We have had Neo for about 9 weeks now, he is a healthy male of 15 weeks.
Last week, we decided to pick up Neo a playmate. An addorable female gray
tabby. All is not well in paradise. Neo is constantly chasing, hissing,
swatting, and "hunting" little Madeline. Madeline does not appear to be
afraid of him although this aggression worries me. I am afraid he may hurt
her if left alone. Any hints on easing Neo's aggression and geting him to
love his little sister ?
Thanks
Johnny <-- new to cats
m. L. Briggs - 27 Sep 2003 21:39 GMT
>We have had Neo for about 9 weeks now, he is a healthy male of 15 weeks.
>Last week, we decided to pick up Neo a playmate. An addorable female gray
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>Thanks
>Johnny <-- new to cats
Has he been neutered as yet? If not, I doubt he thinks of her as a
sister.
jejr68 - 27 Sep 2003 22:08 GMT
Nope ... not yet, the Vet says wait till 5-6 months of age.
> >We have had Neo for about 9 weeks now, he is a healthy male of 15 weeks.
> >Last week, we decided to pick up Neo a playmate. An addorable female gray
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> Has he been neutered as yet? If not, I doubt he thinks of her as a
> sister.
Priscilla Ballou - 27 Sep 2003 22:18 GMT
> Nope ... not yet, the Vet says wait till 5-6 months of age.
There's no problem with neutering him now. Caley and Benjamin were
spayed and neutered at 12 weeks.
Priscilla

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PawsForThought - 28 Sep 2003 01:57 GMT
>From: m. L. Briggs mlbriggs@nospam.net
>Has he been neutered as yet? If not, I doubt he thinks of her as a
>sister.
The cat is only 15 weeks old.
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Priscilla Ballou - 28 Sep 2003 03:05 GMT
> >From: m. L. Briggs mlbriggs@nospam.net
>
> >Has he been neutered as yet? If not, I doubt he thinks of her as a
> >sister.
>
> The cat is only 15 weeks old.
Not too early.
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Cheryl - 28 Sep 2003 03:13 GMT
>>> From: m. L. Briggs mlbriggs@nospam.net
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> Priscilla
But too early to be exhibiting mating behavior.
Priscilla Ballou - 28 Sep 2003 03:21 GMT
> >>> From: m. L. Briggs mlbriggs@nospam.net
> >>
> >>> Has he been neutered as yet? If not, I doubt he thinks of her as
> >>> a sister.
> >> The cat is only 15 weeks old.
> >
> > Not too early.
> But too early to be exhibiting mating behavior.
I haven't said anything about his exhibiting mating behavior at 15
weeks. I'm saying it's not too early for him to be neutered. If she
waits until he's 6 months old, it may be too late then.
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Cheryl - 28 Sep 2003 03:39 GMT
>>>>> From: m. L. Briggs mlbriggs@nospam.net
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> Priscilla
No, but you didn't say anything about why the 15 month old kitten is
becoming so aggressive. Mating behavior isn't why at that age.
Priscilla Ballou - 28 Sep 2003 03:44 GMT
> >>>>> From: m. L. Briggs mlbriggs@nospam.net
> >>>>
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> No, but you didn't say anything about why the 15 month old kitten is
> becoming so aggressive. Mating behavior isn't why at that age.
I answered the question at hand. You grading these follow-ups?
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Cheryl - 28 Sep 2003 04:02 GMT
>>>>>>> From: m. L. Briggs mlbriggs@nospam.net
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> Priscilla
Heh. I didn't realize this was turning into an argument.
Cheryl - 27 Sep 2003 22:15 GMT
> We have had Neo for about 9 weeks now, he is a healthy male of 15
> weeks. Last week, we decided to pick up Neo a playmate. An
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> Thanks
> Johnny <-- new to cats
You little Neo was taken from his mama too young. Whether that was
circumstances or someone placing them too young isn't the point, the
point is that Neo didn't get the opportunity to learn what is
acceptable behavior. I don't have experience with kittens so young
and hope someone else here does. You could always look up a book on
rearing kittens for some answers. Good luck and congrats on your new
family member! :)
Karen - 28 Sep 2003 00:08 GMT
> We have had Neo for about 9 weeks now, he is a healthy male of 15 weeks.
> Last week, we decided to pick up Neo a playmate. An addorable female gray
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> Thanks
> Johnny <-- new to cats
how old is she? I bet it will iron out pretty quick. I would keep them
separated at first, since he's not getting a clue real quickly and slowly
introduce them. As young as he is, he'll probably get better pretty quickly.
As you introduce them in bits here and there, have a wand toy ready to
divert his attention and learn her presence is a good thing.
Karen