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Candace - 16 Jun 2005 05:28 GMT
I feel certain that Conan's return to a high-kill shelter has probably
resulted in his death already.  Let's all hope that there is something
like the Rainbow Bridge or that cats have an afterlife, too, so that
Conan finally feels love and happiness now after an earthly life of
being dumped and put in shelters repeatedly.  It's such a sad, sad
story.

Candace
Mary - 16 Jun 2005 05:40 GMT
> I feel certain that Conan's return to a high-kill shelter has probably
> resulted in his death already.  Let's all hope that there is something
> like the Rainbow Bridge or that cats have an afterlife, too, so that
> Conan finally feels love and happiness now after an earthly life of
> being dumped and put in shelters repeatedly.  It's such a sad, sad
> story.

Saddest thing that has ever happened here. I feel sick.
sriddles@aol.com - 16 Jun 2005 05:46 GMT
> > I feel certain that Conan's return to a high-kill shelter has probably
> > resulted in his death already.  Let's all hope that there is something
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>
> Saddest thing that has ever happened here. I feel sick.

It *is* sad. It's watching a cat get killed and not being able to do
anything about it. I don't understand the bullshit innuendos about
Conan having "more than a URI" or something. The poor cat probably just
had herpes or something that was triggered active by all the stress.
I hate people sometimes.

Sherry
Candace - 16 Jun 2005 06:15 GMT
> > Saddest thing that has ever happened here. I feel sick.
>
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>
> Sherry

If he is still alive, maybe we can all send him prayers, healing
thoughts, positive energy, whatever we believe that is good, and hope
that he truly does get veterinary care, a good foster home, and
ultimately a forever home that he certainly deserves after all he has
been through.

At best, he is back in a cage now, feeling sick, and confused that the
home he was getting used to is gone.

It's f.cking awful.

Candace
Phil P. - 16 Jun 2005 06:46 GMT
> > > I feel certain that Conan's return to a high-kill shelter has probably
> > > resulted in his death already.  Let's all hope that there is something
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> had herpes or something that was triggered active by all the stress.
> I hate people sometimes.

He obviously has no tolerance, respect or compassion for cats- especially
sick cats. So, I think treatment failed because his lack of compassion and
gentleness probably added to the cat's stress and exacerbated the disease.

Phil
Wendy - 16 Jun 2005 11:28 GMT
> > > I feel certain that Conan's return to a high-kill shelter has probably
> > > resulted in his death already.  Let's all hope that there is something
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>
> Sherry

Thank God all people aren't like that.  We had a horrible time with URIs
with the really early litters of kittens this year. If their adoptive people
had been like this we'd have them all back by now. I just saw one girl at
the vet last weekend with one of my former fosters. The poor baby had her
eye infection flare back up from the stress of moving to her new home. I
don't see her new mommy resenting having to vet her and from what I heard
the love the little kitty is giving back is more than making up for the vet
visits.
Philip - 16 Jun 2005 20:55 GMT
> Thank God all people aren't like that.  We had a horrible time with
> URIs with the really early litters of kittens this year. If their
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> having to vet her and from what I heard the love the little kitty is
> giving back is more than making up for the vet visits.

Thank God not all cats deteriorate so dramatically starting the second day
home or ... you *would* be getting cats back for exchanges.

The new kitten is quite ball of energy.  He's already relieved himself in
the litter box, eaten well, and is checking out the back alleys of every
appliance and piece of furniture in one end of the house.  This one does
chortle and roll his rr's.  Funny.  Quite a vocabulary too.

http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y288/BigRedKitty/Kitten1.jpg
Phil P. - 16 Jun 2005 21:08 GMT
> > Thank God all people aren't like that.  We had a horrible time with
> > URIs with the really early litters of kittens this year. If their
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>
> The new kitten is quite ball of energy.

Why did you adopt a kitten when you have one foot in the grave and the other
on a banana peel?  You'll probably be dead before the cat is neutered.

"Euthanasia candidates" like you should adopt older, senior cats that might
not outlive you- or didn't you think about anything but your own decrepit
self?
Catnipped - 17 Jun 2005 01:24 GMT
> > Thank God all people aren't like that.  We had a horrible time with
> > URIs with the really early litters of kittens this year. If their
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>
> http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y288/BigRedKitty/Kitten1.jpg

I don't know about anybody else, but I *DON'T* want to hear about this
kitten and I'm *NOT* going to look at pictures because I don't want to have
that picture in my mind when he gets sick and this a.shole take him in to be
killed because he can't be bothered with a sick cat!
Noon Cat Nick - 16 Jun 2005 06:30 GMT
> I feel certain that Conan's return to a high-kill shelter has probably
> resulted in his death already.  Let's all hope that there is something
> like the Rainbow Bridge or that cats have an afterlife, too, so that
> Conan finally feels love and happiness now after an earthly life of
> being dumped and put in shelters repeatedly.  It's such a sad, sad
> story.

Just this side of the Rainbow Bridge, there is a land of meadows, hills
and valleys with lush green grass. When a beloved pet dies, the pet goes
to this place...

But some of them here by the Bridge are different. They were beaten,
starved, tortured, and unloved. They watch wistfully as their friends
leave one by one, to cross the Bridge with their special person. But for
them there is no special one. Their time on Earth did not give them one.

But one day, as they run and play, they notice someone standing by the
road to the Bridge. They see a person wistfully watching the reunions of
friends, for during life, this person had no pet. This person, too, was unloved.

Standing there alone, one of the unloved pets approaches, curious as to
why this person is also alone. And as the unloved pet and the unloved
person get nearer to each other, a miracle occurs, for these are the
ones who were meant to be together; the special person and the beloved
pet who never had the chance to meet while on Earth. Finally, now, at
the edge of the Rainbow Bridge, they meet, their pain and sorrow
disappear, and two friends come together.

They cross the Rainbow Bridge together, never again to be separated.

* * * * * * * * *

The little dog arrived at the Rainbow Bridge, and a pack of dogs rushed
up to greet him. He braced himself, expecting a fight, but this was the
first pack that wagged their tails and kissed him instead of attacking him.

It was beautiful here, and everyone was nice to him. None of them had
been born in a puppy mill, like he had, and used for dog-bait fighting
and left to die in a shelter because he was a mix-breed battle-scarred
cur and wasn't cute. They explained why they were waiting...for their
humans who loved them.

"What is love?" he asked, and God let him go back to earth, and find out.

Warm, and dark, he squeezed in with the others and waited for the day to
be born. Scared, he held back as long as he could, but finally got
dragged out, by his hind feet. Hands without fur held him gently and
rubbed him dry and opened his mouth and guided him to a warm nipple with
milk  He didn't get a good hold on it, because one of his big fat
brothers pushed him aside. The human hand moved the other puppy to
another nipple and held his body, so he could drink.

"Ahhh, that's better," he thought, and drank until his jaws got tired
and he curled up to sleep next to his warm hairy mother. "I remember
this," he mused..."Too bad I'll have
to grow up to be hit, left out in the cold and rain, and used for
dog-bait fighting, and die as an unclaimed rescue dog. I remember what
it's like, being a dog." he thought sadly.

That night, he crawled up to his mother and tried to nurse, but he kept
getting pushed off to the side. When they were full, the big brothers
and sisters got their bottoms cleaned and he finally latched on to a
nipple, but the human hands weren't there to hold him up, and there
wasn't any milk in any of the nipples, anyway. He was weak and so tiny.
It was even hard to stay upright, and he fell over on his back and
couldn't right himself.

So he began to cry, and suddenly the human hands were there, holding him
up and puting a rubber thing in his mouth. It didn't taste or feel like
mother, but it was warm and made
the ache in his tummy go away.

He was having trouble breathing...His lungs weren't fully developed,
because he had waited too long to join the others in the womb, as he
took one last romp at the Rainbow Bridge. He could feel the heartbeat of
the human, who had laid him on her chest and covered him with a soft
cloth, keeping him warm, and soothing his boney body with gentle
circling touches.

He kept thinking of his new friends who had been so nice to him at the
Bridge and asked God if he could go back. God said "Yes, but not just
yet. You wanted to experience Love."

So for several hours (seemed like days but it was dark and he couldn't
tell what time it was), the human supplemented his feeding and let him
experience the warmth of his mother's body and tongue, and the pile of
warm soft littermates. He got weaker, and the human held him more often,
leaving the littermates to sleep in a pile while he got carressed,
kissed, and got to listen to the heartbeat which was strong and loving.

Finally God came back and asked, "Are you ready to come back to the
Rainbow Bridge? "Yes," he responded, with a little sorrow, because the
human didn't want to let him go, and was crying.

He pushed the air out of his lungs and floated back to the Rainbow
Bridge and looked back at the human, who was still crying and holding
the limp body that he had borrowed for his trip.

"Thank you, God," he said. "Love is beautiful, and I will wait near the
Bridge and let the human know, when she arrives, that I loved her, too."
--Joy LaCaille
Mary - 16 Jun 2005 06:37 GMT
> > I feel certain that Conan's return to a high-kill shelter has probably
> > resulted in his death already.  Let's all hope that there is something
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>
> * * * * * * * * *

Thanks, Nick. It is really hard to think about Conan.

> The little dog arrived at the Rainbow Bridge, and a pack of dogs rushed
> up to greet him. He braced himself, expecting a fight, but this was the
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> Bridge and let the human know, when she arrives, that I loved her, too."
> --Joy LaCaille
Candace - 16 Jun 2005 06:44 GMT
> Standing there alone, one of the unloved pets approaches, curious as to
> why this person is also alone. And as the unloved pet and the unloved
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>
> They cross the Rainbow Bridge together, never again to be separated.

I never heard either one of those.  Waaaaah, now I'm sobbing.  Life
just plain sucks for most animals and they're so much better and purer
than we are.  I really hope the Rainbow Bridge or something very
similar exists; otherwise, what's the point?

Candace
Mary - 16 Jun 2005 07:38 GMT
> > Standing there alone, one of the unloved pets approaches, curious as to
> > why this person is also alone. And as the unloved pet and the unloved
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> than we are.  I really hope the Rainbow Bridge or something very
> similar exists; otherwise, what's the point?

I can't sleep thinking about beautiful Conan, his red nose
and russet stripes. I would take him if I could.
kitkatluna - 16 Jun 2005 07:42 GMT
>>>Standing there alone, one of the unloved pets approaches, curious as to
>>>why this person is also alone. And as the unloved pet and the unloved
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> I can't sleep thinking about beautiful Conan, his red nose
> and russet stripes. I would take him if I could.

I cant sleep either. Cant say it has to do with Conan, but at any rate.
Since I have no thryoid and am not currently on thryoid meds, my body is
just f*ed up big time. My sleep patterns are all weird. On top if it
all, i have walking pneumonia and tonsilitis. Im a real ball of fun! The
flurry of posts was fun...where'd everyone go? ;)
Candace - 16 Jun 2005 07:51 GMT
> I cant sleep either. Cant say it has to do with Conan, but at any rate.
> Since I have no thryoid and am not currently on thryoid meds, my body is
> just f*ed up big time. My sleep patterns are all weird. On top if it
> all, i have walking pneumonia and tonsilitis. Im a real ball of fun! The
> flurry of posts was fun...where'd everyone go? ;)

Beddy-bye, no doubt.  It seems like the majority of posters are in the
eastern or midwestern US.  Kinda late back there.  Snuggle a kitty and
send good thoughts to all those less fortunate...

Candace
kitkatluna - 16 Jun 2005 07:56 GMT
>>I cant sleep either. Cant say it has to do with Conan, but at any rate.
>>Since I have no thryoid and am not currently on thryoid meds, my body is
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>
> Candace

Yeah, i may just have to wake jasper from his slumber and bring him to
bed. If i dont, he'll wake up all confused and yowl until he finds us
anyway. :)

Here's to Conan, Lex, and all the other kitties of the world.
xoxox,
pam
Mary - 16 Jun 2005 08:05 GMT
> I cant sleep either. Cant say it has to do with Conan, but at any rate.
> Since I have no thryoid and am not currently on thryoid meds, my body is
> just f*ed up big time.

That has to be weird. (I thought of you last week when I had a scare--
it turned out to be okay. Had the whole big checkup thing, thought and
one thing looked suspicious.)

Make sure they put you on one of the synthetic thryoid preparations,
or be very careful about storing your medication. Animal thyroid goes
bad easily.

My sleep patterns are all weird. On top if it
> all, i have walking pneumonia and tonsilitis. Im a real ball of fun!

Dayum, Payum! (As we say down south!) I hope you don't have
to go to work tomorrow. Did you catch that crap in the hospital?
Those places will kill you. ;)

The
> flurry of posts was fun...where'd everyone go? ;)

To bed! Guess I will try again.
kitkatluna - 16 Jun 2005 08:11 GMT
>>I cant sleep either. Cant say it has to do with Conan, but at any rate.
>>Since I have no thryoid and am not currently on thryoid meds, my body is
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> it turned out to be okay. Had the whole big checkup thing, thought and
> one thing looked suspicious.)

Glad it was just a scare.

> Make sure they put you on one of the synthetic thryoid preparations,
> or be very careful about storing your medication. Animal thyroid goes
> bad easily.

I'll be on Synthroid next week, right after I have the RAI (radioactive
iodine treatment)!! Im getting nuked! zoiks!

> My sleep patterns are all weird. On top if it
>
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> to go to work tomorrow. Did you catch that crap in the hospital?
> Those places will kill you. ;)

No more work til August. Gotta love the life of a teacher. :)
Didn;t catch it at the hospital. But my immune system is definitely
whacked out right now. In prep for RAI, they keep you off meds and
induce you into a severely hypothyroid state. That way the thyroid
tissue that remains will suck up the iodine like crazy. (I think you
already know this stuff). I get to start synthroid next week and I have
NEVER, EVER been so excited for a drug in my entire LIFE! Hopefully,
I'll start getting back to normal soon. Whatever the hell normal is...

> The
>
>>flurry of posts was fun...where'd everyone go? ;)
>
> To bed! Guess I will try again.

Yeah, i'll be trying soon too. :)
Good luck!
Philip - 16 Jun 2005 14:23 GMT
>>>I cant sleep either. Cant say it has to do with Conan, but at any rate.
>>>Since I have no thryoid and am not currently on thryoid meds, my body is
>>>just f*ed up big time.
>
> I'll be on Synthroid next week, right after I have the RAI (radioactive
> iodine treatment)!! Im getting nuked! zoiks!

Both the wife and I have been on synthroid for about ten years.  Typical age
related hypothryroidism.  Wife needs 225 mcg while mine is 125 mcg daily to
keep TSH  in range.
Phil P. - 16 Jun 2005 21:08 GMT
"Philip" <1chip-state1@earthlink.net> wrote in message news:83fse.5239

> Both the wife and I have been on synthroid for about ten years.  Typical age
> related hypothryroidism.  Wife needs 225 mcg while mine is 125 mcg daily to
> keep TSH  in range.

Now that's a pair of "euthanasia candidates" for you!
Mary - 16 Jun 2005 17:32 GMT
> Glad it was just a scare.

Thanks, I wish yours had only been a scare. It was hell waiting
for the MRI results, but I sure was happy once I got them. (Because
I had parents who died young primarily because they did not go for
preventive care, or even really when they needed to, I am really
careful about screening. They died suddenly. I want notice! :)

> > Make sure they put you on one of the synthetic thryoid preparations,
> > or be very careful about storing your medication. Animal thyroid goes
> > bad easily.
>
> I'll be on Synthroid next week, right after I have the RAI (radioactive
> iodine treatment)!! Im getting nuked! zoiks!

Kid, you are going to feel so much better. And if you have ever had
trouble keeping a couple of pounds off (you do not look like you
have) those days should be over. They can just regulate the amount
you get until your metabolism is perfect. Tell me, how do they
protect you from the radiation, given that you are so young and
will likely want children? (Perhaps there is no danger, I don't
know. My mother was post-menopausal when she had the
treatment.)

> > Dayum, Payum! (As we say down south!) I hope you don't have
> > to go to work tomorrow. Did you catch that crap in the hospital?
> > Those places will kill you. ;)
>
> No more work til August. Gotta love the life of a teacher. :)

How could I forget?!

> Didn;t catch it at the hospital. But my immune system is definitely
> whacked out right now. In prep for RAI, they keep you off meds and
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> NEVER, EVER been so excited for a drug in my entire LIFE! Hopefully,
> I'll start getting back to normal soon. Whatever the hell normal is...

You will. And I know you feel lousy right now. Feel free to sleep the
time away, if that makes you feel better. Get some good books or
movies, take the cats to bed, and pamper yourself. And go in every
single year from now on for a physical. If your insurance will not
pay for a Mammogram every year since you are so young pay
for it yourself. My mother was completely cured of her thyroid
cancer. Yours will likely never return. But take no chances.
kitkatluna - 16 Jun 2005 17:48 GMT
>>I'll be on Synthroid next week, right after I have the RAI (radioactive
>>iodine treatment)!! Im getting nuked! zoiks!
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> have) those days should be over. They can just regulate the amount
> you get until your metabolism is perfect.

I must photograph well, cuz I am definitely overweight. It has been a
struggle for me ever since I left high school, was a big stoner, and ate
a lot of late nite pizza. ;)
I *really* hope they can get my metabolism under control!!!!!!!!!!! :)

> Tell me, how do they
> protect you from the radiation, given that you are so young and
> will likely want children? (Perhaps there is no danger, I don't
> know. My mother was post-menopausal when she had the
> treatment.)

Studies show that the RAI has little to no effect on fertility! I have
read of some women that seemed to have early menopause after RAI, but I
think I am luckily still a bit too young for that. (I'm 33) Basically, I
just have to wait a year after any radioactive treatments and then can
go ahead as normal. The biggest bummer is taht Tim and were gonna start
working on babies this summer, but obviously that all came to a
screeching halt.

>>Didn;t catch it at the hospital. But my immune system is definitely
>>whacked out right now. In prep for RAI, they keep you off meds and
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> for it yourself. My mother was completely cured of her thyroid
> cancer. Yours will likely never return. But take no chances.

Insurance will cover yearly body scans now because thyroid cancer has a
high level of recurrence. (30%) So, some people say that once you are
treated, you are watched so closely for the rest of your life that
nothing gets by them. I hope that's true. After my treatment dose next
week, I'll have a body scan a week later to see where the uptake is and
hopefully it will just be in the thyroid bed and the few icky lymph
nodes it went to and no where else. Then, I just have to sit back and
wait for the radioactive stuff to do its job.

This is hardly how I imagined spending my time as a newlywed, but at
least I am not alone. And at least we have Jasper and Luna. :)
Philip - 16 Jun 2005 14:23 GMT
>>>>Standing there alone, one of the unloved pets approaches, curious as to
>>>>why this person is also alone. And as the unloved pet and the unloved
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> i have walking pneumonia and tonsilitis. Im a real ball of fun! The flurry
> of posts was fun...where'd everyone go? ;)

After the orgy, the males are sleeping and the females are having a
cigarette.   ;^)

"Do you smoke after having sex?"

"Don't know honey ... I've never looked"
Candace - 16 Jun 2005 07:48 GMT
> I can't sleep thinking about beautiful Conan, his red nose
> and russet stripes. I would take him if I could.

I know, he looks like my Scottie.  Only my Scottie is asleep on the
ironing board (a permanent fixture, practically) having just finished
some Bast'ems, his favorite treat, and hanging out with his little
sister.  All kitties deserve a good home; it makes you wonder why so
many never get one and others do, doesn't it?

Hope you get some sleep; it's pretty late where you are, only midnight
here.

Candace
Mary - 16 Jun 2005 07:58 GMT
> > I can't sleep thinking about beautiful Conan, his red nose
> > and russet stripes. I would take him if I could.
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> some Bast'ems, his favorite treat, and hanging out with his little
> sister.

I just sat in the guest room Cheeks likes best, trying to read.
(Where I go so I won't wake John.) She was on the pillow
next to me, then got down and stretched, kicked the snot out
of her FatCat catnip toys, jumped down and scratched her
Alpine Scratcher, had a snack, came back up with a "mrrp!"

This little cat had an asthma attack the day I brought her home
from the shelter. The woman instantly said she would take her
back. (I just called to ask if they had seen her have an attack
before.) I could not even imagine it. And though I have to watch
her, not wear perfume, be careful about cleaning products and
get her the Depo shots every few months, she is the sweetest,
funniest, smartest creature I have ever known.

All kitties deserve a good home; it makes you wonder why so
> many never get one and others do, doesn't it?

For this bastard to actually show photos of him leaping,
tell us all about him, then actually have the heartlessness
to take him back to be killed just gets me.I've got tears
running down my neck and the back of my throat aches
from it.

> Hope you get some sleep; it's pretty late where you are, only midnight
> here.

It's nearly 3 and i have some early appointments but, man,
some things are hard to get out of your mind.
PawsForThought - 16 Jun 2005 16:07 GMT
> This little cat had an asthma attack the day I brought her home
> from the shelter. The woman instantly said she would take her
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> get her the Depo shots every few months, she is the sweetest,
> funniest, smartest creature I have ever known.

Sounds very much like my Meesha.  I can't imagine ever giving her up,
ever.  Her having asthma only makes me want to take care of her that
much more.  I know you feel the same about Cheeks.

Lauren
Mary - 16 Jun 2005 17:24 GMT
> > This little cat had an asthma attack the day I brought her home
> > from the shelter. The woman instantly said she would take her
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> ever.  Her having asthma only makes me want to take care of her that
> much more.  I know you feel the same about Cheeks.

I had terrible dreams last night and tried to pull myself out
of them (I lucid dream sometimes) and could not--until I
heard this meowing. She heard me having the nightmares
and woke me up. :) Then when I lay back down and
closed my eyes she meowed her head off, like "don't
do that, it got you into trouble before!" She had never
cried that many times in a row so for a minute I thought
she was hurting or sick, but she is fine. Just making sure
I'm okay!

She has done this before when I was
not breathing properly, when I had asthma myself but
had not been diagnosed. What is interesting is that Cheeks
got asthma before I did--so in reading up on it I knew
what to expect when I was diagnosed. Yeah. she is
special. a.sholes like Philip would call this just so much
"female" nonsense though.
KellyH - 16 Jun 2005 12:19 GMT
>I feel certain that Conan's return to a high-kill shelter has probably
> resulted in his death already.  Let's all hope that there is something
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>
> Candace

I wish Conan wasn't on the other side of the country or I would get him into
the shelter I'm with.  I think Phillip is in So. Cal, I'm in MA.  He's
probably gone so it's too late :(

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Diane - 16 Jun 2005 12:36 GMT
> I wish Conan wasn't on the other side of the country or I would get him into
> the shelter I'm with.

Does anyone know that this story is true, or could it be trolling?
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Mary - 16 Jun 2005 17:53 GMT
> > I wish Conan wasn't on the other side of the country or I would get him into
> > the shelter I'm with.
>
> Does anyone know that this story is true, or could it be trolling?

It's true. I wish it were a troll. And the worst thing is, this a.shole
Philip does not even see anything wrong with what he has done.
kitkatluna - 16 Jun 2005 18:03 GMT
>>>I wish Conan wasn't on the other side of the country or I would get him
>
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> It's true. I wish it were a troll. And the worst thing is, this a.shole
> Philip does not even see anything wrong with what he has done.

Maybe there is a way the folks on this group could band together and get
in touch with the shelter? Pay for his health care until he is better?
If Philip would be willing to let us get in touch with them, I'd be more
than willing to spend some money to help Conan.
KellyH - 16 Jun 2005 19:18 GMT
> Maybe there is a way the folks on this group could band together and get
> in touch with the shelter? Pay for his health care until he is better? If
> Philip would be willing to let us get in touch with them, I'd be more than
> willing to spend some money to help Conan.

Is anyone in the SoCal area?  Could they pull him out of the shelter at
least while we get something together?  I would help contribute too.

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Mary - 16 Jun 2005 20:01 GMT
> > Maybe there is a way the folks on this group could band together and get
> > in touch with the shelter? Pay for his health care until he is better? If
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> Is anyone in the SoCal area?  Could they pull him out of the shelter at
> least while we get something together?  I would help contribute too.

Somebody email Philip and find out where Conan is. Maybe we can
save him. I should have thought of this last night instead of going
off the deep end.

I have appointments. Can someone maybe email Philip then post
a note in the rescue group to see if there are any rescuers in LA
who could help with leg work if we provide money?
KellyH - 16 Jun 2005 20:08 GMT
> I have appointments. Can someone maybe email Philip then post
> a note in the rescue group to see if there are any rescuers in LA
> who could help with leg work if we provide money?

I Googled and found a post where Phillip said "Orange County Animal
Shelter".  I can't find a shelter in CA with that exact name, but there is
one called Orange County Animal Care Services that could be it.  Here's
their website: http://www.ocpetinfo.com/
I looked through the cat list and couldn't find one that looked like Conan.

Signature

-Kelly

sriddles@aol.com - 16 Jun 2005 20:17 GMT
> > I have appointments. Can someone maybe email Philip then post
> > a note in the rescue group to see if there are any rescuers in LA
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> --
> -Kelly

Can you call them, then maybe e-mail Conan's picture to identify him?
Phil P. - 16 Jun 2005 20:51 GMT
> > > I have appointments. Can someone maybe email Philip then post
> > > a note in the rescue group to see if there are any rescuers in LA
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> Can you call them, then maybe e-mail Conan's picture to identify him?

I have a few calls into Rolling Rescue, Flying Paws and SkyArk to arrange
transportation.  I'm also awaiting a call from the Orange County Humane
Society- which I think might be the shelter.

These are the only shelters in Orange County that I could find.  Maybe calls
from a few of us will get Conan a reprieve and stay of execution until we
get the transportation arranged.

If we find the cat, perhaps group members that live in the area could hold
the cat until transport is arranged.

Animal Shelters - Dana Point

Animal Rescue Foundation of Dana Point

PO Box 756,  Dana Point, CA 92629
949 240-2899

Animal Shelters - Huntington Beach

Orange County Humane Society
21632 Newland St,  Huntington Beach, CA 92646
714 536-8480

Animal Shelters - Irvine

Irvine Animal Care Center
6443 Oak Canyon,  Irvine, CA 92618
949 724-7740

Animal Shelters - Laguna Beach

Laguna Beach Animal Shelter
20612 Laguna Canyon Road,  Laguna Beach, CA 92651
949 497-3552

Animal Shelters - Newport Beach

National Cat Protection Society
6904 W. Coast Highway,  Newport Beach, CA 92663
949 650-1232

Newport Beach City Animal Control
870 Santa Barbara,  Newport Beach, CA 92660
949 644-3717

Animal Shelters - Orange

Orange County Animal Control
561 City Drive South,  Orange, CA 92668
714 935-6848

Animal Shelters - San Clemente

San Clemente Animal Shelter
535 Avinda Fabricante,  San Clemente, CA 92672
949 492-1617

Animal Shelters - Seal Beach

Seal Beach Animal Care Center  Est. 1986
1700 Adolfo Lopez Dr,  Seal Beach, CA 90740
562 430-4993
Meghan Noecker - 17 Jun 2005 00:34 GMT
>If we find the cat, perhaps group members that live in the area could hold
>the cat until transport is arranged.

If you manage to get him, please post where we can send donations.
Perhaps a paypal account. I felt horrible last night, and while I
don't remember the dreams very well, but I know I dreamed about a cat,
and I kept waking up upset. It was either Conan or Henry. I was upset
about both last night.

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Glitter Ninja - 16 Jun 2005 21:15 GMT
[snip]

 I found an Orange County Humane Society at:

http://www.ochumanesociety.com/cats.php

I don't know what Conan looks like but I don't think he's listed on
their page.

Stacia
Candace - 16 Jun 2005 22:05 GMT
> [snip]
>
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Stacia

Conan is a red kitty, very cute.  I believe Philip named him so I don't
know if the shelter would refer to him as that name.  He was only
returned yesterday so he probably is not up for adoption yet...if he is
still alive, that is.

BTW, I will also donate for Conan's reprieve.  It would be a very kind
thing if Philip would tell us where Conan is but he seems to be
blatantly ignoring any mention of Conan at all and just blathering
about his new cat.  Help save your former kitty, Philip.

Candace
kitkatluna - 16 Jun 2005 20:26 GMT
>>>Maybe there is a way the folks on this group could band together and get
>>>in touch with the shelter? Pay for his health care until he is better?
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
> a note in the rescue group to see if there are any rescuers in LA
> who could help with leg work if we provide money?

I just emailed him. I can;t do much more than that since I am not in or
near LA. And as of next week (MOnday) I will be out of comission because
of my cancer treatment, or else I'd be happy to organize the
payment/money collection process. But like I said before, I'm MORE than
willing to donate. Someone could perhaps setup a paypal account.

Pam
kitkatluna - 16 Jun 2005 20:32 GMT
>>>> Maybe there is a way the folks on this group could band together and
>>>> get
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
>
> Pam

Also, I hvae a friend in the LA area. I can ask him if he would be
willing to get involved and help at all.
Mary - 16 Jun 2005 22:53 GMT
> >>>> Maybe there is a way the folks on this group could band together and
> >>>> get
[quoted text clipped - 29 lines]
> Also, I hvae a friend in the LA area. I can ask him if he would be
> willing to get involved and help at all.

I will pay him to go get Conan and keep him until either we can
get him to me or another good home.  If he will go get him tomorrow
I will send him a PayPal tonight. Please have him email me if you
can get up with him and he agrees. If we can just get him out of
the shelter, in safe hands, we can buy time to figure out what to
do.

I found some flights from LA X to Raleigh for $300-$500, but
who will fly a cat, and can he fly in the cabin unaccompanied?
I cannot quite do a round trip for a human plus a one-way for
Conan, but I can do a one-way for Conan if we can find someone
who would put him on the plane and an airline that would fly him.
I could get a carrier, etc. My husband does NOT want another
cat and does not want a male cat. However, I want to save
Conan and always have wanted a big orange boy. I could work
it out. Or I could pay to fly Conan to wherever anyone is who
we trust to keep and love him.
kitkatluna - 16 Jun 2005 22:59 GMT
>>>>>>Maybe there is a way the folks on this group could band together and
>>>>>>get
[quoted text clipped - 41 lines]
> the shelter, in safe hands, we can buy time to figure out what to
> do.

I am trying to get in touch with my friend out there. No avail yet. What
is coincidental is that he used to live in Raleigh. ;) I have a bunch of
hippie friends there. ;)
Philip - 16 Jun 2005 22:08 GMT
> I just emailed him. I can;t do much more than that since I am not in
> or near LA. And as of next week (MOnday) I will be out of comission
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Pam

Hi Pam.  No email from you but ... email sometimes gets delayed in cyber
traffic.

The ID # that may help you:  P0710740

(714) 935-6943  OC Animal Care Center
kitkatluna - 16 Jun 2005 22:11 GMT
>>I just emailed him. I can;t do much more than that since I am not in
>>or near LA. And as of next week (MOnday) I will be out of comission
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> (714) 935-6943  OC Animal Care Center

Thank you, Philip.
Candace - 16 Jun 2005 22:12 GMT
> Hi Pam.  No email from you but ... email sometimes gets delayed in cyber
> traffic.
>
> The ID # that may help you:  P0710740
>
> (714) 935-6943  OC Animal Care Center

Thank you very much.  I hope Phil can sweet talk them.  Phil is in the
shelter biz so he would know how to proceed.

I think there will be an outpouring of $$ from this group for Conan's
salvation.

Candace
kitkatluna - 16 Jun 2005 22:18 GMT
>>Hi Pam.  No email from you but ... email sometimes gets delayed in cyber
>>traffic.
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> Candace

im on hold with this shelter right now. i have no idea what to say, but
i'll try! phil...if you are also calling...let me know! i am sure you
are much better suited for this kind of phone call than I am!!!
Phil P. - 16 Jun 2005 22:30 GMT
> >>Hi Pam.  No email from you but ... email sometimes gets delayed in cyber
> >>traffic.
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> i'll try! phil...if you are also calling...let me know! i am sure you
> are much better suited for this kind of phone call than I am!!!

I just got off the phone with them.  Let me know what told you.

Phil
equalizer - 16 Jun 2005 22:34 GMT
>>>Hi Pam.  No email from you but ... email sometimes gets delayed in cyber
>>>traffic.
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>i'll try! phil...if you are also calling...let me know! i am sure you
>are much better suited for this kind of phone call than I am!!!

I got through, and she told me there was another one of us on hold,
must've been you!

He's still there, and they expect to put him back up for adoption. I
expressed my concern that they were a high kill shelter and explained
what was going on here, and asked that he be bumped further down the
euth list to give us a chance to mobilize. She said as far as she knew,
he wouldn't be euthed just because he was ill right now, but keep
calling!

eq
kitkatluna - 16 Jun 2005 22:58 GMT
>>>>Hi Pam.  No email from you but ... email sometimes gets delayed in cyber
>>>>traffic.
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
>
> eq

I'm kind of sitting here in amazement at all of us.
:)
equalizer - 16 Jun 2005 23:18 GMT
>>>>>Hi Pam.  No email from you but ... email sometimes gets delayed in cyber
>>>>>traffic.
[quoted text clipped - 29 lines]
>I'm kind of sitting here in amazement at all of us.
>:)

Why? Haven't you ever seen a bunch of hyper-compassionate nut-jobs
before?!

Caveat -- you should see what happens when this energy is used to
harness the "Dark Side".

eq
Philip - 16 Jun 2005 23:50 GMT
>> I'm kind of sitting here in amazement at all of us.
>> :)
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> eq

Ok, for all this flurry of phone calls and mobilization, what has changed in
the past three hours?

Anybody here going to adopt Conan?  Anybody (Phil P) find out the diagnosis
and treatment that apparently brought Conan's health back ... if such is the
case?
equalizer - 17 Jun 2005 00:02 GMT
>>> I'm kind of sitting here in amazement at all of us.
>>> :)
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>and treatment that apparently brought Conan's health back ... if such is the
>case?

What a fuckwad -- you couldn't put up with him for 2 weeks, and now
you're complaining that nothing's happened in 3 hours? LMAO, what a
f.cking moron!

eq
kitkatluna - 17 Jun 2005 00:29 GMT
>>>I'm kind of sitting here in amazement at all of us.
>>>:)
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> and treatment that apparently brought Conan's health back ... if such is the
> case?

With all due respect, Philip, it's out of your hands. We appreciate you
giving us the info to find out about him. Clearly nothing has "changed"
other than we know Conan is not dead and will not be PTS in the
immediate future. This is what we hoped to prevent. If you do care, and
since you are the local one there, maybe *you* might put in a call to
find out about his health. Apparently it was not as grave as you thought
as he seems to be doing quite well. It does seem that there is some
discrepancy between your vet's opinion and the shelter's. I might hope
it would be of personal interest to you. I know *I* am furious about the
situuation and this was not even my pet.

Keep in mind, I have been nothing but nice and respectful towards you,
so none of this should be taken as a flame. The others here do that job.
;) But believe it or not, we truly care about Conan's situation and
wanted to do what we could to help.

Pam
Philip - 17 Jun 2005 02:36 GMT
>> Ok, for all this flurry of phone calls and mobilization, what has
>> changed in the past three hours?
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> it would be of personal interest to you. I know *I* am furious about
> the situuation and this was not even my pet.

Thank you for your civility.  As I have said earlier, with the professional
information I had at hand, AND that the OC shelter will not treat any
adopted animal, I was left with either spending a lot of money thru my vet
or to relinquish ownership of the cat back to the shelter so he could be
treated and then making another adoption. Those were my options last Monday.

> Keep in mind, I have been nothing but nice and respectful towards you,
> so none of this should be taken as a flame.

Pam, I believe you based on email we've had.

> The others here do that job. ;)

The band of merry cat crusaders with all the suave of the Spanish
Inquisition or the KKK.

> But believe it or not, we truly care about Conan's situation and wanted to
> do what we could to help.
>
> Pam

Let's reflect.  I revealed Conan's condition as it progressed, what sort of
feedback did I get?  80% foul mouthed, judgmental, condemnations from nearly
all of those who responded the moment I mentioned the shelter's 14 day
exchange policy. You and Barry were the only ones who contacted me privately
and were civil.  The rest ... all Mary/Phil P sycophants in large degree.

At the present, I am faced with a new problem regarding my vet ... should I
fire her in light of what the shelter vet was able to do in a very short
time (supposedly).  At the retail customer level, I was handed an expensive
estimate to diagnose and then treat Conan, nearly $300.  At the shelter
veterinary cost level, a blood panel is what .... $25?   And a shot ... $10?
Result, cured Conan (so we're told).

As is, we now have a kitten who (AT THE MOMENT) is fit as a fiddle, very
friendly (cuddles up on my shoulder and purrs & follows me around the
house), is very talkative, is litter box trained but, doesn't match any of
our furniture.  We could redecorate (nudge nudge, wink wink).

Well, the little fella is giving me the "feed me" look so I bid you all
adieu and, a special thanks to you Pam.
PawsForThought - 17 Jun 2005 02:46 GMT
>At the retail customer level, I was handed an expensive
> estimate to diagnose and then treat Conan, nearly $300.  At the shelter
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> house), is very talkative, is litter box trained but, doesn't match any of
> our furniture.  We could redecorate (nudge nudge, wink wink).

Why on earth did you ever adopt another animal?  What makes you think
that at some point in time your new cat won't require $300 or maybe
even more in upkeep.  Clearly you are in no position to afford a pet if
you dumped your previous one because he would have cost you $300 in vet
bills.  Oh wait, you can just dump the new one when it's vet time.
Isn't that how you work?  I can understand why people have been going
off on you.  It's hard not to call you the miserable f.ck that you are.

Lauren
Mary - 17 Jun 2005 03:08 GMT
> >At the retail customer level, I was handed an expensive
> > estimate to diagnose and then treat Conan, nearly $300.  At the shelter
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> Isn't that how you work?  I can understand why people have been going
> off on you.  It's hard not to call you the miserable f.ck that you are.

I hate him. I honestly do. And I have never said that about anyone who
posted here. Although I have said *other* things.
PawsForThought - 17 Jun 2005 16:49 GMT
> "PawsForThought" <Mickey4Paws@anonymous.to> wrote in message
> Why on earth did you ever adopt another animal?  What makes you think
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> I hate him. I honestly do. And I have never said that about anyone who
> posted here. Although I have said *other* things.

I missed all the posts when he had first adopted Conan so I really
didn't know anything about him or the cat.  But I sure have had my eyes
opened in the past couple of days, and I totally agree with you.  What
makes me really hate him is that he has absolutely no remorse about
Conan whatsoever.  All he cared about was his wallet.  All of us here
would want to do everything possible to help a sick pet, not dump him
because he became inconvenient.  He's a real scumbag, that's for sure.

Lauren
Mary - 17 Jun 2005 18:03 GMT
> > "PawsForThought" <Mickey4Paws@anonymous.to> wrote in message
> > Why on earth did you ever adopt another animal?  What makes you think
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> would want to do everything possible to help a sick pet, not dump him
> because he became inconvenient.  He's a real scumbag, that's for sure.

Can you even begin to see the implications for the poor creature
he calls "the wife?" To be married to a man this emotionally
bankrupt? *Shudder*
Philip - 17 Jun 2005 06:38 GMT
>> At the retail customer level, I was handed an expensive
>> estimate to diagnose and then treat Conan, nearly $300.  At the
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
> Lauren

Lauren. Shut up. Better yet ... into the kill file ya go with you ilk.
kitkatluna - 17 Jun 2005 03:00 GMT
> Thank you for your civility.  As I have said earlier, with the professional
> information I had at hand, AND that the OC shelter will not treat any
> adopted animal, I was left with either spending a lot of money thru my vet
> or to relinquish ownership of the cat back to the shelter so he could be
> treated and then making another adoption. Those were my options last Monday.

Is this common? I thought that a shelter would treat its own animals
immediately after adoption. I seem to recall my Luna coming home with a
URI and the humane society did treat her...for that and the fleas she
was kind enough to bring home. If its something they come to you, isnt
the shelter usually the one to treat? I may not like what you did, but I
also dont like the shelter policy which is to send you off to treat the
cat on your own, knowing full well how much more expensive it is to do so.

> Let's reflect.  I revealed Conan's condition as it progressed, what sort of
> feedback did I get?  80% foul mouthed, judgmental, condemnations from nearly
> all of those who responded the moment I mentioned the shelter's 14 day
> exchange policy.

Again, I hate that stupid shelter. "Exchange policy"...is that what it
is really called? Like the cat is some kind of damn piece of furniture.

At any rate, the 80% of crap you got does not discredit the good advice
that you DID get. I know you got a lot of advice about hand feeding,
etc. You were doing it. It seemed that you were doing it well! I think I
even posted that you should try to hang in there because sometimes these
things are hard to clear up. And in that post or another one, I remember
saying something like "let the group know before you return him"...not
that you owed *us* anything, but this group of people has a lot to offer
in terms of cat care. Anyway, I'm babbling.

> At the present, I am faced with a new problem regarding my vet ... should I
> fire her in light of what the shelter vet was able to do in a very short
> time (supposedly).  At the retail customer level, I was handed an expensive
> estimate to diagnose and then treat Conan, nearly $300.  At the shelter
> veterinary cost level, a blood panel is what .... $25?   And a shot ... $10?
> Result, cured Conan (so we're told).

Well, if it were me, I'd be calling the shelter to find out what his
diagnosis was and how he was treated. Then I'd be on the phone with my
vet. And I'd be raising hell. But, it would also imply that you might be
interested in actually having Conan. You gave up on him. That is the big
bummer for me.

The shelter policy makes no sense. Something here doesnt make sense. I
mean, if the shelter wont treat the cat after you adopt it, but then you
return it under its "warrantee"...the shelter is going to treat it then.
And apparently they did. So, why wouldnt they help out with low cost vet
care in the first place. Are you sure you are really telling the truth,
the whole truth and nothing but the truth?

> As is, we now have a kitten who (AT THE MOMENT) is fit as a fiddle

This is what has everyone on edge. The kitten is fit as a fiddle "AT THE
MOMENT". What are you going to do if on day 15, kitty is not so fit? You
wont be able to return him. Will you care for him? Will you give up on
him, too? This is why you are getting the reaction you have gotten. Most
people can not understand why you didn't go the distance for Conan...and
wonder if you would go the distance for any cat...

Pam
Philip - 17 Jun 2005 06:38 GMT
>> Thank you for your civility.  As I have said earlier, with the
>> professional information I had at hand, AND that the OC shelter will
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> Is this common? I thought that a shelter would treat its own animals
> immediately after adoption.

My vet believed such to be the case however ... when I called the shelter
vet, I was told the only way they treat adopted animals is if the owner
relinquishes the animal to them entirely.  There is a 14 day grace policy
where you can exchange an adoption for another which on the cue from my vet,
I decided to do.  But those who have raced off half cocked and crazy still
don't get that fact.  The shelter adoption process permits you 72 hrs to
schedule an office visit with a vet of your chosing provided that vet is on
The List at no charge.  I took advantage of that provision. Conan was
sneezing and sniffling at the vet office visit.

> I seem to recall my Luna coming home with
> a URI and the humane society did treat her...for that and the fleas she
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> treat the cat on your own, knowing full well how much more expensive it is
> to do so.

Such is way it's done here.

>> Let's reflect.  I revealed Conan's condition as it progressed, what
>> sort of feedback did I get?  80% foul mouthed, judgmental,
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> is really called? Like the cat is some kind of damn piece of
> furniture.

Early on when I mentioned the policy, I got flamed for likening the policy
to a new cell phone contract.  People here are just too tightly wound for
the greater good.

> At any rate, the 80% of crap you got does not discredit the good
> advice that you DID get.

The price was way too high.  Professional people in a white collar industry
do not conduct themselves as is evidenced here in abundance.

> I know you got a lot of advice about hand feeding,
> etc. You were doing it. It seemed that you were doing it well! I
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> before you return him"...not that you owed *us* anything, but this group
> of people has a lot to offer in terms of cat care. Anyway, I'm babbling.

Correct on each point.  But I would never accuse you of "babbling".  LOL

>> At the present, I am faced with a new problem regarding my vet ...
>> should I fire her in light of what the shelter vet was able to do in
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> diagnosis was and how he was treated. Then I'd be on the phone with my
> vet. And I'd be raising hell.

In my younger days, I would. I've become a bit better at picking the battles
I can win and acquiescing on the rest.

> But, it would also imply that you might
> be interested in actually having Conan. You gave up on him. That is
> the big bummer for me.

I know my limits.  I'm not a veterinarian meaning ... my job is to gather
what I trust to be the best information and make a decision I can live with.
I did. And in spite of today's developments, I do not regret the decision to
return Conan. His best interests and my wallet were best served by returning
him. Remember, this is a cat I did not have a medical or personal history on
... zip.  He was a stray, not a relinquished pet.

> The shelter policy makes no sense. Something here doesnt make sense. I
> mean, if the shelter wont treat the cat after you adopt it, but then
> you return it under its "warrantee"...the shelter is going to treat
> it then. And apparently they did. So, why wouldnt they help out with low
> cost
> vet care in the first place.
snip

Call them yourself.

>> As is, we now have a kitten who (AT THE MOMENT) is fit as a fiddle
>
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Pam

Let me tell you this (directed to The Group, not yourself),  I will NOT tell
any of you anything further about medical matters.  I'll go elsewhere.
"Going the distance" has proven to be HIGHLY subjective so I am inclinded to
disregard the statement.   Behavior questions well ... we'll see.  So far
(10 hrs), he's behaved flawlessly for a kitten in totally new surroundings
and without littermates with two giant hoomans handling him.  ;^)
Lesley - 17 Jun 2005 15:28 GMT
His best interests and my wallet were best served by returning
> him. Remember, this is a cat I did not have a medical or personal history on
> ... zip.  He was a stray, not a relinquished pet.

Actually okay I agree with the first sentence- staying with someone
like you wasn't in his "best interests" and when you mention your
wallet that's the first honest thing you've said.

As for that second line- it makes me shudder to think there are people
like you in this World! You did have a personal history with Conan!!!!
You'd brought him home and shared a home with him for a few weeks maybe
not a long personal history but it was there and when you're faced with
a bill you dumped the poor sick kitten back at the shelter....Yes
sometimes adoptions don't work out and cats have to be returned to the
shelter but to adopt Conan and then just dump him because he got
sick...all I can say is your new kitten had better not even dare to
sneeze because suddenly he won't be adorable anymore and off he
goes!!!!

I am frankly horrified that the shelter could have given you another
kitten....

As for everyone here who is moving Heaven and Earth to get Conan into
his onetruehome- It restores my faith in Human nature which frankly was
getting pretty low after realising there are b****ards like Phil in the
World.

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Philip - 17 Jun 2005 16:41 GMT
> His best interests and my wallet were best served by returning
>> him. Remember, this is a cat I did not have a medical or personal
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> like you wasn't in his "best interests" and when you mention your
> wallet that's the first honest thing you've said.
snip

Honest to you is telling you what you want to believe or hear.  Please do
not respond to any of my posts.  They are not geared for judgemental bigots.
Nomen Nescio - 17 Jun 2005 16:50 GMT
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From: "Lesley" <LMadigan@hhnt.nhs.uk>

> It restores my faith in Human nature which frankly was
>getting pretty low after realising there are b****ards like Phil in the
>World.

Just to keep things straight. There's a Phil and a Philip in this
group.
In simple terms:
Phil - Good
Philip - Bad
Rhonda - 19 Jun 2005 06:10 GMT
Hmmm, things are not always that black and white...

Rhonda

> -----BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE-----
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> Phil - Good
> Philip - Bad
Phil P. - 19 Jun 2005 08:18 GMT
> Hmmm, things are not always that black and white...

Only to dimwits like you.

> Rhonda
>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> > Phil - Good
> > Philip - Bad
Mary - 17 Jun 2005 17:57 GMT
> His best interests and my wallet were best served by returning
> > him. Remember, this is a cat I did not have a medical or personal history on
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>
> Lesley

Bless you, Lesley. I must make one distinction though: Phil (actually,
Phil P.) while a bit acerbic when riled, is a good guy and our resident
authority on vet care. Philip is the bastard. There will be a quiz on this
material Monday morning! ;)
Lesley - 20 Jun 2005 10:20 GMT
Bless you, Lesley. I must make one distinction though: Phil (actually,
Phil P.) while a bit acerbic when riled, is a good guy and our resident

authority on vet care. Philip is the bastard. There will be a quiz on
this
material Monday morning! ;)

Whoops! Sorry I know Phil P is the good guy and when I refer to him I
call him Phil P- never my intention to confuse the two I know the
difference and I'm sorry if I offended Phil P who is a great guy and
knows all there is to know about cats

Lesley

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ceb - 17 Jun 2005 18:36 GMT
"Lesley" <LMadigan@hhnt.nhs.uk> wrote in news:1119018516.539677.155720
@o13g2000cwo.googlegroups.com:

> You'd brought him home and shared a home with him for a few weeks maybe
> not a long personal history but it was there and when you're faced with
> a bill you dumped the poor sick kitten back at the shelter.

Well, wait a minute here. Most shelters adopt out with the policy of
adopters being able to return animals who are found to be unhealthy.
Although I personally can't return anyone to the shelter once I've taken
him/her home, I don't think it's wrong to refuse to adopt an ill cat. In
fact, I would like to see shelters do more to ensure that the pets they
adopt out *are* healthy. It's a lot to ask, to expect that people will
take on an animal who has health problems from the start.

I had the experience once of adopting a cat, Finster, who turned out to
have feline leukemia and was FIV positive. I was unthrilled with the
shelter but ultimately decided to give him the best life I could for as
long as he had, which wasn't long. Because he totally won me over with
his enormous tabby cat charm! But I can certainly understand someone
making a different decision -- I had adopted him because my dear Madeline
had died and we needed a cat in the house -- going through the pain of
his illness and loss so soon after Madeline's death was tremendously
difficult.

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KellyH - 17 Jun 2005 20:15 GMT
> I had the experience once of adopting a cat, Finster, who turned out to
> have feline leukemia and was FIV positive. I was unthrilled with the
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> his illness and loss so soon after Madeline's death was tremendously
> difficult.

There is a big difference between finding out a cat has incurable like FIV
and FeLV and a cat coming down with a URI after going home.  Conan was
healthy at the time of the adoption.  There is no way to know if a cat is
going to develop something after adoption.  In your situation, I do fault
the shelter for not testing, although I realize this is the policy of some
shelters, they leave it up to the adopter to get the cat tested.  I don't
agree with it.  People need to know if a cat has FIV or FeLV, especially if
they have other cats at home.

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Philip - 17 Jun 2005 17:25 GMT
>snip
>> As is, we now have a kitten who (AT THE MOMENT) is fit as a fiddle
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>
> Pam

Let me readdress your closing sentence.

"Most people cannot understand why ...."

It is NOT that any of you people "cannot understand."

It is that you do not agree with my course of action.

You people are enthusiasts and some are fanatics.  Such people are
overwhelmingly driven by their passion(s) with the fanatics often finding
themselves manipulating others with guilt trips to fund their passions. "If
you reeeeally loved (fill in the blank), you'd do this wonderful thing.
It's quite transparent.

I'm counting on responses marked by invectives.  Don't disappoint me.
Phil P. - 17 Jun 2005 18:42 GMT
> You people are enthusiasts and some are fanatics.

It just seems that way to you because you're emotionally bankrupt.  That was
clearly evident by your comment that disabled cats are "euthanasia
candidates".

Such people are
> overwhelmingly driven by their passion(s) with the fanatics often finding
> themselves manipulating others with guilt trips to fund their passions. "If
> you reeeeally loved (fill in the blank), you'd do this wonderful thing.
> It's quite transparent.

"This wonderful thing" is simply honoring the commitment, obligation and
responsibility a person  makes when they're entrusted with a cat's life.
You failed to fulfill your commitment to Conan-- you simply backed out of
your obligation at the first sign of a problem. That makes you a cheap,
sleazy welsher.
KellyH - 17 Jun 2005 03:02 GMT
> Let's reflect.  I revealed Conan's condition as it progressed, what sort
> of feedback did I get?  80% foul mouthed, judgmental, condemnations from
> nearly all of those who responded the moment I mentioned the shelter's 14
> day exchange policy. You and Barry were the only ones who contacted me
> privately and were civil.  The rest ... all Mary/Phil P sycophants in
> large degree.

People were reacting to your references to giving Conan a time limit to get
better and that you would take him back to what you called  a high-kill
shelter.  That's why people were hostile towards you.
Again, I gave you a lot of useful information and tried to help, but you
stopped posting about him and have done nothing but hurl insults at me for
the crime of being a caring, sensitive person.

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Philip - 17 Jun 2005 06:38 GMT
>> Let's reflect.  I revealed Conan's condition as it progressed, what
>> sort of feedback did I get?  80% foul mouthed, judgmental,
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> you stopped posting about him and have done nothing but hurl insults
> at me for the crime of being a caring, sensitive person.

The time constraint was dictated by the 14 day exchange policy and the
limits of my wallet which my vet seemed a bit eager to explore. I've had
cats get ill before ... nothing new. But they always worked through such
matters in 5-7 days except for catfight injuries when I maintained
indoor/outdoor cats.  As for hurling insults, you better review your posts
for foul language and provocative accusations. Don't make excuses for the
inexcusable.
Meghan Noecker - 17 Jun 2005 04:30 GMT
>At the present, I am faced with a new problem regarding my vet ... should I
>fire her in light of what the shelter vet was able to do in a very short
>time (supposedly).  At the retail customer level, I was handed an expensive
>estimate to diagnose and then treat Conan, nearly $300.  At the shelter
>veterinary cost level, a blood panel is what .... $25?   And a shot ... $10?
>Result, cured Conan (so we're told).

It sounds like yo do not believe that the cat has been treated and
doing well. If so, you really need to call the shelter and ask them to
confirm the information. Let them know that you are wondering if your
vet misled you, and find out the truth.

If the vet misled you, then you need to know now, before you take the
next cat to the same vet and get fed the same line.

I really doubt the shelter would tell 4 people that the cat is doing
well if he is, in fact, very sick. So, it sounds like he is truly
doing well. Either your vet lied to you, or you just didn't give him
enough time. Maybe he was almost recovered when you gave him back.

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Mary - 17 Jun 2005 04:39 GMT
> >At the present, I am faced with a new problem regarding my vet ... should I
> >fire her in light of what the shelter vet was able to do in a very short
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> doing well. Either your vet lied to you, or you just didn't give him
> enough time. Maybe he was almost recovered when you gave him back.

Meghan, he is just lying his a.s off. He may never have even force-fed
the cat. Wait until he sees how much trouble a kitten can be. I did not and
will not even look at the photo of the kitten. The woman at the shelter told
me it was a brown tabby.
kitkatluna - 17 Jun 2005 04:42 GMT
>>>At the present, I am faced with a new problem regarding my vet ... should
>
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> will not even look at the photo of the kitten. The woman at the shelter told
> me it was a brown tabby.

He mentioned it, too. So did I. I just pray that little brownie stays
healthy!!!
Diane - 17 Jun 2005 04:56 GMT
> I really doubt the shelter would tell 4 people that the cat is doing
> well if he is, in fact, very sick. So, it sounds like he is truly
> doing well. Either your vet lied to you, or you just didn't give him
> enough time. Maybe he was almost recovered when you gave him back.

Whatever happened to second opinions?
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Mary - 17 Jun 2005 05:03 GMT
> > I really doubt the shelter would tell 4 people that the cat is doing
> > well if he is, in fact, very sick. So, it sounds like he is truly
> > doing well. Either your vet lied to you, or you just didn't give him
> > enough time. Maybe he was almost recovered when you gave him back.
>
> Whatever happened to second opinions?

Oh, sure, Philip would really give that much of a sh.t. Please.
Philip - 17 Jun 2005 07:08 GMT
>> At the present, I am faced with a new problem regarding my vet ...
>> should I fire her in light of what the shelter vet was able to do in
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> It sounds like yo do not believe that the cat has been treated and
> doing well.

Considering the sources... you're darned right.

> If so, you really need to call the shelter and ask them to
> confirm the information. Let them know that you are wondering if your
> vet misled you, and find out the truth.

That is a reasonable course of action.

> If the vet misled you, then you need to know now, before you take the
> next cat to the same vet and get fed the same line.
>
> I really doubt the shelter would tell 4 people that the cat is doing
> well if he is, in fact, very sick.

Considering the gulf of credibility of those persons (their lying to and
about each other on this forum), I believe nothing but for words coming
directly from the treating veterinarian.

> So, it sounds like he is truly
> doing well. Either your vet lied to you, or you just didn't give him
> enough time. Maybe he was almost recovered when you gave him back.

You're guessing. Please reframe from that activity with me.  Conan slept
from Friday all through to Monday morning's trip to the shelter ... but for
forced feedings, two bowel movements, and the Saturday vet office visit.
HARDLY "almost recovered."
Candace - 17 Jun 2005 08:58 GMT
> You're guessing. Please reframe from that activity with me.  Conan slept
> from Friday all through to Monday morning's trip to the shelter ... but for
> forced feedings, two bowel movements, and the Saturday vet office visit.
> HARDLY "almost recovered."

Did you return him on Monday?  I thought it was Wednesday.  Not that it
really matters at this point, I suppose.

Candace
Philip - 17 Jun 2005 15:20 GMT
>> You're guessing. Please reframe from that activity with me.  Conan slept
>> from Friday all through to Monday morning's trip to the shelter ... but
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>
> Candace

It does not matter at this point.  You would know the answer to your
question had you been following this story.
Candace - 17 Jun 2005 17:51 GMT
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