Brita,

I am heartbroken for you that Buffo has not come home.  We have 3 tuxedos
that look so much like him.  They will be reminders to me of your Buffo
missing in action.  There's always still a chance you'll find him or that
he'll someday arrive on your doorstep, and my hopes and prayers will still
be there for both of you.

Please do keep us updated from time to time.  

Warm regards...