> Hello Jason! Thans for your post - very glad to say that Rosie has settle
> down at last, eating well and making a big fuss of me. From being a cat
> that wouldn't even let me touch her when she first came to me ten years ago,
> she even tried to get on to my lap the other day, Got four paws on but
> jumped off the moment breathed in!
Sounds like you're going great guns, Helen. I'm not an expert, but I have
watched our various cats over many years ( 6 cats over 30+ yrs). Rosie has
responded positively to much of what you have done, and that's
great,..sometimes there are some things they wont do, for example sit on
your lap. It maybe the feel of the surface (all bumpy) or not having clear
all 'round vision (a protective instinct) or they see us as towering over
them. It 's hard to work out sometimes. Our house cat Misty (neutered male)
wouldn't sit in my lap in a pink fit,..but he will lie along on top of us in
bed.
She will still continue improving her relationship with you, as it has not
been a long time yet,. and sit on your lap one day,..usually without
warning!
Thanx for the great news,..Jason
Wayne Boatwright - 07 Dec 2005 05:29 GMT
On Tue 06 Dec 2005 06:58:43p, Thus Spake Zarathustra, or was it Jason
James?
>> Hello Jason! Thans for your post - very glad to say that Rosie has
>> settle down at last, eating well and making a big fuss of me. From
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> Thanx for the great news,..Jason
One must always remember that they are as much individuals as are people.
We have five cats and no two share any personality traits. They are each
affectionate in their own way, yet none are lap cats. Two will tolerate
being held for short periods. All love to be stroked. Bailey, my oldest
male (8 years) has, from the day I brought him home, preferred to fall
asleep at night with his front paws and head in the palm of my hand.
Popie, our newest addition, must start out the night's sleep by sprawling
across the top of my pillow. And on, and on...

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sdaniel13@nyc.rr.com - 07 Dec 2005 13:21 GMT
Jason, I have a cat who appears to require clear 'all around vision'.
I'd always try to get her to stay on my lap when I was sitting on our
sofa, but she wasn't comfortable with it. Then one day I bought a desk
chair for my home office, the kind they call a "manager's chair". When
I'm sitting on this chair, there's nothing else around it and my cat
will comfortably sit on my lap for hours. I guess she's comfortable
there because she's elevated above everything else in the immediate
vicinity and has an unobstructed view of her surroundings.
Steve
Jason James - 08 Dec 2005 06:28 GMT
> Jason, I have a cat who appears to require clear 'all around vision'.
> I'd always try to get her to stay on my lap when I was sitting on our
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> Steve
Yes Steve, at work (in the aviation industry) the term was "CAV" pronounced
'kav' followed by "OK",...so when the weather announcement said
"CAV-OK",..it meant clear all around vision,... or clear skies.
You may have noticed that many cats will take up a position, on a table for
example, on the highest solid feeling object especially if it has a smooth
or soft outer lining, such as a business case. They feel more comfortable
that way.
Your experience has borne out this.
Its a formidable task to work against natural instincts with some of our
furry friends.
Jason