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Nancy Prentice - 17 Apr 2006 06:53 GMT Am considering leaving my 2 indoor cats at home alone while I go on a 7 day vacation. Nobody available to do the pet-sitter thing. If they have the run of the house, plenty of food and water, extra litter boxes, toys, and each other -- do you think that this is a feasable plan? I don't see any problem other than the fact that they will be a bit "anti-social" for a day or two once I return. Cats seem to get over it much easier than people!
Laraine Ruccolo-Lohnes - 17 Apr 2006 15:03 GMT I WOULD NEVER LEAVE THE CATS ALONE FOR MORE THAN TWO DAYS!!! DID YOU CONSIDER A AT HOTEL? THEY WILL PUT THEM TOGETHER AND IT'S NOT THAT EXPENSIVE. WHENTHEY ARE LEFT ALONE FOR TOO LONG THEY COULD FIGHT AND GET INJURED. I HAVE EIGHT CATS AND THEY ARE MY KID. I JUST THINK IT'S TOO RISKY LEAVING THEM ALONE FOR SEVEN DAYS, I KNOW I WOULD' NOT ENJOY MY VACATION!!
LARAINE
Magic Mood Jeep© - 17 Apr 2006 16:31 GMT > Am considering leaving my 2 indoor cats at home alone while I go on a > 7 day vacation. Nobody available to do the pet-sitter thing. If they [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > bit "anti-social" for a day or two once I return. Cats seem to get > over it much easier than people! If you're gone for 7 days - what about burglars/robbers? Fire? Storms that damage the house (be it hurricane, tornado or just high winds & rain, hail or what)? The kitties could be injured, killed or escape!
I would be too worried to enjoy the vacation if I left them home alone! Even for 2 nights (did that, and we worried the whole drive home).
If there's no friends or relatives to look in on them on a daily basis, consider hiring a professional pet-sitter, or taking them to be boarded at a reputable kennel that accepts cats (and keeps them separate from the doggie area).
blkcatgal - 17 Apr 2006 23:55 GMT I would never leave my cats alone for more than 2 days let alone 7. If you don't have any friends or family that could check on them while you are gone, please consider hiring a professional pet-sitter.
S.
> Am considering leaving my 2 indoor cats at home alone while I go on a 7 > day vacation. Nobody available to do the pet-sitter thing. If they have [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > "anti-social" for a day or two once I return. Cats seem to get over it > much easier than people! abby8226 - 19 Apr 2006 22:35 GMT Please don't do this too them. How are you going to give them fresh water. Would you like to drink stale water. Also theitr litter boxes should be cleaned daily. Please consider a petsitter!!!
> Am considering leaving my 2 indoor cats at home alone while I go on a 7 > day vacation. Nobody available to do the pet-sitter thing. If they have [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > "anti-social" for a day or two once I return. Cats seem to get over it > much easier than people! AZ Nomad - 22 Apr 2006 00:00 GMT >Am considering leaving my 2 indoor cats at home alone while I go on a 7 >day vacation. Nobody available to do the pet-sitter thing. If they have [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] >"anti-social" for a day or two once I return. Cats seem to get over it >much easier than people! 7 days is too long. Even 4 is pushing it.
Don't you know anybody at all? Any friends? Any neighbors who don't hate you?
I've on several occasions had a neighbor catsit. I'll usually bring a gift back from vacation as "payment." Or leave a case of beer in the fridge. Depends on the neighbor.
Nancy Prentice - 22 Apr 2006 03:11 GMT Thanks to everyone who responded with your opinions.
I have a security alarm system which nobody (whom I know) wants to touch - so they have declined to check-in on my 2 cats while I am away. I have one neighbor who is willing to help put -- he is an alcohalic and often drunk (don't trust him).
Other than your concerns about "stale" water and "dirty" litter boxes, I am still not hearing any good resons to be fearful about leaving my 2 healthy, adult cats alone at home for a week. As far as house fires, lightening strikes etc. -- those scenarios would be tragic even if I was home. So I wonder if your are transferring your human dislike of being alone onto cats? My cats seem to sleep about 60% of the time any way.
- Nancy
Anna - 22 Apr 2006 04:13 GMT >I have a security alarm system which nobody (whom I know) wants to touch >- so they have declined to check-in on my 2 cats while I am away. I have Pet sitters are used to going to houses that have alarm systems. Your city must have some pet sitters for hire that have gone to homes with alarm systems; it's not hard to punch in a code to stop the alarm from going off, it's a very easy procedure, I do it every day. They also do other things such as pick up mail and water plants. What about your mail? If it piles up in the mail box it is obvious to thieves that you are away.
>Other than your concerns about "stale" water and "dirty" litter boxes, I >am still not hearing any good resons to be fearful about leaving my 2 >healthy, adult cats alone at home for a week. As far as house fires, Believe it or not but not cleaning a litter box for 7 days is stressful to your cats. Also, would if something happened to them health wise while you were gone?
>lightening strikes etc. -- those scenarios would be tragic even if I was >home. So I wonder if your are transferring your human dislike of being But if you were home if these things happened, you would be there to get your cats out of the house.
>alone onto cats? My cats seem to sleep about 60% of the time any way. They would be stressed out if you left them alone with no human contact for 7 days. I don't know anyone who would leave their pets alone for that long without worrying about them. Most people want to make sure they're okay and they do so by having someone come and check on them.
deci - 22 Apr 2006 14:58 GMT >Other than your concerns about "stale" water and "dirty" litter boxes, I >am still not hearing any good resons to be fearful about leaving my 2 >healthy, adult cats alone at home for a week. And these aren't good reasons????
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Veloise - 22 Apr 2006 16:46 GMT Nancy wrote:
> Thanks to everyone who responded with your opinions. > [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > home. So I wonder if your are transferring your human dislike of being > alone onto cats? My cats seem to sleep about 60% of the time any way. I run off and leave the kids regularly due to the demands of gainful employment.
On a daily basis, there's a bowl under the leaky faucet in the tub. Older kitty discovered the leak on her own; I use the shower and replace the bowl. Viola, fresh water.
If I were leaving for a week, I'd establish a couple more litter boxes. (The nice thing about upgrades: I saved all the old basic litter pans, so there are quite a few to choose from.) I don't scoop (actually, tip; both daily boxes are the "roll-a-way" type) on a daily basis. The kids would likely use the cleanest box each time.
My living quarters could burn down, blow up or away, or whatever any day of the week. Since I live alone, there'd be no way to know if a tree fell on the roof or a lake moved into the basement until I got back.
Enjoy your trip. Take a cat with you if you can (this can be really fun).
HTH
--Karen D.
Nancy Prentice - 23 Apr 2006 01:57 GMT My thanks to Karen D. for responding with a bit less emotionalism than the other folks who entered this discussion about "leaving cats home alone" while on vacation. I would like to hear from some other cat people who have successfully done this without any problems --- to balance out this discussion.
I plan on leaving 6 clean litter boxes in my basement on the day that I leave for a week in Ireland! Figure that my 2 feline girls will have plenty of choices there. Normally I clean their boxes every other day. Knowing cats, they'll use all the different boxes and things won't get too filthy.
The fresh water issue ... well they will have many bowls of water set out so they won't go thirsty. Hey, I'd drink it. The bottled water that I drink all the time isn't what I would call "fresh" either. Did you ever think of that? Perhaps cats would prefer aerated water but when you are thirsty you will drink what you've got.
About stress - STRESS for my cats is traveling in the car, going to the vet, STAYING at the vet clinic, strangers in the house. Stress from boredom is the least of my concerns for them -- they might scratch up the carpet when I am gone (oh yeah, that's happened when I'm at work!). I intend to "cat-proof" my house before leaving = remove all house plants, plastic bags (which one cat likes to chew), un-plug electrical cords. Am leaving a couple of empty cardborad boxes and a paper bag or two (for playground equiptment) in addition to all their cat toys.
My perception of this is that being left comfortably at home for one week is much less stress than being boarded in a kennel or at a veterinary clinic in a cage. If I return home and discover that somebody pee-ed in the wrong place because she was bored --- well, I'll just clean it up!
By the way, these feline girls have been home alone for 4 days at a time previous to this without any problems at all. We were all just glad to see each other when I returned - no hostile cat feelings involved (they really aren't like people).
- Nancy
clfr@adelphia.net - 23 Apr 2006 04:01 GMT > Am considering leaving my 2 indoor cats at home alone while I go on a 7 > day vacation. Nobody available to do the pet-sitter thing. If they have [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > "anti-social" for a day or two once I return. Cats seem to get over it > much easier than people! When you say no one is available, I take it you mean neighbors, friends, acquaintances, family, etc?
Look in the Yellow Pages for a professional pet sitter, or bette ryet, ask your vet's office if they have a list of recommended professional pet sitters (perhaps ones they use themselves, when out of town). Not only will the cats be taken care off - fresh food & water, litter scooped, cats played with, etc., but a pet sitter will take in the mail, water any plants, & so on.
Cathy
abby8226 - 23 Apr 2006 04:58 GMT Possibly just give them, to your local Humane Soceity. If they were my 2 cars I woud worry about them already getting on the plane. The Humane Soceity should pretty much tell you what you are doing the inhumane thing anyway. You have no one- or too cheap to hire? Teenager in school- anyone!!!
> Am considering leaving my 2 indoor cats at home alone while I go on a 7 > day vacation. Nobody available to do the pet-sitter thing. If they have [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > "anti-social" for a day or two once I return. Cats seem to get over it > much easier than people! Veloise - 23 Apr 2006 05:08 GMT > Possibly just give them, to your local Humane Soceity. Oh, please.
>If they were my 2 > cars I woud worry about them already getting on the plane. The Humane > Soceity should pretty much tell you what you are doing the inhumane thing > anyway. You have no one- or too cheap to hire? > Teenager in school- anyone!!! Today I was gone for several hours! I went out and played music with my two-legged friends, then ran some errands. When I got home the furry friends were glad to see me, and me them, but... ...pets are a part of our lives, not the entire sum of our beings.
HTH
--Karen D.
Nancy Prentice - 23 Apr 2006 05:57 GMT Thanks Karen for your rational comments about our pets.
It might surprise the hysterics who are sure that I am a torturer of animals to know --- that I have had several healthy, happy feline friends over the past 35 years who have lived contendedly as indoor cats while I (a single womin) have worked full time.
Small towns like mine don't have professional pet sitters available to hire - that seems to be more of a big city phenomenon. I would really be worried if I left home without using the security alarm system - just so some acquaintance could peak-in on my cats once or twice. I think that both of my cats would probably hide if a stranger came inside the house unexpectedly.
- Nancy
grawun@comcast.net - 26 Apr 2006 14:52 GMT > Am considering leaving my 2 indoor cats at home alone while I go on a 7 > day vacation. Nobody available to do the pet-sitter thing. I would not do it. Any number of emergencies could come up. Fire, storms, broken washing machine hose, that kind of thing . But also health emergencies. A blocked urinary tract, a wound that gets infected, a lot of things. You may not find professional pet sitters by looking in the yellow pages but check at your vet or look at the bulletin board at the pet store.There are knowledgeable animal lovers who take on the occasional job.
*beverley-jane* - 30 Apr 2006 08:23 GMT just read this post about leaving 2 cats for 7 days.... here's my 1st response to this post..... WHAT THE !!!!! am i more shocked and/or disgusted about what kind of animal owner would even question the idea, LET ALONE POST IT! I MEAN C'MON... common sense should tell you NO! (as i'm still in awe that a person would even post this question, can only lead me to believe they are lacking common sense totally) or is it the other post by this person replying to all the replys from everyone where she commented about NOT seeing any good reasons so far for not leaving them alone (again... WTF? do you know how to read? good grief! if not, the amount of people who replied to your post alone should be some type of warning sign to not leave them ESPECIALLY when all the replys were against your idea) at 1st i considered perhaps you might be new to cats (or any animal) and honestly didn't know any better... but when you blatantly reply to everyone that you aren't seeing ENOUGH GOOD REASONS to NOT leave them alone.... (HELLO ALL THE REPLIES WERE AGAINST THE IDEA) i just figured that you are totally ignorant!!!! you should really read up about your animals and gain some very useful knowledge of your pets.... perhaps you'll have the time to read during your vacation, meanwhile your cats will be at the least of things that will and could happen STRESSING out about you abandoning them
im stressed just reading your post
> Am considering leaving my 2 indoor cats at home alone while I go on a 7 > day vacation. Nobody available to do the pet-sitter thing. If they have [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > "anti-social" for a day or two once I return. Cats seem to get over it > much easier than people! Nancy Prentice - 07 May 2006 17:26 GMT Do cats really think and feel like humans? I don't think so. I also do not think that they calculate time in the manner that we humans do. This is said with all due respect for felines -- I don't see my cats as little mini-people. They are more resilient in many ways and I admire them for that connection with their wildish ancestors.
Am especially interested in the strong emotions expressed by those of you who are adamant about stressed out cats, left at home (inside their familiar house/territory) for a week (with adequate food and water). I suspect that the abandonment issues which you mention are coming from your own personal fears - seriously. Have you considered that? Have you ever heard of the term "anthropomorphizing"?
I want you to get rational here ... think about all the people who turn their cats loose outside every day/night, to roam where they please, encountering who knows what? THAT is what I call subjecting your pet to potential serious distress. Think about all the cats that are left outside in cold, nasty weather etc. - that seems distressful to me. Being a little bored for a week in a familiar, safe, comfortable environment is not a big deal in my estimation.
Am encouraging some positive comments from people who have successfully left cats at home alone while away on vacation. Would like to hear about your strategy concerning food, water etc.
-- Nancy
Anna - 07 May 2006 22:15 GMT >you who are adamant about stressed out cats, left at home (inside their >familiar house/territory) for a week (with adequate food and water). I [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] >left cats at home alone while away on vacation. Would like to hear about >your strategy concerning food, water etc. You've had many people give you several excellent reasons why it is not a good idea to leave them alone for 7 days, but you choose not to listen to anyone. Only ONE person thought it would be okay and she said she left her cats alone for several HOURS at times, not DAYS. Then you come back on and call us "hysterics"; pretty insulting to call people names who are taking time out of thier day to help you with your question. So why in the world do you say you're still interested in hearing from people who have left their cats alone for a week or more, obviously if you haven't had a positive reply in 3 weeks since you originally posted, then not many people on here have done it. Unlike you, most of us would be worried to leave them alone for that long.
Veloise - 07 May 2006 23:25 GMT > You've had many people give you several excellent reasons why it is not a > good idea to leave them alone for 7 days, but you choose not to listen to > anyone. Only ONE person thought it would be okay and she said she left her > cats alone for several HOURS at times, not DAYS. ... Actually, when I wrote: "I run off and leave the kids regularly due to the demands of gainful employment..." I did not add "for several days at a time," which is the case.
Longest work-related trip was ten days. They (one existing, one former) were very happy to see me, as they'd managed to drop a play ball into the water dish and couldn't get it out.
More recently I took a ten-day trip (driving) and took the newer kitty with me, where we learned about camping, thunderstorms, car travel, what fun it is to look out the window (longhorns! bats! we went to Texas), mom's relatives, doggy cousins, and more.
The older kitty stayed home, and I had a friend drop in to play "Spot," the laser pointer. My human friend is a dear and I love her to pieces, but she decided that the animal running to greet her was starving. So older kitty blew up like a balloon and was hugely fat when we wanderers got back.
Same thing happened on my first 4-day trip last fall; although both of them were home this time, they got bored and ate all the food. I left two cats who were reasonably-sized, and returned to two fat cats. I don't see a solution other than getting a roommate or other human family member. (The kids often follow me around, scream at me through the window if I dare go outside and sit on the porch or collect the mail or take my bike out. Become a recluse for the sake of the cats, yeah right.)
For that matter, I live alone, not many people know my street address, and there's no one who sees/hears from me every day. I could be dead on the bathroom floor for weeks. But my cats would be happy!
HTH
--Karen D.
Harry - 09 May 2006 21:04 GMT Nancy Prentice Wrote:
> Am considering leaving my 2 indoor cats at home alone while I go on a 7 > day vacation. Nobody available to do the pet-sitter thing. If the [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > "anti-social" for a day or two once I return. Cats seem to get over it > much easier than people! I couldnt handle that, my wife and I took a 5 day cruise and worrie about our kitties most of the time even though my mother inlaw checke on them every day and spent the night a few times. Sad to say when w got home from our cruise my cat Riley looked very thin, took him to ve a few times, changed vets and found out he had kidney failure an wasting disease, we had to put him down 2 months after. Needless t say I will never leave my cats for more than 1 day
-- Harry
Nancy Prentice - 11 May 2006 04:05 GMT Harry - Do you think that your 5 day absence had something to do with your cat's kidney failure???? If so, could you explain how?
- Nancy
Anna - 11 May 2006 18:59 GMT >Harry - Do you think that your 5 day absence had something to do with >your cat's kidney failure???? If so, could you explain how? My male cat's urethra became blocked with crystals unbeknownst to us. He couldn't urinate at all one day so we took him into the vet immediately. The toxins build up in the blood stream and the cat can suffer irreparable kidney damage and die within 24-48 hours. If he had been left home alone for days, he would have died.
Dori - 12 May 2006 16:40 GMT Nancy Prentice Wrote:
> Harry - Do you think that your 5 day absence had something to do with > your cat's kidney failure???? If so, could you explain how? > > - Nancy HOW is simple. There was nobody around to notice a difference in tha cat's normal functions and take it to the vet immediately.
Nancy, I think you're just looking for justification and the blessing of others to do what you know in your heart is not in your cats' bes interests. So you get defensive and start calling names ("emotional irrational," etc.) when you aren't getting the response you want. S just who is emotional, really??? It seems to me the only thing you ar not emotional about is your cats' welfare. Where is your passion fo that?
I pay a pet sitter $15 a trip to look after my two cats when we ar out of town. She and her family come over every afternoon, play wit the cats, clean the litter boxes, feed and water them, pick up mail an papers, water plants, makes sure the cats habits are normal (litter bo leavings are normal) and that they are acting healthy, check and mak sure there is no mechanical problem in the house, they even feed th birds outside. She has all the info regarding the vet and emergenc numbers. Then she leaves me a written report on how the visits went. M shy cat, she reports, is still a "little shy" but the other cat "reall enjoyed the attention." Just like normal for my cats. If you can affor a trip overseas, then obviously you can afford $15 - $20 a day for a pe sitter. Cats are happiest in their own home, but they are not happ being left alone for days on end with no contact with "their" human (or a good substitute). They will adapt very nicely to a good pe sitter. As others said, contact your vet for recommendations Oftentimes, their technicians and assistants will do this as a way t earn a little extra money, and they really love working with animals And your alarm system would not be a barrier to these folks.
The bottom line is, if you are not willing to do what is right for you cats, maybe you should be asking why you have them in the first place They are living creatures who in their way love you and show it b giving you head bumps, nuzzling up to you when you're reading or on th computer, snuggling up to you at night, mewing at you when you're fixin a meal, rubbing up against your legs when you are sitting at the table licking your hand or face, crawling into your lap or sitting next t you or on the back of your chair/sofa when you're watching TV. Thes are all cat ways of saying, "I love you." They wouldn't do any of thes things if they didn't care about you. The question is, do you care a much about them????
-- Dori
Nancy Prentice - 17 May 2006 01:56 GMT Dori - Would you please explain how it is that you KNOW what cats are feeling when they are at home alone?
- Thanks, Nancy
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