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Mary S. Provided False Information About Conan

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Jess A - 27 Jun 2005 20:40 GMT
I recently started reading this board, and have been following Conan's story!
After reading some of the messages, I became extremely concerned about the
fact that people could justify placing Conan with Charlie Wilkes.  He would
not provide a suitable home for Conan.  Anyone who gets his cat high should
not have a cat.  From what I have seen over and over, he has shown that he
neglects, and in my opinion abuses, animals.  I cannot believe that anybody
would even think about placing Conan there.  It makes me ill to think about
the situation.  

Anyways, what Mary said about the adoption and its process was completely
false.  I was on the phone with Katherine at the Orange County Shelter today,
and nothing Mary has said is true.  Conan is not presently at risk for being
euthanized.  Yes, he will be "re-evaluated" on Wednesday, but Katherine said
that as long as he is in good health and is an adoptable cat, which we know
he is, he will be kept longer.  I don't think that leaving him in the shelter
for a few more days so we could find a more suitable home would pose any sort
of a problem.

Mary claimed to have "arranged" for Conan to be picked up.  Katherine said
numerous times that the Orange County Shelter is a publicly-run government-
funded organization, therefore, no one can arrange for an out-of-state
adoption.  Animals are adopted on a first-come, first-serve basis.  If you
have the money, you can have the cat.  Katherine said she did not receive any
applications from Charlie Wilkes, because they have no applications process
and they do not do ANY sort of screening.  It is not possible that anyone
could have applied to adopt Conan, because they don't take applications.
Despite, what Mary says, Katherine denied that any sort of out-of-state
adoption had been approved, or ever would be.  

You don't have to believe me, call the shelter and ask yourself.

Conan has some time, and I think it is a mistake for people to rush into this
adoption.  Take a little time, have some standards, and find Conan a good
home.  At this point, nobody should settle for someone like Charlie.  Instead
the focus should be put on finding a really wonderful home for Conan with
someone that can give him all of the wonderful things he deserves.

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A concerned cat lover

Mary - 27 Jun 2005 20:43 GMT
> I recently started reading this board, and have been following Conan's story!
> After reading some of the messages, I became extremely concerned about the
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> the focus should be put on finding a really wonderful home for Conan with
> someone that can give him all of the wonderful things he deserves.

None of this is true. I will phone Katherine now.
Philip - 27 Jun 2005 21:08 GMT
>> I recently started reading this board, and have been following
>> Conan's story! After reading some of the messages, I became extremely
[quoted text clipped - 41 lines]
>
> None of this is true. I will phone Katherine now.

Oh here we go YET AGAIN.  I really feel sorry for Katherine.  The poor woman
(who I happen to know now) has more important things to do than deal with
any more than one of you PsychoMoms.  Pester Hector.   LOL
Mary - 27 Jun 2005 21:04 GMT
> I recently started reading this board, and have been following Conan's story!
> After reading some of the messages, I became extremely concerned about the
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> would even think about placing Conan there.  It makes me ill to think about
> the situation.

So what you did was call Katherine and frighten her about Charlie Wilkes.

> Anyways, what Mary said about the adoption and its process was completely
> false.  I was on the phone with Katherine at the Orange County Shelter today,
> and nothing Mary has said is true.  Conan is not presently at risk for being
> euthanized.  Yes, he will be "re-evaluated" on Wednesday, but Katherine said
> that as long as he is in good health and is an adoptable cat, which we know
> he is, he will be kept longer.

As we have already discussed, Katherine has never admitted that they are
a "kill" shelter. However, staff person Jessica said that they were.
Katherine
called me one week ago to tell me that Conan was up for "re-evaluation"
on June 29. Now then, genius, what might this re-evaluation be for, if
not for euthanization?

>I don't think that leaving him in the shelter
> for a few more days so we could find a more suitable home would pose any sort
> of a problem.

You do not know this for sure, so what you think is just not enough.

> Mary claimed to have "arranged" for Conan to be picked up.

I did indeed. I spoke with Katherine yesterday, and she agreed that
Dan could come pick him up today.

Katherine said
> numerous times that the Orange County Shelter is a publicly-run government-
> funded organization, therefore, no one can arrange for an out-of-state
> adoption.

What she said is that they, there at the shelter, cannot arrange an
out-of-town adoption. They don't have the funds for it.

>Animals are adopted on a first-come, first-serve basis.  If you
> have the money, you can have the cat.  Katherine said she did not receive any
> applications from Charlie Wilkes, because they have no applications process
> and they do not do ANY sort of screening.

Nobody said Charlie sent an application.

>It is not possible that anyone
> could have applied to adopt Conan, because they don't take applications.
> Despite, what Mary says, Katherine denied that any sort of out-of-state
> adoption had been approved, or ever would be.

She approved it yesterday.

> You don't have to believe me, call the shelter and ask yourself.

I've left a message with Katherine to call me back and have spoken
this minute with Marcos, who has promised to give her my message.

> Conan has some time, and I think it is a mistake for people to rush into this
> adoption.  Take a little time, have some standards, and find Conan a good
> home.  At this point, nobody should settle for someone like Charlie.  Instead
> the focus should be put on finding a really wonderful home for Conan with
> someone that can give him all of the wonderful things he deserves.

I misrepresented nothing at all. What I suspect you did was frighten
Katherine in an attempt to de-rail the adoption process. We'll see if
you were successful or not.
Matthew - 27 Jun 2005 21:24 GMT
I pity the shelter employees. Perhaps y'all could let them do their
jobs? Donate money directly to the shelter if you want to help. I
don't understand paying the adoption fee for someone who goes in
prepared to pay the fee.

Matthew
Mary - 27 Jun 2005 21:33 GMT
> I pity the shelter employees. Perhaps y'all could let them do their
> jobs? Donate money directly to the shelter if you want to help. I
> don't understand paying the adoption fee for someone who goes in
> prepared to pay the fee.

Yes, I agree. I guess I was hoping the fact that the fee was paid
might get the shelter staff to nudge people in his direction. In any
case, I am still willing (through Dan, who has the money) to
reimburse anyone who adopts Conan.

Don't pity the shelter staff too much, Matthew. Katherine
is implying that there is not a chance Conan will be killed
and there is indeed a chance. Otherwise, what is he being
evaluated for on June 29th?
Philip - 27 Jun 2005 21:31 GMT
snip
> As we have already discussed, Katherine has never admitted that they
> are a "kill" shelter. However, staff person Jessica said that they were.
> Katherine
> called me one week ago to tell me that Conan was up for "re-evaluation"
> on June 29. Now then, genius, what might this re-evaluation be for, if
> not for euthanization?

AHHHH ... so it is you who leapt to a conclusion.  OC shelter does dispose
of animals according to a formula which I details much earlier.

snip
>> Conan has some time, and I think it is a mistake for people to rush
>> into this adoption.  Take a little time, have some standards, and
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> Katherine in an attempt to de-rail the adoption process. We'll see if
> you were successful or not.

In the future Mary, I bet you act swifty and ... alone ... in such rescue
efforts from shelters.  Involve few people as possible, get the job done
quickly, decisively, and without publicity.  Covert recues.
Candace - 27 Jun 2005 22:59 GMT
> Conan has some time, and I think it is a mistake for people to rush into this
> adoption.  Take a little time, have some standards, and find Conan a good
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> --
> A concerned cat lover

Your concern is going to cause this cat his life.  You shouldn't have
meddled at this late stage of the game.  Why didn't you pipe in earlier
before all these people have worked on making arrangements?  You should
have kept out of it and now if Conan can't be sprung, his blood will be
on your hands.  a.shole.

Candace
Charlie Wilkes - 28 Jun 2005 00:00 GMT
>> Conan has some time, and I think it is a mistake for people to rush into this
>> adoption.  Take a little time, have some standards, and find Conan a good
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>
>Candace

I doubt if it's quite that dire.  But the manager of the shelter must
be getting very annoyed.

I suggest Dan immediately drive to the shelter and take possession of
the cat.  He can tell the manager he is going to adopt Conan himself
to resolve the dilemma.  He can simply roll his eyes and spin his
finger if she asks about all the phone calls.  

Then Dan can take him to the airport and put him on a plane to San
Francisco or Seattle.  The cat now has three options: me, the lady in
San Francisco, and Meghan's sister.  I am happy to be the adopter of
last resort and defer to either of the others.

Charlie
Mary - 28 Jun 2005 00:22 GMT
> >> Conan has some time, and I think it is a mistake for people to rush into this
> >> adoption.  Take a little time, have some standards, and find Conan a good
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> San Francisco, and Meghan's sister.  I am happy to be the adopter of
> last resort and defer to either of the others.

We just can't ask Dan to do this, Charlie. Nobody wishes to
go against the shelter's policy--although yesterday it was perfectly
fine to adopt Conan out of town, apparently it is not now. Katherine
has not returned my call and likely will not, as the coward who
called must have demonized both of us.
hondaruehs@aol.com - 28 Jun 2005 01:29 GMT
See what TOO MUCH whining and bitching gets you!!!!!!!!!!
Philip - 28 Jun 2005 03:19 GMT
> See what TOO MUCH whining and bitching gets you!!!!!!!!!!

Salty pussy?
Philip - 28 Jun 2005 01:47 GMT
>>>> Conan has some time, and I think it is a mistake for people to rush
>>>> into this adoption.  Take a little time, have some standards, and
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> has not returned my call and likely will not, as the coward who
> called must have demonized both of us.

It is perfectly ok for an adopting person to be from another state.  This
from Katherine Wilson's mouth to my ears this afternoon.  ALL they care
about is anybody stepping up to the plate, paying the fees, and taking
possession.  It's one unit moved through the system instead of the
euthanaisia chamber.  Ms Wilson is a busy woman managing all that goes on in
the shelter.  She knows now from my perspective WHAT you people are.  She
would not tell me anything directly and specific about your calls but I got
the impression that you have worn thin your welcome.  So ... get your
mission accomplished by simply paying the fees and taking Conan home. It's
that simple. All this petty qualifying crap is just to make yourselves feel
important.  I also took up the matter of personal information. You may have
gotten somebody in deep yogurt if not suspended.
Meghan Noecker - 28 Jun 2005 03:49 GMT
>We just can't ask Dan to do this, Charlie. Nobody wishes to
>go against the shelter's policy--although yesterday it was perfectly
>fine to adopt Conan out of town, apparently it is not now. Katherine
>has not returned my call and likely will not, as the coward who
>called must have demonized both of us.

We don't even know if that is a real policy since she just made it up.

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Philip - 28 Jun 2005 08:14 GMT
>> We just can't ask Dan to do this, Charlie. Nobody wishes to
>> go against the shelter's policy--although yesterday it was perfectly
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>>
> We don't even know if that is a real policy since she just made it up.

"She" being anyone who CALLED Ms. K. Wilson
Philip - 28 Jun 2005 01:48 GMT
>>> Conan has some time, and I think it is a mistake for people to rush
>>> into this adoption.  Take a little time, have some standards, and
[quoted text clipped - 31 lines]
>
> Charlie

There is no special "hold" on Conan whatsoever.  But I see that now cats who
are longer residents at the shelter and the ower relinquished cats have a
little tag on their cage saying "Pet me, I love attention"  So far, that
seems to be the only fallout from the concern over Conan and indeed, it may
just be a coincidence.

As Katherince says (and is shelter policy) "If you like the cat, take it now
while it is here!"
-L. - 27 Jun 2005 23:07 GMT
> I recently started reading this board, and have been following Conan's story!
> After reading some of the messages, I became extremely concerned about the
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> that as long as he is in good health and is an adoptable cat, which we know
> he is, he will be kept longer.

FWIW, most shelters do periodic health checks of cats that are there
for extended stays - this includes a vet or vet tech check, taking the
cat's temp, and general health screen.  This may be what was meant be
"re-evaluation".  Why  - when they call the shelter - doesn't someone
ask *exactly WHAT* they mean by "re-evaluation"...instead of all this
speculation...?
-L.
Mary - 27 Jun 2005 23:19 GMT
> > I recently started reading this board, and have been following Conan's story!
> > After reading some of the messages, I became extremely concerned about the
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> speculation...?
> -L.

I asked Katherine that and she skirted the issue. If all you have to offer
to those who are giving their time and money to help Conan is to
tell even more people to "call the shelter," why bother? a.shole.
-L. - 28 Jun 2005 01:28 GMT
> I asked Katherine that and she skirted the issue.

Then you didn't ask the right question or press it enough.  There is no
reason they shouldn't tell you this information.  She probably didn't
want to hear you scream at her if she told you he would be euthanized,
if your RL persona is anything nearly as acerbic as your OL one is.

>If all you have to offer
> to those who are giving their time and money to help Conan is to
> tell even more people to "call the shelter," why bother? a.shole.

"a.shole" me all you want.  I have connections in LA - and have sent
out feelers to see if anyone can do anything about the situation.  I
also have contributed anonymously to other situations that have arisen
in the group in the past.  I just didn't do it publicly and with
fanfare and for attention.  Like you.

-L.
Mary - 28 Jun 2005 02:03 GMT
> > I asked Katherine that and she skirted the issue.
>
> Then you didn't ask the right question or press it enough.  There is no
> reason they shouldn't tell you this information.  She probably didn't
> want to hear you scream at her if she told you he would be euthanized,
> if your RL persona is anything nearly as acerbic as your OL one is.

Lyn. You have already proven how stupid you are. You do not need
to keep proving it over and over and over.

> >If all you have to offer
> > to those who are giving their time and money to help Conan is to
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> in the group in the past.  I just didn't do it publicly and with
> fanfare and for attention.  Like you.

Right. I did a really bad thing.
Philip - 28 Jun 2005 01:48 GMT
>>> I recently started reading this board, and have been following
>>> Conan's story! After reading some of the messages, I became
[quoted text clipped - 25 lines]
> offer to those who are giving their time and money to help Conan is to
> tell even more people to "call the shelter," why bother? a.shole.

Funny, she answered that very question very succinctly when I asked what
"evaluation date" meant.  Or maybe you never called Katherine at all.
-L. - 28 Jun 2005 02:01 GMT
> Funny, she answered that very question very succinctly when I asked what
> "evaluation date" meant.  Or maybe you never called Katherine at all.

What was her answer?

-L.
Philip - 28 Jun 2005 03:19 GMT
>> Funny, she answered that very question very succinctly when I asked
>> what "evaluation date" meant.  Or maybe you never called Katherine at
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> -L.

Each and every animal is evaluated every ten days based on either its
arrival date or the date the animal was put in a public viewing cage. In
order to "pass inspection" the animal must appear / be healthy, be cordial,
and not too old.  Those are the basic criteria for getting another ten day
stay in Hotel California.
-L. - 28 Jun 2005 07:10 GMT
> Each and every animal is evaluated every ten days based on either its
> arrival date or the date the animal was put in a public viewing cage. In
> order to "pass inspection" the animal must appear / be healthy, be cordial,
> and not too old.  Those are the basic criteria for getting another ten day
> stay in Hotel California.

Ok, what that tells me is that every 10 days the cat may or may not get
a reprieve from being on the kill list.  They cull every day, and so
have to choose who gets culled.  So I would ascertain that he *will* be
at risk of being killed, depending on what other animals he is "up
against".  They may also have a limit on how long they keep any one
animal.  That limit depends on a lot of factors - the primary one being
how full the shelter is.

-L.
Wendy - 28 Jun 2005 11:32 GMT
>> Each and every animal is evaluated every ten days based on either its
>> arrival date or the date the animal was put in a public viewing cage. In
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
> -L.

The problem for a boy like Conan is that, although he is a very pretty cat,
he's an adult in a shelter during kitten season and he's male. Unless people
in CA are totally different that those in this part of the world, male cats
will (in general) sit longer than females. His good looks are only going to
get him so far. How long can he spend in the cage before getting depressed?
Then he won't show as well and that will shorten his 'shelf life' His best
bet this time of year is someone coming to the shelter specifically looking
for an adult.

W
Philip - 28 Jun 2005 16:12 GMT
>>> Each and every animal is evaluated every ten days based on either its
>>> arrival date or the date the animal was put in a public viewing cage. In
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> people in CA are totally different that those in this part of the world,
> male cats will (in general) sit longer than females.

"We" Californians ARE totally different.  Ask anyone who has visited here
from another state!  LOL

> His good looks are only going to get him so far. How long can he spend in
> the cage before getting depressed? Then he won't show as well and that
> will shorten his 'shelf life' His best bet this time of year is someone
> coming to the shelter specifically looking for an adult.
>
> W

Wendy ... are you on anyone's payroll for marketing expertise?  True this is
kitten season and three different people including "Katherine" have said
"this is largest kitten season we've seen in years."   I would still have
Conan but for my veterinary's advice .... and did wind up with a kitten
myself.  It's the socialization of a kitten that is attractive to me.  But
Conan was pretty much "there" as an adult which is largely the reason I
adopted him.  In this important aspect, Conan is still an attractive pet/ in
my view.
Wendy - 28 Jun 2005 16:51 GMT
>>>> Each and every animal is evaluated every ten days based on either its
>>>> arrival date or the date the animal was put in a public viewing cage.
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> reason I adopted him.  In this important aspect, Conan is still an
> attractive pet/ in my view.

I have no clue what the marketing expertise comment means. No I'm on
nobody's payroll. I volunteer for a rescue group. I foster cats (I have 8
fosters currently) and take cats to PetSmart on Saturdays to show them and
try to find them good homes.

He is a gorgeous pet. But too many others find  "the socialization of a
kitten" to be attractive too. This is kitten season and they are available
in spades.

For the brief time of year when kittens aren't as available people have to
take a look at the full sized cats. Conan would have no trouble getting
adopted in a flash at that time. He's a handsome guy and from what you said
a personable one as well.

Well I know Californians are different but didn't know if the preference for
female cats held true there or not. There seem to be a lot of people here
who fear males will start spraying all over their house and other not so
endearing behavior that is attributed to male cats. It doesn't seem to sink
in that male cats aren't the only ones who can spray and that neutering will
take care of most of their concerns <sigh> so the boys tend to sit a little
longer than the girls in my experience at least. All of last summer's
kittens we still had in the winter were boys.

W
-L. - 28 Jun 2005 18:01 GMT
<snip>

> Well I know Californians are different but didn't know if the preference for
> female cats held true there or not.

not in my experience.  I have not seen a sex preference.

>There seem to be a lot of people here
> who fear males will start spraying all over their house and other not so
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> longer than the girls in my experience at least. All of last summer's
> kittens we still had in the winter were boys.

I have seen more of a color preference than anything else.  Black cats
die in droves. :*(

-L.
Mary - 28 Jun 2005 18:08 GMT
> <snip>
>
> > Well I know Californians are different but didn't know if the preference for
> > female cats held true there or not.
>
> not in my experience.  I have not seen a sex preference.

At the grooming place where you worked? Or when was
the last time you worked in rescue? At a shelter? Or anywhere
that would even begin to qualify you to think that your "experience"
is relevant?
-L. - 28 Jun 2005 18:21 GMT
> > <snip>
> >
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>
> At the grooming place where you worked?

I didn't work at a "grooming place".  Grooming was part of my job as a
vet tech at a high-volume feline specialty hospital.  But you already
know this since you stalk me.  I was really good at it, so also
supervised others.  I also ran the ward - making sure the admitted cats
were well cared-for and nursed properly.  I supervised 6 or 7 people
most of the time.  This was the only time I had a paid position in the
veterinary field and I did it for fun and extra pocket money.  I am
retired from my "real" career as a plant molecular biologist.  I
retired in 1999 at the age of 36 - and was able to do so mainly because
of wise investments.  But again, you know this already, as you stalk
me.

>Or when was
> the last time you worked in rescue?

Currently do as a volunteer.

>At a shelter?

The last shelter I worked at (again, as a violunteer) was the Silicon
Valley Humane Society in 2002.

>Or anywhere
> that would even begin to qualify you to think that your "experience"
> is relevant?

My experience is extremely relevant, as any long-time poster to this
forum can tell you.  I have been in "the field" for 17+ years helping
animals - not just cats.

OTOH, I highly suspect you don't even know where your local shelter is.
Let me tell you - it's the Lake County Animal shelter in Garner, NC.
I know because I used to volunteer there, as well.

-L.
Mary - 28 Jun 2005 18:33 GMT
> > > <snip>
> > >
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> vet tech at a high-volume feline specialty hospital.  But you already
> know this since you stalk me.

Do I stalk you? How could I? I have never even googles you?
Do you define "stalking" as my mentioning that your husband's name
is Will and your son's name is Jonathan? No, that can't be stalking,
because you put this information out there, online. The nice mommy
who emailed me sent tinyurls. :)

So, since stalking is a crime, and I have not committed anything
like this, you have just libeled me.

I would love to be a fly on the wall when Jonathan finds
your archived posts defending an old cracker like Philip
who is likely as racist as he is sexist. Particularly when
the reasons you defend him are only that he cannot
stand me--when my only crime has been getting upset
that he threw away a lovely cat after leading him to think
he had a home--all because he had a bad cold.

You are the Lyn who is in Oregon, right? The self-proclaimed
"Socialist?" The last Socialist in the world, aren't you now?
The same Lyn who apparently spills her guts about everything
from her reproductive problems to her facist pro-censorship
activities all over Usenet in groups like alt.support.infertility?
And alt.support.infertility.parenting? The Lyn who used to live
in Indiana, isn't it?

I was really good at it, so also
> supervised others.  I also ran the ward - making sure the admitted cats
> were well cared-for and nursed properly.  I supervised 6 or 7 people
> most of the time.  This was the only time I had a paid position in the
> veterinary field and I did it for fun and extra pocket money.

But you did not say WHEN and for how LONG you did this?
Because my original question was, what is the source of your
vast knowledge on whether there is a bias toward cats of
one sex or another in California shelters, remember?

I am
> retired from my "real" career as a plant molecular biologist.  I
> retired in 1999 at the age of 36 - and was able to do so mainly because
> of wise investments.  But again, you know this already, as you stalk
> me.

There you go again. Risky, risky business for a little housewife
and Mommy to engage in.

Try to remember your lesson, Lynnie. :) You can learn.

I know that you can.
Philip - 28 Jun 2005 19:21 GMT
>> > > <snip>
>> > >
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> that he threw away a lovely cat after leading him to think
> he had a home--all because he had a bad cold.

Well if you want to charge Lyn with libel, then I can charge you with the
same.  Gee ... aren't you the one to spread joy and cheer amoung the ranks.
Mary - 28 Jun 2005 19:36 GMT
> >> > > <snip>
> >> > >
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
> Well if you want to charge Lyn with libel, then I can charge you with the
> same.  Gee ... aren't you the one to spread joy and cheer amoung the ranks.

Reading comprehension, Philip. Nobody said anythng about charging
anyone with anything. And I have not libeled you because it is not
libel when it is TRUE. But you know that.

Did you get the PayPal yet?
Philip - 29 Jun 2005 03:02 GMT
>> "Mary" <marys@catlover.com> wrote in message
> news:42c18a05_3@x-privat.org...
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>
> Did you get the PayPal yet?

When a payment is credited to my account, I recieve and automated notice.
Should I be expecting payment?
Mary - 29 Jun 2005 03:09 GMT
> >> "Mary" <marys@catlover.com> wrote in message
> > news:42c18a05_3@x-privat.org...
[quoted text clipped - 43 lines]
> When a payment is credited to my account, I recieve and automated notice.
> Should I be expecting payment?

You bet! I think you should hold your breath. :)
-L. - 28 Jun 2005 23:22 GMT
> Do I stalk you? How could I? I have never even googles you?
> Do you define "stalking" as my mentioning that your husband's name
> is Will and your son's name is Jonathan? No, that can't be stalking,
> because you put this information out there, online. The nice mommy
> who emailed me sent tinyurls. :)

Riiiiight.  Since I haven't mentioned my husband's name in....oh, I
dunno - two years or so, you had to do some really deep digging to find
that.

Or perhaps some small-minded dickwad *is* feeding you information.  I
wouldn't doubt it.  I have proudly done my share to piss off the
Religious Right, and since you seem to be a defender of the Right to
Life camp, it wouldn't surprise me one bit if one of those Fundie twits
I pissed off thinks they are "getting even" by feeding you information.
Sad life that you both lead, if so.

> So, since stalking is a crime, and I have not committed anything
> like this, you have just libeled me.

OOOH!  I am SOOO SCARED!  Get over yourself, twit.  Everyone on this ng
knows you have stalked me for months.  And let me give you an education
in libel:  you have to prove damages.  Seeing that you damage your own
repuation far more than anyone else *ever* could, I won't be sweating
anytime soon.

> I would love to be a fly on the wall when Jonathan finds
> your archived posts defending an old cracker like Philip
> who is likely as racist as he is sexist. Particularly when
> the reasons you defend him are only that he cannot
> stand me--

Nope.  I am not "defending" him on his sexist attitude.  I merely said
I suspect it was tongue-in-cheek.

>when my only crime has been getting upset
> that he threw away a lovely cat after leading him to think
> he had a home--all because he had a bad cold.

You really think that's your "only crime"?  Really?  What you said to
Phillip was unconscionable, but *somewhat* understandable because I
think (unlike people) you do care about cats.  It's the treatment of
and consideration for people you seem to have a real problem with.  Not
just one or two, but almost everyone in this ng.  From Kelly H. to
Phillip and everyone in-between.  Heck, you were even Megan's friend
once.  The only one you haven't treated like sh.t at one time or
another is CatCrapped.  But that's to be expected - she's the "me too"
to your self-aggrandized "Big Dog".  She's the only advocate you have.
Nobody but yourselves take you seriously.

> You are the Lyn who is in Oregon, right? The self-proclaimed
> "Socialist?" The last Socialist in the world, aren't you now?

Showing your ignorance, once again...I have no provbel stating I am a
Socialist.  In fact, I am proud to be a Socialist.  You should try
caring about other people sometime....

> The same Lyn who apparently spills her guts about everything
> from her reproductive problems to her facist pro-censorship
> activities all over Usenet in groups like alt.support.infertility?
> And alt.support.infertility.parenting? The Lyn who used to live
> in Indiana, isn't it?

I'm not ashamed of anything I have ever posted - especially not ashamed
of anything I have ever posted in the above-mentioned support groups.
What you need to be ashamed of is purposely using that information -
from a SUPPORT group -  in order to try to "defame" me.  Is nothing
sacred to you?  You have already shown that the privacy of a baby isn't
sacred to you.  Remember, I have never used J's name on Usenet.  Never.

Big Bad Mary.  All she can come up with is the name of my 17 month old
kid, my husband's name, where I live and have lived and the fact that I
carry a few extra pounds.  My, aren't you tough!  Let me give you a
hint:  Good trolls are much more subtile than you.  What's really funny
is you think this posting information some how is detrimental to me.
In the mean time, I hooked you, big time.  I guess we won't be hearing
any more whining about "trojans", now, will we?  Tisk, Tisk...

> I was really good at it, so also
> > supervised others.  I also ran the ward - making sure the admitted cats
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> vast knowledge on whether there is a bias toward cats of
> one sex or another in California shelters, remember?

No, your orginal questions were:

"At the grooming place where you worked? Or when was
the last time you worked in rescue? At a shelter? Or anywhere
that would even begin to qualify you to think that your "experience"
is relevant? "

I think I answered those.  If you are now saying you want to know when
and for how long I worked in rescue in California, the answer would be
2000-2003.  I worked for a number of organizations in the Bay area,
primarily doing spay and neuter education.  But I don't think you
really want to know this.  I think the above was just another *sad*
attemp to defame me, yet again.

>  I am
> > retired from my "real" career as a plant molecular biologist.  I
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> There you go again. Risky, risky business for a little housewife
> and Mommy to engage in.

Like I said, I'm really scared.  Get a f.cking life, you boor.

I'm going back to my RS activities.  Have at it.  I am sure it will
give your petty mind much pleasure.

-L.
Mary - 29 Jun 2005 01:17 GMT
> > Do I stalk you? How could I? I have never even googles you?
> > Do you define "stalking" as my mentioning that your husband's name
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>
> -L.

And the lesson is, once again, and as many times as you need to
hear it, until you get it:

If you can dish it out but you can't take it, it is best to hand in
your f.cking spoon. :) HTH. HANN.
-L. - 29 Jun 2005 02:27 GMT
> And the lesson is, once again, and as many times as you need to
> hear it, until you get it:
>
> If you can dish it out but you can't take it, it is best to hand in
> your f.cking spoon. :) HTH. HANN.

You're the one with the spoon - up your a.s apparently.

-L.
equalizer - 29 Jun 2005 02:47 GMT
>> And the lesson is, once again, and as many times as you need to
>> hear it, until you get it:
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>
>-L.

Just curious -- would you have allowed yourself to post that in *your*
moderated group? Just curious.....

eq
Mary - 29 Jun 2005 03:08 GMT
> >> And the lesson is, once again, and as many times as you need to
> >> hear it, until you get it:
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> Just curious -- would you have allowed yourself to post that in *your*
> moderated group? Just curious.....

*snicker*
Cheryl - 29 Jun 2005 03:22 GMT
>>> And the lesson is, once again, and as many times as you need
>>> to hear it, until you get it:
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>
> eq

You're adding fuel to the fire for the need for a split from this
group. YOu know that, right?  I like you off and on (you probably
don't care) and I'd like to KF you after this recent Conan thingie,
but you change your ID and email so I can't.

Signature

Cheryl

"The clever cat eats cheese and breathes down rat holes with baited
breath."
- W.C. Fields

Mary - 29 Jun 2005 03:33 GMT
> >>> And the lesson is, once again, and as many times as you need
> >>> to hear it, until you get it:
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> You're adding fuel to the fire for the need for a split from this
> group. YOu know that, right?

Are you high, or just sick? So WHAT? You whiners who need to
have things the way they were in the "good old days" and others
who want to censor and control for other reasons need to get the
f.ck into a moderated group where you can then fight with the other
control freaks over control. I can see you now. "WHO is going to
moderatte? HER??" Bwa ha!

I like you off and on (you probably
> don't care) and I'd like to KF you after this recent Conan thingie,
> but you change your ID and email so I can't.

wahh, wahh, wahh. Try a bit of self control.
Cheryl - 29 Jun 2005 03:44 GMT
>  I like you off and on (you probably
>> don't care) and I'd like to KF you after this recent Conan
>> thingie, but you change your ID and email so I can't.
>
> wahh, wahh, wahh. Try a bit of self control.

Yah, I guess I just have to skip over posts from users with no
vowels. There's no regex for that. That I know of. My time is
limited. Not all day reading. Seriously Mary, I don't know how you
make a living with your home business with as much time that you have
for Usenet. My [virtual] hat is off to you.

Signature

Cheryl

"The clever cat eats cheese and breathes down rat holes with baited
breath."
- W.C. Fields

Mary - 29 Jun 2005 03:46 GMT
> >  I like you off and on (you probably
> >> don't care) and I'd like to KF you after this recent Conan
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> make a living with your home business with as much time that you have
> for Usenet. My [virtual] hat is off to you.

Why thank you. But I swear, I work like a dawg. A cat would not be
caught dead working this much. :)
-L. - 30 Jun 2005 00:37 GMT
> Yah, I guess I just have to skip over posts from users with no
> vowels. There's no regex for that. That I know of. My time is
> limited. Not all day reading. Seriously Mary, I don't know how you
> make a living with your home business with as much time that you have
> for Usenet. My [virtual] hat is off to you.

It's easy since she sells Avon for a living.

-L.
Mary - 30 Jun 2005 02:32 GMT
> > Yah, I guess I just have to skip over posts from users with no
> > vowels. There's no regex for that. That I know of. My time is
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>
> It's easy since she sells Avon for a living.

What is Avon?
Mary - 29 Jun 2005 03:00 GMT
> > And the lesson is, once again, and as many times as you need to
> > hear it, until you get it:
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>
> You're the one with the spoon - up your a.s apparently.

I really wanted to say that this at least *approaches* wit.
But alas ...
Philip - 28 Jun 2005 18:22 GMT
> <snip>
>
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>
> -L.

Pigment-ism.   Emphasis on the first three letters. I recall the paper
stating black cats would not be adopted out during Halloween week and one
other pagan holiday due to ritual sacrificing.  Awful people.
Wendy - 28 Jun 2005 19:49 GMT
> <snip>
>
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>
> -L.

That's the same here except ours don't die they just take a reallllllly long
time to find a home for. We had one sweet solid black boy for over a year
but we finally got him a really great home. :o)
Mary - 28 Jun 2005 18:19 GMT
> >> Each and every animal is evaluated every ten days based on either its
> >> arrival date or the date the animal was put in a public viewing cage. In
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> bet this time of year is someone coming to the shelter specifically looking
> for an adult.

You know, I have never thought about it, but when I adopted Cheeks it
was November and there were no kittens at all. I was not looking for
a kitten--but that just never occurred to me before. When is prime
kitten season?
-L. - 28 Jun 2005 18:25 GMT
> You know, I have never thought about it, but when I adopted Cheeks it
> was November and there were no kittens at all. I was not looking for
> a kitten--but that just never occurred to me before. When is prime
> kitten season?

There are two kitten seasons - Spring and Fall.  The prime months are
May - June and August - September.  But it depends on what area of the
country you live in - it is affected by weather, among other factors.

Most rescue groups consider April through October to be "kitten
season".

-L.
Wendy - 28 Jun 2005 19:58 GMT
>> >> Each and every animal is evaluated every ten days based on either its
>> >> arrival date or the date the animal was put in a public viewing cage.
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> a kitten--but that just never occurred to me before. When is prime
> kitten season?

Pretty much the warm months for the majority. My last foster kitten last
fall was probably born the end of September early October and we started
seeing early litters this year in February. We had a mild early winter
thought so that's probably why we were seeing kittens that early. We had a
lot of URI with the early ones and lost litters in spite of getting mom
inside before she delivered. Just not soon enough I guess.
clfr@adelphia.net - 30 Jun 2005 02:29 GMT
> You know, I have never thought about it, but when I adopted Cheeks it
> was November and there were no kittens at all. I was not looking for
> a kitten--but that just never occurred to me before. When is prime
> kitten season?

Spring & summer, AFAIK.

Cathy
Rhonda - 28 Jun 2005 01:43 GMT
Is this Karen V, the one with the Ebay auctions?

Bwaaa haaa haaa...

Pardon me if I'm wrong, but I did a little sleuthing because I am so pissed.

Rhonda

> I recently started reading this board, and have been following Conan's story!
> After reading some of the messages, I became extremely concerned about the
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> the focus should be put on finding a really wonderful home for Conan with
> someone that can give him all of the wonderful things he deserves.
biggerbadderbarry - 28 Jun 2005 19:29 GMT
> A concerned cat lover

crusty sock-puppet

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