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bjg - 09 Dec 2003 18:20 GMT
Hey,

As some know i just got some kittens. I would like to know the best way for
disciplining them. They started off a bit shy, but now they're really
hyperactive and don't stop running around and jumping on furniture etc.
Don't get me wrong, i love cats, and i don't like to hurt them, but is it
the best way to disciplining them? Like just a tap on the nose? They just
are getting a bit too cocky and not having any respect for the furniture.

BJG
Gee - 09 Dec 2003 19:08 GMT
With all due respect, apart from loving the cats, you really need to learn
more about them, so you don;t ask anymore questions like this again.

1.NEVER hit a cat-no matter how mild the hit is. It is still a HIT. NEVER.
It is considered animal abuse obviously legaly not allowed. Besides, it is
hurting them, and will produce absolute jack apart from them being scared of
you, and taking off at the first chance. If you wanna TRAIN (not
"discipline") a cat there are various ways to do it, depending on the
problem. This newsgroup has many excellent solutions to various problems so
you will always get suggestions here.

2.Cats NEED to scratch. You MUST get them a scratch post or two, it is not a
waste of money it is a nececity. If they havent got as scratch post, they
will scratch the furniture, carpets, wallpaper or your record collection.
Pls check this link http://www.northamericanpet.com/thesite.html then go
into CAT FURNITURE which contains a few scratch posts and cat "trees" which
will give you some ideas of what to get

3. Kittens ARE hyperactive, jsut like kids! There is nothing strage or bad
about it. I am surprised you didn;t know. It's their activness that is a
huge charm of kittens. The playfullness, running around, games, jumping etc.
The time will fly fast, and they will naturally calm down ina  few months
and start sleeping more. I suggest that instead of trying to destroy their
childhood by wanting them to calm down, you start watching them, and enjoy
it, as it will pass soon enough. Take a video and pictures, if you really
love cats, you will miss this time of their life greatly soon.

4. Furniture: another one you won;t get much sympathy on from the people
here. Really, you should;ve known cats DO jump on furniture. In fact cats
love to go as high as possible: the trees, the roofs and indoors the top of
cupboards. Cats would live on a ceiling if they could! May I sugegst you
take a look at this book "the Cats House"
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0836221834/qid=1070996285/sr=1-1/r
ef=sr_1_1/002-7379231-4294431?v=glance&s=books
. It is all about people
who adore their cats so much they've acutlaly decorated their house in a way
that cats would love it. Absolutely stunning book for any cat lover.

As for your furniture, what exactly is the problem? If they scratch it get
the scratch post. If they walk over it, well, it's what the furniture is
for: people to sit on, and cats to walk over it  or sleep on it really. How
would you like to live in a home where you were only asked to sit and sleep
on the floor.Not fair nor pleasant is it.

5.The best way to train cats in general are to create a positive or a
negative association. For example if a cat bites your fingers - scream. In
as high pitched noise as you can. cats hate it, so when you do it 3-4 times,
they will create negative association: biting=screaming and will stop doing
it. Or positive association will include some special food or a game. Some
people use bottle of water to spray a cat as a punishment. I strongly
suggest that you do it sparingly and for the things that they really musnt
do like chew electrical cables. Often a strong loud NO and clap of the hands
is enough.

I have 4 cats who I love more then life itself. I'd never hit them, not even
remotely, and have succesfully used all of the above suggestions. My 4 never
bite anyone, have their beds on the top of the cupboard, and stairs on the
wall as in the book I mantioned. They are happy, and sleep too much for my
liking he he.

Really, enjoy your kittens. The time flies.

Gee & Cat Co.

> Hey,
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> BJG
Cheryl - 10 Dec 2003 01:53 GMT
"Gee" <Gee@nospam.com> wrote in news:o4pBb.384$rr3.2379@newsfep4-
glfd.server.ntli.net:

> Really, enjoy your kittens. The time flies.

Hated to snip any of it but I really loved your post!  Excellent points and  
pointers!  :)

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Gee - 10 Dec 2003 03:12 GMT
> "Gee" <Gee@nospam.com> wrote in news:o4pBb.384$rr3.2379@newsfep4-
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> Hated to snip any of it but I really loved your post!  Excellent points and
> pointers!  :)

Thanks Cheryl, I do like to help, as I got myself lots of help here when I
got my first cat and didn;t know enough about them. They are such amazing
animals, and such fun to have around. I used to think I was a dog
person-well that was untill I started living with a cat! :) You can;t help
but completely and obsessivly fall in love with them he he. Now I got 4, and
I only had to stop there because of the size of the flat is not enough for
more :)

Gee
Zachskiaweitszkski - 10 Dec 2003 15:33 GMT
Gee flushed and wrote :

>> "Gee" <Gee@nospam.com> wrote in news:o4pBb.384$rr3.2379@newsfep4-
>> glfd.server.ntli.net:
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>I only had to stop there because of the size of the flat is not enough for
>more :)

Flat hell.  You live in a fridge box, Hoover.
:-)
V?dk?J?ll? - 10 Dec 2003 16:47 GMT
> Flat hell.  You live in a fridge box, Hoover.
> :-)

http://www.dribbleglass.com/images/billboards/hoover.jpg

http://www.backyardhabitats.net/images/Hoover.JPG  awwwwwww cute.

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http://eattheapple.com/hoover/hooverinsnow.jpg

http://www.stephanweitzel.com/fr/oeuvres/hoover/images/hoover_r5_c7.jpg

Which Hoover?

Vj
Zachskiaweitszkski - 10 Dec 2003 19:09 GMT
VødkäJéllÿ flushed and wrote :

>> Flat hell.  You live in a fridge box, Hoover.
>> :-)
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>Which Hoover?

The one that sucks.
:-)
Peter Hucker - 10 Dec 2003 20:40 GMT
> VødkäJéllÿ flushed and wrote :
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> The one that sucks.
> :-)

Nothing sucks like an electrolux.

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V?dk?J?ll? - 10 Dec 2003 21:48 GMT
> The one that sucks.
> :-)

But nothing suckz like an electrolux.

Vj
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Dave F - 10 Dec 2003 21:51 GMT
>> The one that sucks.
>>> -)
>
> But nothing suckz like an electrolux.

My Dyson does.....;-)
V?dk?J?ll? - 10 Dec 2003 23:06 GMT
>>> The one that sucks.
>>>> -)
>>
>> But nothing suckz like an electrolux.
>>
> My Dyson does.....;-)

well ok, I've been to old hat adverts'r'us .

Vj :O)
bjg - 10 Dec 2003 04:57 GMT
> With all due respect, apart from loving the cats, you really need to learn
> more about them, so you don;t ask anymore questions like this again.

If i don't ask i will never know. What would you rather?

> <snip>

Thanks for the info. No need to get agressive, i love cats and would never
harm them. Atleast i want to do the right thing, most people just don't
care and DO hit their cats.
Gee - 10 Dec 2003 12:26 GMT
> > With all due respect, apart from loving the cats, you really need to learn
> > more about them, so you don;t ask anymore questions like this again.
>
> If i don't ask i will never know. What would you rather?

Of course one should ask, and please do, it's better then not knowing . My
point however was to NOT ask questions like THOSE such as is hurting a cat
OK(tapping on the nose) and how to stop them going on the furniture.

> > <snip>
>
> Thanks for the info.

You are welcome.Always happy to help. I myself learned a lot here.

>No need to get agressive

I am sorry if my post was upseting in any way.  I may have been firm and
sharp in my statements, but in no way agressive. The post is although posted
to you, aimed at anyone who reads it, and trust me some people DO believe
hurting animals OR kids is ok. I , and everyone else here will get upset
when any kind of physical "discipline" is mantioned. Trust me, if you hang
around, you will probably be upset that someone else would even consider it.
Maybe I am a bit touchy when it comes to my furrmily but if we don;t protect
those innocent creatures who will.

Only becuase I know you are new to this world that I actually haven;t been
agressive, and in fact spent a sugnificant amount of time trying to help.

, i love cats and would never
> harm them. Atleast i want to do the right thing, most people just don't
> care and DO hit their cats.

Agreed. I wish the law was introduced where people would have to pass a test
if they want to have a kid, or have a pet. You have to pass a test to drive,
so how is that more important then learning how to treat your child or a pet
in advance. This world would be much better place.
Zach - 09 Dec 2003 19:52 GMT
bjg flushed and wrote :

>Hey,
>
>As some know i just got some kittens. I would like to know the best way for
>disciplining them.

Here ya go....

http://tinyurl.com/ygv7

HTH
Agua Girl gave it to me.
Gee - 10 Dec 2003 03:06 GMT
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> HTH
> Agua Girl gave it to me.

You are a sick individual aren;t you. Perhaps if you find some real friends
instead of having only internet in your life....

Troll.
Zachskiaweitszkski - 10 Dec 2003 15:32 GMT
Gee flushed and wrote :

>> bjg flushed and wrote :
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>You are a sick individual aren;t you. Perhaps if you find some real friends
>instead of having only internet in your life....

I luv it when you swallow.  We should nickname you Hoover.
:-)
Julia - 20 Jan 2004 08:51 GMT
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> Troll.

oh my god.  to a person who is empathic, this brings tears.
Robert Buchanan - 20 Jan 2004 13:37 GMT
When Julia shreiks, it sounds something like:

> > > bjg flushed and wrote :
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> oh my god.  to a person who is empathic, this brings tears.

Agreed.  It took me five minutes to stop laughing and dry my cheeks.

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Ryan Lankford - 20 Jan 2004 19:38 GMT
>When Julia shreiks, it sounds something like:
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>Agreed.  It took me five minutes to stop laughing and dry my cheeks.

Robert is correct...good stuff!

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Mogie - 20 Jan 2004 21:09 GMT
Just like children....patience and consistency.

> > > bjg flushed and wrote :
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> oh my god.  to a person who is empathic, this brings tears.
bjg - 10 Dec 2003 04:52 GMT
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> http://tinyurl.com/ygv7

ROFL
lexrex39 - 12 Dec 2003 02:29 GMT
when my cats were doing something really bad, like opening all the cabinet
drawers and flinging the contents on the floor, i would say no in a loud
voice and pick them up gently and remove them to another room.  they knew
they were being disciplined when i said "no," and would glare at me when i
put them in the next room.  sometimes, in a wild act of defiance, they would
beat me back into the next room and run over and begin the offending
behavior again, then run like hell when i tried to pick them up again.  by
this time i was usually laughing, and it would turn into a game.  i have had
them for 13 years now, and they are loving and mostly obedient.  they have
never been hit and never will be.  they also know what "no" means, even if
they choose to ignore it.  cats are really wonderful creatures.

> Hey,
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> BJG
Alton - 12 Dec 2003 02:56 GMT
> Hey,
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>
> BJG

Hi,

What's cute is that many people who have kittens write to public cat
discussions saying they think their kitten is mentally ill   ;-)  That
always makes me smile.  Kittens are full of energy and are excited
about everything!  They'll climb your leg and your draperies and knock
over your potted plants.  They'll break bottles and scoot under the
stove.  Your job is to close off rooms where there may be dangers if
you're not at home or not awake -- and to kittenproof your home until
they get a little older.  Put things like staples, paperclips,
strings, rubberbands in drawers to make sure they don't hurt
themselves -- they'll play with and/or swallow all kinds of things.  
Later on you'll be able to gently start teaching them.  People here
have great advice and experience.  (Sigh, I miss having kittens, but
having oldsters has its own rewards.)   Have fun!

Alt.
http://www.lovethatcat.com
Wendy - 13 Dec 2003 17:30 GMT
bjg <bjg@remove.internode.on.net> wrote in message
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> Hey,
>
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>
> BJG

Hi,

What's cute is that many people who have kittens write to public cat
discussions saying they think their kitten is mentally ill   ;-)  That
always makes me smile.  Kittens are full of energy and are excited
about everything!  They'll climb your leg and your draperies and knock
over your potted plants.  They'll break bottles and scoot under the
stove.  Your job is to close off rooms where there may be dangers if
you're not at home or not awake -- and to kittenproof your home until
they get a little older.  Put things like staples, paperclips,
strings, rubberbands in drawers to make sure they don't hurt
themselves -- they'll play with and/or swallow all kinds of things.
Later on you'll be able to gently start teaching them.  People here
have great advice and experience.  (Sigh, I miss having kittens, but
having oldsters has its own rewards.)   Have fun!

Alt.
http://www.lovethatcat.com

I missed having kittens too. Silly me, now I have one and he's a bandit. He
behaves himself just enough to keep himself out of big trouble lol. Actually
I have been giving him time-outs in the bathroom if he's out of control. I
tell him no and plunk him in the bathroom (with toilet lid closed). I only
leave him in there for a few minutes with the light on - just long enough
for him to settle down a bit. But you're right, "baby" proof the house until
they get older. Make sure they have toys and someplace acceptable to climb
and play.

Wendy
 
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