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Harpsichord - 22 Oct 2004 02:37 GMT
In the last few weeks my five-and-a-half y.o. kitty has taken to
standing in the bathroom and meowing. When I check on her she flips on
her side, purrs and claws playfully at the bathmat, but she won't be
coaxed out, and meows again as soon as I leave (and sometimes starts
meowing again even if I stay). If I take her out of the bathroom and
hold and pet her, she's fine for a while but soon wants to be let
down. About half the time she'll curl up on the carpet near me;
otherwise she goes right back into the bathroom and starts meowing
again. It's a flat, repetitive meow, not howling, not the cry of an
animal who feels caged (she could leave the bathroom any time, the
door's open). She's eating fine, going potty in her box as usual, and
behaving normally in every way except for this. It only happens during
my waking hours; when I'm asleep she's asleep too, on the bed beside
me (or on me). In the evenings before bed she always used to lie on
the carpet at my feet when I worked at the computer, or sleep in my
lap when I watched TV. Now that seems to be changing. (It might be
worth noting that she is truly *standing* in the bathroom in the same
place by the bathtub every time.) What do you suppose she's trying to
tell me? I know by the way she flips and plays with the mat when I
enter the bathroom that she's not in any physical pain. Could she be
sad for some reason? What can I do to get to the bottom of it? I don't
have a lot of extra money for a cat psychologist.

This kitty is never ignored; I talk to her and pet and play with her
all the time. She knows she's my baby. Of course food and water are
always available. Her sister hasn't been doing any unusual meowing and
can be found sleeping in all her usual places--bed, couch, window
sill. My habits haven't changed at all. I'm nonplused! This kitty, the
bathroom meower, has always been the mellower and more mature of the
two, by the way. She hasn't had any hard-to-figure behaviors until
now.

Thanks for any help,
H.
dd - 22 Oct 2004 13:46 GMT
It sounds as if she has successfully trained you to respond to her
meows and give her lots of up-close attention when she wants it. To
break this habit, try ignoring her when she meows. Then after time has
passed and she's mellowed out, then pet her or give her a Pounce treat.

I have a little cat that used to lick the window shades  at the head of
the bed every morning--rasp, rasp, rasp. It woke me up, and I assumed
he was hungry and couldn't wait for breakfast, so I gave him a treat to
calm him down (and to keep him from destroying the shade), and then I
went downstairs and gave him breakfast. At first, I thought that there
was something tasty in the shade, but when we bought new shades, I
discovered that wasn't it at all--I'd been reinforcing his behavior so
he associated licking the blind with a food reward.

Another of our cats stands in the bathtub and yowls. That's her way of
telling us to turn on the faucet so she can either have a drink or swat
the drops. I stopped indulging her, but she's really got my husband
trained to respond.

> In the last few weeks my five-and-a-half y.o. kitty has taken to
> standing in the bathroom and meowing. When I check on her she flips on
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> Thanks for any help,
> H.
Lackadaisy - 31 Oct 2004 19:32 GMT
> It sounds as if she has successfully trained you to respond to her
> meows and give her lots of up-close attention when she wants it. To
> break this habit, try ignoring her when she meows. Then after time has
> passed and she's mellowed out, then pet her or give her a Pounce treat.

The easiest people for cats to train are cat people.

Here at Geno's Cat Motel, we are not ignorant of their devices; and we have
learned which ploys to  ignore and which to heed  Those attention-getting
antics such as Harpsichord mentions and those which you mention below are
typically ignored unless we detect that someone is going beyond the bounds
of civility and actually tearing something up.  Then, a soft-sole house
slipper held in a menacing posture is the unexpected reaction the cat gets.
Believe it or not, they are also easy to train.

My oldest calico spends the last happy years of her life in my office where
she can go in and out onto a screened in patio and not have to associate
with the commoners who live in the other part of the hotel.  When she wants
attention, she has learned to utter a mournful cry in a most urgent tone of
voice because it brings me onto the scene.  Of course, I know it is all a
ruse, but because of her age, I pander to her--and I'm convinced that she is
none the wiser.

--Geno

> I have a little cat that used to lick the window shades  at the head of
> the bed every morning--rasp, rasp, rasp. It woke me up, and I assumed
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> > Thanks for any help,
> > H.
Charles Minus - 23 Oct 2004 03:03 GMT
Hey Ms. H.  That's a cute story.  I think it's safe to say that your cat
is fine.  Cats love to play with string, and I think she's pulling yours.  
But that's why we love 'em.

My cats have weird bathroom behaviour also, as I've noted in this forum
before.  Who knows?  Certainly not some self-styled "cat psychologist."

On the more practical side, have you washed that bath mat lately?  Or
used ammonia based cleanser around it.  Cats love that stuff.

Relax and enjoy it.

Minus

> In the last few weeks my five-and-a-half y.o. kitty has taken to
> standing in the bathroom and meowing.
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> Thanks for any help,
> H.
Mimi Forsyth - 23 Oct 2004 03:21 GMT
Cats train us so easily! I have a cat that barges into the bathroom demanding
attention. She knows I am immobilized and cannot chase or catch her, so she is
"safe".

www.mimiforsyth.com
Jodie - 23 Oct 2004 18:05 GMT
LOL.  I had a cat that had me trained, too.  He would come in and nestle in
the pants down around my ankles, even if I was there for mere seconds.  Then
I would feel guilty about getting up because he'd look so cute and
comfortable.  So I'd actually sit there for a few minutes (finished my
business), before flushing, causing him to scamper off.  Most of the time,
however, this whole process would take place under a minute, yet he'd still
continually make the effort to nestle in.

Cats can be so weird!  And make us weird by association!!
 
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