He should have something that allows him to s-t-r-e-t-c-h his cat back.

He will probably use it instinctively if you show him where it is.  

See how he likes it.

AquariYums.  They come in a little plastic bottle in the cat-food
aisle.

Grow some pot.  They love it.

You needn't bother.  He'll decide all that for you.

Try having him around and NOT bonding with him.  That would be more of
a challenge.

Have fun!

Charlie

Cat Owner?!!! Sorry, but it is the other way around, you belong to him!

Put the litter box somewhere quiet and private, and gently put him in it
after he has eaten. Cats soon get the idea.

Food and water should be kept away from the litter box (you don't eat in
your bathroom). He will sleep where he wants, it is unlikely he will use his
bed unless he thinks he shouldn't!

If he starts to scratch where you don't want him to, place him near the
scratch post.

Enjoy your new friend.

Congratulations on your new friend!!!

Here are some of my tips:

If your house is very large, and the kitty is shy of you, you may want
to start him out in one room and hang out there with him until he knows
you're his new dad. I've only ever done this with one cat over the
years, but wanted to make sure that if he chose to hide from me, it
would be within in a restricted area. It only took Riley 2 hours to
decide that I was "mom", and he only stayed in the restricted area one
night.

Litter boxes:
    I ditto what's been said. Just set your new friend in the box as soon
as you come home with him. Some cats are so thrilled they hang out in
the box awhile, but this stops as soon as they actually use if for its
intended purpose. Litter scratching is a little messy, so put something
under the box and out a foot or two all around. Newspaper works well.

Toys
    You should get a pull toy to play with your cat. Kittens have lots of
energy, and this is a great way to enjoy your time together. As you
pull it, think of it as prey that hides and then makes a run for it.
Pet stores are full of cat pull toys.

Sleeping
    Many, if not most, cat owners let their cats sleep in their beds with
them. It's very pleasant for you and good company for them. A lone
kitten needs social time with you, and if you work, may be lonely for
part of the day. The night time with you is easy on you, but is
comforting to the cat. That said, you may have a week or two of less
sleep than usual as your kitten adjusts to your schedule. In my
experience, my kittens have always started off wanting to sleep on my
face, and if not that, at least on my pillow in front of my face. Now,
I'm a sucker for my cats, but I can't stand to have the cat right in my
face, so here's the trick: Have an extra pillow. Lay down on one
pillow. When cat lays on face, slide it to laying right in front of
your face. Wait 5 minutes until cat is asleep, then slide pillow over,
and you take the spare pillow. Repeat until cat is down for the night.
Within 3-14 days, cat treats extra pillow as its bed, and you both get
a great night's sleep.

Scratching post
    Your choices seem good. If you have any tall natural posts in your
house, eg, at the bottom of a staircase, you can wrap it in sissal rope
and it makes a great climbing tree/scratching post.

Entertainment
    Make sure that some of your windows have furniture in front of them
that the cat can sit on and look out.