I'm going to say I dissagree with the punishing never works. There are
different forms of punishment, not necesarily hitting or striking them. You
can use a water bottle and squirt them. And with humans, you can ground a
child, or as the do, lock up an adult in prison. I worked in an animal
shelter for a few years. I seen dogs and cats both that were beaten bloody
but still loved the person who did it and would die trying to save them.
Animals love unconditionally...part of why we love them so much I think.
> My kitty was doing the same thing. I cleaned the spot with a cleaner, then
> covered the area with white vinegar, and placed a small tray of dry food
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> I'm going to say I dissagree with the punishing never works. There are
> different forms of punishment, not necesarily hitting or striking them. You
> can use a water bottle and squirt them.
That may work but only if you do it AS they do whatever you consider wrong.
If they go we on your bed at 2pm, then you squirt them at 6pm when you get
home from work, they will NOT associate the squirting with weeing, but what
current action they are doing, which could be cuddling up to you. You don't;
want your cat to think that is wrong. So watering can is not really
"punishment", but a training method which doesn't in any way harm anyone,and
is ONLY used to correct a present mistake,by creating a negative association
with a present action.
>And with humans, you can ground a
> child, or as the do, lock up an adult in prison.
It may be so, but how many children you know that didn;t resent a parent for
grounding, and gone out through the window while grounded; or how many
adults you know who came out of prison to become a better person? As far as
I know, once in prison, a person will only become worse once it gets out,
and for no other reason, because they can;t get a job cos of the record so
have to continue the wrong way. I strongly agree with locking away the bad
guys, don;t get me wrong, I just don;t think that prisons and grounding
teaches them the right lesson. I can go elaborate on the subject for hours,
which I don't; have, but I believe strongly in positive associatiations,
rather then negative, for either animals or humans. Having goals, rewards
and appreciation always works miracles.
> I worked in an animal
> shelter for a few years. I seen dogs and cats both that were beaten bloody
> but still loved the person who did it and would die trying to save them.
> Animals love unconditionally...part of why we love them so much I think.
I believe that to be true with dogs. Dogs Gods are their humans, and no
matter how they treat them, they will still be their Gods. As for the cats,
as far as I have read, seen and heard, cats, if they are not happy, will
leave and find a new home, or go astray, rather then put up with any abuse.
This is actually the first time I heard anyone say that cats will stay
despite it, which surprises me, but as I have no personal experience with
the thing like that, I would like to hear more about your and other people's
opinions/experience on this subject.
Gee