The downside to this of course is; when they die.
I am on a course of medication for 11 months and one of the many side
effects is depression. I thought I would never suffer from this but when
my 13 yo cat(indoor/outdoor)died of cancer, I missed him terribly.
I couldn't talk about him without tearing up and felt on the verge of
tears constantly. I am now on antidepressants for the duration of the
meds. and feel much better.
Of course I went through blaming myself for not doing enough, quickly
enough knowing the results may have been the same anyway.
I loved my kitty and he reciprocated 100%. A couple of days after his
final visit to the vet I created a little tribute to him and it is on
the family web site (under construction) www.1cooperfamily.com look for
Biggles. The forward/backwards buttons are a little small and I haven't
fixed that yet, but if you want to have a look go ahead.
Bill
> Cats are so sweet at times - aren't they?
> I can't resist when a cat rolls on the floor showing its belly.
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Christina - 20 Jan 2004 17:26 GMT
Bill, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Biggles....I hope the meds are
helping you, though. It's wonderful of you to create the tribute to him.
I'm headed there now to look at it.
Hugs,
Christina
Bill - 20 Jan 2004 19:23 GMT
Thank you Christina,
That was kind of you to respond.
((Hugs accepted))
Bill
> Bill, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Biggles....I hope the meds are
> helping you, though. It's wonderful of you to create the tribute to him.
> I'm headed there now to look at it.
>
> Hugs,
> Christina
Christina - 20 Jan 2004 19:00 GMT
The pictures were great and I loved the captions you put on
them..........especially "The Guarded Cat".....he was just a beautiful
kitty, I can tell he had so much personality.....great job on the tribute,
brought tears to my eyes....God Bless You for giving him a wonderful life
full of love.
Christina
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Big Dave - 20 Jan 2004 22:13 GMT
Dude, you seriously brought tears to my eyes. We had two cats for over 17
years, Molly and Alley, and after watching them deteriorate, we finally made
the sad decsion last spring to put them down. We felt like such traitors
even though we knew it was for the best. Last weekend, after much cajoling
from my daughter, we brought home two new critters from the animal rescue
league, Eddie and Emma, and I am glad that they did. I missed having animals
in the house and these two kittens are just what the doctor ordered. Good
luck Bill, I know how hard it is.
P.S. I liked the pic of Biggles in the chair as a kitten the best!!
Dave
Bill - 20 Jan 2004 23:06 GMT
Hi Dave,
I replied to you back on the original thread.
Bill
> Dude, you seriously brought tears to my eyes. We had two cats for over 17
> years, Molly and Alley, and after watching them deteriorate, we finally made
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Bill - 20 Jan 2004 23:05 GMT
Thanks Dave:
It's comforting to know that there are people out there who Sympathize
with my state of mind at the moment. I know it's a little morose and I
don't think there was a dry key on the keyboard while I was putting it
together. The main picture was taken about a year before his death and
we watched him fade away to skin and bones in about six months. We had
him checked out thoroughly, all the blood work .... everything when he
showed the weight loss but nothing was found. By the time we discovered
the tumor it was too late.
My wife and I are going to get another furball (at least one) as the
place is just not the same. We are looking at Maine Coons as they seem
to be close to Biggles in temperament and they appeal to us. We may
rescue another kitty too.
I feel for you and yours too, and it's great that you have two new
family members. They are very lucky to have such a caring family adopt
them. I wish you all the best of luck.
Sincerely,
Bill
Big Dave wrote:
> Dude, you seriously brought tears to my eyes. We had two cats for over 17
> years, Molly and Alley, and after watching them deteriorate, we
finally made
> the sad decsion last spring to put them down. We felt like such traitors
> even though we knew it was for the best. Last weekend, after much
cajoling
> from my daughter, we brought home two new critters from the animal rescue
> league, Eddie and Emma, and I am glad that they did. I missed having
animals
> in the house and these two kittens are just what the doctor ordered. Good
> luck Bill, I know how hard it is.
>
> P.S. I liked the pic of Biggles in the chair as a kitten the best!!
>
> Dave
> The downside to this of course is; when they die.
>
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> Bill
>Cats are so sweet at times - aren't they?
>I can't resist when a cat rolls on the floor showing its belly.
With the one I just rehomed, that is a trap: reach in to rub his belly
and you pull back a bloody stump. With his opposite (small, white,
not lap cat instead of large, black, lap cat) it really is an
invitation to rub. Only experience - or advice from someone who knows
tha cat - can tell which it is, but people wanting to rub the belly of
a cat thay don't know well should keep in mind that a lot of cats use
that posture as a trap, though many of them will lie on their side
whne they really want a belly rub.
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>also help against depression because they force the owner to stick to a
>daily routine plus it makes people feel that they are needed.
Curious about that - it works that way for me and my colony of cats,
but I really don't care that much about the dogs (of course there
isn't much point in feeding them in the rain since they won't come out
of the dog house to eat anyway, but the cats will come in out of
wherever they were through the rain to walk over me with muddy paws).
T.E.D. (tdavis@gearbox.maem.umr.edu)
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Bill - 21 Jan 2004 03:12 GMT
lol Ted,
I used to get Biggles going but once in a while he would get the ears
back with that look in his eyes and I would find myself in a bear trap.
As you know you can't move to extricate yourself from a full arm lock
and he was a big strong guy. He was generaly a "pussycat" but we both
had a good time hand wrestling and he was allways up for a tummy rub.
Bill
>>Cats are so sweet at times - aren't they?
>>I can't resist when a cat rolls on the floor showing its belly.
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Hope Munro Smith - 22 Jan 2004 00:17 GMT
LOL, what is it about big male cats and that hammerlock move?!
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M.C. Mullen - 21 Jan 2004 05:54 GMT
| >Cats are so sweet at times - aren't they?
| >I can't resist when a cat rolls on the floor showing its belly.
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| that posture as a trap, though many of them will lie on their side
| whne they really want a belly rub.
I *always* stroke the back of a cat lying on the floor or the cheeks. They
like that.
Micky gets his belly rub at night when he lies alongside myself and throws
his paws in the air. But only a little bit because it turns him on and then
I have him go crazy.
Carola
& mine does that a lot ! esp. at nite when i'm tryin to go to to bathroom &
she plops right in front of me ! gotta luv em !!!
> Cats are so sweet at times - aren't they?
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