I have a female cat, and I have just moved to another house with a flat
mate. He has a male cat.
The problem is that we can't have more cats, so we have to doctor one of
them.
Should we neuter his cat or spay my cat?
I think it would be better to neuter his cat just in case he goes out with
another female cat...
Wayne Boatwright - 13 Jan 2006 08:19 GMT
On Fri 13 Jan 2006 12:57:42a, Thus Spake Zarathustra, or was it Calypso?
> I have a female cat, and I have just moved to another house with a flat
> mate. He has a male cat.
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> I think it would be better to neuter his cat just in case he goes out with
> another female cat...
Neuter his AND spay yours. It's in their best interest.

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~*Connie*~ - 13 Jan 2006 13:32 GMT
you absolutely should get them both altered. Not only is it in your best
interest, it is in theirs. Many cancers and behavioral issues arise from
leaving them in tact.
Knowing money is often an issue, I direct you to google. Google your area
and low cost neuter programs. Hopefully you'll find one in your area that
can help.
If you can't, get the male done first. Its less expensive so you can get
his vaccines done as well, and you won't have to worry about spraying and
fighting.
However, if you let the female cat out, you are going to get kittens.
Actually, even if you don't, if you leave her in tact too long you are going
to get kittens anyway. My sister had two in tact females with every
intention of having them altered, and they were exclusively in doors and yet
some how they found a way.
Lastly, I have to say that if money is that much of an issue, you may want
to consider what is in the best interest of the animals. What happens if
something medical happens to them? What if she does get pregnant and
something happens with the pregnancy and she needs emergency surgery, or if
he gets into a fight and has major wounds and needs some stitching? Having
pets costs money beyond food. I am loath to tell people they might consider
finding new homes for their pets, but since you do have them you are
responsible to take care of them. You have to look in your heart and see
what is best for everyone involved.
>I have a female cat, and I have just moved to another house with a flat
>mate. He has a male cat.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> I think it would be better to neuter his cat just in case he goes out with
> another female cat...
whayface - 13 Jan 2006 14:36 GMT
>I have a female cat, and I have just moved to another house with a flat
>mate. He has a male cat.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>I think it would be better to neuter his cat just in case he goes out with
>another female cat...
I would say to get BOTH of them fixed !! In future if you want more furbabies the
shelters are full of all kinds of them !!
>My furbabies
>
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wester@laway.net - 13 Jan 2006 19:24 GMT
>I have a female cat, and I have just moved to another house with a flat
>mate. He has a male cat.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>I think it would be better to neuter his cat just in case he goes out with
>another female cat...
Your best solution is to do both of 'em and split the costs down the
middle. It will show that you're responsible pet owners.