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Conan Hysteria and a Challenge

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sriddles@aol.com - 05 Jul 2005 06:33 GMT
I am just shaking my head in disbelief at how this online rescue
attempt has snowballed into hundreds of posts, and so many people
actually clamoring to adopt, or aid in the adoption, of one cat.

It's a good thing. He's a lucky cat; no matter how many people don't
like the methods implemented, he has the ultimate second chance.

I just wonder how many of you have stopped to realize how many
adoptable cats, in that very shelter, were euthanized during the time
Conan was there, and in the six days since. How many strays,
relinqushed cats, kittens. How many pampered house cats belonging to
the eldery who've been dumped at the shelter when the owner must go to
a nursing home, or dies, are sitting there right now, terrified and
confused.

I'm not minimizing Conan's plight; he was certainly worthy of the
efforts, the emotional investment, the monetary donations. What I don't
get is the intrigue, the secrecy and the competition to help one cat.

I'd just like to suggest for those of you who got (and still are) so
emotionally involved in Conan, or disappointed that the rescue isn't as
public as you'd like it to be, to think about this. I'd challenge each
and every one of you to go to your local municipal pound and get a cat.
Not a humane society, or private shelter, I mean a municipal pound
where the cat is going to fry in 72 hours after it hits the cage if
it's not sprung.

Anybody can pull off a "rescue". Get the cat, take it for vetting, and
isolate it in an extra bedroom. Then incorporate every single resource
you know to find it a GOOD home. You've all seen excellent suggestions
right here.

It's a little work, a little hassle, and a little money. Big deal. I do
it all the time and I'm certainly not in good health, or financially
well off either.

Let the "other camp" have the glory and call the shots. And be happy
that Conan isn't in the dead animal dumpster behind OC Shelter. Then
concentrate your efforts on another cat. You'll be saving a life.

Sherry
Mary - 05 Jul 2005 07:17 GMT
> I am just shaking my head in disbelief at how this online rescue
> attempt has snowballed into hundreds of posts, and so many people
> actually clamoring to adopt, or aid in the adoption, of one cat.

Nobody is doing any of that now. We're just being sad that he has
been in a cage for over a week because Monica is on a power trip
and turned down three wonderful adoptors.

I read your entire post and find it really depressing. Your assumptions
are way off base with regard to how many people do what for their
local shelters, and your take on this entire chain of events is misguided
at best.

This cat was on his way to a good home--a local home--when Monica
Towle persuaded Dan Mahoney to lie to us and put him in a cage in
a kennel for over a week. It's upsetting to those of us who have come
to care about this cat. If they all look alike and are alike and "what is
all this HYSTERIA about and etc," then what is clear is that you are
too jaded to be of any help.
sriddles@aol.com - 05 Jul 2005 07:26 GMT
> > I am just shaking my head in disbelief at how this online rescue
> > attempt has snowballed into hundreds of posts, and so many people
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> all this HYSTERIA about and etc," then what is clear is that you are
> too jaded to be of any help.

No, I don't think I'm jaded. At least I hope not. I admit my
assumptions could be way off base, because I have found it impossible
to keep up with every post and every player.
What I *do* see, are a whole bunch of extremely compassionate and
generous people concentrating on one cat. I can imagine what could be
accomplished, and how many *other* cats could be helped if those
resources were spread out, and not concentrated on one cat.
Sherry
Meghan Noecker - 05 Jul 2005 07:43 GMT
>What I *do* see, are a whole bunch of extremely compassionate and
>generous people concentrating on one cat. I can imagine what could be
>accomplished, and how many *other* cats could be helped if those
>resources were spread out, and not concentrated on one cat.

If you get involved in a story, you want to know how it ends.

A lot of people were involved in this story, whether it was offering a
home, working on a flight, offering to donate money, calling the
shelter, or just thinking good thoughts. Some people donated to their
local shelters in honor of Conan.

But all of those people cared enough to want to know what happened to
him.

To have somebody come in (or somebody change the plans) and then go
silent on the issue is pretty frustrating.

Imagine going to the movies, paying your money, spending 2 hours
getting entrenched in the story, and then the movie cuts off with no
ending. Chances are, you'd be upset. And you wouldn't want a refund.
You'd rather just see the end of the movie. That is much more
satisfying.

Well, here we have a real life story, and the ending of this story is
more important than some fictional story. We have invested, our time
and emotion into this story, only to have it taken away.

Most people here just want to know what happened. What *really*
happened. We'd also like to know if this is a tragedy or a happy
ending.

It was looking like a tragedy, then a happy ending, and then we
weren't sure. Then we kept seeing various happy endings tossed in the
trash.

I really believe that most people just want to know what happened, and
they want to see an ending to the story, in other words, Conan getting
a permanent home. Until that ending happens, I doubt many people will
be satisfied.

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PawsForThought - 05 Jul 2005 12:53 GMT
> >What I *do* see, are a whole bunch of extremely compassionate and
> >generous people concentrating on one cat. I can imagine what could be
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> a permanent home. Until that ending happens, I doubt many people will
> be satisfied.

Very well put, Meghan.  I think you hit the nail right on the head.  I
think knowing that this kitty is finally in a forever home would put a
lot of people's minds at ease, instead of playing guessing games.  What
I don't understand is why it has to be so cloak and dagger.  Why not be
up front and let people know the progress of the cat.

As to other cats in shelters, I think a lot of us are involved, in one
way or another, with our local rescue leagues/shelters.  We may not all
post about it, but that doesn't mean we're not doing anything for other
needy and deserving animals.

just my 2 1/2 cents,
Lauren
sriddles@aol.com - 05 Jul 2005 16:17 GMT
> Very well put, Meghan.  I think you hit the nail right on the head.  I
> think knowing that this kitty is finally in a forever home would put a
> lot of people's minds at ease, instead of playing guessing games.  What
> I don't understand is why it has to be so cloak and dagger.  Why not be
> up front and let people know the progress of the cat.

I don't understand the cloak-and-dagger thing, either.

> As to other cats in shelters, I think a lot of us are involved, in one
> way or another, with our local rescue leagues/shelters.  We may not all
> post about it, but that doesn't mean we're not doing anything for other
> needy and deserving animals.

I am fully aware of that. Mary insinutated that I rather minimized the
extent that other people are already involved in their local shelters.
I did not, and that thought actually never crossed my mind. I'm aware
that a whole lot of posters are already quite involved. I also know
that just be virtue of being enough of a cat-lover to reguarly post
here, means they care enough about the species to contribute to the
welfare of cats at whatever level they're able to on a regular basis.
In fact, my own personal theory about the Conan frenzy is that this one
cat turned into a living singular example of frustraion and heartbreak
over the hundreds of nice, adoptable cats who are dumped at a shelter
right now. None of us can save them all, but this time everybody had a
chance to save one, and Conan symbolized all of them. It was really
neat to see it unfold until it turned icky.
I hope you get your answers. And yes, I do agree that you all need
that.
Another wacko nutjob theory I have is that, the majority of people who
regularly do rescue, and many of the best voluteers, are control
freaks. I don't say that in a bad way. But it's true from what I see
everyday. Could be a contributing factor in this deal.

Sherry
CatNipped - 05 Jul 2005 16:42 GMT
> In fact, my own personal theory about the Conan frenzy is that this one
> cat turned into a living singular example of frustraion and heartbreak
> over the hundreds of nice, adoptable cats who are dumped at a shelter
> right now. None of us can save them all, but this time everybody had a
> chance to save one, and Conan symbolized all of them. It was really
> neat to see it unfold until it turned icky.

I think you hit the nail squarely on the head with that insight, Sherry.
There are days I can be perfectly happy, everything going my way, and not a
care in the world.  And then I'll start thinking about a little kitten, or
an old cat, abandoned and starving, or waiting in a cage to be "put to
sleep" (I hate euphemisms like that, it hides an awful truth), and I'll be
in tears for the rest of the day.  No we can't save them all, and that
knowledge hurts.  Just knowing that there are people in this world who are
callous enough to "dump" a cat who is no longer "convenient" to own - not to
mention those sickos who actively try to hurt cats - is just too depressing
to dwell on.

I've tried to stay out of the Conan drama as much as possible because I feel
I have "friends" in both "camps" and I don't want to alienate anyone.
However, trying for a little "balance" here...Being in a kennel is not a
horrible existence, if it's temporary.  People go off on one or two week
vacations all the time and leave their pets in a kennel.  As long as the
kennel is clean and well-run and the pets are cared for properly, then the
pets are perfectly fine.  That being said though, I think it is a bit
mean-spirited to withhold all information on a cat with whom so many people
have become emotionally involved, or to deny that cat a forever-home simply
because of group politics (if that is the case).

I've always donated to local rescue groups, but if nothing else, this whole
drama has encouraged me to get more personally involved in getting more cats
placed in good homes.

Hugs,

CatNipped
sriddles@aol.com - 05 Jul 2005 18:01 GMT
People go off on one or two week
> vacations all the time and leave their pets in a kennel.  As long as the
> kennel is clean and well-run and the pets are cared for properly, then the
> pets are perfectly fine.  That being said though, I think it is a bit
> mean-spirited to withhold all information on a cat with whom so many people
> have become emotionally involved, or to deny that cat a forever-home simply
> because of group politics (if that is the case).

I agree on both counts. I'm fuzzy on the reasons some people were
turned down. I just have to assume there's stuff we don't know.
This isn't applicable to the Conan deal, but the outpouring of concern
alone I can't help thinking about 300 neglected dogs we ended up
seizing. It made media headlines, even made the national news. People
clamored to adopt those dogs. They fought over them. They came from
nearby states on adoption day. The phone rang about them constantly,
and we got over $40,000 in donations for those dogs. One newspaper
story mentioned they were so matted they had to be shaved, and it was
early spring, still very cool weather. The next week we got enundated
with dog sweaters, some hand-knitted!
It was wonderful to see that. But it made me wish for just a *fraction*
of that concern and generosity on an everyday basis, for the regular
dogs/cats.

Sherry
Mary - 05 Jul 2005 18:02 GMT
>  People go off on one or two week
> > vacations all the time and leave their pets in a kennel.  As long as the
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> I agree on both counts. I'm fuzzy on the reasons some people were
> turned down. I just have to assume there's stuff we don't know.

Bullshit. I have the entire correspondence between Monica and the
San Diego guy, and Meghan has told us all with regard to why her
sister was turned down. Do not give credit where credit is not due.

> This isn't applicable to the Conan deal, but the outpouring of concern
> alone I can't help thinking about 300 neglected dogs we ended up
> seizing.

Yeah, yeah, we get it. Blah blah blah.
Meghan Noecker - 06 Jul 2005 07:40 GMT
>care in the world.  And then I'll start thinking about a little kitten, or
>an old cat, abandoned and starving, or waiting in a cage to be "put to
>sleep" (I hate euphemisms like that, it hides an awful truth), and I'll be
>in tears for the rest of the day.  No we can't save them all, and that
>knowledge hurts.  

Yes, I have this problem when I get to thinking about Jenny, my
rescued dog. She was kept by a backyard breeder with plans to breed
her (thankfully, they didn't). When I got her, I knew she was
neglected and not socialized. She was obviously afraid of everything.

She was one wacked out damaged dog. Even from the beginning, it was
obvious that she needed a lot of patience. She was not housebroken.
She could not walk across linoleum or hard wood floors. She couldn't
go through doorways or stairways. She had to be carried in and out,
fed in a different location, etc. And it took months to get her to do
those things. By then, we also know of the abuse. She got over the new
house things and sounds. But she was terrified of airborne objects,
even a falling kleenex, and feet. It was extreme panic for somebody to
walk past her. And she growled at my 12 year old nephew. She only
growled at one other person, a 13 year old boy. The house she came
from had a 13 year old boy.

Anyway, I know that the average person would not be prepared to deal
with this dog. I wasn't really either, as I was in college and
working. But there were other people at home, so she wasn't alone. And
we all had the patience to deal with her. I think most people would
have dumped her at the shelter, and she would have been considered
unadoptable. It get really angry when I think of what these people did
to this sweet dog. And I wonder how many other damaged dogs were
killed because they were damaged and then didn't have somebody to save
them.

My mom's rescued dog was a puppy mill breeder dog. The puppy mill gave
her away free to a couple who thought it would be great to get a
registered sheltie. They didn't realize how messed up a dog would be
if kept in a cage for years. Not housebroken, and major anxiety. And
while I am sure they were good people, they both worked outside the
home at the same time, so that left 8-10 hours for this dog to be left
alone, making messes and chewing up everything. They just couldn't
deal with a dog like this.

So many dogs and cats ruined. or just tossed away, and we can't
possibly help them all. It gets very overwhelming and sad. We *need*
the good stories to keep us focused at doing what we can.

As it is, I am hooked on adopting from shelters or rescue groups. And
I really want all my shelties to be special case rescues. Jenny has
taught me so much that I want to pass it along to the others. As long
as I have the time and the experience, I might as well put it to good
use. And it sure is a wonderful feeling to look at a formerly abused
dog and see a happy dog looking back.

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Philip - 05 Jul 2005 16:54 GMT
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> I am fully aware of that. Mary insinutated that I rather minimized the
> extent that other people are already involved in their local shelters.
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> over the hundreds of nice, adoptable cats who are dumped at a shelter
> right now.

Dumped?  That is a melodramatic description. Animal Control is the largest
contributor to the OC Shelter population, followed by private individuals
who have borrowed animal traps to capture strays and ferals.  Then there is
the relatively small population of "owner relinquished" animals. Another
small population of Shelter contributors are foster homes who cannot place
the kittens of strays and owner relinquished cats in their temporary
custody.  I learned a bit from two of the seasoned shelter workers.

> None of us can save them all, but this time everybody had a
> chance to save one, and Conan symbolized all of them. It was really
> neat to see it unfold until it turned icky.

The day things turned icky here was on the day after I decided to exercise
my exhange option option.

> I hope you get your answers. And yes, I do agree that you all need that.

You may think "they need" answers but in fact, are not entitled to any
explanations.

> Another wacko nutjob theory I have is that, the majority of people who
> regularly do rescue, and many of the best voluteers, are control
> freaks. I don't say that in a bad way. But it's true from what I see
> everyday. Could be a contributing factor in this deal.
>
> Sherry

You're likely right.  Mary and one or two others is/are ...out of control.
LOL
Philip - 05 Jul 2005 16:24 GMT
snip
> I think knowing that this kitty is finally in a forever home would put a
> lot of people's minds at ease, instead of playing guessing games.  What
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> just my 2 1/2 cents,
> Lauren

Hhahaha.  These people will bicker because any home found will not be the
home of THEIR choosing nor will it be soon enough, nor will it be near
enough to their Chosen One in San Diego.  "Why not be up front..." is
OBVIOUS.  Look at all the filth, drama, and vindictiveness that has taken
over completely since Conan was removed from OC Shelter. There's your reason
for taking this out off the public forum.


Mary - 05 Jul 2005 17:40 GMT
> > >What I *do* see, are a whole bunch of extremely compassionate and
> > >generous people concentrating on one cat. I can imagine what could be
[quoted text clipped - 50 lines]
> just my 2 1/2 cents,
> Lauren

And, the "what about the other cats in the shelters" comment,
along with the "others do this without calling attention to themselves"
comment are the last refuge of those who want to find a way to say
that mobiizing to help Conan had to be a bad thing. :) However,
horseshit still smells like horseshit no matter how you package it.
sriddles@aol.com - 05 Jul 2005 17:53 GMT
> And, the "what about the other cats in the shelters" comment,
> along with the "others do this without calling attention to themselves"
> comment are the last refuge of those who want to find a way to say
> that mobiizing to help Conan had to be a bad thing. :) However,
> horseshit still smells like horseshit no matter how you package it.

What I think I'm smelling is a direct quote that nobody ever actually
said. I certainly never said <start quote> others do this without
calling attemtion to themselves>> end quote.

I don't recall that specific quote from anyone else, either.

Sherry
Mary - 05 Jul 2005 17:55 GMT
> > And, the "what about the other cats in the shelters" comment,
> > along with the "others do this without calling attention to themselves"
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>
> Sherry

When you don't read the posts, what do you expect. Your good
buddy Lyn has made this claim as has your best friend Cheryl.
You know I like you Sherry, regardless of how much you piss
me off at times. But THIS time I do not find your comments
helpful. We had a little one-cat problem and together formed
a nice solution. Find someone to get him, send the money to
get him out and transported, find a wonderful local home. It
was all done--until Monica Towel convinced Dan Mahoney
to betray us. Now the cat has been in a cage for over a week
when he did  not have to be. It is simple, and it stinks no matter
what spin you give it.
Philip - 05 Jul 2005 18:12 GMT
>>> And, the "what about the other cats in the shelters" comment,
>>> along with the "others do this without calling attention to
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> when he did  not have to be. It is simple, and it stinks no matter
> what spin you give it.

Mary:   CERTAINLY you just made the most self serving SPIN to date!  Wow.
Charlie Wilkes - 05 Jul 2005 19:00 GMT
>>What I *do* see, are a whole bunch of extremely compassionate and
>>generous people concentrating on one cat. I can imagine what could be
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>To have somebody come in (or somebody change the plans) and then go
>silent on the issue is pretty frustrating.

Yep.  This group has some real shitheads who know how to take the fun
out of life.

My attitude about Conan has always been, he's a standard-issue
housecat.  I don't know him, but I like animals, so if no one else
wants him, I want him.  If someone else wants him, that's even better.
I get sucked into enough animal trips as it is.

However, I am not as sentimental as many people.  I realize Conan is
much more important to a lot of folks than he is to me, because of the
story that goes along with him.  When you suggested your sister (even
though you sided with the "Charlie worries me" crowd) I thought that
was an excellent idea.  That way you can use your interest in
photography and web pages to keep the story alive.

As for Queen Monica's edict -- "a merely 'good enough' home is not
good enough for us," -- it's nothing more than a pretext for two or
three surly, humorless people to take ownership of the Conan story and
effectively put an end to it.  The ideal conditions for feline bliss
are not difficult to create in any home.  All it takes is a loving and
devoted cat owner.

Charlie
Biskybabe - 05 Jul 2005 19:04 GMT
> However, I am not as sentimental as many people.  I realize Conan is
> much more important to a lot of folks than he is to me, because of the
> story that goes along with him.

To me, and I suspect a lot of other people who have worked in rescue
for a while, there's NOTHING special about this story or this cat.  
There's a lot of angst and energy being poured into this cat, while
thousands with the exact same story sit on death row.

Long distance rescues are almost always about the people and rarely
about the animal. If it was about the animal, there are ones just as
deserving locally.

b
Mary - 05 Jul 2005 19:18 GMT
> > However, I am not as sentimental as many people.  I realize Conan is
> > much more important to a lot of folks than he is to me, because of the
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>
> b

How bleeding original. Thanks so much for your contribution.
Meghan Noecker - 06 Jul 2005 08:06 GMT
>However, I am not as sentimental as many people.  I realize Conan is
>much more important to a lot of folks than he is to me, because of the
>story that goes along with him.  When you suggested your sister (even
>though you sided with the "Charlie worries me" crowd) I thought that
>was an excellent idea.  That way you can use your interest in
>photography and web pages to keep the story alive.

This issue has brought out so much discussion, that I feel I have
gotten to know you better, and I'm not so concerned anymore. There are
som nagging issues, but not enough to say you shouldn't have a cat.

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Charlie Wilkes - 06 Jul 2005 09:23 GMT
>>However, I am not as sentimental as many people.  I realize Conan is
>>much more important to a lot of folks than he is to me, because of the
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>gotten to know you better, and I'm not so concerned anymore. There are
>som nagging issues, but not enough to say you shouldn't have a cat.

It's simple, Meghan.  I am a low-bottom troll.  The worst.  I will say
absolutely anything to get a rise out of someone.  I have no shame, no
morality.

Nor am I a perfect pet owner.  I have made various mistakes.  I stand
by the results, however, which consist of a loyal dog and a friendly
cat, both of whom seem to be healthy and 100 percent happy with life.

I could provide a fine home for Conan, but so could a lot of people.
But I'm not the right person to serve as custodian of the group's
totem animal.  Every time Conan sat in my lap and got a little buzz
going with my assistance, I would post about it.  It probably isn't
wise to give me that opportunity.  Conan shouldn't go to a flame
warrior or a troll who posts a lot of wild, inflammatory stuff.

I think people who have lots of pets tend to provide the best pet
care.  They get the process organized because they have to.  They know
who to call and where to go for various services.  They don't skimp on
quality food, etc., because they buy it in bulk and are savvy
shoppers.  You appear to be part of a family of serious animal lovers.
So, I would encourage you to continue your correspondence with Monica
re Conan.  All of this will blow over if someone plugged into this
group gets Conan and starts posting pix and updates.  That's about the
only way it will blow over.

Charlie
Meghan Noecker - 07 Jul 2005 08:17 GMT
>shoppers.  You appear to be part of a family of serious animal lovers.
>So, I would encourage you to continue your correspondence with Monica
>re Conan.  

LOL. At the rate they're going, he might just be available when Kira
is up to a new addition :)

Right now, though, I'm nt an option. And my sister just got another
kitty, so she's not an option now either.

I still think the guy in San Diego would be good.

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Charlie Wilkes - 07 Jul 2005 09:43 GMT
>>shoppers.  You appear to be part of a family of serious animal lovers.
>>So, I would encourage you to continue your correspondence with Monica
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>Right now, though, I'm nt an option. And my sister just got another
>kitty, so she's not an option now either.

Bah.  Three cats, four cats.  What difference does one more make?

>I still think the guy in San Diego would be good.

I agree.  He should have gotten that cat Tues. afternoon.  The idea
that Conan needs some kind of special placement is ridiculous.  Can a
cat tell the difference?  I don't think so.

I get the impression Monica is supremely full of herself and not
inclined to listen to anything she doesn't want to hear.  But I don't
think she is too happy about taking the fall for Dan, who continues to
court his groupies in rpca as though none of this is happening.  Lyn
is standing in as the third leg of the stool (whether or not she
really is) so she can lavish spite on Mary.  It's quite a circus of
fools.

Charlie
-L. - 07 Jul 2005 10:38 GMT
> >I still think the guy in San Diego would be good.
>
> I agree.  He should have gotten that cat Tues. afternoon.  The idea
> that Conan needs some kind of special placement is ridiculous.  Can a
> cat tell the difference?  I don't think so.

So when Conan is placed with the guy in the too-small apartment in SD,
and starts peeing all over the house because he's not happy, so the guy
in SD dumps him at a shelter in SD, would you still think so?

Look - Monica et. al. have been doing placements for a long, long time.
They know what kind of homes are likely to work - long-term - for any
specific cat.  Maybe you and others don't understand this because you
have never been involved in animal welfare.  But it is not just a
matter of handing out the cat to any person who comes along.  Believe
me - we all wish it were that simple.  The goal is to make sure the
home is suitable for *Conan*.  Because cats that are placed "free to
good home" end up back at shelters and are euthanized.  I have seen it
a million times.  And nobody wants Conan's placement to fail.

> I get the impression Monica is supremely full of herself and not
> inclined to listen to anything she doesn't want to hear.

Monica is focused on finding the cat the right home.  That's clearly
all she cares about.

> But I don't
> think she is too happy about taking the fall for Dan, who continues to
> court his groupies in rpca as though none of this is happening.

Again, you don't even know Dan is involved.

> Lyn
> is standing in as the third leg of the stool

Absolutely not.  I am merely trying to be the voice of reason in this
vast wasteland of BS.  You people cannot see your a.s for the anus up
your nose.

>(whether or not she
> really is) so she can lavish spite on Mary.

Yeah, whatever.  I don't need Conan to do that.  I am quite capable of
whacking Mary when she gets too mouthy, all by myself.

>It's quite a circus of
> fools.

The only people making fools of themselves are those of you searching
eyeballs for images and on-line photos for tile patterns.

-L.
Meghan Noecker - 07 Jul 2005 11:04 GMT
>So when Conan is placed with the guy in the too-small apartment in SD,
>and starts peeing all over the house because he's not happy, so the guy
>in SD dumps him at a shelter in SD, would you still think so?

His place was not that small, and he nursed an ill cat. I doubt he
would dump the cat for a simple pee problem. And honestly, why would a
cat have a problem with having a condo all to himself? We're not
talking about a cabin or closet.

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Mary - 07 Jul 2005 15:17 GMT
> >So when Conan is placed with the guy in the too-small apartment in SD,
> >and starts peeing all over the house because he's not happy, so the guy
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> cat have a problem with having a condo all to himself? We're not
> talking about a cabin or closet.

Besides which, he has my guarantee that we would take him
back if there was any problem, even if I had to fly him here
to me until I found him a home.
-L. - 07 Jul 2005 18:00 GMT
> His place was not that small,

What was the square footage?

>and he nursed an ill cat. I doubt he
> would dump the cat for a simple pee problem.

Did you interview him?

>And honestly, why would a
> cat have a problem with having a condo all to himself? We're not
> talking about a cabin or closet.

Depends on the condo, no?

I have a question for you, Dear Meghan.  Since you are a professional
photographer, don't you find it irreprehensible that people on this ng
would steal and use other people's photographs?  Why did you condone
such an action?

-L.
Charlie Wilkes - 07 Jul 2005 20:39 GMT
>> His place was not that small,
>
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>I have a question for you, Dear Meghan.  Since you are a professional
>photographer, don't you find it irreprehensible

There's a cool new word.

>that people on this ng
>would steal and use other people's photographs?  Why did you condone
>such an action?

I suggest you consult an intellectual property lawyer to see if you've
got a cause for legal action.  Wouldn't it be fun to put a process
server on Mary's doorstep?

Charlie
-L. - 07 Jul 2005 23:08 GMT
> There's a cool new word.

It is a word.  But obviously I meant reprehensible.

> >that people on this ng
> >would steal and use other people's photographs?  Why did you condone
> >such an action?
> >
> I suggest you consult an intellectual property lawyer to see if you've
> got a cause for legal action.  

I don't but Dan and Monica do.

-L.
-L. - 07 Jul 2005 23:08 GMT
> There's a cool new word.

It is a word.  But obviously I meant reprehensible.

> >that people on this ng
> >would steal and use other people's photographs?  Why did you condone
> >such an action?
> >
> I suggest you consult an intellectual property lawyer to see if you've
> got a cause for legal action.  

I don't but Dan and Monica do.

-L.
Mary - 08 Jul 2005 00:34 GMT
> > There's a cool new word.
>
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
> I don't but Dan and Monica do.

Double posts! Now she's twitching at the keyboard, folks!!
Hey, EQ, did you get the popcorn?
Charlie Wilkes - 08 Jul 2005 01:02 GMT
>> There's a cool new word.
>
>It is a word.  But obviously I meant reprehensible.

No, Lyn.  There is no such word as "irreprehensible."

Reality is what it is.  If you try to deny that and make up your own
reality, people will tell you you're full of sh.t.  That is what you
have been fighting against all day.  It's sad to watch.  I think you
need to get away from your computer for awhile.  Do something fun with
your family.

Charlie
equalizer - 08 Jul 2005 01:20 GMT
>>> There's a cool new word.
>>
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
>Charlie

http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=irreprehensible
Charlie Wilkes - 08 Jul 2005 02:42 GMT
>>>> There's a cool new word.
>>>
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>
>http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=irreprehensible

I'll be damned.  It's not in the dictionary I have here.

Charlie
equalizer - 08 Jul 2005 02:55 GMT
>>>>> There's a cool new word.
>>>>
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>
>Charlie

That's OK -- the stupid bitch was saying that it's perfectly OK to use
the photos.

eq
Mary - 08 Jul 2005 03:32 GMT
> >>>>> There's a cool new word.
> >>>>
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> That's OK -- the stupid bitch was saying that it's perfectly OK to use
> the photos.

Well I'm glad that is settled.
Cheryl - 08 Jul 2005 04:16 GMT
> That's OK -- the stupid bitch was saying that it's perfectly OK
> to use the photos.
>
> eq

Please do me a favor -- if you must use socks, can you please make it
somewhat consistent so that I can make a regex rule (not this post)?
You're really getting obnoxious and you're the only one I can't
filter. I'd like to make this usable again and software is the only
way.

TYVM HAND

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Mary - 08 Jul 2005 04:28 GMT
> > That's OK -- the stupid bitch was saying that it's perfectly OK
> > to use the photos.
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> filter. I'd like to make this usable again and software is the only
> way.

Aww, EQ, she asked you nicely. I think you should conform to
Cheryl's idea of how you should post.
equalizer - 08 Jul 2005 04:28 GMT
>> That's OK -- the stupid bitch was saying that it's perfectly OK
>> to use the photos.
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
>TYVM HAND

Sorry, you didn't have anything to say about socks when your buddy
Buzzard was in here using them. Can't help you, but you're the mighty IT
guru, I'm sure you can work something out!

eq
Mary - 08 Jul 2005 05:18 GMT
> >> That's OK -- the stupid bitch was saying that it's perfectly OK
> >> to use the photos.
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> Sorry, you didn't have anything to say about socks when your buddy
> Buzzard was in here using them.

Hmm. You have a point there.

Can't help you, but you're the mighty IT
> guru, I'm sure you can work something out!

Yes. Maybe her boss could tell her to go and hack your computer.

Wa HAHAHAHAHAHA! *sigh*
Cheryl - 09 Jul 2005 05:02 GMT
>>> That's OK -- the stupid bitch was saying that it's perfectly
>>> OK to use the photos.
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>
> eq

Thanks anyways. I figured I'd ask. I know others are sick of it
too. You'll probably step it up more since I asked. Whatever.

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-L. - 08 Jul 2005 01:27 GMT
> No, Lyn.  There is no such word as "irreprehensible."

Webster's 1913 Dictionary

Definition:

\Ir*rep`re*hen"si*ble\, a. [L.
irreprehensibilis: cf. F. irr['e]pr['e]hensible. See
{Reprehensible}.]
Not reprehensible; blameless; innocent. --
{Ir*rep`re*hen"si*ble*ness}, n. -- {Ir*rep`re*hen"si*bly},
adv.

There are plenty more definitions if you don't like that one.  Look it
up.

-L.
Mary - 08 Jul 2005 03:42 GMT
> >> There's a cool new word.
> >
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> need to get away from your computer for awhile.  Do something fun with
> your family.

Lyn has been fighting reality all her life. That is why she wants to think
that she can shape/create reality with her perception. Objective
reality is too hard for her to take. She's poisoned by her own
bitterness, and is not even effective enough to spread the poison
beyond her own husband and child. See Lyn. See Lyn flail.
Flail, Lyn, flair. Heh.
Mary - 08 Jul 2005 00:16 GMT
> >> His place was not that small,
> >
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>
> There's a cool new word.

Yes, but irregardless, Lynnie has a good point. Right on top of
her greasy head. :)

> >that people on this ng
> >would steal and use other people's photographs?  Why did you condone
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> got a cause for legal action.  Wouldn't it be fun to put a process
> server on Mary's doorstep?

Now that would be fun!! Trouble is, neither photo belongs to my
good buddy Lynnie. Bummer, that.
Philip - 08 Jul 2005 01:13 GMT
In news:721rc19pb9b094d5sn6pq938k0htiim2hi@4ax.com,
<charlie_wilkes@users.easynews.com>Charlie Wilkes stated
unanimously:

>>> His place was not that small,
>>
[quoted text clipped - 25 lines]
>
> Charlie

Just the thought is giving me a boner.
Meghan Noecker - 08 Jul 2005 04:10 GMT
>I suggest you consult an intellectual property lawyer to see if you've
>got a cause for legal action.  Wouldn't it be fun to put a process
>server on Mary's doorstep?

The owner of the photos could require that the ISP remove the photos
as there is no permision to post them. But monetary damages for
unregistered photos would be limited to what money the violator earned
from them, or what it cost the owner of the photos in terms of lost
sales. Since there was no money involved, that would not be an issue.
So, they could request the removal, but that's all that would be
accomplished.



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Charlie Wilkes - 08 Jul 2005 05:13 GMT
>>I suggest you consult an intellectual property lawyer to see if you've
>>got a cause for legal action.  Wouldn't it be fun to put a process
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>So, they could request the removal, but that's all that would be
>accomplished.

Nothing for Monica's emotional pain and suffering, eh?

Charlie
Meghan Noecker - 08 Jul 2005 07:03 GMT
>>>I suggest you consult an intellectual property lawyer to see if you've
>>>got a cause for legal action.  Wouldn't it be fun to put a process
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>>
>Nothing for Monica's emotional pain and suffering, eh?

Not unless she had them legally registered with the copyright office.
And even then, she would still have to prove the damages. There hasn't
been a single dime made off the photos, so I can't imagine any lawyer
wanting to touch such a case. Not worth the time.

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whitershadeofpale - 08 Jul 2005 07:10 GMT
> Not unless she had them legally registered with the copyright office.
> And even then, she would still have to prove the damages. There hasn't
> been a single dime made off the photos, so I can't imagine any lawyer
> wanting to touch such a case. Not worth the time.

We had reasonable cause, a perpetration was in progress, we just
bee-boed them.
Mary - 07 Jul 2005 23:53 GMT
> > His place was not that small,
>
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> would steal and use other people's photographs?  Why did you condone
> such an action?

She doesn't. I got a scathing email. On the other hand, she commends
you for accusing Catnipped of burning her own cat. Meghan is funny
that way. :)
Meghan Noecker - 08 Jul 2005 04:10 GMT
>She doesn't. I got a scathing email. On the other hand, she commends
>you for accusing Catnipped of burning her own cat. Meghan is funny
>that way. :)

I'm confused now. Until a couple days ago, I never even knew that
somebody had accused Catnipped of burning her own cat.. And I find
that claim hard to believe.

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Mary - 08 Jul 2005 04:32 GMT
> >She doesn't. I got a scathing email. On the other hand, she commends
> >you for accusing Catnipped of burning her own cat. Meghan is funny
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> somebody had accused Catnipped of burning her own cat.. And I find
> that claim hard to believe.

I was being facetious, sorry. My backhanded way of saying "Yes, Lyn,
I am sure that Meghan will get really upset about my reposting Dan
and Monica's photos, and not at all upset that you accuse CN of
something so heinous that you know is not true.

It's been a good day--a lonnnnng day, but a good one. I can be a little
obtuse at times.
Meghan Noecker - 08 Jul 2005 07:04 GMT
>I was being facetious, sorry. My backhanded way of saying "Yes, Lyn,
>I am sure that Meghan will get really upset about my reposting Dan
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>It's been a good day--a lonnnnng day, but a good one. I can be a little
>obtuse at times.

I get it now. Just a bit slow today. Had fun though. I did a photo
shoot of some cute fluffballs. The lady had just bought a really cute
"kitty couch" that looks like a fancy victorian style couch. She got
the last one at that store, so I went to another one, and the only one
they had was damaged. I will try another store tomorrow. That would be
an awesome prop for me to have. Kira would love it.

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Meghan Noecker - 08 Jul 2005 04:04 GMT
>> His place was not that small,
>
>What was the square footage?

Nobody even asked him. Monica doesn't know either.

>>and he nursed an ill cat. I doubt he
>> would dump the cat for a simple pee problem.
>
>Did you interview him?

Neither did Monica. Just a couple emails.

>>And honestly, why would a
>> cat have a problem with having a condo all to himself? We're not
>> talking about a cabin or closet.
>
>Depends on the condo, no?

Well, it can't be smaller than a studio apartment, and that is fine
for a cat. Even an energetic cat. Even monica said he needs "vertical"
space. That means tall cat tree and high furniture to hang out on. It
does not require a huge house.

>I have a question for you, Dear Meghan.  Since you are a professional
>photographer, don't you find it irreprehensible that people on this ng
>would steal and use other people's photographs?  Why did you condone
>such an action?

The photos were offered as evidence. No good unless you can examine
them.

Nobody has claimed to take the photos or attempted to use them in any
way except to dispute the claims made.

And I did ask permission from Phillip for his photos as I wanted to
save a few in my album of special animals.

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-L. - 08 Jul 2005 07:04 GMT
> >> His place was not that small,
> >
> >What was the square footage?
>
> Nobody even asked him. Monica doesn't know either.

Then how can someone say "his place was not that small."?  What Monica
said is that his place wasn't suitable for Conan - and the guy made a
similar comment - Do we really know what that means?  No.

> >>and he nursed an ill cat. I doubt he
> >> would dump the cat for a simple pee problem.
> >
> >Did you interview him?
>
> Neither did Monica. Just a couple emails.

That's an interview, dear.  Just because it isn't done on the phone
doesn't mean it isn't an interview.

> >>And honestly, why would a
> >> cat have a problem with having a condo all to himself? We're not
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> Well, it can't be smaller than a studio apartment, and that is fine
> for a cat.

Maybe to you.  Not to me.  I don't place cats with (single) people
unless they have 1500sq ft, with few exceptions.

>Even an energetic cat. Even monica said he needs "vertical"
> space. That means tall cat tree and high furniture to hang out on. It
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> Nobody has claimed to take the photos or attempted to use them in any
> way except to dispute the claims made.

Oh that is such a cop-out and such a load of bullshit, and you know it.
they were taken without permission and to anyone with any sense of
professional ethics, that's wrong.

You just lost all credibility.

-L.
Kitkat - 08 Jul 2005 07:10 GMT
> Maybe to you.  Not to me.  I don't place cats with (single) people
> unless they have 1500sq ft, with few exceptions.

Wow. That is f.cking brutal. You live in Oregon, right? Maybe you folks
are used to bigger homes/properties? But at any rate, by your standards,
most single people living in any big city would not be suitable pet
owners. I got my Luna as a kitten...she was full of energy (still is!)
and I lived in a tiny 500-600 sq. feet "junior one bedroom". 1500 sq
feet is huge, Lyn...at least in terms of big city standards. If you did
placements here in Chicagoland, you'd either have to change your
"standards" or you'd be responsible for a lot of dead cats.
Philip - 08 Jul 2005 17:31 GMT
>> Maybe to you.  Not to me.  I don't place cats with (single)
>> people unless they have 1500sq ft, with few exceptions.
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> change your "standards" or you'd be responsible for a lot of
> dead cats.

Since square footage is being examined, how much square footage
does Charlie's single wide trailer provide?  LOL.

Our palatial estate exceeds Lyn's minimum and we are not in the
country.  LOL!   600 sq ft is quite tiny for a full grown cat.
Kitkat - 08 Jul 2005 21:16 GMT
>>>Maybe to you.  Not to me.  I don't place cats with (single)
>>>people unless they have 1500sq ft, with few exceptions.
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> Since square footage is being examined, how much square footage
> does Charlie's single wide trailer provide?  LOL.

Clearly not enough for Lyn's standards. Doesn't matter though. Obviously
Charlie isn't getting Conan, so we don't have to worry about it. We can
just worry about those poor, abused animals at his home currently.
:::eye roll:::

> Our palatial estate exceeds Lyn's minimum and we are not in the
> country.  LOL!   600 sq ft is quite tiny for a full grown cat.

Right, but she seemed to be QUITE CONTENT. After all, how many square
feet do you think her CAGE was when she was at the shelter? How many
square feet would her grave have been if she had been euthed? Moving to
my tiny apartment was "movin on up" like George Jefferson used to say!!!
 It was a goddamn palatial estate compared life on death row!

Most SINGLE people do NOT live in apartments in the Chicago area that
are 1500+ sq. feet. If Lyn were placing animals here in Chicago, she
would either have to change (not "lower" btw) her standards or she would
be responsible for a lot of dead cats. Duh.

Pam
Trish - 08 Jul 2005 21:23 GMT
> >>>Maybe to you.  Not to me.  I don't place cats with (single)
> >>>people unless they have 1500sq ft, with few exceptions.
[quoted text clipped - 33 lines]
>
> Pam

Fortunately for Chicago, Lyn is only placing cats with the overly rich,
overly educated, debutantes she hangs out with.

"The pinky and the brain
The pinky and the brain
One's is crazy
The other is insane

We're going to take over the world"
<sinister laugh can be heard in the distance>
-L. - 09 Jul 2005 01:25 GMT
> Most SINGLE people do NOT live in apartments in the Chicago area that
> are 1500+ sq. feet.

You and I must run with different crowds. :)

-L.
Mary - 09 Jul 2005 01:34 GMT
> > Most SINGLE people do NOT live in apartments in the Chicago area that
> > are 1500+ sq. feet.
>
> You and I must run with different crowds. :)
>
> -L.

Well, folks, there you have it. Altogether now:

This is one ignorant, insecure bitch.

Good! That was very good!

Now try this one:

It doesn't matter how big your place is, or how much money you
have. It is what you have inside, Lynnie. And what you have inside
is garbage that is rapidly rotting the outside. Ugly inside is becoming
ugly outside. Just as it should.
Kitkat - 09 Jul 2005 01:43 GMT
>>Most SINGLE people do NOT live in apartments in the Chicago area that
>>are 1500+ sq. feet.
>
> You and I must run with different crowds. :)
>
> -L.

Yes. Apparently, you run with the rich folks. I'm just a simple school
teacher. Clearly, my home was inappropriate for a cat. :\
-L. - 09 Jul 2005 01:48 GMT
> Yes. Apparently, you run with the rich folks.

Nah.  Just people who like wide-open spaces. ;)

> I'm just a simple school
> teacher. Clearly, my home was inappropriate for a cat. :\

I didn't adopt a cat when I was in a studio.  I didn't think I could
live with the litter box in such close quarters.

Do you work for the public school system?

-L.
Kitkat - 09 Jul 2005 01:51 GMT
>>Yes. Apparently, you run with the rich folks.
>
> Nah.  Just people who like wide-open spaces. ;)

Well, now you are just using simple geography as an indicator of who one
runs with. I don't live in Oregon. I lived in Chicago and now live
nearby. Space is at a premium and also costs a sh.t ton of money.

>>I'm just a simple school
>>teacher. Clearly, my home was inappropriate for a cat. :\
>
> I didn't adopt a cat when I was in a studio.  I didn't think I could
> live with the litter box in such close quarters.

I had the litter box in the bathroom. It was no issue at all. DH says
the place was about 700sq feet. No matter how you look at it, you would
have denied me a cat based on square footage in a city that probably
costs double what you are accustomed to. When I got Luna, I was
FINANCIALLY sound and had been wanting a cat since I was a LITTLE girl,
when my calico, Abby, died.

> Do you work for the public school system?

Yes, but I am not sure how relevant that is. Except of course if you
want to discuss Oregon's public school system. It's f.cked! You might
want to get out of your wide open spaces before your son is school aged.
-L. - 09 Jul 2005 02:15 GMT
> >>Yes. Apparently, you run with the rich folks.
> >
> > Nah.  Just people who like wide-open spaces. ;)
>
> Well, now you are just using simple geography as an indicator of who one
> runs with.

What? I have no idea what you are talking about.

The people I know who live in the city (meaning Chicago) aren't all
rich but do have spacious living quarters.  I grew up in the Chicago
area and love the city.  Most of my friends still live there.

>I don't live in Oregon. I lived in Chicago and now live
> nearby. Space is at a premium and also costs a sh.t ton of money.

And your point is...?

> >>I'm just a simple school
> >>teacher. Clearly, my home was inappropriate for a cat. :\
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> have denied me a cat based on square footage in a city that probably
> costs double what you are accustomed to.

You have no idea what my experiences are.  I lived in the Bay Area,
sweetie.

>When I got Luna, I was
> FINANCIALLY sound and had been wanting a cat since I was a LITTLE girl,
> when my calico, Abby, died.

Great.  I'm glad you got a cat and it worked out for you.  I still
wouldn't place a cat in a 700 sq ft studio.

> > Do you work for the public school system?
>
> Yes, but I am not sure how relevant that is.

I was just curious.  I know a some about CPS.

>Except of course if you
> want to discuss Oregon's public school system. It's f.cked! You might
> want to get out of your wide open spaces before your son is school aged.

We live in an excellent school district.  It's subsidized by private
funds.

-L.
Kitkat - 09 Jul 2005 04:36 GMT
>>>>Yes. Apparently, you run with the rich folks.
>>>
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> rich but do have spacious living quarters.  I grew up in the Chicago
> area and love the city.  Most of my friends still live there.

Again...they must have had a lot more money than me starting out.

>>>>I'm just a simple school
>>>>teacher. Clearly, my home was inappropriate for a cat. :\
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> You have no idea what my experiences are.  I lived in the Bay Area,
> sweetie.

Again...ladeefrickindah. I could pass on your condescending pet names,
though.

>>When I got Luna, I was
>>FINANCIALLY sound and had been wanting a cat since I was a LITTLE girl,
>>when my calico, Abby, died.
>
> Great.  I'm glad you got a cat and it worked out for you.  I still
> wouldn't place a cat in a 700 sq ft studio.

You should be glad it worked out for Luna, who was given a home and not
EUTHANIZED!

>>>Do you work for the public school system?
>>
>>Yes, but I am not sure how relevant that is.
>
> I was just curious.  I know a some about CPS.

I don't work for CPS. I work for the public school system, yes. But in
the suburbs.
-L. - 09 Jul 2005 08:26 GMT
<snip>

> > You have no idea what my experiences are.  I lived in the Bay Area,
> > sweetie.
>
> Again...ladeefrickindah. I could pass on your condescending pet names,
> though.

The point WAS, that the cost of living in the Bay Area far exceeds
Chicago, so saying I don't know what people can and can't afford is
ridiculous.  I have lived it.

-L.
tracyrose@gmail.com - 09 Jul 2005 08:37 GMT
"The point WAS, that the cost of living in the Bay Area far exceeds
Chicago, so saying I don't know what people can and can't afford is
ridiculous.  I have lived it".

I live in the Bay Area right now. 1500 sq feet will generally set you
back at least $1800 a month and sometimes quite a bit more. Most of the
houses in the East Bay where I live are bungalows - 1000/1400 sq feet
and they cost about $450,000.

-T
-L. - 09 Jul 2005 08:47 GMT
> "The point WAS, that the cost of living in the Bay Area far exceeds
> Chicago, so saying I don't know what people can and can't afford is
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> -T

And your point is...?

-L.
Kitkat - 09 Jul 2005 11:48 GMT
>>"The point WAS, that the cost of living in the Bay Area far exceeds
>>Chicago, so saying I don't know what people can and can't afford is
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> -L.

Just having a discussion. Geesh!
Mary - 09 Jul 2005 14:39 GMT
> >>"The point WAS, that the cost of living in the Bay Area far exceeds
> >>Chicago, so saying I don't know what people can and can't afford is
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> >
> Just having a discussion. Geesh!

wa~~~~~~hahaha!
Kitkat - 09 Jul 2005 11:48 GMT
> "The point WAS, that the cost of living in the Bay Area far exceeds
> Chicago, so saying I don't know what people can and can't afford is
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> -T

Chicagoland is just under that. I'd say a 1500 sq. foot apt. in chicago
(depending on the neighborhood, of course!!!) could cost about $1500 and
 the condo where I live (not IN the city any more, but just north) will
go for about $350,000. However, a condo like the one I live in would
cost more like $400,000 in the city itself.
Kitkat - 09 Jul 2005 11:45 GMT
> <snip>
>
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> Chicago, so saying I don't know what people can and can't afford is
> ridiculous.  I have lived it.

I understood your point, Lyn.
Mary - 09 Jul 2005 14:39 GMT
> > <snip>
> >
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>
> I understood your point, Lyn.

lol
Trish - 09 Jul 2005 01:52 GMT
> > Yes. Apparently, you run with the rich folks.
>
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>
> -L.

She put in for a transfer into the school system in your district, lucky
lucky you.
Meghan Noecker - 09 Jul 2005 01:57 GMT
>> Yes. Apparently, you run with the rich folks.
>
>Nah.  Just people who like wide-open spaces. ;)

Really? I thought you were in Portland. Looks like a city every time I
go through there. Lots of nasty traffic.
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Kitkat - 09 Jul 2005 02:03 GMT
>>>Yes. Apparently, you run with the rich folks.
>>
>>Nah.  Just people who like wide-open spaces. ;)
>
> Really? I thought you were in Portland. Looks like a city every time I
> go through there. Lots of nasty traffic.

The traffic is shitty there...but it sure doesn't feel like a Chicago or
an NYC.
-L. - 09 Jul 2005 01:26 GMT
> Most SINGLE people do NOT live in apartments in the Chicago area that
> are 1500+ sq. feet.

You and I must run with different crowds. :)

-L.
Mary - 09 Jul 2005 01:37 GMT
> > Most SINGLE people do NOT live in apartments in the Chicago area that
> > are 1500+ sq. feet.
>
> You and I must run with different crowds. :)

Hey, Jonathan ... see what kind of Mom you have? She thinks she is
really something because she lives in a big place that Daddy and disability
pay for. She puts others down because they don't live on the dole, and so
have more modest accomodations. Don't let this bitch shape your values,
son.

"There is no reality, only perception."~~Butt-ugly Lynn, mother of Poor
Jonathan who had no f.cking choice in the matter at all, and chief
toilet cleaner for Will, who almost certainly could have done better.
Trish - 09 Jul 2005 01:45 GMT
> > > Most SINGLE people do NOT live in apartments in the Chicago area that
> > > are 1500+ sq. feet.
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> have more modest accomodations. Don't let this bitch shape your values,
> son.

You know what's funny, is that even in the most expensive suit a person can
still be trailer trash
CatNipped - 09 Jul 2005 04:03 GMT
> > > > Most SINGLE people do NOT live in apartments in the Chicago area that
> > > > are 1500+ sq. feet.
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> You know what's funny, is that even in the most expensive suit a person can
> still be trailer trash

Truer words were never spoken - and Lyn is illustrating your point quite
nicely.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Glitter Ninja - 09 Jul 2005 05:20 GMT
>> You know what's funny, is that even in the most expensive suit a person
>> can still be trailer trash

>Truer words were never spoken

 So, where can I go to actually find out about Conan and how he's doing
and where he's at?  I have read dozens of posts but haven't learned a
thing about Conan.
 And I'd like to add that I live in a trailer and I'm most definitely
not trash, thankyouverymuch, but I guess if you judge people based on
the house they live in you wouldn't know that.  Sheesh.  Don't you
people ever get along even for a moment?

Stacia
CatNipped - 09 Jul 2005 05:23 GMT
> >> You know what's funny, is that even in the most expensive suit a person
> >> can still be trailer trash
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>
> Stacia

But that is exactly what Trish was saying, Stacia.  Lyn, who *claims* to
live in a mansion, is much more trashy that the people she is trying to put
down by putting on airs.

As for Conan, there been about 50,000 about his saga, I don't think you're
going to find anybody to give you  a digest of the story at this point, so
go back and google if you want to know what went on.  As for the present,
Conan is still in a kennel waiting for a home.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Meghan Noecker - 09 Jul 2005 05:33 GMT
>  So, where can I go to actually find out about Conan and how he's doing
>and where he's at?  I have read dozens of posts but haven't learned a
>thing about Conan.

Nobody knows. That's the problem.

>  And I'd like to add that I live in a trailer and I'm most definitely
>not trash, thankyouverymuch, but I guess if you judge people based on
>the house they live in you wouldn't know that.  Sheesh.  Don't you
>people ever get along even for a moment?

As far as I know, only two people on this group think that small
houses are a problem. I know many truck drivers have taken cats on the
road with them, and they've done fine. I certainly don't have a
problem with trailers. I almost moved away for college, and the idea
was to get a small trailer so I could take my cats and dog with me. I
ended up going to a local college instead.

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Trish - 09 Jul 2005 07:30 GMT
> >> You know what's funny, is that even in the most expensive suit a person
> >> can still be trailer trash
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>
> Stacia

Now where did I say everyone who lives in a trailer is trash? Geesh can't
you stop turning every comment into a generalization, thankyouverymuch?
-L. - 09 Jul 2005 01:23 GMT
> > Maybe to you.  Not to me.  I don't place cats with (single) people
> > unless they have 1500sq ft, with few exceptions.
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> and I lived in a tiny 500-600 sq. feet "junior one bedroom". 1500 sq
> feet is huge, Lyn...

My pet room is larger than 1500 sq. ft.

>at least in terms of big city standards. If you did
> placements here in Chicagoland, you'd either have to change your
> "standards" or you'd be responsible for a lot of dead cats.

I don't live in Chicago so I can call the shots as I see them.  Even if
I did I wouldn't place a cat in a 500 sq ft studio apt.

-L.
Mary - 09 Jul 2005 01:31 GMT
> > > Maybe to you.  Not to me.  I don't place cats with (single) people
> > > unless they have 1500sq ft, with few exceptions.
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>
> -L.

LOL! Nobody but Jonathan lets you call any shots, Chubs, and that is
only until he grows up and begins hating you.
Kitkat - 09 Jul 2005 01:41 GMT
>>>Maybe to you.  Not to me.  I don't place cats with (single) people
>>>unless they have 1500sq ft, with few exceptions.
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>
> My pet room is larger than 1500 sq. ft.

Well, lah-dee-frickin-dah!!! I find that hard to believe though. I now
live in a 3 bedroom condo, which is about 1500 square feet. I can't
really see having a "pet room" larger than my goddamn condo. That much
footage around here goes for QUITE a bit of money.

>>at least in terms of big city standards. If you did
>>placements here in Chicagoland, you'd either have to change your
>>"standards" or you'd be responsible for a lot of dead cats.
>
> I don't live in Chicago so I can call the shots as I see them.  Even if
> I did I wouldn't place a cat in a 500 sq ft studio apt.

I'm calling bullshit. You wouldnt be able to place ANY f.cking CATS,
Lyn. Sure, you can keep calling the shots out there in your luxurious
Portland mansion. But my point still stands. If you did rescue/placement
work around here, you would be single-handedly RESPONSIBLE for MANY DEAD
CATS.

I simply can not believe you would deny a cat a home based on square
footage when SO MANY OF THEM ARE ON DEATH ROW!!! It's funny, when I went
to the HS of Chicago, I was interviewed and asked about my willingness
and financial ability to CARE for the cat. Not how much square footage
the little fursack would have to bounce around. And even in that tiny
place, she had all her favorite little spots and she did PLENTY of
bouncing around...and purring...all the usual good stuff.

I simply can't imagine my life without this furbaby:
http://public.fotki.com/kitkatluna/miscellaneous/luna/posing.html
So, both Luna and I are thanking our lucky stars that YOU weren't in
charge of her adoption!!!
Meghan Noecker - 09 Jul 2005 01:57 GMT
>> I don't live in Chicago so I can call the shots as I see them.  Even if
>> I did I wouldn't place a cat in a 500 sq ft studio apt.
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>work around here, you would be single-handedly RESPONSIBLE for MANY DEAD
>CATS.

It doesn't matter where she lives. Portland, OR is just as much as
city as Chicago or Seattle. If you turn down homes that are smaller
than 1500 sq ft, then thousands more animals will be killed. And
that's not how most shelters work.

When I adopted, I was asked about my current animals. Spayed/neutered?
vaccinations? Regular vet care? Etc.

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Kitkat - 09 Jul 2005 02:03 GMT
>>>I don't live in Chicago so I can call the shots as I see them.  Even if
>>>I did I wou