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Mogie - 31 Jan 2004 19:27 GMT
We have 14 cats. All male and all neutered. Everyone gets along but one cat
(Maurice). He is about 4 years old and was born here (his mom was a pregnant
stray we took in).

When we got our last cat Maurice's behavior changed. He used to be docile
and easy going. But now is very aggressive. He attacks the new guy as well
as several other residents. The attacks are unprovoked. Just this morning we
had to take one of his victims to the vet. Thank heavens the attack only
produced a scratched eyelid but it could have been much worse.

I've tried giving Maurice extra attention so he won't feel neglected. He
don't punish him for this behavior just try to keep him seperated from the
cats he attacks. Checked Flippy's cat page for help.

We don't want to find him a new home he would be terrified since he has
lived here his entire life and tends to be high strung. We can't keep him
seperated from his victims 100% of the time it's like playing a game of
musical chairs.

I am at my whit's end. I don't want any of the cats to end up with injuries.
My hubby thinks we should find another place for him to live but the idea of
taking him to our non-kill shelter seems cruel.

Please we need help.
philo - 31 Jan 2004 20:13 GMT
> We have 14 cats.

That's the problem right there!
Mogie - 31 Jan 2004 21:44 GMT
We were okay with 13 but number 14 seems to be what sent Maurice over the
edge. The last cat is not aggressive and Maurice is in perfect health.

Look at it like we are providing a loving home to those without one. The
large number isn't really any different then someone with a lot of children.

> > We have 14 cats.
>
> That's the problem right there!
philo - 31 Jan 2004 22:53 GMT
> We were okay with 13 but number 14 seems to be what sent Maurice over the
> edge. The last cat is not aggressive and Maurice is in perfect health.
>
> Look at it like we are providing a loving home to those without one. The
> large number isn't really any different then someone with a lot of children.

Yes... I understand...but not all of your cats do.

If they don't settle in pretty soon  one of them will have to go

or you will have to figure out a way to keep them apart
Ted Davis - 01 Feb 2004 01:56 GMT
>We were okay with 13 but number 14 seems to be what sent Maurice over the
>edge. The last cat is not aggressive and Maurice is in perfect health.

My problems occurred at the same population level, but I don't think
that's the problem since it continued after the population dropped by
two (one rehome and one disappearance) and I've had that level before
without trouble.

T.E.D. (tdavis@gearbox.maem.umr.edu - e-mail must contain "T.E.D." or my .sig in the body)
Ted Davis - 01 Feb 2004 01:52 GMT
>We have 14 cats. All male and all neutered. Everyone gets along but one cat
>(Maurice). He is about 4 years old and was born here (his mom was a pregnant
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>
>Please we need help.

I've had two like that - I think the second learned aggression from
the first.  I rehomed them both: the first for the good of the rest of
the colony, and the other for his own protection since he had taken up
the hobby of getting beaten up by the ferals in the area and was
becoming a scared mess with new bite wounds before the older ones
healed.  Both are better of and happier as indoor cats in smaller
households.  Both have kittens for company and since neither ever
attacked a cat that entered my colony after they did, I'm not worried
about future aggression.  My other cats are much calmer now too.

T.E.D. (tdavis@gearbox.maem.umr.edu - e-mail must contain "T.E.D." or my .sig in the body)
Rich - 01 Feb 2004 02:25 GMT
Wow!  14 cats?   Maurice behavior changed just like people.  14 is just
tooooooooo many.  I would be curious to know the square footage of your
house that those cats are allowed to roam.  With this, I assume they are
INDOOR cats?  How many litter boxes and water containers are provided?
...and in separate rooms?

You are pleading for help ...so is Maurice ...or is it the other thirteen?

In short, "philo" is correct with his/her reply.

Rich
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> We have 14 cats. All male and all neutered. Everyone gets along but one cat
> (Maurice). He is about 4 years old and was born here (his mom was a pregnant
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>
> Please we need help.
Mogie - 01 Feb 2004 19:08 GMT
Our home is about 1800 square feet.
We live outside the closet town on an acre surrounded on 3 sides by empty
pastures.
The cats go outside during the day only.
If need be I can isolate a cat or two in a room with food, water, a litter
box and toys.
One room is a "kitty room". Full of cat furniture, food, water, litter box
and toys.
An very large enclosed patio besides the other 6 rooms they have access to.
Six litter boxes and four water bowls are currently inside for them.
There are five scrathing posts scattered throughout the house.
I spend about two hours a day giving attention to the cats (playing and
attention).

> Wow!  14 cats?   Maurice behavior changed just like people.  14 is just
> tooooooooo many.  I would be curious to know the square footage of your
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> >
> > Please we need help.
JoJo - 07 Feb 2004 02:11 GMT
Have you asked your vet for suggestions?  Maybe a physical for Maurice may
uncover a medical condition that you are unaware of?  I foster for a local
shelter, they use feliway on their toys and in the kennels to help keep the
cats calm and make their adjustment a little better.  You can find feliway
on-line or your vet may have it - there is a plug in version and spray.

I wish you luck, with all the fostering I've been doing I've had 15
cats/kittens at once.  Do they all get along?  No, but no big altercations
either.  Good luck I hope everything works out!
> Wow!  14 cats?   Maurice behavior changed just like people.  14 is just
> tooooooooo many.  I would be curious to know the square footage of your
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> >
> > Please we need help.
JoJo - 07 Feb 2004 02:15 GMT
I have one more suggestion, if you do decide that Maurice needs another
home, you may be able to do a "home to home" foster, some shelters will
allow that.  I know you don't want to give him up, but something has him
upset.  He may benefit being an only child, it's hard to say.  No kill
shelters are sad, but they do the best they can to find homes for them all.
And I think they are a better alternative to the others.  Again, best of
luck
> Wow!  14 cats?   Maurice behavior changed just like people.  14 is just
> tooooooooo many.  I would be curious to know the square footage of your
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> >
> > Please we need help.
datsy - 01 Feb 2004 22:42 GMT
> We have 14 cats. All male and all neutered. Everyone gets along but one cat
> (Maurice). He is about 4 years old and was born here (his mom was a pregnant
[quoted text clipped - 20 lines]
>
> Please we need help.

Try the Bach remedy Holly which is for aggression and jealousy - you'll be
able to get it at health stores. Put 4 drops in the cat's drinking water -
if the others also drink from it - no problem. Do this every day with fresh
water until there is a change in behaviour - shouldn't take more than a few
days in a cat, unlike in humans where it can take weeks because our emotions
are so deeply buried.
Chas - 02 Feb 2004 02:23 GMT
> We have 14 cats. All male and all neutered. Everyone gets along but one cat
> (Maurice). He is about 4 years old and was born here (his mom was a pregnant
[quoted text clipped - 20 lines]
>
> Please we need help.

Yes you do need help.

Having 14 cats has absolutely nothing in common with liking or loving cats.

At least 12 of your cats would be better off not living with you, please
start to find good homes for them.

Babba.
Mogie - 04 Feb 2004 23:40 GMT
> > We have 14 cats. All male and all neutered. Everyone gets along but one
> cat
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>
> Babba.

Why would you say that at least 12 of our cats would be better not living
with us? Do you tell people with more then 2 children the same thing?
Alton - 07 Feb 2004 19:44 GMT
> > > We have 14 cats. All male and all neutered. Everyone gets along but one
>  cat
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> Why would you say that at least 12 of our cats would be better not living
> with us? Do you tell people with more then 2 children the same thing?

It does sound like Maurice has lost his cool from stress.  Still, it's
really kind of you to try to give that many cats a home.   Maurice's
problem could be this particular new cat's personality or just that
the presence of one more cat has really reduced Maurice's sense of
security and comfort.

It's sad, but I would consider finding a new home for the newcomer
cat.  If the newcomer has formed a bond with another cat, maybe you
could find some home for both together...?  (Easier said than done, I
know).   Another possibility that would take some effort would be to
create two separate living areas, each populated with cats who seem to
like each other.  Maybe this wouldn't work for some types of houses.

I've always dreamed of this arrangement for cats:  kitty-access doors
from the house to large outdoor spaces that are surrounded and
enclosed from top to bottom with chicken wire fencing.  To lower
stress due to crowding, you could make two sections with some sort of
divider in the middle.  Trees and wooden cat playgrounds could be
installed.

Another idea is to work with the vet to try one of the kitty calming
agents for Maurice.  But if he doesn't like pills that could create
more upset.  In any case, good luck and give Maurice a hug for me!

Alt.
http://www.lovethatcat.com
superstaticgirl - 09 Feb 2004 15:53 GMT
> > > > We have 14 cats. All male and all neutered. Everyone gets along but one
>  cat
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> Alt.
> http://www.lovethatcat.com

A rough estimate is that 2/3 cats can cohabit happily in a 3 bedroom
house. Cats are orginally solitary creatures and have territorial
issues to think on. If you have a gigantic house then 14 cats will be
fine, especially if they are all very sociable cats. However, the
newcomer has clearly intruded on Maurice's territory and he cannot be
accepted into the household. It would be less cruel of you to find a
new home for the newcomer in the long run. At least you know the
sanctuary does not kill the animals after the initial period. Someone
else will pick the newcomer and love him too.
M.C. Mullen - 09 Feb 2004 17:48 GMT
| A rough estimate is that 2/3 cats can cohabit happily in a 3 bedroom
| house. Cats are orginally solitary creatures and have territorial
| issues to think on.

Today I was so proud on our Micky: he visited our lonely rabbit (it has lost
its mate 1 month ago), and the two of them stayed happily beside each other,
no attack, no hostility! The rabbit lives in a hut but can go in/out as it
pleases. Mostly cats like to chase the rabbits, but today it was all
different, so peaceful! But: rabbit was scratching itself - has she got
Micky's ear mites now too (the dog has already got its share as well)?  :-(

Carola
Mogie - 10 Feb 2004 19:29 GMT
Maurice has gone two days now without any problems with the other cats. I am
beginning to believe that it is just taking him an usually long time to
adjust to the new comers. But there has been peace around here for the last
two days.

> | A rough estimate is that 2/3 cats can cohabit happily in a 3 bedroom
> | house. Cats are orginally solitary creatures and have territorial
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>
> Carola
 
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