Thank you for all of your support and opinions. However, there is n
need to highjack this post and make it another battle ground for peopl
who dislike each other. I am stressed out enough, I don't need you guy
fighting here. I went to the vet and talked to her today. I also go
to be with TB for over an hour. He looked so much better from th
drip, but I know if I just took him home, he would probably go righ
back. He will not eat at the vet, he never has, and they don't d
feeding tubes through the nose, so I syringe fed him there tonight. H
took it well, and did not vomit or even act like he was going to. H
wanted to go home so bad though, I could tell. Everytime I stood up
he started purring and stood up too. This is the hardest decision
have ever made...I know if I bring him home and continue the regula
treatment, he'll go downhill and probably die within a month or less.
The thing that is most worisome is this "lobulated fluid structure
that is around his galbladder. This could be the cause of his ver
high white blood cell count. If he didn't have this structure, I woul
not even consider the surgery and hope for the best. But, since thi
structure is getting more "extensive" I'm afraid of what it could do.
To make matters worse, I am taking serious flak from my fiance. If i
were up to her, she would put him down, hell, she would have put hi
down long ago...she just doesn't understand. Its causing problem
right now...this whole situation just plain sucks!
whitershadeofpale Wrote:
> "Philip" 1chip-state1@earthlink.net wrote in message
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> "CatNipped" lcrews@houston.rr.com wrote in message
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> "NateB323" NateB323.1sf1n3@news.catbanter.com wrote in message
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> I've been posting about TB and our battle with his liver disease.
> He---
> is---
> in the vet right now on IV fluids because he had a bad weekend,---
> vomiting---
> up to 4 times a day. I would have to syringe feed him right afte
> he
> vomitted to make sure he got some food in him, then 3-4 hours late
> he
> would vomit up a little that hadn't gone through him yet. He was
> looking weaker, walking very slow, kind of wobly, and he was loosing
> weight. The vet weighed him in at 8 pounds 9 ounces, down about a
> pound from two weeks ago. His blood values still show elevated ALT
> (400), ALP (300), and dramatically elevated bilirubin (15). His HCT
> I
> believe that is how they measure red cells...was at 24.8% but hi
> white
> cell count was extremely high at 52! This is very concerning, th
> vet
> doesn't know if this is due to infection or ongoing inflammation
> but
> he has been on antibiotics for a long time. I still don't know what
> all these figures really mean, but she is pushing an exploratory
> surgery to see what this expanding fluid structure is underneath his
> galbladder. She also wants to get biopsy's of liver, galbladder
> and
> maybe others. I am scared to death to put TB through surgery at his
> age of 15 and weakend state. I need to tell her today if I want to
> proceed with the surgery or not. They will have to do a clot tes
> and
> check other levels, but I am so concerned about the possibility o
> him
> dying during the procedure. I am also concerned about his recovery
> process...I don't know, what if I put out all this money for the
> surgery, he makes it, they find out what exactly he has, and trea
> it,
> OR, he dies during procedure, OR he never fully recovers and ha
> even
> worse final days because of the surgery. I am stressed out beyond
> anything I have ever experienced, I love this cat as much as I lov
> my
> mom or dad. What should I do?
>
> --
> NateB323-
>
> I can't help with this decision, but to counter what one idiot*
> (cough*Lyn*cough) posted - my 15-year-old went through *THREE
> surgeries
> within three weeks and she did just fine.
>
> *This particular idiot told another idiot that he was right t
> return--
> his--
> cat to a kill shelter because of a chest cold. She also said that
> you
> shouldn't adopt a handicapped cat and it is better to put them to
> sleep
> and
> adopt a healthy cat.
>
> The best advice I can give is listen to your vet, who knows your
> cat,--
> and--
> don't heed bad advice from crazies on the internet.
>
> Hugs,
>
> CatNipped
> -
>
> Hey ... YOU are one of those "crazies" on the Internet so your advice
> is
> equally tainted.
>
> -
>
> WTG Philip, catchem not looking, never having done nothing to you and
> stickem!
> Is this what we have resorted to?

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NateB323
Philip - 20 Jul 2005 14:03 GMT
The first thing I would do were I you is ... stop consulting this group for
moral and spiritual input. You could euthanize TB today or let the
veterinary try every technique known to man ... yet you would still be the
target of cruel critique from someone. Your decision is not one that can be
made in committee.
God Bless.
> Thank you for all of your support and opinions. However, there is no
> need to highjack this post and make it another battle ground for people
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> down long ago...she just doesn't understand. Its causing problems
> right now...this whole situation just plain sucks!
-L. - 21 Jul 2005 10:55 GMT
> Thank you for all of your support and opinions. However, there is no
> need to highjack this post and make it another battle ground for people
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> down long ago...she just doesn't understand. Its causing problems
> right now...this whole situation just plain sucks!
I am so sorry, Nate, that you are going through this, and that your
fiance isn't being supportive. I hope you can find some peace in
whatever decision you make. This is the hardest part of being a pet
guardian.
I think you have to ask yourself a few tough questions...
1. If I choose surgery and the cat doesn't make it through the surgery,
how will I feel?
2. If I choose surgery and the cat is worse off afterward, how will I
feel?
3. If I choose not to select surgery, will I regret not making that
choice, if and when the cat gets more sick or dies?
Of course if you choose surgery and the cat gets better, you will have
no second-guessing to do.
If and when you are at the place where you might consider euthanasia,
this site might help you decide if and when the time is right:
http://angelshavenhere.homestead.com/makingthedecision.html
My heart goes out to you,
-L.