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Tara K. - 25 Apr 2005 18:07 GMT I've updated Princess' home page with an obituary of sorts, you can find it here (scroll down the page for the update):
http://members.dodo.com.au/~tara_k/story.html
Will write more in a few days, but for now, thanks for all the replies and the emails, everyone, it helps to know others have been through this too.
I'm just going to miss her so damn much :(
TK
HRFLTiger - 25 Apr 2005 19:03 GMT > I'm just going to miss her so damn much :( > > TK {{{{HUGS}}}}
Nothing I can say will ease your loss, but Princess went to RB knowing that she was wanted and loved. You gave her a good quality of life in her last 4 months and you let her have dignity, affection and friendship.
She went to RB feeling that someone loved her for who *she* was, and she touched everyone.
We'll light a candle for her safe journey to the bridge.
Grieving with you,
Helen M
Magic Mood Jeep© - 25 Apr 2005 19:17 GMT > I've updated Princess' home page with an obituary of sorts, you can > find it here (scroll down the page for the update): [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > TK Your story was beautiful, and I want to thank you for it(even though it brought tears to my eyes). And to thank you for taking such loving care of Princess, who was obviously very appreciative of it.
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CatNipped - 25 Apr 2005 19:38 GMT > I've updated Princess' home page with an obituary of sorts, you can find > it [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > > TK Tara, bless you for all you did for Princess. I'm so glad she had a loving hand under her head when she passed away.
Hugs,
CatNipped
Mogget - 25 Apr 2005 20:24 GMT >I've updated Princess' home page with an obituary of sorts, you can find it >here (scroll down the page for the update): That's beautiful.
I will light a candle for her.
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KittyLady - 25 Apr 2005 20:35 GMT Oh that made me cry.I guarantee that she knows you love her. Take comfort in the fact that you tried your best to give her comfort and love while she was with you. God Bless You for being such a kind person. You will be in my prayers tonight. Skritches, KittyLady
Mel - 26 Apr 2005 17:29 GMT Tara:
I posted condolences yesterday, but have not had a chance to look at Princess' story before now.
It is both wonderful and sad: I wonder why a cat her age wasn't safe at home with someone in the first place, what brought her to the point that your mom found her. No animal deserves to have such a terrible fate, starving, near death. But to be found, and cared for, by wonderful people, brings my to tears. Overflowing with warmth, love and compassion, you brought something to this tiny being's life that she may not have otherwise known.
Your story about her did make me cry. With sadness and with happiness. There is no such thing as 'just a cat'. I have never met a human who has given the unconditional, selfless love that my cats have. Animals always seem so grateful for what you do for them. They love you for yourself, never judging, never criticizing.
My 19 year old feline, Munchkin, passed away January 12/05. I have always found that they leave a bigger rent in my life's fabric than that of a human - - no matter how much I loved that human. Perhaps it is because I was essential care-giver and nurse for the last months of her life, and also her buddy SweetPea's, seven years before. Perhaps it is because of the way they twine their souls in 'round our hearts and into our lives fabric so tightly bound, that when they leave to cross Rainbow Bridge........they cannot help but tear a piece of that fabric loose when they go, leaving an empty and painful space behind.
Big, comforting (((HUGS))) to you; I know the journey through grief is not easy.
I pray that you have memories of good times with Princess to light your way through the darkness.
Melody
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> I've updated Princess' home page with an obituary of sorts, you can find > it [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > > TK M.C. Mullen - 26 Apr 2005 18:00 GMT : There is no such thing as 'just a cat'. I have never met a human who has : given the unconditional, selfless love that my cats have. Animals always : seem so grateful for what you do for them. They love you for yourself, : never judging, never criticizing. I agree with you completely. But there's one thing that I wonder about since a long time: How do pets recognize you? Even from a distance where smell doesn't play a role?
I got myself a new hairdo today - none of the pets commented: they just greeted me as usual, so looks can't be that important. I know that the voice is important. My rabbits disappear when they hear a strange voice. But the cats spot me from a distance.
Carola
Tara K. - 27 Apr 2005 09:56 GMT > : There is no such thing as 'just a cat'. I have never met a human who > has [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > I know that the voice is important. My rabbits disappear when they hear a > strange voice. But the cats spot me from a distance. I'd take a guess it would be their excellent eyesight and probably (no way of proving this) facial recognition. I can't remember the exact details, but they have a range of expression and number of facial muscles which suggests this plays a very important role in cat sociability. The range of markings found on the feline face also suggests this is socially important.
I'd also guess that they may well recognise you from the unique sound of your footsteps. If you've ever seen a cat "chatter" when it sees a bird, you've seen a demonstration of just *how* good their hearing is. We only hear the low frequencies of a chatter, which gives it that distinctive staccato sound. Recordings of the chatter have shown that it's actually a two-part call, with rapid modulation between low and high frequencies. Despite this - and this is part of my fascination for animal-human relationships, and how much is really not known/not acknowledged - a cat will "chatter" back to you even if a person can only mimic the lower frequency (my sister's cat, btw, has a very deep feline voice, and you can hear both parts of the chatter when he does it).
Just a thought.
TK
PS Once again, everyone, thanks. I'll be answering emails in the next few days, still trying to get over Princess' loss - put away the last of her food bowls today, you think you've got to the end of it, and something new reminds you.
Dan M - 27 Apr 2005 14:33 GMT > I'd also guess that they may well recognise you from the unique sound of > your footsteps. If you've ever seen a cat "chatter" when it sees a bird, [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > frequency (my sister's cat, btw, has a very deep feline voice, and you can > hear both parts of the chatter when he does it). And here's another thought. A few months back I was listening to a late-night radio talk show as they interviewed a scientist in England. He did research with dogs, but said his tests worked with cats as well. He would set a video camera to watch the window at which a dog-owner's dog would run when dog new owner was coming home. Owner worked quite a distance (several km) from home. Reseaercher had dog owner leave work at a different time each day, and record the time of leaving. On the video tape the dog could be seen running to sit before the window at the moment the owner left work. No way could the dog hear or smell the owner leaving; there is some other means by which dogs (and by extension cats) are connected to their humans.
Jo Firey - 27 Apr 2005 19:16 GMT >> I'd also guess that they may well recognise you from the unique sound of >> your footsteps. If you've ever seen a cat "chatter" when it sees a bird, [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] > there is some other means by which dogs (and by extension cats) are > connected to their humans. And humans are connected to each other. When I worked in an office alone I had a friend who would call or stop by once in a while. Usually when I really need company or oddly when I needed to ask him a question about work. I wouldn't have to call him. He would call me. And I'd know it was him when the phone rang. Same when he would stop by. I always knew just a bet before he was going to stop by. Same with a couple of other friends.
And had really strange connection to my mother after I move away from the east coast. On three of four occasions I could feel what she was feeling.
Jo
John F. Eldredge - 28 Apr 2005 04:39 GMT >> I'd also guess that they may well recognise you from the unique sound of >> your footsteps. If you've ever seen a cat "chatter" when it sees a bird, [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] >leaving; there is some other means by which dogs (and by extension cats) >are connected to their humans. My experience over the years, with several different cats, suggests that they are recognizing the sound of the car. If I am driving my own car, the cat will be waiting at the window or near the front door, but if I am driving a rental car, the cat doesn't react until I enter the house, at which point she comes running.
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sriddles@aol.com - 28 Apr 2005 07:09 GMT > >> I'd also guess that they may well recognise you from the unique sound of > >> your footsteps. If you've ever seen a cat "chatter" when it sees a bird, [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > >> two-part call, with rapid modulation between low and high frequencies. > >> Despite this - and this is part of my fascination for animal-human
> >> relationships, and how much is really not known/not acknowledged - a cat > >> will "chatter" back to you even if a person can only mimic the lower [quoted text clipped - 21 lines] > -- > John F. Eldredge Absolutely in my experience, too. Also, peculiar enough, Bootsie seems to know when DH is due to arrive home and is always sitting at the window looking for him. He gets home precisely at 7:15 at night, and she is in the window by 6:45 watching. Switching over to daylight savings time did confuse her but she righted herself in just a few days. Amazing to me. (p.s. She is DH's cat, and completley devoted to him. She only likes me when he's gone)
Sherry
tanada - 28 Apr 2005 18:06 GMT > (p.s. She is DH's cat, and completley devoted to > him. She only likes me when he's gone) > > Sherry Sounds like most of the cats in our house. I'm everyone's second favorite, for use when their primary favorite is not available.
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HRFLTiger - 28 Apr 2005 14:45 GMT > No way could the dog hear or smell the owner > leaving; there is some other means by which dogs (and by extension cats) > are connected to their humans./// I also think that they can let you know they are in distress or something is wrong.
In early 2000, when I had only Tiger and Robbie, I had to go away very unexpectedly for work on a Thursday, i.e. at 3 hours notice. The only person I could get to look after the cats was a neighbour who lived next door and had her own cat. There was no reason to think that she wouldn't look after my two babies, because she treated her cat like a baby.
By the Sunday afternoon, I was CONVINCED something was wrong at home. I didn't know what it was, and couldn't put my finger on my unease, but it was like both HRFL Tiger and Robbie were yelling at me *to come quick* (I can't really describe the feeling/"vision"). So anyway, Monday morning, I can't take it anymore, I made my excuses to my boss and headed home.
I get home to find the food bowls empty, the litter FILTHY (clearly hadn't been changed for a few days) and the water bowl tipped over. Both boys were ravenous and gobbled their food in the manner of cats who were clearly very hungry & both were very thirsty.
Turns out, that the neighbour had a new boyfriend, and on the Friday night he had asked her to go away for a long weekend. Instead of getting someone to feed my guys, she had just put a bowl of dried food down and left them. I got home before she did!
I wasn't happy about what happened, but just grateful that I got home when I did, but I do think the cats told me that they were in distress, I really do.
I've also had other "experiences" like that with the mogs, where I've been told something by one of them and it's turned out like they say. Am I flake? Maybe, but I genuinely believe that you have a bond with your animal companions.
Just my $0.02
Helen M
hobbs - 02 May 2005 12:37 GMT I had a cat 'Panther who left us at age 16.1/2 she used to talk to me as you described, also my son who was an apprentis Jockey came home on holiday, I used to finish work at about 2.30 pickup my small daughter from School and arrive home at around 3.30, One day my son said 'Its just clicked Mam, why Panther jumps up on the cabinet every day ot 3.00, she knows your coming home'. Jean.P.
> > I'd also guess that they may well recognise you from the unique sound of > > your footsteps. If you've ever seen a cat "chatter" when it sees a bird, [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] > leaving; there is some other means by which dogs (and by extension cats) > are connected to their humans. mlbriggs - 08 May 2005 05:38 GMT >> I'd also guess that they may well recognise you from the unique sound of >> your footsteps. If you've ever seen a cat "chatter" when it sees a bird, [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] > there is some other means by which dogs (and by extension cats) are > connected to their humans. It is obvious --- they read your mind! MLB
whayface - 27 Apr 2005 13:24 GMT >: There is no such thing as 'just a cat'. I have never met a human who has >: given the unconditional, selfless love that my cats have. Animals always [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > >Carola I often wonder the same thing. I have 4 furbabies and live my myself and whenever somebody comes they go into hideing but I remember the first time I shaved after I got a couple of them I had shaving cream on my facce and thought I would see what they would do. I stuck my head out of the bathroom and gave my best rendition of a dog bark :-( and they looked at me and went back to what they were doing. Go figure.
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FurrsomeFoursome - 26 Apr 2005 18:43 GMT What a beautiful page.
I've got to stop checking in to groups and work... can only explain "must be allergies" so many times when snuffling away at my desk.
Bast's blessings on you for making her last days loving days. She has my two once-abandoned Siamese to play with at the end of her journey.
virtual hugs of sympathy to you - everyone here understands this.
Johanna an' de Foursome
Lesley Madigan - 27 Apr 2005 13:40 GMT > I've got to stop checking in to groups and work... can only explain > "must be allergies" so many times when snuffling away at my desk. Delighted to hear that I am not the only one. I haven't been on this group long and when I started I had a cold, which as far as my colleagues are concerned "lingered" for a very long time....
Now they all think I have hay fever....Monday was bad, a couple of days off work and the first two headings I get were that Princess and Beast were gone. This is after last week, when I sniffled a lot because it was the anniversary of losing my Fugazi and on the same day from what appears to be the same condition, Jackie passed on..This newsgroup is making an emotional wreck out of me!!!!
Lesley
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Debra Berry - 26 Apr 2005 20:39 GMT Those are lovely remembrances. You were lucky to have each other, even if it was for a short time.
Purrs for Princess' crossing of RB and of comfort for you and your family.
Debbie Berry dberry@mitre.org
> I've updated Princess' home page with an obituary of sorts, you can find it > here (scroll down the page for the update): [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > TK
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