I have had "Meggy" for about two years (since she was abandoned at 10
days old) she used to be a nice companion but since I moved six months
ago she's become very aloof,doesn't like to be held or put in my lap.
Three months ago a stray male cat about 6 months old came by and I
took him in and he's quite the opposite,loves being held and sleeps
next to me when I sleep. Two questions:.. 1) These "kids" don't get
along at all, If "Sneaky" gets close to "Meggy" she starts hissing and
then fighting begins as if she's saying "you come closer and your
gonna get it" Anyway to get them to get along? 2) How can I get the
"old" Meggy back to being the affectionate cat she used to be and not
be so aloof?

Thanks
Barry