HI can anyone give me some advice on how to stop my 13 week old kitten from
biting my hand when she is playful?
I received her as a birthday gift when she was just over six weeks and she
never used to have this bad habit until about 2-3 days of settling in.
I believe that I'm to blame for this as when she was very young I used to
tickle her tummy and unintentionally it caused her to attack my hand, I only
did this twice Until I realised that I'd created a bad habit. Now she
attacks my hand whenever suits her and when is uncalled for even when I'm
asleep, she also seems to enjoy it as if she is attacking prey.
She isn't a nervous cat nor is she too boisterous, she is very well behaved
apart from this biting of hers.
Please help me, I'm new to keeping kittens but I'm used to other people
cats, I just don't know how to stop the bad behaviour I did try tapping her
nose whenever she bit but that only roused her even more for a fight. She Is
growing bigger and those what were little nips are now rather painful and I
fear it will get worse.
Beth - 09 Oct 2005 14:09 GMT
It's ok. It can be fixed. I did the exact same thing with mine. She's now
over a year old and only every so often does the biting thing. I know it
sounds crazy, but if you try making a cry-meow noise when she does it, she
will realize she's hurting you. She'll probably look really confused and
try it again but just keep doing it. I got this advice from this news group
and it worked. She started licking my hand whenever she'd bite at me and
I'd make the noise. Then she'd run away and just look at me for a while.
If that doesn't work, I would have to say to grab her with the hand she
isn't attacking and hold her right behind her head so that she can't move
around anymore and just say no in a loud voice. I only had to do that
during a couple of really bad "attacks" that came after a 3 week trip of
mine to Europe. I think she was trying to get some sort of vengence that
time. I wouldn't recommend the holding thing, just because I don't like to
do it, but if you have to to get her to stop then do it. The problem is
that she thinks she's playing, like you said. She doesn't know it hurts. I
tried the nose tapping too, but that just made mine take both her paws and
hit me on the sides of my head with them. That was seen as more playing or
she was trying to defend herself because she didn't like it. Try the crying
and she'll get the idea. My cat actually drew blood a few times with just
one bite. She still nips at me sometimes but she hasn't left a mark or
caused pain in a long time. I guess she's realized she shouldn't do it so
hard. I still tell her no when she does that, but at least it doesn't hurt
:) She's even adjusted to just grabbing my shirt with her teeth when she
wants something whereas before she'd grab clothes and skin. Try that and
keep us posted!
Beth
i_luv_438 - 09 Oct 2005 15:01 GMT
I'm not trying to be mean but I think you should fill a spray bottle up
with water and every time she bites, give a little squirt and yell a
deep loud NO!
Catmandu - 09 Oct 2005 15:39 GMT
> I'm not trying to be mean but I think you should fill a spray bottle up
> with water and every time she bites, give a little squirt and yell a
> deep loud NO!
I know a woman who trained her kids with that psychology when they played
rough. At early ages they stopped playing altogether because they perceived
it as a thing that would bring them discomfort.
Roughousing is a normal and beneficial activity for young animals--humans as
well as cats, dogs and all mammals. It should be controlled but not
discouraged.
We humans are supposed to be smarter than our pets--just as mothers should
be smarter than their children--and we can find ways to facilitate the
growing up process to the enjoyment of all participants.
As an experiment, I have one tomcat whom I decided I would never (never)
scold for anything he did. If he did something I disapproved of (like
getting on the table) I simply picked him up without a word and put him
down. If he ripped up a roll of toilet paper, I just picked up the scraps
and put the remainder of the roll out of his reach.
He's two 'naf now, and he very seldom gets on the table or rips up anything.
He is a perfectly adjusted two-year-old cat who has no fear of being whipped
or mistreated because it has never happened. He just likes to have a good
time--to chase the other guys when they will run, and to come for his
personal pets and chin rubs when he wants attention.
If he does something weird, and I lose my temper and forget my own
*no-scold* edict, he merely observes me and flops down on the floor in hopes
I will get down there with him and give him a good roughhousing. I seldom
disappoint him.
--Catmandu
Catmandu - 09 Oct 2005 15:17 GMT
> It's ok. It can be fixed. I did the exact same thing with mine. She's now
> over a year old and only every so often does the biting thing. I know it
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> Beth
Wise. Good posting.
--sirgeno at Ev1 dot net
Catmandu - 09 Oct 2005 15:15 GMT
> HI can anyone give me some advice on how to stop my 13 week old kitten from
> biting my hand when she is playful?
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> growing bigger and those what were little nips are now rather painful and I
> fear it will get worse.
In my case, having had a whole passel of kittens grow up at my feet, I
learned that if I make a loud noise when they bite or scratch it is a signal
to them that it hurt me. It's the way they signal each other when playing
gets too rough. That usually controls it; if not, I'd suggest not playing
with her for a week or so and then begin more gently, making sure to yelp
when you first feel her teeth or claws.
Tapping her on the nose or painfully scolding her is not a learning signal
but a trigger for defensive mode. Hence, more teeth and claws, etc.
Try to limit your pets to stroking her back while you attract her attention
away by holding a hand in front of her just out of harms way. Or limit your
playing by using an interactive toy so she can vent her emotional energy
that way.
Kittens are like human children, and they grow out of that stage; but the
transition period can be just as taxing as with kids.
--Catmandu
sirgeno at Ev1dot net
Barrnabas Collins - 09 Oct 2005 15:39 GMT
>HI can anyone give me some advice on how to stop my 13 week old kitten from
>biting my hand when she is playful?
I got a new kitten two weeks ago. if you find a way to get the kitten
to stop biting people i'd be interested in hearing it. I haven't
found a solution yet.
The kitten is teething and i've tried getting to teeth on things other
than fingers, etc.
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Mother Farquhar - 09 Oct 2005 17:06 GMT
> >HI can anyone give me some advice on how to stop my 13 week old kitten from
> >biting my hand when she is playful?
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> The kitten is teething and i've tried getting to teeth on things other
> than fingers, etc.
Thanks to you all!
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kate - 12 Oct 2005 06:24 GMT
Angus did this when he was little as well. I tried breaking him of it
without much sucess but he has largely grown out of it now (at 7
months). He still bites sometimes but I find getting up and walking
away is the most effective way of making him lose interest.
Harry Monster - 12 Oct 2005 16:27 GMT
> Angus did this when he was little as well. I tried breaking him of it
> without much sucess but he has largely grown out of it now (at 7
> months). He still bites sometimes but I find getting up and walking
> away is the most effective way of making him lose interest.
Does he really BITE, to break the skin? Or does he merely NIP? My old
PTcat used to greet me every morning with a tiny nip on my ankle--not
enough to draw blood or even break the skin. Just a "Hello! I'm here!"
thing...
Monique - 16 Oct 2005 09:33 GMT
>> Angus did this when he was little as well. I tried breaking him of it
>> without much sucess but he has largely grown out of it now (at 7
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> enough to draw blood or even break the skin. Just a "Hello! I'm here!"
> thing...
My 1.5 yo Phil gives me 'love bites' when he is saying "I love you, pat me
lots." If he bites a bit too hard, I just say 'teeth' in *that* tone of
voice and he eases up. He doesn't stop, but is more gentle, so I know he had
heard and understands. I do much the same when any of them (2m, 2f) do the
kneading thing with claws out.
kate - 17 Oct 2005 06:11 GMT
Does he really BITE, to break the skin? Or does he merely NIP?
No he really bit, skin was broken, or seriously dented. Often this was
just play that got out of hand but every now and then he would, just
out of the blue, lay hisd ears back, get that "death to the human" look
in his eyes and lunge for my throat. He has also done it to my dad a
couple of times unprovoked. There has never been anything in his
history that I can pinpoint that would cause this behaviour and it has
settled *alot* as he has got older.