your parents?
Why is it that in your 30's you're still living with your parents? Suffering from "Failure to Launch?"
If you want to rectify this situation - why not move out?
Barnabas Collins - 07 Aug 2006 18:55 GMT
> Seeing as you work all of the time, why do you have a cat in the first place? And why do you impose on your parents?
>
> Why is it that in your 30's you're still living with your parents? Suffering from "Failure to Launch?"
>
> If you want to rectify this situation - why not move out?
Take a chill pill and realize this is 2006.
Too many sons/daughters having left for school/work in previous
years have moved back in with mom and dad. There are a number
of reasons for this. First and foremost housing has gone through
the roof. Around here rents are in the $1200-$2000 range,
you can't buy a house for under $250,000. Even if you do
find a house for $250,000 the mortgage rates are inching up.
Add to that jobs being cut, raises not coming through,
downsizing, unemployement, etc. it's tough for a young person
making it on their own today.
Judy - 08 Aug 2006 05:49 GMT
>> Seeing as you work all of the time, why do you have a cat in the first
>> place? And why do you impose on your parents?
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> downsizing, unemployement, etc. it's tough for a young person
> making it on their own today.
I am well of the year. No chill pill required here.
Running back to mom and dad may work for a while, but sooner or later the
adult child will actually have to get a life. Be less materialistic and make
sacrifices as their parents did and their grandparents did.
The OP, for whatever reason is living with the parents. It's the parents
home and the OP should live by the rules of the house.
If the OP is constantly working he/she should not make demands of the
parents.
Barnabas Collins - 08 Aug 2006 20:36 GMT
>Running back to mom and dad may work for a while, but sooner or later the
>adult child will actually have to get a life. Be less materialistic and make
>sacrifices as their parents did and their grandparents did.
And maybe that will happen when the Wal-Marts of the world
realize that people can't survive on wages that are below the
mimimum wage.
I get a kick of these people who scream bloody murder when they
have to pay the employee a minimum wage but then bitch and
moan when said employee can't affored rent/can't afford
medical/is homeless.
Congress people make hundreds of thousands of dollars a year
but scream bloody murder at raising the minimum wage.
The CEO of Exxon makes $400+ million dollars a year
but scream bloody murder at having to pay his gas station
attendants the minimum wage. And then he'll bitch and
moand that they don't buy health insurance, etc.
When I was alot younger if you worked full time, you could
afford stuff like housing, etc. Now the costs of living
have increased alot faster than wages have so now it
is much more difficult to make ends meet.
I now see too many young people working alot harder/longer
than their parents did, getting paid a lot less,
having much longer hours, gettting no benefits.