Our rescue group recently had a call from a distraught new mom. Her
cat of 10 years, Beavis, has taken serious exception to their new baby
when it cries and has literally attacked her several times, inflicting
some nasty bites. She thinks Beavis is trying to attack the baby, but
she's always put herself between the cat and the baby.
After spending a few minutes talking, I realized that this family had
done everything you're supposed to do to prepare a cat for a baby, and
that they really want to keep Beavis. But I haven't a clue what to
recommend, and the owner/mom is genuinely frightened. Plus, the cat
is 10 years old, which makes him a difficult rehoming prospect.
Any recommendations what the owners can do to chill out Beavis - or
does anyone know of a "cat shrink" or animal behaviorist in the
Dallas/Ft Worth, TX area?
TIA,
hairball
Mary - 28 Oct 2003 03:23 GMT
>Any recommendations what the owners can do to chill out Beavis - or
>does anyone know of a "cat shrink" or animal behaviorist in the
>Dallas/Ft Worth, TX area?
I'd give him extra love, catnip if he likes it, play with him a lot to use up
his energy, extra treats. I'm sure they've tried that. There's always a tiny
bit of kitty valium just for a little while until he gets used to the baby.
Maybe he thinks the baby crying is the baby's way of growling/meowing at him so
he's defensive? or maybe he thinks the baby is acting defensive to mom with his
crying?
m. L. Briggs - 28 Oct 2003 06:41 GMT
>Our rescue group recently had a call from a distraught new mom. Her
>cat of 10 years, Beavis, has taken serious exception to their new baby
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>hairball
If it between the baby's safety and the cat -- no contest. This is
one area when I would say "goodbye" to the cat. MLB
Ray Ban - 28 Oct 2003 19:17 GMT
> >Our rescue group recently had a call from a distraught new mom. Her
> >cat of 10 years, Beavis, has taken serious exception to their new baby
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> If it between the baby's safety and the cat -- no contest. This is
> one area when I would say "goodbye" to the cat. MLB
I won't go that far just yet. I'll teach the cat a lesson first, then
lock it up in a spare bathroom for half a day without food.
-L. - 28 Oct 2003 08:50 GMT
> Our rescue group recently had a call from a distraught new mom. Her
> cat of 10 years, Beavis, has taken serious exception to their new baby
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> hairball
Feliaway and a call to a feline specialist for a consult, asap.
http://www.abvp.com/diplosearch1.htm
Put "feline" into the practice field, and search by state.
There are also tents you can put over the crib to keep the cat out, if
that's a problem.
HTH, and best of luck,
-L.
Barb 1 - 28 Oct 2003 18:31 GMT
When I first brought my new baby home my Siamese who was about 9 years old
at the time let out a hiss when I walked in holding the baby in a blanket.
She had attacked me several times when I had come home with the scent of
another cat on me. As soon as she saw it was a baby she changed her tune.
She became protective of the baby and the first time I went out and left the
baby with a sitter (who had Siamese of her own) she hissed at the sitter
when the sitter went into the baby's room.
Hopefully this cat will quickly adjust to the new family member.
Barb
I can only please one person a day.
Today is not your day.
Tomorrow doesn't look good either.
Karen M. - 28 Oct 2003 18:33 GMT
> Our rescue group recently had a call from a distraught new mom. Her
> cat of 10 years, Beavis, has taken serious exception to their new baby
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> hairball
She needs to keep the cat completely separated from the child, for
one. This cat should have no contact with baby until a firm protocol
is in place!
A.J. Rivett - 28 Oct 2003 19:19 GMT
> Our rescue group recently had a call from a distraught new mom. Her
> cat of 10 years, Beavis, has taken serious exception to their new baby
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> does anyone know of a "cat shrink" or animal behaviorist in the
> Dallas/Ft Worth, TX area?
Hi Hairball,
Can't they keep the cat and the baby separated for now? Once the baby
is a little older and stops crying so much, Beavis won't be such a
butthead and will probably accept the tyke. The cat has seniority.
Fat Freddy - 28 Oct 2003 23:05 GMT
> > Our rescue group recently had a call from a distraught new mom. Her
> > cat of 10 years, Beavis, has taken serious exception to their new baby...
> > Any recommendations what the owners can do to chill out Beavis...
After the woman gets spayed, Bevis will be able to tell by the change
in scent that she won't be bringing any more of those stinking, yowling
monsters into his house and will settle down to his old sweet kitty
ways.
"Save the World - Spay and Nueter all Humans"
m. L. Briggs - 02 Nov 2003 01:04 GMT
>> > Our rescue group recently had a call from a distraught new mom. Her
>> > cat of 10 years, Beavis, has taken serious exception to their new baby...
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>"Save the World - Spay and Nueter all Humans"