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KellyH - 10 May 2005 23:10 GMT
Poor Persians.  Bred for a feature which makes it hard for them to breathe
and leaves them susceptible to upper respiratory infections.  Purchased for
their beauty and status as a "rich person's cat", but then neglected because
they require so much work.

We get yet another Persian in horrible condition in today at the shelter.  I
wasn't doing the intakes today as I normally do (needed a day off) and it's
probably a good thing this person didn't get me.  This woman had this poor
cat for four years and finally decides to give him up because he's "too much
work".  Well, he must have been too much work for the past four years, too.
He's all white, but yellowish in places, had fleas (indoor-only,
supposedly), badly matted, severe conjunctivitis, ear mites, yeast, polyps,
and some other bacteria I'd never heard of.  His ears were so bad that the
vet said the meds may not clear it up, and he will have to have part of his
ear canals removed.

We get cats in poor condition all the time, but mostly strays.  Persians,
owned pets that someone paid hundred of dollars for, almost always come in
worse than the average moggie.  My feral trapper friend caught a Persian
when she was trying to trap a pregnant female.  She asked around the
neighborhood, found who he belonged to, and the owner signed him over to the
shelter without hesitation.  Said she put him outside because she couldn't
deal with him anymore.

We got another Persian about a month ago from Animal Control, found by the
dumpsters at the mall, badly matted and underweight, only 4 lbs.

My only real point is that I don't see any other breed consistently entering
the shelter in such horrible shape.  It's very sad.  I wish people would do
research before they impulse buy such a high maintenance cat.

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blueberries79 - 11 May 2005 02:13 GMT
> Poor Persians.  Bred for a feature which makes it hard for them to breathe
> and leaves them susceptible to upper respiratory infections.  Purchased for
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> the shelter in such horrible shape.  It's very sad.  I wish people would do
> research before they impulse buy such a high maintenance cat.

This is probably a very indepth question, but what about Persians require
more work than normal cats?  Do you have to do more work b/c of their long
hair?  Are they prone to more illness?  I never thought I would want one b/c
I assumed they lost a lot of hair and it would be a pain to clean up.  Just
curious : )
KellyH - 11 May 2005 03:58 GMT
> This is probably a very indepth question, but what about Persians require
> more work than normal cats?  Do you have to do more work b/c of their long
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> Just
> curious : )

I've never had a Persian myself, but from what I've been told they need to
be brushed daily.  Their hair is long and fine and very prone to matting.
They are more prone to illnesses. particularly respiratory and eye
infections due to their smushed in faces.  Persians can also be very needy
cats, and tend to bond to one person.
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Diane L. Schirf - 11 May 2005 02:17 GMT
> This woman had this poor
> cat for four years and finally decides to give him up because he's "too much
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> vet said the meds may not clear it up, and he will have to have part of his
> ear canals removed.

Geez, I felt a cyst on Pudge's tail once and the veterinarian look at
her the next day. I couldn't stand the idea of her being in less than
perfect health. How could anyone let a cat get so sick?

How hard is it to take care of Persians, anyway? I ask because I'm not
sure what Pudge was but she had thick, long, tendency-to-mat undercoat,
and it wasn't like she required hours a day of physical maintenance
(which I could have done a better job of, granted).

Good luck . . .

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KellyH - 11 May 2005 04:00 GMT
> Geez, I felt a cyst on Pudge's tail once and the veterinarian look at
> her the next day. I couldn't stand the idea of her being in less than
> perfect health. How could anyone let a cat get so sick?

I really don't know.  It makes me sick seeing the condition some people let
their cats get in.

> How hard is it to take care of Persians, anyway? I ask because I'm not
> sure what Pudge was but she had thick, long, tendency-to-mat undercoat,
> and it wasn't like she required hours a day of physical maintenance
> (which I could have done a better job of, granted).

See my other reply.  They do require daily brushing, not hours, though.
That's too much for some people to handle, I guess.
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Diane L. Schirf - 11 May 2005 04:03 GMT
> They do require daily brushing, not hours, though.

How hard can it be?

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KellyH - 11 May 2005 04:19 GMT
> How hard can it be?

Exactly.  Not that hard, but apparently beyond some people's capabilities.

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MaryL - 11 May 2005 14:04 GMT
>> They do require daily brushing, not hours, though.
>
> How hard can it be?

Not hard, but definitely time-consuming.  My first cat was feral but
definitely a Persian mix (but this was years ago before some breeders ruined
the beautiful Persian face to develop that squashed-in look -- and created
breathing problems along with it).  He had to be *very* carefully combed and
brushed over every inch of his body.  Otherwise, he would quickly begin to
develop mats that would compact very tightly to his body.  Since he was
feral, you can imagine the sad shape he was in when I adopted him.

This was a procedure that I actually enjoyed, and eventually so did he.
However, it certainly was not a routine where a person could count on
setting aside just a few minutes a day and assume that the "brushing" would
be finished.

MaryL
Monique Y. Mudama - 11 May 2005 16:56 GMT
> Not hard, but definitely time-consuming.  My first cat was feral but
> definitely a Persian mix (but this was years ago before some
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> count on setting aside just a few minutes a day and assume that the
> "brushing" would be finished.

I'm thinking, man, if Oscar had to be thoroughly brushed every day,
she ... wouldn't be.  She barely allows me to brush her back every now
and then; trying to touch her belly would never be tolerated.  If I'd
realized it's considered normal to handle paws and belly and whatnot
when they're kittens, maybe things would be different, but I was new
to cats and just figured, hey, if she doesn't like it, I won't do it.

So I guess this just re-emphasizes that you really have to know what
you're doing with these cats; if you don't socialize them from a young
age, or get lucky with being able to socialize a feral, they're going
to be miserable their whole lives.

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Philip - 11 May 2005 23:15 GMT
>> Not hard, but definitely time-consuming.  My first cat was feral but
>> definitely a Persian mix (but this was years ago before some
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> age, or get lucky with being able to socialize a feral, they're going
> to be miserable their whole lives.

I'd be the first person on the block to have a Persian with a body Crew Cut.
LOL  Little butchwax down the backside ...  Hahhahhaha.
Helen Miles - 12 May 2005 00:13 GMT
> I'd be the first person on the block to have a Persian with a body Crew Cut.
> LOL  Little butchwax down the backside ...  Hahhahhaha.

That's not such a dumb idea. I have a friend with 2 persians, and every
6 months they get a crew cut by a professional groomer. It's solved the
problem of un-brushable matted fur.

Helen M  
Philip - 12 May 2005 04:32 GMT
>> I'd be the first person on the block to have a Persian with a body
>> Crew Cut. LOL  Little butchwax down the backside ...  Hahhahhaha.
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>
> Helen M

Yup... shaved pussy cat. Do a Desert Storm Marine shave head (medium on the
topside, very trim on the sides) and shave all but the tail where we leave a
furball on the end, spray painted kaki camouflage. How about a pair of
mirrored sunglasses?   }B^)
Slimpickins - 11 May 2005 04:24 GMT
> Poor Persians.  Bred for a feature which makes it hard for them to breathe
> and leaves them susceptible to upper respiratory infections.  Purchased for
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> --
> -Kelly

***I so agree with you, Kelly. It is indeed very sad, and I've, personally,
always thought Persians were very odd looking creatures. It's amazing what
we humans will do to animals, all for supposedly our own (stupid and
selfish) 'benefit'. When will we ever learn.

ML
Mary - 11 May 2005 05:44 GMT
> > Poor Persians.  Bred for a feature which makes it hard for them to breathe
> > and leaves them susceptible to upper respiratory infections.  Purchased
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> we humans will do to animals, all for supposedly our own (stupid and
> selfish) 'benefit'. When will we ever learn.

Right. Like the way you said you intend to BREED your cat? Because
there can be no cat "so special."
sriddles@aol.com - 11 May 2005 06:11 GMT
> > -Kelly
> >
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>
> ML

Persians *are* odd-looking creatures, but they weren't always. Breeders
have just ruined the breed, IMO. They've bred selectively for the flat
face until they've not only screwed up the poor cat's appearance, but
it's health, also. Check out this photo of a vintage postcard; this is
a Persian, circa 1918. Beautiful cat. But looks nothing like the
persians of today.

Sherry
sriddles@aol.com - 11 May 2005 06:13 GMT
sridd...@aol.com wrote:
> > > -Kelly
> > >
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>
> Sherry

Oops. Here's the link.

http://www.edwardian-delights.com/vh6540.jpg

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Monique Y. Mudama - 11 May 2005 06:25 GMT
> sridd...@aol.com wrote:
>> Check out this photo of a vintage postcard; this is a Persian, circa
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>
> Sherry

Looks like a normal cat!

... Er, I guess that's the point, right?

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Mary - 11 May 2005 07:03 GMT
> > sridd...@aol.com wrote:
> >> Check out this photo of a vintage postcard; this is a Persian, circa
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>
> ... Er, I guess that's the point, right?

Yes.
KellyH - 11 May 2005 07:06 GMT
<sriddles@aol.com> wrote in message
>> Persians *are* odd-looking creatures, but they weren't always.
> Breeders
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>
> http://www.edwardian-delights.com/vh6540.jpg

Now THAT looks like a cat!
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Phil P. - 11 May 2005 08:58 GMT
> sridd...@aol.com wrote:
> > > > -Kelly
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>
> Sherry

What breeders have done to this once beautiful cat is a crime.
Diane L. Schirf - 11 May 2005 12:24 GMT
> > Persians *are* odd-looking creatures, but they weren't always.
> Breeders
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>
> http://www.edwardian-delights.com/vh6540.jpg

They could breed them back to the way they were.

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Charlie Wilkes - 11 May 2005 07:26 GMT
>Persians *are* odd-looking creatures, but they weren't always. Breeders
>have just ruined the breed, IMO. They've bred selectively for the flat
>face until they've not only screwed up the poor cat's appearance, but
>it's health, also. Check out this photo of a vintage postcard; this is
>a Persian, circa 1918. Beautiful cat. But looks nothing like the
>persians of today.

They have done that to dogs, too.  It's warped and counter-productive.

I have a solution, but it would require the support of trendsetters
and celebrities, etc.  Here is my solution:

Start holding very high-toned pet shows in which neutered,
non-breeding specimens are rated for overall health, appearance and
comportment rather than a specific phenotype with extreme features
that are often unwholesome.  It would be black-tie, formal gowns,
lotsa money on display everywhere... make it clear that this is the
new chic amongst well-heeled animal connoiseurs, to go out there and
canvass the shelters and barnyards and FIND that exceptional pet.

You could have categories like "best all-black cat," "friendliest
cat," "best cat under 8 pounds," etc.

These animals couldn't be bred because who knows what recessives lurk
in their genetics.  Hence every new champion would have to be found
from the population of animals, and the people with the most
discerning eyes, rather than the most inbred genetic stock, would
capture the prize.  Breeders would still have a role, but they would
be free to focus on real animal quality metrics instead of arbitrary
breed standards.

Charlie
Philip - 11 May 2005 08:17 GMT
>> Persians *are* odd-looking creatures, but they weren't always.
>> Breeders have just ruined the breed, IMO. They've bred selectively
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> You could have categories like "best all-black cat," "friendliest
> cat," "best cat under 8 pounds," etc.
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Charlie

One of my favorites:  Best bird catcher.  Put three felines who are strange
to each other in a large cage with a few parakeets. The first cat to nail a
bird WINS!!!   I love birds ... roasted.
Charlie Wilkes - 11 May 2005 09:13 GMT
>> Start holding very high-toned pet shows in which neutered,
>> non-breeding specimens are rated for overall health, appearance and
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>to each other in a large cage with a few parakeets. The first cat to nail a
>bird WINS!!!   I love birds ... roasted.

That is a fine idea.  Anyone who complained could be referred to an
illustrious precedent -- the Vice President and de facto Prime
Minister of the U.S.   He shot about 75 pheasants in a two-hour canned
hunt last summer.  You proposed cat competition is at least as
sporting if not much more so.

Alternatively, you could use great-horned owls and have a contest for
"toughest fucken cat around."

Charlie
Philip - 11 May 2005 16:52 GMT
>>> Start holding very high-toned pet shows in which neutered,
>>> non-breeding specimens are rated for overall health, appearance and
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>
> Charlie

Not very similar.  In the Best Bird Catcher event, you have the potential
for a cat fight leaving the parakeets to watch, you have the cat/bird hunt,
and you have the potential for another cat trying to steal the captured
bird.   A three for one event!  ;-)
KellyH - 11 May 2005 13:01 GMT
> Start holding very high-toned pet shows in which neutered,
> non-breeding specimens are rated for overall health, appearance and
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> new chic amongst well-heeled animal connoiseurs, to go out there and
> canvass the shelters and barnyards and FIND that exceptional pet.
<snip>

I love it!!  What a great idea.
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Wendy - 11 May 2005 12:37 GMT
> Poor Persians.  Bred for a feature which makes it hard for them to breathe
> and leaves them susceptible to upper respiratory infections.  Purchased for
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
> the shelter in such horrible shape.  It's very sad.  I wish people would do
> research before they impulse buy such a high maintenance cat.

We adopted our Fluffer from the SPCA years ago. He looked like a Persian
should - beautiful regular cat face, the typical Persian build, with the
long luxurious fur. At any rate he was left at the SPCA because he had fleas
but the previous owners said he'd never been outside. Yea right! That's why
when we were shaving the mats off we found leaves in the middle of them. He
weighted 6 lbs. when we brought him home and this was a cat who went 15
normally without being fat.

<sigh> at least the owner took the cat to a shelter. Then there are the
people who move and put their cats out and leave them behind, the pregnant
cats who are locked out because people don't want to deal with the kittens,
the people who think feline birth control is drowning the kittens when they
find them...... We have a cat now who was left on the side of the road in a
cat carrier. If the vet tech at our vet hadn't noticed the carrier and
investigated, the cat would have starved to death. She's probably a year or
so old and isn't spayed.
Diane L. Schirf - 11 May 2005 12:47 GMT
> At any rate he was left at the SPCA because he had fleas
> but the previous owners said he'd never been outside. Yea right! That's why
> when we were shaving the mats off we found leaves in the middle of them.

Clearly they were leaves that had been tracked inside! </sarcasm>

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blueberries79 - 11 May 2005 12:55 GMT
> > Poor Persians.  Bred for a feature which makes it hard for them to breathe
> > and leaves them susceptible to upper respiratory infections.  Purchased
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> investigated, the cat would have starved to death. She's probably a year or
> so old and isn't spayed.

I'm sure this has been expressed before but I just *cannot* stand the way
some people treat their animals... cats, dogs, horses, etc.  At our house,
we can't watch Animal Planet unless we make sure the Animal Cops show isn't
on because I will start tearing up as soon as I see it.  How some people can
neglect their 'beloved pets' is just amazing!  I saw a horse once that had
its mane shaved, every rib sticking out and a hole in its neck from the bad
care it received.  I have always thought the best remedy is to let the
people who treat their animals that way be treated in the same manner so
they can understand what harm is being done!  Of course, it will never
happen, but it does make me feel a little better instead of just being
outraged and helpless.
KellyH - 11 May 2005 13:07 GMT
> I'm sure this has been expressed before but I just *cannot* stand the way
> some people treat their animals... cats, dogs, horses, etc.  At our house,
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> happen, but it does make me feel a little better instead of just being
> outraged and helpless.

Same here.  I can't watch that show, either.  I've thought of that before,
too.  Anyone who neglects, abuses, tortures another living creature should
have the same thing done to them.  It's sick, and I don't understand how
people can do things like that.
I know what I see at our shelter is nothing compared to other places, but it
still gets to me sometimes.

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sriddles@aol.com - 11 May 2005 14:55 GMT
Kelly wrote:
Anyone who neglects, abuses, tortures another living creature should
> have the same thing done to them.  It's sick, and I don't understand how
> people can do things like that.>
> --
> -Kelly

You go, girl. It's never too late for a career change....I want you to
consider going to law school and becoming this county's next DA :-)

Seriously, it's hard to prosecute any kind of animal abuse case when
the district attorney isn't sympathetic toward animal issues.

They're still calling me "Little Bo Peep" at the sheriff's office over
a sheep neglect case from five years ago.

Sherry
Philip - 11 May 2005 16:52 GMT
> Kelly wrote:
> Anyone who neglects, abuses, tortures another living creature should
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>
> Sherry

The Sheriff officers think you're a bit "out there."   You really have to
work at getting a personal title with a cop, Sherry.

KellyH - 11 May 2005 16:56 GMT
<sriddles@aol.com> wrote in message
> You go, girl. It's never too late for a career change....I want you to
> consider going to law school and becoming this county's next DA :-)
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>
> Sherry

True, and the laws on the books suck for the most part anyway.  New
Hampshire and Massachusetts are getting better, but in many places animal
abuse is still a misdemeanor.  Pay a fine, like you peed on the sidewalk or
something.  Juvenile cases of animal abuse need to be taken seriously, too.
These kids have something wrong with them, and they need intervention.  It's
not a joke.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 11 May 2005 16:58 GMT
> Kelly wrote: Anyone who neglects, abuses, tortures another living
> creature should
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> They're still calling me "Little Bo Peep" at the sheriff's office
> over a sheep neglect case from five years ago.

I'd imagine it would be hard to be a lawyer trying these kinds of
cases ... like the animal cops, the lawyers can't yell at the people
or hit them.  They have to be polite, and they have to give them their
legal rights ... and they have to let them go if that's what the judge
decides.

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sriddles@aol.com - 11 May 2005 18:02 GMT
> > Kelly wrote: Anyone who neglects, abuses, tortures another living
> > creature should
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> --
> monique, who spoils Oscar unmercifully

It largely depends on the DA's attitude about animals, and his personal
definition of "abuse",  whether he decides to prosecute, IMO. The laws
are vague. Our DA refused to prosecute a man who shot a neighbor's
clean through with an arrow, because the cat was on the man's property,
and she had been warned. The cat was still writhing when we got there,
and had to euth-ed on the spot. He was within his rights to remove the
cat from his property, yes. But he could have called Animal Control.
Also, year-old calves deprived of water until their tongues swell in
90-degree heat, then turned loose in a dead run and having their necks
jerked so severely it sometimes breaks them, fits my definition of
abuse. But around here they call it a rodeo.

Sherry
Philip - 11 May 2005 23:15 GMT
>>> Kelly wrote: Anyone who neglects, abuses, tortures another living
>>> creature should
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>
> Sherry

Calves liver is pretty good with horseradish/mayo and grilled onions.  ;^)
blueberries79 - 11 May 2005 23:28 GMT
> >>> Kelly wrote: Anyone who neglects, abuses, tortures another living
> >>> creature should
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>
> Calves liver is pretty good with horseradish/mayo and grilled onions.  ;^)

UGH liver and onions!  I feel like Im back at home again...  I always got
out of eating it until my sister moved back home with her 3 kids and gave
them the "You can't leave the table until you finish your meal and you need
to try a little of everything,"  speech and then it applied to me b/c I had
to "set an example" for them.  *shUddEr*
Magic Mood Jeep© - 12 May 2005 00:00 GMT
>>>>> Kelly wrote: Anyone who neglects, abuses, tortures another living
>>>>> creature should
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> meal and you need to try a little of everything,"  speech and then it
> applied to me b/c I had to "set an example" for them.  *shUddEr*

Love liver (hold the onions), both beef & chicken.  Mom too.  But Sis, she
like chicken *gizzards*....  Dad & Bro barely tolerated liver, and I
wouldn't touch gizzards :P
Philip - 12 May 2005 04:32 GMT
>>>>>> Kelly wrote: Anyone who neglects, abuses, tortures another living
>>>>>> creature should
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> Sis, she like chicken *gizzards*....  Dad & Bro barely tolerated
> liver, and I wouldn't touch gizzards :P

Chicken livers, lamb kidneys, with baked beans.  Where it not for the baked
beans, my last cat would insist on sharing my meal!
Magic Mood Jeep© - 12 May 2005 14:36 GMT
>>>>>>> Kelly wrote: Anyone who neglects, abuses, tortures another
>>>>>>> living creature should
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> Chicken livers, lamb kidneys, with baked beans.  Where it not for the
> baked beans, my last cat would insist on sharing my meal!

Last time I fixed myself a plate of fried chicken livers - I almost didn't
get any myself!  I had to fix a small plate for Moocher Moe, adn then one
for Smokey (heaven help us if they share), and then Weeble, Ernie, Mimi,
Tennessee, Ping & Lizzie wanted a taste, too.  Gonna have to get me a large
cage & assemble it around the table, to keep the cats *away* from us when we
eat.  Ever see sharks at a feeding frenzy????  Or Pirhanna??? Imagine that,
only on the kitchen floor, and they're furry-cute cats, instead of sharks!

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Philip - 12 May 2005 04:32 GMT
>>>>> Kelly wrote: Anyone who neglects, abuses, tortures another living
>>>>> creature should
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> meal and you need to try a little of everything,"  speech and then it
> applied to me b/c I had to "set an example" for them.  *shUddEr*

Hey, it's not like she was shoving kreplach down your gullet with a milk
chaser, ya know!!   LOL
Diane L. Schirf - 11 May 2005 13:19 GMT
> How some people can
> neglect their 'beloved pets' is just amazing!  I saw a horse once that had
> its mane shaved, every rib sticking out and a hole in its neck from the bad
> care it received.

You mean the care it hadn't received. :(

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Diane L. Schirf - 11 May 2005 13:21 GMT
>  I have always thought the best remedy is to let the
> people who treat their animals that way be treated in the same manner so
> they can understand what harm is being done!  Of course, it will never
> happen, but it does make me feel a little better instead of just being
> outraged and helpless.

Aha! When I see people just screaming and screaming irrationally at
their kids for no particular reason (I mean, the kid had usually just
done a kid thing, like skipping on the sidewalk, horrors), I feel like
taking them into a room and having someone screech at them for hours on
end, with no recourse, so they get to know what it's like to be a kid at
the mercy of an idiot parent.

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blueberries79 - 11 May 2005 13:34 GMT
> >  I have always thought the best remedy is to let the
> > people who treat their animals that way be treated in the same manner so
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>
> </rant>

I wonder if there is a correlation between the people who scream/hit/abuse
their children and the people who scream/hit/abuse their animals?
Lesley - 11 May 2005 13:59 GMT
> I wonder if there is a correlation between the people who scream/hit/abuse
> their children and the people who scream/hit/abuse their animals?

There is- see

http://groups.msn.com/AllBreedAnimalRescueAndReferral/yourwebpage2.msnw

for a list of stuff on this

Lesley

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Philip - 11 May 2005 16:52 GMT
>>>  I have always thought the best remedy is to let the
>>> people who treat their animals that way be treated in the same
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> scream/hit/abuse their children and the people who scream/hit/abuse
> their animals?

And while you're at it, draw a ratio of women to men who resort to screaming
and emotional abuse as their chosen "training tool."     ;-)
sriddles@aol.com - 11 May 2005 15:14 GMT
> >  I have always thought the best remedy is to let the
> > people who treat their animals that way be treated in the same manner so
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> Aha! When I see people just screaming and screaming irrationally at
> their kids for no particular reason (I mean, the kid had usually just

> done a kid thing, like skipping on the sidewalk, horrors), I feel like
> taking them into a room and having someone screech at them for hours on
> end, with no recourse, so they get to know what it's like to be a kid at
> the mercy of an idiot parent.
>
> </rant>

Heh. Your forgot something. In addition to being locked in a room and
having someone screech at them for hours, they need to have someone in
there who will also "yank" on their arms incessantly. I was in Wal Mart
checkout behind a screeching arm-yanking mother the other day. That's a
circle of hell in itself not only for the child but the spectator.

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Diane L. Schirf - 12 May 2005 03:36 GMT
> > Aha! When I see people just screaming and screaming irrationally at
> > their kids for no particular reason (I mean, the kid had usually just
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> checkout behind a screeching arm-yanking mother the other day. That's a
> circle of hell in itself not only for the child but the spectator.

I didn't forget; I just really didn't want to get that warmed up to the
subject, because I could go on . . . and on . . . and on . . .

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Philip - 11 May 2005 16:52 GMT
>>  I have always thought the best remedy is to let the
>> people who treat their animals that way be treated in the same
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>
> </rant>

Then your social skills are wanting.  Your feelings are interpreting one
moment in time where that
parent has MANY MANY experiences where the kid has initiated a power
struggle.  Nobody starts out yelling. Matter of fact when our kids were
young and rebellious, my wife would say in private:  "You get more respect
from just clearing your throat than I do from explaining and lecturing."
Mary - 11 May 2005 16:42 GMT
> I'm sure this has been expressed before but I just *cannot* stand the way
> some people treat their animals... cats, dogs, horses, etc.  At our house,
> we can't watch Animal Planet unless we make sure the Animal Cops show isn't
> on because I will start tearing up as soon as I see it.  How some people can
> neglect their 'beloved pets' is just amazing!

What killed me last night was the fat woman who had left her
dog chained in her kitchen and starved him nearly to death.
In her KITCHEN, meaning that she had to fix meals with
him standing there starving. And he is the sweetest dog.
He gained 12 pounds in two days. That was on
Animal Precinct.
ceb - 11 May 2005 16:18 GMT
"Wendy" <wendyzpart@nospam.com> wrote in news:yKqdnaeoJe0TcxzfRVn-
3Q@comcast.com:

> At any rate he was left at the SPCA because he had fleas
> but the previous owners said he'd never been outside. Yea right!

In all fairness, it is possible for cats to get fleas without going
outside. My cat Nickleby, who never went outside in his youth, got fleas
one time that I had apparently tracked in. It was a terrace-level apartment
with carpeting. I didn't even know that could happen before it happened to
us.

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Mary - 11 May 2005 16:47 GMT
> "Wendy" <wendyzpart@nospam.com> wrote in news:yKqdnaeoJe0TcxzfRVn-
> 3Q@comcast.com:
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> with carpeting. I didn't even know that could happen before it happened to
> us.

It happened to me when I lived on a lake where the soil was sandy
and the weather tropical. I tracked them in and my cat got them.
MaryL - 11 May 2005 16:49 GMT
> "Wendy" <wendyzpart@nospam.com> wrote in news:yKqdnaeoJe0TcxzfRVn-
> 3Q@comcast.com:
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> with carpeting. I didn't even know that could happen before it happened to
> us.

Yes, this can happen, but anyone who spends even a modicum of time caring
for a cat should notice the presence of fleas long before it gets to the
point of a major infestation (and he certainly would *not* have had leaves
embedded within fur mats, as described here).

MaryL
KellyH - 11 May 2005 16:52 GMT
> In all fairness, it is possible for cats to get fleas without going
> outside. My cat Nickleby, who never went outside in his youth, got fleas
> one time that I had apparently tracked in. It was a terrace-level
> apartment
> with carpeting. I didn't even know that could happen before it happened to
> us.

That is true.  I had fleas in my house and I'm not exactly sure how they got
in.  But still, I'm talking about a cat in horrible shape.  If they had been
brushing him at all, they would have noticed the fleas.

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Philip - 11 May 2005 16:52 GMT
> "Wendy" <wendyzpart@nospam.com> wrote in news:yKqdnaeoJe0TcxzfRVn-
> 3Q@comcast.com:
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> terrace-level apartment with carpeting. I didn't even know that could
> happen before it happened to us.

Agreed.
 
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