> Our cat Mr. Moonshine, is a 10 month old male. He is well behaved for the
> most part. He is an indoor cat with the exception that he is allowed to hang
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>
> Any suggestions would be appreciated.
HOWEDY hailey,
> > Our cat Mr. Moonshine, is a 10 month old male.
> >
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> > screaming these blood curdling un-catlike meows
> > and he hisses.
He's AFRAID.
> > He has attacked me during these fits
That AIN'T NO COINCIDENCE. It's called MISDIRECTED
AGGRESSION and it's CAUSED BY ABUSE.
> > several times without even touching him, he will
> > jump up and grab my leg and tear the crap out of
> > it. Now he is paranoid and throws these fits
> > regularly at night near the window or door even
> > if the cat is not there because he thinks he is.
That kat is havin an OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER.
> > He does this constantly and wakes us up every night
> > I tried closing the blinds but he goes underneath
> > them to look outside so he can be paranoid.
SEE?
> > I have tried everything I can think of, even tried
> > letting him run after the cat so he can get over
> > this fear. But 1) he won't run after him and 2)
> > the other cat runs away before I can even let him
> > go.
THINK ALLELOMIMETIC BEHAVIOR...
> > Don't know what to do and my leg is pretty tore up.
As it SHOULD BE.
> > On a second thought-
> >
> > Generally it seems that everyone on this board is
> > against using the "spray bottle"
Oh, INDEED.
> > and it seems to be understood that cats only claw
> > on things because it is a natural thing so their
> > nails can shed off (whatever you call it). My cat
> > claws the carpet when a door is shut in the house
> > and he wants in the room.
THAT'S BARRIER FRUSTRATION SYNDROME.
> > He gets super pissed off and claws the hell out of
> > the carpet like he is trying to dig a hole underneath
> > the door.
SURPRIZE SURPRIZE SURPRIZE???
Naaah, what the heel do you EXXXPECT when you
create a barrier and the kat NATURALLY WANTS
to DIG UNDER IT.
> > To this I find using the "spray bottle" is the
> > best humane way to keep him from destroying
> > everything
Well THAT'S HOWE COME HE GOT A OCD.
> > as I am against de-clawing.
RIGHT... so long as you can CON-TROLL his
destructive PAINICK and ATTACK SCRATCHING
on accHOWENT of HE'S BEEN ABUSED.
> > But if the spray bottle is as abusive as
> > listed on these boards,
crystal h MEANS, ACCORDING TO HER OWN POSTED
CASE HISTORY... kitty kat lovers <{); ~ ) >
> > what other options are there?
You could PRAISE him and he'd FEEL SAFE and S-HOWEND.
> > Any suggestions would be appreciated.
But the KITTY KAT LOVERS DON'T WANNA DO THAT.
> The spray bottle is abusive?
READ HER OWN POSTED CASE HISTORY AGIAN, halfwit.
> Oh good Lord!
HOWE the HEEL do you THINK he GOT FEARFUL and AGGRESSIVE?
ALL AGGRESSION IS FEAR.
ALL FEAR IS CAUSED BY ABUSE.
ALL AGGRESSION IS LEARNED.
> It's only water!
So? It SCARES kitty kats and MAKE THEM FEAR
and MISTRUST YOU, his PROTECTOR. THAT'S HOWE
COME the kitty is is having PAINICK ATTACKS
you freakin simpletons.
> How is it abusive?
LOOK AT HER RESULTS, jackass.
> I haven't been reading the board long so I missed that one.
You PROBABLY SEE IT ALL THE TIME AND NEVER THINK OF IT
AS ABUSE on accHOWENT of THAT would MAKE YOU AN ABUSER
and you'll DO and SAY ANY THING to DEFEND your parents
for TEACHIN YOU HOWE to be AN ABUSER. IT WAS P-HOWENDED
INTO YOUR PSYCHE by your resentful neglectful yet doting
parents.
THAT'S HOWE COME THIS IS The Amazing Puppy Wizard's
HUMAN BEHAVIOR RESEARCH LABORATORIES <{): ~ ) >
The Amazing Puppy Wizard NEEDS YOUR POSTED CASE HISTORIES.
> We use the spray bottle (water only) and it helps
> Tucker when he's going nuts.
BWEEEEEEEEEEEAAAHAHAHHAHAHAAA!!!!
THAT'S HOWE COME HE GOES NUT.
> Helps him as much as us.
AND HE ATTACKS YOU LIKEWIZE...
> And he's another that does exactly as you
> described, with the digging at the carpet!
Duh-Oh???
BWEEEEEEEEEEAAAHAHAHAHHAHAAA!!!
> beats the alternatives.
You mean SURGICALLY MUTILATING or MURDERIN IT.
> hailey
Looks like The Amazing Pussy Wizard got HISSELF
a DHOWEBLE HEADER! Thank you, HE COULDN'T DO THIS
WITHOWET YOUR FREE HEELP!
Date: 16 Aug 2005 06:45:46 -0700
Subject: Re: Help!!!! How do i train my Dachshund pup
HOWEDY matty,
Rocky wrote:
> "hangar18" <soni.somara...@wipro.com> said in
> rec.pets.dogs.behavior:
> > 1. My wife and me head out to work by 10 and we get back by
> > about 7. Hes ALONE at home the whole day. By the time we
> > come back ,the poor baby has no place to relieve himself
> > but the house and hence the whole house becomes his
> > playground!! What do we do??
He could paper train his dog in WON DAY, matty.
> Restrict his access within the house.
That's HOWE COME DOGS HAVE HOWEsbreakin PROBLEMS, matty.
> He's in a brand new area without the support
> of his mother and siblings and is probably
> overwhelmed.
THAT'S INSANE, matty. He's THREE MONTHS OLD. Scott
& Fuller and The Amazing Puppy Wizard sez SIX WEEKS
is the right age for a puppy to leave the litterbox.
> While you're gone, either use a crate or fence off
> an area in an easily cleaned area of your house,
He could TRAIN his dog in WON DAY to RESPECT HIS HOWES
and use the newspapers, matty. You oughta KNOW THAT on
accHOWENT of you're IN THE BUSINESS of SELLING DOGGY
DAY CARE to unwitting stooges, REMEMBER matty?
> like the kitchen.
HOWE COME would he lock the dog in the kitchen
if he could TRAIN his dog in WON DAY not to
destroy his HOWES and to use newspapers when
necessary, matty?
> Crating vs. a restricted area have advantages and
> disadvantages,
That so? You're full of crap, matty. Locking dogs
in boxes CAUSES ANXXXIHOWESNESS and CONfHOWENDS
HOWEsbreaking, matty.
THAT'S HOWE COME YOU SELL DOGGY DAY CARE in
your ILLEGAL UNLICENSED UNINSURED SHOCK FENCE
CONTAINED doggy BnB, matty. REMEMBER? You're
giving BAD ADVICE so you can SELL your ILLEGAL
DOGGY DAY CARE BUSINESS.
> so go with whichever method works best for you
Locking dogs in boxes and restricting their food and
water and SCHEDULING them MAKES DOGS INSANE, matty.
> and with which you can be the most consistent.
BWEEEEEEEEEAAAHAHAHHAHAAA!!!
HE CAN'T LOCK HIS DOG IN A BOX FOR NINE HOWERS A DAY, matty.
Ooops! THAT MEANS HE NEEDS YOUR ILLEGAL UNLICENSED
UNINSURED SHOCK FENCE CON-TROLLED DOGGY DAY CARE!
HURRRAAAY!
> While you're home, he needs constant supervision
THAT'LL teach the dog all he needs to do is
lift his leg or take sumpthing and he'll GET
100% of his UNDIVIDED ATTENTION, matty. THAT'S
HOWE COME all your MENTALLY ILL PALS GOT THE
SAME PROBLEMS, matty. REMEMBER?
> as well as being put on a strict schedule for going outside.
THAT MAKES DOGS INSANE, matty.
> When he does pee or poo outside, he needs
> to know that he did the right thing,
HOWEsbreaking is INSTINCTIVE at four weeks, matty.
He DON'T WANT to teach his dog to NEED to be walked
on accHOWENT of he's ALONE 9 HOWERS A DAY, REMEMBER
MATTY?
Ooops! THAT MEANS HE NEEDS YOUR ILLEGAL UNLICENSED
UNINSURED SHOCK FENCE CON-TROLLED DOGGY DAY CARE!
HURRRAAAAY!
> so praise him (or whatever works well with him).
You mean, AFTER HE'S DONE GOIN so you don't DISTRACT him, matty?
> > 2. Will this fact that we're not at home afect him in any
> > way? I take him out for a good hour in the morning provided
> > it doesnt rain
> Rain doesn't matter.
It does matter, matty. Even a DOG knows enough
to come in HOWETA the ran, and even Mr. Squirrel
KNOWS DOGS DON'T GO HOWET IN THE RAIN and THAT'S
when he PLANNED HIS ATTACK on The Amazing Puppy
Wizard's fig tree... but THAT was THWARTED by
a VERY SENSITIVE indoors dog who KNEW Mr. Squirrel
was up to his TRICKS, JUST LIKE HOWE The Amazing
Puppy Wizard knows when you are UP TO YOUR TRICKS,
matty.
> He gets wet and so do you. At this stage,
> it's important that you accompany him - both
> so you're absolutely sure he's gone and so
> that you can praise him when he has.
You mean, instead of tellin him to use the newspapers, matty?
HOWE COME you don't know HOWE to train a dog
to use papers and NOT DEPEND on them when they
can ASK TO GO HOWET, matty? MIGHT THAT BE on
accHOWENT of YOU DON'T KNOW HOWE to TRAIN a
dog to ASK to go HOWET on accHOWENT of you
tell folks to WALK IT EVERY HOWER or two, matty?
> > and at times depending on our timings take
> > him out in the night too ..If we dont go out, I see to it
> > that I play with him through the evening at home. Is this
> > enough? Or do we need to hire someone to stay with him the
> > whole day ( please let this be the last option).
> He's going to have to at least pee while you're gone,
And he's gonna need a couple meals, to boot, matty.
> so if you want him to be properly housetrained,
HOWE abHOWET FOOD, matty? The pup is only 12 weeks old.
HE NEEDS THREE or FOUR FEEDINGS a day, matty <{); ~ ) >
> he must be let out during the day.
No, all he NEEDS is a few sheets of newspaper
on a tray in the corner near a door or in the
kitchen and he'll be FINE so long as noWON
BOTHERS HIM like HOWE you do your dogs, matty.
> A neighbour?
You think he's got a neighbor like yourself who
SELLS DOGGY DAY CARE and TRAINING, matty?
> Dogwalking service?
You mean, like your pals here abHOWETS SELL, matty?
> > 3. This is my problem but since this is my first pet , I
> > tend to lose my temper at times when he relieves himself at
> > home though the door is open and he can go out.
NO PROBLEMO, matty. The Amazing Puppy Wizard
already FIXED THAT problem by giving him the
INSTRUCTIONS to pupperly handle and train his
dog using EFFECTIVE NON PHYSICAL CONDITIONING.
You know, the kind YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR abHOWET
on accHOWENT of IT COSTS YOU BUSINESS, eh matty.
> You must put this puppy on a schedule -
That's INSANE, matty. The Amazing Puppy Wizard
doesn't keep HIS dogs on a schedule on accHOWENT
of it MAKES DOGS GO INSANE, matty.
> he hasn't yet figured out how to tell you that he
> needs to go out, nor does he understand your open
> door policy.
He DON'T NEED TO UNDERSTAND NUTHING, matty. Dogs
HOWEsbreak INSTINCTIVELY at four weeks if you
don't PUNISH THEM, matty, and THAT'S HOWE COME
the dog is SHITTIN INSIDE HIS HOWES despite the
open door, matty. Probably WATCHING him has likeWIZE
contributed to this "HOWESBREAKING PROBLEM".
> You need to take him outside when you think he needs to go.
THAT'LL DISAVAIL the pup of LEARNING HOWE TO ASK TO GO HOWET, matty.
> With a puppy with such a tiny bladder,
Don't DO that, matty. A little dog can CONTRAIN HISSELF
as long as a larger dog, they only PEE LESS, matty, you
simpleton.
> you'll be right 100% of the time.
NOT if it's RANININ or COLD and he DON'T NEED TO GO HOWET, matty.
> > I am trying to maintain my composure but at times when
> > the whole house is clean and he does it, i tend to lose
> > it. (This was for my benefit, I had to tell someone:))
> You obviously know that losing your temper doesn't help.
THAT'S THE PREDICTABLE RESULTS of FOLLOWIN YOUR INSTRUCTIONS, matty.
> All you're really teaching him is to be afraid of
> you and, depending on your timing, to pee and poo
> where and when you can't see him.
SHAAAZZZAAAMMM!
> This works against you in all sorts of training issues.
That so, matty?
> > 4. When do i buy him a leash and what kind should I buy?
> > Should it be a body leash or the normal one?
> Someone who knows Dachshunds and their neck/back
> issues will answer.
You mean, someWON who knows LESS abHOWET HOWEsbreaking
than you do, matty? You mean, someWON who'll BLAME THE
BREED for not bein trainable, like your mental case pal
tara o. aka tee, matty?
> --
> --Matt. Rocky's a Dog.
HOWEDY bizby40,
bizby40 wrote:
> > Thanks Rocky. I think this little guy is pretty hard headed -
> > yes, I meant shreiking in a loud way. The shreiking seems to
> > egg him on even more - it doesn't make him want to avoid us!
> > I neglected to mention that I have also tried ignoring him &
> > redirecting him. If I ignore him, by turning my back or walking
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> > trying everything:)) A friend stopped by today & said her son uses
> > a squirt bottle when his puppy bites & it seems to be working.
> > Any thoughts on that? He loves water & I hate to turn him off
> > water by using squirt bottle on him.
> > Pauline
> My little guy is pretty nippy too.
You mean you got the same problem for the same reason,
don't you, bizby40. CuriHOWES AIN'T IT, HOWE you and
a few of them other DOG LOVERS with PUPPY BITING and
HOWEsbreaking problems done your DUE DILLIGENCE pryor
to gettin your puppys and DONE EVERY THING EXXXACTLY
PRECISELY as the MENTAL CASES whose posts you'd been
READIN and posting to here for a long time even pryor
to gettin your new PROBLEM puppys, told you to, AIN'T IT.
CuriHOWES AIN'T IT, HOWE ALL of you DOG LOVERS
GOT THE SAME SAME SAME SAME PROBLEMS which The
Amazing Puppy Wizard's 100% CONSISTENTLY NEARLY
INSTANTLY SUCCESSFUL FREE WWW Wits' End Dog Training
Method Manual Students NEVER HAVE, bizby40.
> I don't know if I'd call it biting exactly,
Well, you can just CHANGE THE WORDS bizby40.
> as much as puppy mouthing/chewing.
AND IT HURTS. THAT'S BITING, ain't it, bizby40.
> It seems like healways wants to be chewing on something.
Your dog is HYPERACTIVE and you've had him only month or so.
> Nonetheless, it hurts,
But you AIN'T SHORE if THAT'S biting or not, bizby40?
> and isn't something we want to encourage.
YOU TAUGHT YOUR DOG TO DO THAT by followin the
ADVICE of these PROFITEERS who BILK dummies like
you HOWETA your HARD EARNED DOUGH to SELL you
their miserable books and TRAINING LESSONS and
DAY CARE for your HOWETA CON-TROLL puppys, bizby40.
> Mine only does it when we're actively playing,
Ahhh, so you KNOW WHEN he's gonna do it yet STILL
DON'T KNOW HOWE to EXXXTINGUISH ANY repeatable
predictable consistent behavior, like SHITTIN ALL
OVER YOUR HOWESES on accHOWENT of you lock them in
boxes and ignore their cries and spray aversives in
their faces and intimidate and choke them as your
own POSTED CASE HISTORY will reflect, bizby40.
> so I'm not sure the situations are equivalent.
ALL BEHAVIORS ARE THE SAME SAME, bizby40.
> What I've done is to make sure I always have a soft
> toy or his blanket there when I'm playing with him.
You mean as a REWARD for biting.
> As we play and he grasps around for something to
> chew on, I just make sure the toy is right there.
BWEEEEEEEEEEAAHAHAHHAHAAA!!!
> I don't let go of it though, because within seconds,
> he's dropped it and is looking for something else -
Like your hands or clothing...
> - I just give it right back to him.
You mean you REINFORCE the BAD behavior, bizby40.
> If he gets *too* wild, playtime is over.
You mean you LOCK IT IN A BOX and IGNORE his cries someMOORE.
> I just put him down.
Then he bites you.
> As he's too little to jump on the sofa, all I have
> to do is pull my legs up and I'm "safe." :-)
THAT'S HOWE we TRAIN ATTACK DOGS, bizby40.
> He does sometimes get my fingers
That VARIABLY REINFORCES his BAD BEHAVIOR.
> despite my best efforts,
You mean, doin what the EXXXPERTS TAUGHT YOU, bizby40?
> and I'll give a yelp when he does.
To HYPEREXXXCITE the pup, JUST LIKE HOWE we do
when ATTACK TRAINING a dog, eh bizby40? You got
the RIGHT INSTRUCTIONS but for the WRONG PROBLEM,
bizby40. You're TRAINING your dogs to ATTACK YOU.
> I don't know if I'm doing the right things or not,
You're DOIN FINE, bizby40. The Amazing Puppy Wizard
NEEDS YOUR POSTED CASE HISTORY to PROVE The Puppy
Wizard's SYNDROME, bizby40 <{): ~ ) >
> but he has calmed down a lot in the few weeks I've had him.
No bizby40, he was PERFECT when you got him just
a few weeks ago, and YOU RUINED HIM ALREADY JUST
LIKE HOWE you done your children, bizby40.
> It helps that he's a really smart puppy
INDEED?
> and already has a good idea of what he can, and cannot chew.
TILL YOU TURN YOUR BACK.
> Bizby
Got some BAD NEWS for you, bizby... you got MunchHOWESN
SYNDROME by Proxy, bizby40, JUST LIKE the rest of these
DOG and CHILD ABUSING MENTAL CASES GOT:
HOWEDY pauline,
Pauline O'Connell wrote:
> Thank you so much Matt. I've printed out your advise
You mean the ADVICE which The Amazing Puppy Wizard gives
when TRAINING DOGS TO ATTACK, pauline? THINK abHOWET the
"ADVICE" matty gave you. He told you to NOT REACT to your
puppy's BONDING BEHAVIOR by TURNING arHOWEND and IGNORING
IT for 3 seconds, to INCREASE ANXXXIHOWESNESS and TRIGGER
the VISUAL ORAL REFLEX, then QUICKLY GIVE the dog SUMPTHIN
to BITE ON as a REWARD for his BONDING BITING, pauline.
THAT'S PRECISELY HOWE The Amazing Puppy Wizard TURNS ON
new attack training students, pauline...
> & will work on the consistency.
INDEEDY! You'll NOTICE please, the CONSISTENCY with
which EVERY POSTER HERE GOT THE SAME PROBLEM, pauline.
Know WHAT THAt PROBLEM IS, pauline? You've all got
MunchHOWESEN SYNDROME by PROXY <{) :* ~ ( >
> I know he's just a puppy,
A DOG Is A Dog;
As A KAT Is A KAT;
As A BIRDY Is A BIRDY;
As A CHILD IS A CHILD;
As A SP-HOWES Is a SP-HOWES.
> he's learning so many other things so quickly,
ALL Behavior Problems Are CAUSED BY MISHANDLING
ALL Critters Only Respond In
PREDICTABLE INNATE NORMAL NATURAL
INSTINCTIVE REFLEXIVE Ways;
To Situations And Circumstances Of Their Environment
Which We Create For Them.
Damn The Descartean War of "Nature Vs Nurture."
We Teach By HOWER Words And Actions
And GET BACK What We TAUGHT.
> I thought we just hadn't hit on the magic
> formula for the biting.
You mean, locking your dog in a box and jerking
and choking and ignoring her cries and denying
and withholding attention affection rewards and
unconditional love trust and respect and shreiking
and hurting and intimidating your dogs JUST LIKE
HOWE you do to your kids JUST LIKE HOWE your parents
and child psychologists taught you, pauline.
You Get The Critter You Trained
A Dog Is A Dog
As A Kat Is A Kat
As A Birdie Is A Birdie
As A Child Is A Child
As A SP-HOWES Is a SP-HOWES.
ALL Critters Only Respond In
PREDICTABLE INNATE NORMAL NATURAL INSTINCTIVE
REFLEXIVE Ways
To Situations And Circumstances Of Their Environment
Which We Create For Them.
Damn The Descartean War of
"Nature Vs Nurture."
We Teach By HOWER Words And Actions
And GET BACK What We TAUGHT.
In The Problem Animal Behavior BUSINESS
FAILURE MEANS DEATH.
SAME SAME,
For The Problem Child Behavior BUSINESS.
> My husband says I pick him up too much & today,
> it dawned on me that he's probably right.
Yeah, TOO MUCH TLC, eh dog lovers?
> (He's so cute though.)
INDEED?
> When I sit at my computer or my sewing machine, he
> gets really yappy & snappy. I think it's because
> he can't get up on the chair with me & when I sit
> watching TV, he can fit on the chair with me - for
> a few more months anyway.
LIKE THIS:
CNYstitcher wrote:
5-Trying to baste a quilt while your 4yo is watching
is next to impossible because said child wants to "help"
From: "Pauline O'Connell" <poco...@pacbell.net>
Date: Tue, 05 Oct 2004 15:02:46 GMT
Subject: Re: what next?
I'm sure you were sent very special children for a reason -
cause you're a very special mom, who will love & care for
your two like no other.
BWEEEEAAHAHAHHAHHAAAA!!!
> He's a Brittany, so he'll be too big for sharing the chair
> with me. Tonight, I had a meeting to go to & when I left
> the house, I thought I heard him crying - my husband said
> he cried for a long time after I left, so I do think I've
> been babying him too much.
Right. Wouldn't wanna BABY IT too much...
> Thanks again for your advise - I'll keep you posted
> if we achieve success.
BWEEEEEEAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
"The Methods, Principles, And Philosophy Of Behavior
Never Change,
Or They'd Not Be Scientific And Would Not Obtain
Consistent, Reliable, Fast, Effective Results
For All Handler's
And All Dogs,
NEARLY INSTANTLY,
As Taught In Your FREE Copy Of The Puppy Wizard's FREE
WWW Wits' End Dog Training Method Manual,"
The Puppy Wizard. <{} ; ~ ) >
> Pauline
> > "Pauline O'Connell" <poco...@pacbell.net> said in
> > rec.pets.dogs.behavior:
> >> If I ignore him, by turning my back
> >> or walking away, he starts nipping at my legs.
> > Don't walk away, just turn your back - go neutral on him and
> > don't give him *any* feedback for a count of 3. As soon as you
> > return your attention to him, you're all sweetness and light and
> > just happen to have a very interesting squeaky toy in your
> > possession.
> >> If we
> >> redirect him, by giving him a chew toy he enjoys it, only
> >> stops the biting for a few seconds, before he gets back to
> >> biting the flesh.
> > Then do it again. And again. You're dealing with a puppy brain
> > here. And don't just hand him the toy and expect *him* to make
> > it interesting - right now, that's your job. So, squeak it,
> > move it around, and yes, tug it with him.
> > If it doesn't work with one toy, try another.
> >> (Told you, we've been trying everything:))
> > To tell you the truth, that could be a big part of the problem.
> > *Consistency* is the secret to most things dog.
> >> A friend stopped by today & said her son uses
> >> a squirt bottle when his puppy bites & it seems to be
> >> working. Any thoughts on that? He loves water & I hate to
> >> turn him off water by using a squirt bottle on him.
> > Playing and interacting with a brand new puppy is a wonderful
> > bonding time. Puppy nipping is not a big deal and with
> > consistent attention mixed with a little bit of growing up,
> > your's will stop. Right now, he's playing in the only way he
> > knows, so you have to teach him more people-friendly ways to
> > play.
> > A correction (like the squirt bottle) won't do much good in the
> > long run because he doesn't yet understand what you want him to
> > do.
> > --
> > --Matt. Rocky's a Dog.98.
Newsgroups: rec.crafts.textiles.quilting
From: "Pauline O'Connell" <poco...@pacbell.net>
Date: Thu, 08 May 2003 22:40:42 GMT
Subject: Re: A proposal re: HUGs
My feelings (as sensitive as they are) weren't hurt; I'm
just one of those people who wants to do the "right" thing
& not offend anyone either! But thank you for the totally
unnecessary apology. You did explain things perfectly &
this is all part of a learning experience - yes?
Newsgroups: rec.crafts.textiles.quilting
From: "Pauline O'Connell" <poco...@pacbell.net>
Date: Mon, 27 Dec 2004 05:39:23 GMT
Subject: Re: did you all get what you wanted??
I got almost everything that was on my wish list - except for
a puppy:) I knew that wouldn't happen, cause I want to pick
it out together with DH, but a promise of a puppy would have
been nice! Not to worry - I'm signing up to raise a Guide
Dog for a year - I know it will kill me to give it up, but
I'm trying to focus on the greater good!
Pauline
THAT'S HOWE COME 65% of those dogs FAIL TRAINING.
> CNYstitcher wrote:
> > 5-Trying to baste a quilt while your 4yo is watching
> > is next to impossible because said child wants to "help"
From: "Pauline O'Connell" <poco...@pacbell.net>
Date: Tue, 05 Oct 2004 15:02:46 GMT
Subject: Re: what next?
I'm sure you were sent very special children for a reason -
cause you're a very special mom, who will love & care for
your two like no other.
Newsgroups: rec.crafts.textiles.quilting
From: CNYstitcher <s...@therctqdirectory.com>
Date: Tue, 05 Oct 2004 11:35:17 GMT
Subject: OT: what next?
So, by now, most of you know about the past year os chaos -
CPS being called on us by one of Thomas' teachers (case
closed as no evidence could be found), Thomas being diagnosed
with a disability, Rebekah being born almost a month early.
Well, yesterday, I got another roundhouse
punch out of the blue.
Rebeklah went in for her 1 year checkup, got 1 vaccine, and
I thought everything was okey dokey. However, the docotr is
concerned about her growth. Apparently, she has only gained
8oz in 3 months, which isn't good at all. At 1 year, she only
says mama, and only recently started crawling. DOctor asked
about her eating habits, so I told him (she stopped eating
baby food and would only tkae bottles, and sometimes she
would refuse them, however, she *would* eat small bits of the
food the rest of the family ate). Turns out, she isn't getting
enough calories to support brain development and growth.
WWWWWWWWWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!
Doctor is referring us to Early Intervention so that they can
do an evaluation on Rebekah to see where she needs help, and I
am going to try to feed her as much as possible, trying to reach
700 calories a day, which means detailed diaries of what she
actually eats. We almost reached 700 by bedtime last night, but
she ended up staying up until the wee hours, and was awake at 5am
(which meant I was up that early, and then Thomas woke up at 6am
with a nightmare...yes, I'm exhausted).
I had my bout of feeling like a total failur with both of my
children - one has a disability and on is failing to thrive....
it *must* be my fault. But I'm pretty much over that now.
Still, I feel as if I have let them down in some way,
so I am trying to "fix" what I can.
I just feel really low and kind of locked up creatively and
everything else. Since I was up so early, I managed to start
working on DHs renaissance costume shirt, but I don't know if
I can progress any further today...so much to do, and only so
much energy to do it with.
If I don't post as much, you now know the reason why....I'm
completely overwhelmed and frustrated and confused and at the
end of my rope.
Larisa
Newsgroups: rec.crafts.textiles.quilting
From: CNYstitcher <s...@therctqdirectory.com>
Date: Sat, 02 Oct 2004 12:30:51 GMT
Subject: OT: musings of my mind
I have been having a hard week. It started when I looked at the
calendar and saw that October was coming faster than I thought.
Do you realize that today, at 2:11pm, my darling girl will be 1
year old? It doesn't seem like it is possible. The doctor said
she would be behind most of her "peers" until she was about 5 years
old due to her bing slightly premature. As of today, she is crawling
on all 4s (as opposed to doing a military low-crawl), she can pull
herself up to standing with just about anything, and she has decided
to try furniture surfing. SHe isn't talking much, other than MaMa
(and it is hysterical when she gets upset -
MAMAMAMAMAMAMAMAMAMAMAMAMAMA!!).
so he is constantly tripping over his feet, or sometimes nothing
at all. Every time he falls, rebekah stops what she is doing until
Thomas says that he is okay and gets back up, then she will smile at
him, say "AY!" and go back to playing. If Rebekah is upset or tired,
Thomas is her savior, he can make her laugh and forget that she threw
her pacifier across the room <grin>.
What was life like this time last year? Crazy, chaotic,
worrisome...who'd a thunk that things would be even more
topsyturvy?
But you know, things have also settled down. Having a premature child
and a child with a disability have made me take a look at my life and
what is important to me. I have become even more convicted that
staying
at home with my children was the best decision I could have made. If I
was working outside the house, who would be the advocate for my
children? Who would take them to all the doctors' appointments,
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