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Brad - 13 May 2005 06:25 GMT
I just read a posting that said (out of context) her tail was drooping
like she was upset about something .........that brought me to
thinking about if there is any universally accepted body language or
vocal language that I should know about as a new owner in nine days
and counting......such as the tail held low she is upset.....I realize
everyones mileage may vary on this one but how does your cat let you
know things......to include hiding .........not eating or drinking
etc........Ive heard people say that their cats hide in waiting along
a human path and jump out at them as they walk by......does this tell
me anything about this cats temperment other than at one time they
were wild animals......just anything you can think of would be great
and should be interesting too.....

Thanks in advance......

Brad

LIFE'S JOURNEY IS NOT TO ARRIVE AT THE GRAVE SAFELY IN A
WELL-PRESERVED BODY, BUT RATHER TO SKID IN SIDEWAYS, TOTALLY WORN OUT,
SHOUTING... " HOLY @#$%... WHAT A RIDE!"
sriddles@aol.com - 13 May 2005 06:43 GMT
> I just read a posting that said (out of context) her tail was drooping
> like she was upset about something .........that brought me to
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>
> Brad

Hiding is almost always bad--it means they don't feel well. I think
that's a throwback from their anecestry when *not* showing weakness was
necessary for survival.
The ears, tail, and whiskers are good indicators of a cat's mood. A cat
with his tail straight up, or like a "question mark" is a happy cat.
Whiskers forward is also a sign of contentment. Ears forward is a happy
cat. Ears back, they're angry and aggressive. Ears flattened, and
they're defensive.
One of the cutest things about cat body language is when a kitten is
playing, and arches his back, puffs out his tail, and does this little
side-step dance, walking toward you side-ways. All that is instinctual
for him, but what he's really doing is making himself "look bigger",
all the better to look more imposing to his opponent. (you) Adult cats
do the same thing when they're about to fight.

Sherry
blueberries79 - 13 May 2005 13:16 GMT
> One of the cutest things about cat body language is when a kitten is
> playing, and arches his back, puffs out his tail, and does this little
> side-step dance, walking toward you side-ways.

Kitten?  Gabe is going on eight and he still pulls this off nightly!  Or, I
should say tries to pull it off... hes so big as it is, it looks kind of
funny sometimes : )
chrisoakey@msn.com - 13 May 2005 08:34 GMT
Tail Signals from Desmond Morris's Catlore:

Tail curves gently down and then up again at the tip... this is the
relaxed cat, at peace with the world.

Tail raised slightly and softly curved.... the cat is becoming
interested in something.

Tail held erect with tip tilted over.. the cat is very interested and
in a friendly greeting mood but with slight reservations.

Tail fully erect and the tip stiffly vertical... an intense greeting
display with no reservations.

Tail lowered fully and even tucked between legs... defeated or totally
submissive that wishes to stress its lowly social status.

Tail lowered and fluffed out ... fear.

Tail swishing from side to side..
animal is about to attack

Tail held still but with tip twitching ... mild irritation

Tail held to one side ... sexual invitation of the female

Tail arched and bristled ... on the defence, but may attack if provoked
further.

Chris
Mary - 13 May 2005 17:18 GMT
> Tail Signals from Desmond Morris's Catlore:
>
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> Tail arched and bristled ... on the defence, but may attack if provoked
> further.

I read a book of his called "Cat Watching," if I recall correctly.
How funny that he started out with "The Naked Ape."
John Doe - 13 May 2005 13:35 GMT
Brad <bjdbradnospam@gmail.com> wrote:

> I just read a posting that said (out of context) her tail was
> drooping like she was upset about something .........that
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> etc........Ive heard people say that their cats hide in waiting
> along a human path and jump out at them as they walk by......

I will never forget when Kiki jumped out in front of me with paws
spread up in the air. It was the cutest thing.

As far as my cat talking to me. I don't know if you are implying
that a cat should be able to understand its manager. I don't put
that burden on my cat, I can much more easily understand my cat
than it can understand me. That's my opinion.

Have fun.

> does this tell me anything about this cats temperment other than
> at one time they were wild animals......just anything you can
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>
> Brad
Brad - 14 May 2005 10:54 GMT
. I don't know if you are implying
>that a cat should be able to understand its manager. I don't put
>that burden on my cat, I can much more easily understand my cat
>than it can understand me. That's my opinion.
>
>Have fun.


No not really just thought it might be a fun thread .....but now that
you mention it I am going to try and get him to understand me in a
couple of instances........obviously one is not scratching at the
furniture the other I am going to try my damndest to keep them off the
cupboards and tables both for their saftey and I just don't like them
on cupboards or tables.......this is very important to me because of
my stove being one of those built-ins with the flat surface that would
be inviting to walk over. Hopefully they can detect the heat as a
danger.

Brad

LIFE'S JOURNEY IS NOT TO ARRIVE AT THE GRAVE SAFELY IN A
WELL-PRESERVED BODY, BUT RATHER TO SKID IN SIDEWAYS, TOTALLY WORN OUT,
SHOUTING... " HOLY @#$%... WHAT A RIDE!"
kaeli - 13 May 2005 14:47 GMT
> I just read a posting that said (out of context) her tail was drooping
> like she was upset about something .........that brought me to
> thinking about if there is any universally accepted body language

To a point, yes.
Google "feline body language"
Just like humans and dogs, some things are very consistent and others vary by
cat. Also, you have to look at the whole body, not just one part. Eyes, body
position, ears, tail.

> or
> vocal language

Cats do not have the same vocalizations (pitch, length, occurance vary), but
when you know your cat, you get a feel for what is normal for them and what
they mean. For example, when my Rowan meows a certain way, she's complaining,
but when she meows another way, she's asking for something. When I do
anything to her she doesn't like (clip claws, groom, clean teeth, etc) she
growls at me, but the tone is totally different than when she growls at the
vet for doing things. For me, it's much lighter in tone. For the vet, it's
deep and from the chest -- much more threatening.

> to include hiding

Hiding from company is normal for my kids.
Hiding from me is not.

Like people, cats have personalities. Each one is a unique being with his or
her own quirks. While they share some common traits, of course, your cat will
be his/her own person, so to speak, so you need to observe him/her and learn
what is normal for him/her.
For example, really listen to how your cat meows and when. How does it sound
when kitty is hungry? Wants attention? Is pissed off (wants something, can't
have it, or such)? Does s/he vocalize often, or not much? One of mine talks
far more often than another.
Really look at your cat and see how s/he normally carries the body. Tail up?
Tail down? Most cats carry the tail horizontally with a slight curl up at the
end when they're relaxed. The tail shoots up in the air when they're excited,
angry, or otherwise not relaxed. It curls down to cover the genitals ("tail
between their legs") when they're sick or very afraid. My cats all carry
their tails a little differently both relaxed and excited. But the general
rule remains true for them.
How is your cat's normal gait? Does the cat walk slow most of the time? Does
s/he trot? How does the body move? Fluid and graceful? Back arched a bit or
more flat?
When you _really_ know how the cat normally looks and sounds (things a lot of
people just don't really notice, even about other people and animals they
live with), it's a lot easier to catch problems early.

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bigbadbarry - 14 May 2005 04:37 GMT
> Brad
>
> LIFE'S JOURNEY IS NOT TO ARRIVE AT THE GRAVE SAFELY IN A
> WELL-PRESERVED BODY, BUT RATHER TO SKID IN SIDEWAYS, TOTALLY WORN OUT,
> SHOUTING... " HOLY @#$%... WHAT A RIDE!"

My cat is very verbal when Im in the shower...

He either, goes to his big pot of water, and takes a cat bath (dips his
foot, rubs his head you know) or, hangs out next to the tub.
If I open the curtain and talk to him, his eyes light up, and he just
starts real intently telling me something...I get the feeling he is
frustrated because I don't know what he's saying. I've never seen him
try harder to talk to me than at shower times.

I have no idea what he is saying, or what he really wants.

Maybe he's just razzin me about getting clean. I take a shower once a
week wether I need it or not.
 
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