I've been visiting Chloe, a six year old, spayed female moggie -
recently transplanted to our house. She is very friendly, coming
immediately to my lap and purring.
When I pet her, she squirms happily, but will suddenly hiss or lash
out. After a few seconds, she lets me pet her again.
At first I thought she was being overstimulated, and stepped back to
try to learn her cues. I've been around cats that are easily
overstimulated before, and always figured out what warning signs they
were broadcasting.
She is a total enigma, though. The girl she grew up with has told me
she's always been this way. I can not read this kitty.
Is this a side-effect of her declawing? An over-reaction? Poor
socialization? She's not lived with men before, so could this be an
issue?
Given the fact that she's declawed, she's no big danger. But I'm
trying to figure out if this is a learned behavior, or a result of her
amputations.
Anyone have similar experiences?
Thanks, as always, for any info.
BLink
JQ - 24 Aug 2005 02:59 GMT
Hi - My cat does this all the time to people, just to let them know
he's in charge. He wants people to pet him the way he wants it and when
he wants it. He doesn't do that to me anymore because he knows Im in
charge and we have an understanding. It just takes a lot of time and
patience to get to know what she likes and she'll get to know you
better too and eventually it will change. I really dont think it has
anything to do with her claws or bipolar. Everyone used to say my cat
had bipolar issues. But clearly he doesn't around me. He just wants
someone to take the time to get to know him and break the shell.
Be patient, good luck!
JQ
-L. - 24 Aug 2005 04:38 GMT
> I've been visiting Chloe, a six year old, spayed female moggie -
> recently transplanted to our house. She is very friendly, coming
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> Is this a side-effect of her declawing?
Yes. Soooo many declawed cats act like this. I wish I had a penny for
every person who told me "I wish I had never declawed my cat - she/he
is so different in personality now."
-L.
mlbriggs - 24 Aug 2005 06:08 GMT
>> I've been visiting Chloe, a six year old, spayed female moggie -
>> recently transplanted to our house. She is very friendly, coming
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> -L.
TuTu has done this several times to me. She has been wearing Soft Paws
and now I am wondering if this could be a problem? She did it again the
night before last and I have threatened her life if ever she does it
again. The scratches hurt and take so long to heal. Any ideas? MLB
-L. - 24 Aug 2005 08:01 GMT
> TuTu has done this several times to me. She has been wearing Soft Paws
> and now I am wondering if this could be a problem? She did it again the
> night before last and I have threatened her life if ever she does it
> again. The scratches hurt and take so long to heal. Any ideas? MLB
How long has she had the SoftPaws on? Are you sure they were applied
correctly? They need to be applied over nails that are cut fairly
short - and need to be sized correctly. MANY people who apply them
apply caps that are too large and/or apply the same sized caps on all
claws despite the fact that some toes/nails (i.e. pinkies) are smaller
than the rest. So what ends up happening is the SoftPaws are too
large, drag the ground or touch the ground, and cause discomfort for
the foot. I would check all of her toes and see if it looks like they
are too large, at all.
-L.
IBen Getiner - 24 Aug 2005 09:59 GMT
> I've been visiting Chloe, a six year old, spayed female moggie -
> recently transplanted to our house. She is very friendly, coming
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> BLink
You are the only one that is mentally ill here. You're so frutched up
with this declawing issue (obviously a hang-up) that you have projected
your own insecurities onto the animal! What a wacked out nut-job.
Leave the animal alone. It's not the sick one here. YOU are.
Bipolar... LOL..!!
IBen
JQ - 24 Aug 2005 14:44 GMT
I use softpaws now and my cat has never had issues with them. His
tempermental attitude came long before he had soft paws. Our female cat
is declawed and has never had any personality issues at all!
I really doubt anything has to do with the claws. Some cats turn to
biting more when they don't have claws which perhaps could be why
people say declawed cats have issues because it might just seem more
evident because they use their teeth and hiss as they have no other
means of defense.
JQ
mlabofski@yahoo.co.uk - 24 Aug 2005 16:14 GMT
> I use softpaws now and my cat has never had issues with them. His
> tempermental attitude came long before he had soft paws. Our female cat
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> means of defense.
> JQ
Sorry to be ignorant, but what are Soft Paws? Never heard of em in
Blighty, just wondering.
JQ - 24 Aug 2005 16:38 GMT
They are little rubber 'gloves' kinda of that you put over each claw
and hold in place with crazy glue. They dont hurt some consider it a
more humane way to preventing scratching. They last about 4 weeks each.
So if you ever decide you want you cat to be an outdoors cat instead of
just indoors they still have their defence of claws.
JQ
Jennifer - 24 Aug 2005 17:23 GMT
> Sorry to be ignorant, but what are Soft Paws?
http://www.softpaws.com
mlabofski@yahoo.co.uk - 24 Aug 2005 18:22 GMT
> > Sorry to be ignorant, but what are Soft Paws?
>
> http://www.softpaws.com
Thanks, does the cat know that it's wearing them? they look strange,
kind of like the gloves my mum used to make me wear in bed to stop
biting my nails when I was a kid. Doesn't it hurt when you take them
off again if they're glued on, also what happens to the cats claws when
they're covered? Don't they (out)grow the covers?
JQ - 24 Aug 2005 18:54 GMT
Hi, at first the cat doesn't like them and walks funny. They definately
know they're there and when he cleans he tries to bite them off. You
don't take them off, eventually they fall off when the nail grows, they
shed nails like when a snake sheds skin. The nails don't grow through
the soft paws, the covers stay on the nail tips as the nail grows
longer until the nail sheds. A cat's nail shed about every 4 weeks
hence the reason they last 4 weeks.
JQ
mlbriggs - 24 Aug 2005 18:57 GMT
On Wed, 24 Aug 2005 10:22:50 -0700, mlabofski wrote:
>> > Sorry to be ignorant, but what are Soft Paws?
>>
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> they're glued on, also what happens to the cats claws when they're
> covered? Don't they (out)grow the covers?
Yes, they grow out and come off when the scratching post is used. They
last my cat up to 3 months before they are all gone. TED applies them for
me and my puss has to be sedated. I am not sure, at this point, if I will
continue to use them. They do help prevent her scratching me -- she is
quick to grab at things. MLB
mlabofski@yahoo.co.uk - 25 Aug 2005 01:05 GMT
> On Wed, 24 Aug 2005 10:22:50 -0700, mlabofski wrote:
>
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> continue to use them. They do help prevent her scratching me -- she is
> quick to grab at things. MLB
They sound like human nail extensions! Seriously though, I wouldn't
get Otis sedated every 4 weeks, he's far too old for that sort of
trauma. When I got my new sofas, we kept the old one in the dining
room with a throw over it, and thankfully he's still using it and not
the new ones (so far anyway), he uses his scratch post too, only goes
for the sofa when I'm not in the room as he knows it's verboten!
Crafty monkey.