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How long should it take for 2 cats to learn to get along? It has been a month and it seems to be getting worse. Is there anything I can do to get my kitties to at lease tolerate eachother? I am new to this nwsgroup so any help would be nice!
Gene Royer - 26 Apr 2004 00:45 GMT > How long should it take for 2 cats to learn to get along? It has been a > month and it seems to be getting worse. Is there anything I can do to get > my kitties to at lease tolerate eachother? I am new to this nwsgroup so any > help would be nice! Some cats just don't like other cats. Same as people. I have 25.
My oldest is a 16-year old calico who is reclusive and does not get along with the younger, newer feline residents in the house. Two years ago I put her in my office with another younger female who is likewise a recluse; and to this day the two of them separate themselves by as much space as the 12 X 16 room will allow. They do not fight, but are both fiercely (hissively) protective of their own precious areas of possession. The room's size and ample window space seems to satisfy each cat's needs, as socialization is not one of them.
In your case, I suggest you give the cats as much room as possible and let dominance prevail. Although there *are* exceptions, cats seldom injure one another in territorial disputes (unless breeding rights are challenged--as the weaker will seek an exit, and the aggressor will usually only pursue long enough to firmly establish dominance.
In fact, often until that point is settled, the two will posture like schoolyard bullies during recess. I have learned not to intervene when a ruckus starts--unless it appears that severe damage is imminent--but to let them work it out. It may take a while; and then it may be over in the blink of an eye. Following that, toleration may be the best you can expect.
--Geno<new here also>Royer www.churchboardleadership.com www.integrisdream.com/Generoyer
Gee - 26 Apr 2004 02:43 GMT > How long should it take for 2 cats to learn to get along? It has been a > month and it seems to be getting worse. Is there anything I can do to get > my kitties to at lease tolerate eachother? I am new to this nwsgroup so any > help would be nice! Make them smell the same with some tuna brine. Cats work on smells so generaly the intolerance with a newcomer occurs cos they smell different therefore like an intruder on the territory. Wipe some brine on their coats, and I'd say opposite to previous poster, keep them in the same room. With some luck they might lick each other off.
Also, feed them together and nearby. Give them treats only when they are in the same room. Play with them only when they are together in the room. Let them create some positive associations when other cat is around. Eventually they will establish who's the boss and the other will be happy being second in command. They might never love each other, but will learn to tolerate.
Gee
Gene Royer - 26 Apr 2004 10:31 GMT > > How long should it take for 2 cats to learn to get along? It has been a > > month and it seems to be getting worse. Is there anything I can do to get [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] > > Gee Personally, I don't like to have smelly, salty cats running around the house--getting the stuff on everything they rub against. But everyone's different, aren't we?
--Geno<cleanliness is next to Godliness>Royer
Gee - 26 Apr 2004 18:37 GMT > Personally, I don't like to have smelly, salty cats running around the > house--getting the stuff on everything they rub against. But everyone's > different, aren't we? > > --Geno<cleanliness is next to Godliness>Royer So Geno, how long do you think tuna brine will last between 2 cats who adore to eat it? They will lick it off within an hour, and the smell we humans can smell will dissapear with it. Cats can however smell much better then us and the smell for them will last longer, which is the purpose of this excercise, that they smell the same.
I'd personally much rather prefer tuna smell for day or two, then my 2 babies fighting for the rest of their lives. But like you said, everyone is different, aren't we.
Gee
Gene Royer - 26 Apr 2004 19:13 GMT > > Personally, I don't like to have smelly, salty cats running around the > > house--getting the stuff on everything they rub against. But everyone's [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > > Gee It is highly doubtful that your "2 babies" will fight for the rest of their lives.
And you're right. Your cats prolly do smell better than you.
Damn I'm funny.
--Geno<wot's this thread about anyway>Royer
Gee - 26 Apr 2004 21:49 GMT > > > Personally, I don't like to have smelly, salty cats running around the > > > house--getting the stuff on everything they rub against. But everyone's [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > So Geno, how long do you think tuna brine will last between 2 cats who > adore to eat it? They will lick it off within an hour, and the smell we humans
> can smell will dissapear with it. Cats can however smell much better then us and
> > the smell for them will last longer, which is the purpose of this excercise,
> > that they smell the same. > > > > I'd personally much rather prefer tuna smell for day or two, then my 2 > > babies fighting for the rest of their lives. But like you said, everyone is
> > different, aren't we. > > > > Gee
> It is highly doubtful that your "2 babies" will fight for the rest of their lives.
Hve you not read the part where the original poster stated that things are getting worse?
> And you're right. Your cats prolly do smell better than you . Damn I'm funny.
No, you aren't. You just sound like a troll now cos you don't like the taste of your own medicine and are turning nasty. We are here to discuss cats, so leave your childish wannabe put downs at home, and talk cats, or be ignored. EZ.
Gee
Gene Royer - 26 Apr 2004 23:47 GMT > > > > Personally, I don't like to have smelly, salty cats running around the > > > > house--getting the stuff on everything they rub against. But [quoted text clipped - 34 lines] > > Gee Gee whiz, Gee. Lighten up gal. You've left your sense of humor in the litter box. But like I said, everyone is different. Some people can take a joke and some can't.
--Geno<having more fun than most Katmandu>Royer
Princess Pashie - 26 Apr 2004 16:38 GMT Cats can be very odd about new cats in the house. We had a male cat and a female, neutered of cource, that we raised from kittens. The male, Bobby, died. The female, Pasha, pined for at least six months. We got a female kitten to keep her company. Two years on, they still hate each other. They don't often fight, and somotimes they sit together, but they don't tolerate company at the food bowls, and Pasha won't let the other, Susie, sit on my bed.
M.C. Mullen - 26 Apr 2004 17:48 GMT | Cats can be very odd about new cats in the house. We had a male cat | and a female, neutered of cource, that we raised from kittens. The [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] | sit together, but they don't tolerate company at the food bowls, and | Pasha won't let the other, Susie, sit on my bed. Not to worry - there has been a research that married couples live longer - even if they don't get on ...
Carola
Amanda Jones - 03 May 2004 19:47 GMT > How long should it take for 2 cats to learn to get along? It has been a > month and it seems to be getting worse. Is there anything I can do to > get > my kitties to at lease tolerate eachother? I am new to this nwsgroup > so any > help would be nice! In my parents' case, 8 years and counting. The two have never, ever got on!
We had a white cat called Lulu, our tardiness in getting Lulu spayed meant we had 4 kittens. We kept one, a long-haired black kitten called Beth. They were very close, ate together, slept together, played together, all the rest of it.
Lulu died aged 6 we got another tortoiseshell kitten to keep Beth company, called officially Cleopatra and in practice invariably "The Little Cat".
The assumption was that, because Beth and Lulu were so close, and Beth was missing Lulu so much, that a kitten would cheer her up.
We were very, very wrong. They loathe each other to this day. They rarely actually notice each other, pretending not to see another cat there, but if unexpectedly face to face, hiss at each other and run off.
Amanda
M.C. Mullen - 03 May 2004 22:59 GMT | We had a white cat called Lulu, our tardiness in getting Lulu spayed meant | we had 4 kittens. I have heard so much about white cats that I am now wondering and I'm well prepared to accept that I may be wrong. But: Is it true that pure white cats are mostly females? Is it true that they usually have blue eyes? And is it true that white cats often have defects like getting cancer or being deaf?
And - just for curiosity: Who in this group has got a pure white cat? What is it like?
Carola
Flippy - 04 May 2004 00:32 GMT > | We had a white cat called Lulu, our tardiness in getting Lulu spayed meant > | we had 4 kittens. [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > > Carola I have a pure-white Persian cat who came to us 10 months ago. She is deaf and has odd-color eyes: one blue, one gold. You can see pictures of her here: http://www.flippyscatpage.com/tiffany-pictures02.html
 Signature Flippy in Melbourne, Australia. My Cats: http://www.flippyscatpage.com
Amanda Jones - 04 May 2004 04:15 GMT > | We had a white cat called Lulu, our tardiness in getting Lulu spayed > meant > | we had 4 kittens.
> And - just for curiosity: > Who in this group has got a pure white cat? > What is it like? Lulu was almost pure white - apart from one patch of black about the size of a 5p piece under her tail.
She had green eyes, and was a very good mother. She wasn't deaf or anything, but died of sudden catastrophic kidney failure - fine one evening, sluggish the next morning, really ill by lunchtime so we took her to the vet, and dead by the evening.
Amanda
Gee - 05 May 2004 16:12 GMT "M.C. Mullen" <mcmullen@freesurf.invalid.ch> wrote in message news:4096c5d3$0$706
> Is it true that pure white cats are mostly females? I dunno. I heard something like this about finger cats who are mostly...males??? Not sure.
> Is it true that they usually have blue eyes? Blue, green, gold as well as one of each :)
> And is it true that white cats often have defects like getting cancer or > being deaf? White cats and dogs are often deaf.
Gee
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