>> Sounds so familiar; possible IBD. My Shadow had everything but
>> exploratory surgery to diagnose it. He did have a biopsy of the
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> Can you tell me what palliative care is??
I just found out that my kitty isn't coming home either. I'm sitting
here crying my eyes out. The vet called this morning after his
consultation with the oncologist regarding medical treatment.
Evidentally the biopsy showed so many things wrong. They did a biopsy
of multiple organs. I can't go into it all right now because I'm
upset but she had lymphoma too. I loved her so much. The vet and I
did all we could. She used to have this stuffed raccoon she carried
around the house (I posted awhile ago about how cute it was) and now my
other cat is licking it. He knows she's gone. And she's not coming
home. Oh god, I'm so upset.
mlbriggs - 22 Jun 2005 18:50 GMT
> I just found out that my kitty isn't coming home either. I'm sitting here
> crying my eyes out. The vet called this morning after his consultation
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> about how cute it was) and now my other cat is licking it. He knows she's
> gone. And she's not coming home. Oh god, I'm so upset.
"Rise up slowly, Angel...it's hard to let you go..."
Sincere condolences in the passing of your loved kitty. MLB
Karen - 22 Jun 2005 22:45 GMT
I"m so so so sorry. I so totally understand. I will say I finally felt
"complete" when I got Grant's ashes back. But it's just so darned hard.
((((hugs))))
> I just found out that my kitty isn't coming home either. I'm sitting
> here crying my eyes out. The vet called this morning after his
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> other cat is licking it. He knows she's gone. And she's not coming
> home. Oh god, I'm so upset.
Elle - 22 Jun 2005 22:54 GMT
I'm so sorry, Laura. I'm sure this cat was lucky to have you for as long as
she did.
> I just found out that my kitty isn't coming home either. I'm sitting
> here crying my eyes out. The vet called this morning after his
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> other cat is licking it. He knows she's gone. And she's not coming
> home. Oh god, I'm so upset.
Wendy - 23 Jun 2005 01:32 GMT
> I just found out that my kitty isn't coming home either. I'm sitting
> here crying my eyes out. The vet called this morning after his
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> other cat is licking it. He knows she's gone. And she's not coming
> home. Oh god, I'm so upset.
So sorry Laura. You did the best you could for her.
W
Candace - 23 Jun 2005 01:46 GMT
> I just found out that my kitty isn't coming home either.
> He knows she's gone. And she's not coming
> home. Oh god, I'm so upset.
Laura, I'm terribly sorry for you and your kitty. It's very unfair.
Time really will make it better although she will always be a part of
you. She knew you loved her and I'm sure you will meet again one day.
My condolences.
Candace
Cheryl - 23 Jun 2005 02:04 GMT
> I just found out that my kitty isn't coming home either. I'm
> sitting here crying my eyes out. The vet called this morning
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> licking it. He knows she's gone. And she's not coming home.
> Oh god, I'm so upset.
Laura, I'm so so very sorry for your loss. IBD is horrible to watch
a cat go through. She's out of pain now. Purrs for your broken
heart.

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Linda E - 23 Jun 2005 02:37 GMT
>I just found out that my kitty isn't coming home either.
Laura, I am so very sorry for your loss....
Linda E
CatNipped - 23 Jun 2005 03:07 GMT
> I just found out that my kitty isn't coming home either. I'm sitting
> here crying my eyes out. The vet called this morning after his
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> other cat is licking it. He knows she's gone. And she's not coming
> home. Oh god, I'm so upset.
{{{{{{{{{{Laura}}}}}}}}}} I'm so sorry for your loss!
Hugs,
CatNipped
LauraM - 23 Jun 2005 03:37 GMT
Thank you SOO much everyone for your thoughts and prayers. It is so
difficult no matter how many times I tell myself I did the right thing.
Today I received a nice basket of flowers delivered from my vet and
staff and tonight my husband brought me flowers when he got home from
work. I'm thankful to everyone for such wonderful support. My kitty
had a "light way" about her. Very gentle and loving. I feel her
gentleness in my heart more than ever today.
Rhonda - 23 Jun 2005 03:52 GMT
I'm sorry, Laura. It's so hard to let them go.
Sounds like she decided to leave some of her best qualities with you.
Rhonda
> Thank you SOO much everyone for your thoughts and prayers. It is so
> difficult no matter how many times I tell myself I did the right thing.
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> had a "light way" about her. Very gentle and loving. I feel her
> gentleness in my heart more than ever today.
LauraM - 23 Jun 2005 15:20 GMT
I never thought of it that way. That's nice. Thank you.
KellyH - 23 Jun 2005 03:08 GMT
>I just found out that my kitty isn't coming home either. I'm sitting
> here crying my eyes out. The vet called this morning after his
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> other cat is licking it. He knows she's gone. And she's not coming
> home. Oh god, I'm so upset.
Laura, I am so sorry for your loss. How devastating!

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Lesley - 23 Jun 2005 11:56 GMT
Laura
I'm crying too. Thinking of you
Lesley
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