Beth:

I don't think she's using you as a scratching post as much as she is
"mushing" on you. Kits do this when they're nursing, and I believe it
signifies that you're the momcat.

I love it when my kits mush on me. It means they feel safe and secure
with me.

Allison <--Human Servant to two imperial cats

I would say she loves you or she most likely would not pester you.

As for lunch meat it sounds like mine.  Every morning he (Sam) want his slice of turkey
lunch meat and it has to be turkey.  I tryed ham once when I ran out of turkey and he just
set there looking at me like "What is this?!?!" and would not eat it.  I had to make a
trip to get his turkey lunch meat as soon as the deli opened.

The other ones (Rascal and Kitty) likes their 1/2 jar of baby food as long as it is
chicken with chicken gravy or turkey with turkey gravy and occassionaly they will eat beef
with beef gravy.  The fourth (Margie) just eats her cat food.  Whatever treats I try with
her she will not eat it.  When she was a small kitten she liked cheese and every time she
heard the paper being taken off would come running for a piece.  Now at 4 years she still
comes running but does not eat the cheese.  I think now it is just a game to her.

Before anyone tells me the baby food is no good or cheese will bind them up I checked with
vet and she said the meat based baby food was just fine for them and they been eating it
as long as I have had them.  Same with cheese and milk.  All four of mine eat cheese and
drink milk and have since wee ones with no adverse effects.

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