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RichC - 13 Oct 2005 14:11 GMT
I've heard that the best age to get a new cat would be about 6 months old
rather than a kitten because the cats personality will be known by then &
you'll know exactly what your getting.  Is this true?  We like the idea of a
small kitten but hate to find out later we made a bad choice. We're also not
looking for any special breed...just a plain old short hair cat with a good
disposition.
Ted Davis - 13 Oct 2005 21:11 GMT
>I've heard that the best age to get a new cat would be about 6 months old
>rather than a kitten because the cats personality will be known by then &
>you'll know exactly what your getting.  Is this true?  We like the idea of a
>small kitten but hate to find out later we made a bad choice. We're also not
>looking for any special breed...just a plain old short hair cat with a good
>disposition.

Actually, I prefer them a bit older: I like cats, but I don't much
like kittens.  This is a good thing since kittens quickly grow into
cats, and if I liked kittens but not cats, I'd have a problem.

Most of my twelve cats came to me either as kittens about 12 weeks old
or as young adults in the 9 months to a year or so range.  Most of the
kittens grew up to be nice cats, and most of the adults worked out
well also (I didn't really have an opportunity to evaluate any of
them)..

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Wibble - 14 Oct 2005 18:30 GMT
I got my cat as a cat. she was about 7 yrs old, as although i wanted a cat,
i couldn't be doing with having a kitten.
I went to a rescue place and she chose me :) and we've been very happy since
then.

When my other half moved in with me, we decided to get a kitten (our baby!),
he was a good little kitten really, but they r a lot of hard work.. even
now, and he's 16 months old..
I know quite a number of people who got kittens and they were soooo
naughty.. ours was good, just making up for it now!!  mostly by being ill
and making u stay awake at night worrying about him!
he's at the vets at the mo.. got to stay in for a few days..
my other cat the older one looks rather on edge.. missing him and yet
enjoying not being jumped on!

> I've heard that the best age to get a new cat would be about 6 months old
> rather than a kitten because the cats personality will be known by then &
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> good
> disposition.
whayface - 15 Oct 2005 14:18 GMT
Another thing I usually tell people to consider is the age of the person getting the pet
whether it be a cat, dog, etc.  If they are in their 60 or later they might want to
consider an older pet.  Like me for example.  Am 61 and have 3 furbabies about 3 years
that will probably outlive me!?!?  When I go they will most likely go to shelter because
every I asked wants none or no more.  I would not have picked these guys but they were
strays when I found them and I had to take them in.

http://members.aol.com/larrystark/

http://members.aol.com/larrystark/strays.htm

>I got my cat as a cat. she was about 7 yrs old, as although i wanted a cat,
>i couldn't be doing with having a kitten.
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>my other cat the older one looks rather on edge.. missing him and yet
>enjoying not being jumped on!

>> I've heard that the best age to get a new cat would be about 6 months old
>> rather than a kitten because the cats personality will be known by then &
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>> good
>> disposition.
No More Retail - 15 Oct 2005 14:24 GMT
You got to do like I have done I actually am up there in age.  I carry alot
of life insurance  beside my wife getting a good sum.  I have let a
provision that would take care of any animal that I have if anything happens
to me and my beneficiary was not alive. Any go lawyer can set that up If we
go the babies would be taken care of
Ted Davis - 15 Oct 2005 20:51 GMT
>You got to do like I have done I actually am up there in age.  I carry alot
>of life insurance  beside my wife getting a good sum.  I have let a
>provision that would take care of any animal that I have if anything happens
>to me and my beneficiary was not alive. Any go lawyer can set that up If we
>go the babies would be taken care of

I'm looking for ideas myself: I have no family or heirs, but I do own
rental property and the rural acreage and home I live on.  I'm 62 and
in not-so-good health - I expect to leave the property and maybe a
couple of hundred thousand dollars ... and most of the current cats
plus any more that I wind up taking in.  If nothing is done for them
quickly, they will go feral/semiferal and mooch off the neighbors
across the road.  But the neighbors are a bit older than I am and
might go first, so their strays and pets would likely mooch here (some
already do, and one of mine mooches there).

What kind of arrangements have you made?

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No More Retail - 15 Oct 2005 21:42 GMT
   The lawyer or his firm will make arrangements when I pass away with the
cat society and shelters that I volunteer at or a shelter society will be
set up in my family name either or the animals come out the better.  They
will get their own place to live paid for,  the cat society or shelter will
be paid for. I have the clause is that the cats can never be put to sleep
with out 3 vets recommendations and the lawyers personal inspection.  Also I
require monthly visits by the lawyer or firm  and quarterly check ups for
the cats documented.  There is a clause that if death occurs that is not
natural  such as poisoning, getting hit by a car that money and or shelter
gets donated to the humane society or ASPCA; this is to prevent any
deliberate stealing.  I also have another firm that will check my lawyers'
firm just in case.

   Now this is all in case me and my wife are gone and my children which is
a big chance of not happening it is just in case you never know now a days.
My human children will be very taken care of. They have cats of there own
and love mine.  My four legged children also will have an estate that will
be for them to be taken care of  when they finally pass away same clause
from above if my children are still alive.   The rest of my pets estate will
be donated to Humane society, ASPCA or shelter I will let my children decide
at that time; I know they will do the right thing
.
    It sounds like a lot of money but the nice thing is I have a lot of
life insurance and a little silver spoon in the mouth.

   You have to be careful about doing this for animals some states don't
recognize the fact that you have left your estate to a animal,  some
insurance companies will not pay out to an pet. They think  mentally
unstable and it goes to probate for the state to decide which means good bye
to everything.   I have mine set up in a trust fund, a lower estate fund and
a corporate non profit amenity.  They will be the million dollar kitties.

   Ted if you can get as much insurance as possible now  and it was a pain
to try to get extra insurance as soon as I got over 40.  It cost alot of
money to get but it is worth it.  I am not leaving any of my loved ones out
on the street.  I even have my long time employees taken care of if anything
happens to all of us and my stores have to be sold.

Talk to a estate lawyer he will direct you in the right direction.  It will
cost several hundred dollars to properly prepare the estate and last will
and testament  but it is worth every dime to know your loved ones are safe.
all my funeral arrangements are done already there is nothing to worry
about.  That makes me feel alot better every time I get behind the wheel and
drive with these idiots out there

Ted on a personally note you are over 60  do you have a living will made if
not any lawyer will do one for $20 or you can get one off the internet.  I
ain't living hooked up to a machine when there is no chance of living a
normal life just my opinion.  Got any questions ask away
Ted Davis - 16 Oct 2005 03:26 GMT
>Ted on a personally note you are over 60  do you have a living will made if
>not any lawyer will do one for $20 or you can get one off the internet.  I
>ain't living hooked up to a machine when there is no chance of living a
>normal life just my opinion.  Got any questions ask away

My father had one - the doctors ignored it.  My mother had one - the
doctors ignored it.  Since I was a thousand miles away, I couldn't be
there to sue for compliance.  My father was of sound mind right up to
the end, and the doctors completely ignored his verbal instructions as
well as the living will - they were determined to find out everything
they could (X-rays and expensive tests at a medical center he did not
want to go to) about the brain tumor that was killing him.  Everybody
involved knew that there was absolutely nothing that could be done
except to keep him comfortable, and that simply meant leaving him in
the local hospital near his friends and home - it did not mean
transporting him to a different city away from friends and home
contrary to his instructions.  I arrived too late to prevent that, but
not so late that I didn't find out that he was seriously upset about
it.

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RichC - 15 Oct 2005 23:09 GMT
> Another thing I usually tell people to consider is the age of the person getting the pet
> whether it be a cat, dog, etc.  If they are in their 60 or later they might want to
> consider an older pet.  Like me for example.  Am 61 and have 3 furbabies about 3 years
> that will probably outlive me!?!?  When I go they will most likely go to shelter because
> every I asked wants none or no more.  I would not have picked these guys but they were
> strays when I found them and I had to take them in.

I know what you mean. Our first cat lasted 19 years & if the next one does
as good we'll probably both be gone. Of course you could always leave your
estate to the cats & hire a caretaker to tend their needs.
 
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