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Holly - 11 Jan 2005 20:53 GMT
My father says that my husband and I have gone off the very very deep end. We both refer to ourselves as mommy and daddy to our cats. I will tell Pheniox or Sasha go tell daddy and its like they know who he is or he will tell them go tell mommy and its the same reaction. When we cuddle them its oh mommy or daddy loves you. or did you miss mommy or daddy today?
The way they run the house though maybe myself or my husband should call them Mommy.
This may be ranting but I really do enjoy this website, and want to apploizie to anyone who I may have offended.
Thanks
Holly
Gary Stone - 11 Jan 2005 21:43 GMT
> My father says that my husband and I have gone off the very very deep end.
> We both refer to ourselves as mommy and daddy to our cats. I will tell
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> Thanks
> Holly

I have said, "Come to Papa" to my two. And they go nuts when I tell them,
"uncle Don is coming, uncle Don, uncle Don." But I think they are actually
responding to the fact that I moved their toys and scratch pad out of the
back room. I tell them this and move their things about an hour before he
arrives and they run back and forth to all windows till he gets here. They
love my brother Don because he gives them quite a work out and will even
take them rabbit hunting with him out back in the forest plus he's always
got some mighty fine eats.

Stone
M.C. Mullen - 12 Jan 2005 00:48 GMT
| I have said, "Come to Papa" to my two. And they go nuts when I tell them,
| "uncle Don is coming, uncle Don, uncle Don." But I think they are actually
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|
| Stone

I'm quite impressed. They say dogs know about 300 words, well mine knows
about 50. I can say to her "Go and look for your bone" and things the like.
But talking to cats? My cats know their names, that's about it. But they
watch me carefully and know when I do this or that what may be coming after.
And I always thought that my last cat, Minka, could read my thoughts.
Sometimes I discussed things with her and she was very willing to listen :-)

Carola
Amanda Jones - 12 Jan 2005 12:53 GMT
> I'm quite impressed. They say dogs know about 300 words, well mine
> knows about 50. I can say to her "Go and look for your bone" and things
> the like. But talking to cats? My cats know their names, that's about
> it. But they watch me carefully and know when I do this or that what
> may be coming after.

The bigger of mine, Elijah, knows his name, the word for "chicken",
"whiskers", "cat", "bed", and "lap". He appears rapidly for the first
three, and jumps on to the latter two if he feels like it.

The smaller, Yossie, is far too thick even to know his own name!

Amanda
Gee - 11 Jan 2005 23:41 GMT
> My father says that my husband and I have gone off the very very deep end.
We both refer to >ourselves as mommy and daddy to our cats.

:) Aah,welcome to the cat world :) Yes, we all refer to ourselvesas mummy
and daddy to our kitties, even tho, ou are perfectly right, they are the
ones in charge :) Its a natural feeling to mother anything that is small,
sweet and needs our help :) We watch our kitties grow,eat, play,we make sure
they are healthy,we watch themplay,and make sure they are safe, and talk to
them in baby voice. So just the way we do it with our human babies :) So
nothing to be concerned about, you are not abnormal, its a natural instinct,
and its perfectly normal.

> This may be ranting but I really do enjoy this website, and want to apploizie to anyone who I may have offended.

You havent offended anyone.Dont worry.

Just enjoy your kitties and get prepared to become a grandma :) And yes
becuase of her blindness perhaps you should limit her to one room while she
is with a tiny kitten for her safety and easier way of dealing with the
situation.

Gee
Holly - 12 Jan 2005 15:00 GMT
Yes Gee the time is drawing near, Pheniox is scheduled for a c section of February 7th unless things try to happen before then. The doctors want to do it this was because of the bad breaks she had in her pelvis when we got her. Vet says it will reduce her strain and stress. I am alittle concerned though about leaving her alone, I worry that since she can't see them if she will know when they need caring for or if she will hear them she has no hearing in her right ear and about 40% in her left. I know I am probley worring about nothing (at least the vet says I am) Has anyone here had this experience? Oh I forgot to tell everyone, Pheniox went to vet last friday and we had another ultrasound done(vet thought she may be a little big for just 3 kittens) turns out he was right a fourth was hiding last time. Other than that everything looks good.
Gee - 13 Jan 2005 17:12 GMT
> Yes Gee the time is drawing near, Pheniox is scheduled for a c section of February 7th unless things try to happen before then. The doctors want to do
it this was because of the bad breaks she had in her pelvis when we got her.
Vet says it will reduce her strain and stress. I am alittle concerned though
about leaving her alone, I worry that since she can't see them if she will
know when they need caring for or if she will hear them she has no hearing
in her right ear and about 40% in her left. I know I am probley worring
about nothing (at least the vet says I am) Has anyone here had this
experience? Oh I forgot to tell everyone, Pheniox went to vet last friday
and we had another ultrasound done(vet thought she may be a little big for
just 3 kittens) turns out he was right a fourth was hiding last time. Other
than that everything looks good.

Cats primarily use the sense of smell, then hearing second, sight third, the
way we humans use the sense of seeing primarily, then hearing,then maybe
smelling. So I think she should be OK, the poor darling, although I do
suggest you limit her to one room, and give her and kitties a nice corner
with some carpet underneath or old rag or something and also get a bit
cardboard box, tip it over and make a cat "door". It is going to be her lil
house and she will feel more protected there with kittens, but be able to go
out as she pleases. Put litter in the room, but on opposite side. Feed mum
kitten food.

I watched my Tiara'sbirth. Her mum belonged to ex-flatmates who didn't
neuter her on time. Anyway, I made her a box and put it on my double bed,
and I slept sideways :) Very uncomfortable but Iwasnt about to miss the most
amazing experience of my life for nothing! So mum had the 6(1 died) and I
watched their every step,as much as mum would allow since she kept kittens
in the box, and people say you shouldn;t touch them much til mum gets used
to them, cos smell can turn her off kittens!

So then when they are 3 weeks old, fun begins as they start exploring
outdoors! (Outdoors meaning outside the box :) ) Once the first one of them
decided to fall off the bed, I think around 4 weeks old, I made them a lil
enclosure with "walls", old rug, mum's box, baby litter box, and food area.
It was like a playground and they loved it.

Beware that mum WILL move the kittens sooner or later, especially if she
gets disturbed for some (to us) odd reason. It could be even the wind is too
strong or something.She may move them to under the stairs, to in the
cupboard, but if its not safe, best take them back.Tho she may not agree, so
as amazing as these moments are, reduce visitation rights to only really
ones who moan the most about it ! :)

Wow 4 kittens! its gonna be a party! :) if she givesbirth by herself, let
her eat the placenta,as its very nutritious :) Dunno how much experience or
knowledge you have about animal births?

I cant wait for your daily updates!
Gee
Holly - 13 Jan 2005 18:04 GMT
Hi Gee, I was raised on a farm, So i have seen all types of animals born, and have help deliver a few, I delivered my neighbors son 4 years ago (while waiting for the ambulance) but I have never seen kittens born. We are really, really hoping that she does not try and deliver on her own, The vet does not think she can handle it. Pheniox has sence set up shop in MY CLOSET of all places. It quite, dark and for some reason my other kitten is afraid to go in there. I really appreciate all of the advise. THANKS and I will keep you updated.
Amy Gray - 13 Jan 2005 22:14 GMT
>Hi Gee, I was raised on a farm, So i have seen all types of animals born, and have help deliver a few, I delivered my neighbors son 4 years ago (while waiting for the ambulance) but I have never seen kittens born. We are really, really hoping that she does not try and deliver on her own, The vet does not think she can handle it. Pheniox has sence set up shop in MY CLOSET of all places. It quite, dark and for some reason my other kitten is afraid to go in there. I really appreciate all of the advise. THANKS and I will keep you updated.
A kitten afraid to go in the closet?  What is your secret?

Every cat i've ever had was magnetically attracted to closets.
Every single one of them.
Holly - 17 Jan 2005 15:28 GMT
She was getting in my closet at first but wanted to pull the strings out of my sweaters so one day I hid in the closet and gave her a good scare, that stopped that and I did not have to keep replacing sweaters.
Lori - 12 Jan 2005 01:30 GMT
>My father says that my husband and I have gone off the very very deep end. We both refer to ourselves as mommy and daddy to our cats. I will tell Pheniox or Sasha go tell daddy and its like they know who he is or he will tell them go tell mommy and its the same reaction. When we cuddle them its oh mommy or daddy loves you. or did you miss mommy or daddy today?
>The way they run the house though maybe myself or my husband should call them Mommy.

When my husband and I got married last spring, I already had two of my
kids.  My husband calls them his step-cats.  We've been adopted by
Oreo since then, and she is definately a daddy's girl, even though
it's Momma that brought her home and got all the fleas off her.  :)

They are part of the family, sometimes closer than family.  My eldest
cat, April, has been through a high school sweetheart, two divorces,
and three weddings.  My second husband thought we should have her put
down because she was having problems with a sensitive stomach and
getting sick often.  I told him that I'd had her long before he came
along.  He's gone, she's still with me.

Grins,

Lori
Cheryl - 12 Jan 2005 01:55 GMT
> My father says that my husband and I have gone off the very very
> deep end. We both refer to ourselves as mommy and daddy to our
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> run the house though maybe myself or my husband should call them
> Mommy.

Nope, you sound like a normal cat slave to me. My parents finally get
it, though, so hang in there. lol My mom even gave my cats Christmas
presents this year. ;) Plus, she buys me a Boyd's Bears stuffed cat
every year, and now I have quite a collection of them. Here's a pic
of one of my new kittens trying to meet some new friends.

http://tinyurl.com/4vv8v

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Cheryl

jacquie0 - 12 Jan 2005 03:10 GMT
>>My father says that my husband and I have gone off the very very
>>deep end. We both refer to ourselves as mommy and daddy to our
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>
> http://tinyurl.com/4vv8v

Holly, My husband and I don't have any children of the two legged
variety, but we have 2 of the four legged variety. They are our babies,
and yes, we are mommy and daddy to them.
Cheryl, your cats are adorable. You have quite a brood there. The
kittens look like they are doing much better now that they have a good
home.
Cheryl - 13 Jan 2005 00:24 GMT
> Cheryl, your cats are adorable. You have quite a brood there.
> The kittens look like they are doing much better now that they
> have a good home.

Thanks. They are such a joy. :)

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Holly - 12 Jan 2005 14:54 GMT
I looked at all of the pictures you have soom buetiful babies.
Olaf Gustafson - 14 Jan 2005 15:25 GMT
>My father says that my husband and I have gone off the very very deep end. We both refer to ourselves as mommy and daddy to our cats. I will tell Pheniox or Sasha go tell daddy and its like they know who he is or he will tell them go tell mommy and its the same reaction. When we cuddle them its oh mommy or daddy loves you. or did you miss mommy or daddy today?
>The way they run the house though maybe myself or my husband should call them Mommy.
>This may be ranting but I really do enjoy this website, and want to apploizie to anyone who I may have offended.

While I don't call myself "daddy", I do refer to my cat as if she were
my kid.

I think that's normal.

>Thanks
>Holly
RJ - 29 Mar 2005 17:07 GMT
Yeah, me and my husband do the same thing. I also tell them (I have 3 cats)
each in secret that they are my favorite.

> My father says that my husband and I have gone off the very very deep end.
> We both refer to ourselves as mommy and daddy to our cats. I will tell
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> Thanks
> Holly
Karin Gillette - 29 Mar 2005 22:15 GMT
We do it too.   Actually my hubby was gone this weekend and his cat moped
around the entire time.  I could not even entice her with treats.   His cat
is 11 mine is 8 and they have now been sisters for about 2 1/2 years.  But
they each are partial to their original parent.

> Yeah, me and my husband do the same thing. I also tell them (I have 3 cats)
> each in secret that they are my favorite.
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> > Thanks
> > Holly
Diane - 29 Mar 2005 23:24 GMT
Yikes, my husband and I do the same thing!  LOL  I even *pet* my husband and
say something to Whiskers about Daddy so that he'll feel more comfortable
when Daddy comes home from work.  We've only had Whiskers for a little over
2 weeks and he has to reacquaint himself with my husband every time he comes
home.  I thought we were the only ones that do this.  LOL

Di

> > My father says that my husband and I have gone off the very very deep end.
> > We both refer to ourselves as mommy and daddy to our cats. I will tell
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> > Thanks
> > Holly
em - 29 Mar 2005 23:37 GMT
Holly: you are not ranting, and I doubt you have offended anyone!  The topic
of the newsgroup is "cats" and that is just what you are discussing *grin*

Ha, ha, and here I am (I am single) calling myself "mom" to the
cats.............even my sister calls me mom when she talks to my cats.  I
think maybe your dad is the one off the deep end because he doesn't know
what he is missing *grin*  Hey, they are all our children, just like adopted
human babies, just different species.  God created them all, I'm sure he
doesn't care if we think we are surrogate parents! :)

When I talk about my parents to my cats I call them grandma and grandpa :)
I am sure my parents are not wild about that but I figure too darn bad,
these are the only grandchildren I am going to produce.

I worked with a lady who had a photo of her 'grandpuppies' on her
desk......I thought that was so sweet!

We love them, we are their guardians, so technically, what are we?
Mom/mommy, dad/daddy.  I figure anyone that has never had that bond, that
ability to be able to feel what we feel, is missing out on a very valuable
piece of life.

So, if this is ranting, rant away, and as for offended, by the comments, and
for myself, no offense!  I think it is really great to be able to compare
notes with all these other "kitty parents"!

Melody

>> This may be ranting but I really do enjoy this website, and want to
>> apploizie to anyone who I may have offended.
>> Thanks
>> Holly
Mrs Kerry Hoyes - 30 Mar 2005 07:08 GMT
My fiance and I do the same thing my cat "smudge" which I have had since he
was born he was born in the corner of my bedroom when I was growing up. Now
that I have moved out of home every time my mum comes over she always says
'how is my grandson' referring to smudge and I tell smudge 'look smudge
nanna is here'. I don't know why we do it but it just natural I guess and
never thought much of it until now.
Kerry

> Yeah, me and my husband do the same thing. I also tell them (I have 3 cats)
> each in secret that they are my favorite.
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M.C. Mullen - 30 Mar 2005 14:04 GMT
| My fiance and I do the same thing my cat "smudge" which I have had since he
| was born he was born in the corner of my bedroom when I was growing up. Now
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| never thought much of it until now.
| Kerry

Pets just *are* great! I wonder how people can have phobias around them, but
I do take them serious, especially when walking with the dog, although it's
only a small harmless terrier.
I just love holding warm fur (with a pet inside) and am in heaven when the
cat
starts purring. At the moment there's fur everywhere though (shedding) ...

Carola

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