My wife and I have had our cat, Isabella, for about 6 years.  She is
very sweet to us but since she was a kitten has been extremely
aggressive and territorial towards anyone other than us who comes into
the house -- hissing, growling, cornering the person, etc.  My wife and
I are expecting our first child in August and we are very concerned
that Isabella will attack the baby.  We are heartbroken about it but we
have concluded that we cannot risk it and we cannot keep her.

Does anyone know an animal sanctuary that will take an aggressive
animal?  (I am willing to make a substantial donation for her care...)
We live in north-central New Jersey.

Is it more "humane" to euthanize her -- is she better off dead than
miserable for the rest of her life?

Help!