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Candace - 01 May 2005 23:49 GMT Juls (of Dimitri and Jack), Kaare (of Gustav and Rori), Alice (of Isis), Malachi (I think her name was Susan and she wrote really beautiful posts), the other 2 Karens? There are also a lot of others who I think of from time to time but can't recall right now...
Candace
sriddles@aol.com - 01 May 2005 23:59 GMT > Juls (of Dimitri and Jack), Kaare (of Gustav and Rori), Alice (of > Isis), Malachi (I think her name was Susan and she wrote really > beautiful posts), the other 2 Karens? There are also a lot of others > who I think of from time to time but can't recall right now... > > Candace I don't know Candace, I've missed those posters too. I did have Karen M.'s address, and sent her an e-mail today. Hopefully we'll hear from her.
Sherry
PawsForThought - 02 May 2005 00:02 GMT sridd...@aol.com wrote:
> I don't know Candace, I've missed those posters too. > I did have Karen M.'s address, and sent her an e-mail today. Hopefully > we'll hear from her. > > Sherry Karen M sent me a new email addy last week. Did you send to that one, Sherry? If you need it, just email me.
Lauren
sriddles@aol.com - 02 May 2005 00:11 GMT > sridd...@aol.com wrote: > >> [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Lauren Yes, I got that change of address letter too. I hope she responds.
Sherry
-L. - 02 May 2005 02:53 GMT sridd...@aol.com wrote:
> I don't know Candace, I've missed those posters too. > I did have Karen M.'s address, and sent her an e-mail today. Hopefully > we'll hear from her. > > Sherry I think she's the one who lives sort of close to me. What about Peejoe, Yngver, Patch....
-L.
Candace - 02 May 2005 03:14 GMT > sridd...@aol.com wrote: > > I don't know Candace, I've missed those posters too. [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > > -L. Oh, Yngver, of course. It seems like she was posting occasionally up until AOL yanked the newsgroups. Maybe she's lurking but doesn't like posting through Google. Are you there, Yngver?
Candace
K.M. - 02 May 2005 03:14 GMT Hey Candance and all,
I got *2* emails saying my name was spoken in vain on here.... ;) I've been busy, not to mention the constant vitriol got tiresome. I see things haven't changed, have they? But I've missed many of you.
All the furkids are doing well, still running the roost with iron paws. How about all of yours? We adopted a new dog last fall, as our old dog, Bubbas, died last spring from cancer. Our new dog, Buddy, is only 1.5 yo, and totally sweet and a ball of energy. He also loves chewing up my underwear (sorry, TMI). hee hee
xo - K
Candace - 02 May 2005 03:23 GMT > Hey Candance and all, > [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > xo - K Hi, Karen, nice to hear from you. I remember your doggy dying, that was right around the time my cat, Cory, died. We got a new cat in July so we could keep it at 3. He's very bizarre, but cute in his own special way.
Well, yes, the vitriol is still here but there's some good stuff, too. Glad that you and yours are doing well and hope you will drop in now and then, at least.
Candace
K.M. - 02 May 2005 03:32 GMT Isn't it strange, it seems no matter how many pets you have, if one dies the house feels empty, doesn't it? I fostered a mom cat and her four kittens last summer. I had the mom longer than the kittens (surprise surprise) and I almost kept her, because I didn't think I would find her a good enough home to make up for her being removed from this one, where she had gotten very comfortable (and well loved, I *adored* her she was so awesome). Well, I did find her an awesome home, but for weeks afterwards the house felt strange. Yes, I am a terrible foster mother.... :)
I'm glad your new kitty is doing well in your home, in his apparently unique way. I think all cats are bizarre, that's why they're so great.
:) K
Karen - 02 May 2005 05:54 GMT > Isn't it strange, it seems no matter how many pets you have, if one > dies the house feels empty, doesn't it? Yes. Unfortuneately my Grant died in Feb. I still can't get over it and how different it is with just the girls and me.
Linda E - 02 May 2005 13:01 GMT >> Isn't it strange, it seems no matter how many pets you have, if one >> dies the house feels empty, doesn't it? > > Yes. Unfortuneately my Grant died in Feb. I still can't get over it and > how > different it is with just the girls and me. I remember Grant... I'm so sorry for your loss, Karen.
Linda
K.M. - 02 May 2005 19:28 GMT > > Isn't it strange, it seems no matter how many pets you have, if one > > dies the house feels empty, doesn't it? > > Yes. Unfortuneately my Grant died in Feb. I still can't get over it and how > different it is with just the girls and me. Oh, Karen! I'm so sorry. Grant was such a sweetie-pie. Hugs to you and the girls...
K
sriddles@aol.com - 02 May 2005 03:28 GMT > Hey Candance and all, > [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > xo - K {{{{{{{{{KAREN}}}}}}}}}}}
Nice to see you! We've missed you. No, things haven't changed...but it would be nice to have another sane poster. :-)
Sherry
Diane L. Schirf - 02 May 2005 03:30 GMT > No, things haven't changed...but it > would be nice to have another sane poster. :-) That would make one and be a good start! ;)
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sriddles@aol.com - 02 May 2005 03:33 GMT > > No, things haven't changed...but it > > would be nice to have another sane poster. :-) [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > -- > http://www.slywy.com/ Well, we gotta start somewhere :-)
Sherry
Mary - 02 May 2005 04:04 GMT > > No, things haven't changed...but it > > would be nice to have another sane poster. :-) > > That would make one and be a good start! ;) Precisely what I was thinking.
K.M. - 02 May 2005 03:36 GMT Oh, well then, I'm not your girl. ;) I lost my sanity yeeeaaaarrrs ago! Now, I'm wondering if there's still a certain crazy male "cat lover" on here. I think you know what I mean, unless your scanner scrambled your brain...... hee hee
sriddles@aol.com - 02 May 2005 03:56 GMT > Oh, well then, I'm not your girl. ;) I lost my sanity yeeeaaaarrrs ago! > Now, I'm wondering if there's still a certain crazy male "cat lover" on > here. I think you know what I mean, unless your scanner scrambled your > brain...... hee hee Ummm, yeah...but keeping a rather low profile these days....are you still serving your directorship to the Humane Society there? How's that working out?
Sherry
K.M. - 02 May 2005 04:18 GMT The board I was serving on is kind of defunct at the moment. But that's okay, I have plenty to keep me occupied. Are you still with your HS? Weren't you taking a break for awhile or something?
sriddles@aol.com - 02 May 2005 04:24 GMT > The board I was serving on is kind of defunct at the moment. But that's > okay, I have plenty to keep me occupied. Are you still with your HS? > Weren't you taking a break for awhile or something? Heh. I tried to resign and they wouldn't let me. I think you have to die to get off that board. So for now I let them talk me into just doing the newsletter and working on fundraising activities and such. Which is against another one of my pet peeves--all board members should be "hands-on" advocates for the shelter. Not just number-crunchers and donation-solictors. So I still try to get down there at least once a week and just check in with everybody. I don't get to know the cat on a first-name basis or anything like I used to do. It's too hard on me anymore.
Sherry
K.M. - 02 May 2005 04:29 GMT Yes, once they have you they never let you go <insert maniacal laugh here>. I know what you mean about getting to know the cats. That's why I'm a terrible foster mom. I still get stabs of guilt when I think of the utterly trusting and adoring look one of my foster kittens used to give me, right after he'd run up from where ever he was just to check up on me. I'm getting it right now. Doh!
K.M. - 02 May 2005 03:36 GMT Oh, well then, I'm not your girl. ;) I lost my sanity yeeeaaaarrrs ago! Now, I'm wondering if there's still a certain crazy male "cat lover" on here. I think you know what I mean, unless your scanner scrambled your brain...... hee hee
Barb - 02 May 2005 16:46 GMT Did get a Christmas card from Monika-remember Jack the cat? (The eBay?)A nice note and they are doing well.
Miss some of the other regulars, though.
-- Barb Of course I don't look busy, I did it right the first time.
zuzu22@webtv.net - 03 May 2005 04:19 GMT >Juls of Dimitri and Jack I told Juls about this thread and she asked me to post a message for her.
Megan
********************* Message from Juls:
Preface: I'm sure there are many new folks wondering what the deal with Jack might be. His story is at http//www.ect.org/dj (pictures are missing....I've just not had the time to get them back up; I had them on my old webspace and changed providers when I moved...it's on my list of "to-do's," along with add new cute pictures!)
Hi everyone! In response to the "Whatever happened to..." post, I wanted to let you all know how we (Jack, Dmitri and myself, Juls) are.
In a word: fantastic! The last several months have been hectic and I haven't spent time on Usenet, but I think of you all every time I look at Jack's smile. I'll always be so thankful for so many people pulling together in spirit, and financially, to bring us together.
He's a happy boy, so full of love, and has brought so much to my life, and to Dmitri. They are still the bookends and do everything together....sleep, eat, lick heads, and play. Oddly, they even share litter boxes, even though they each have one. Dmitri has a funny habit of getting in one box, then using his paw to scoop litter from the other into the box he's using.
As I type, they're on the bed bathing one another, so tenderly. You would think after this length of time, I'd be used to that, but seeing them dote on one another can still bring me to tears. I've never seen two cats love each other the way those two do.
Jack still nurtures Dmitri during a thunderstorm and takes care of him, and when a neighbor cat was trying to tell Jack he owned the neighborhood through a window, Dmitri quickly jumped next to Jack and told the neighbor cat off....big time. No hissing or growling, just a cat chatter of "how dare you!" It seemed he was saying "You mess with my brother, you mess with me."
Despite his age (16), Dmitri is doing pretty well. He has some arthritis in his front leg, but he still manages a good ambush on Jack now and then. I keep the cat tent from Beth at the end of the hall, and it's their ambush cave. One will hide in there waiting for the other one to wander down the hall, then pounce. They still love the tent, their catnip pillows and their warm bed.
Jack is still shy around strangers, but it doesn't take him long to turn a stranger into a friend. He's my big bud, and loves to get on my lap, or stretch out on my leg when I'm in bed. Often, Dmitri will be on my lap and Jack can't be left out, so he piles on top. A pile of purring cats - life doesn't get any better than that!
Jack loves to watch TV, and he still loves a bite of raw hamburger. He's also good at sniffing out food and opening packages. He still has some feral habits, such as always finding a piece of paper or rag to cover his food plate or his litter box.
Once, he couldn't find anything for his litterbox and actually pulled out a heating vent and somehow got it in there. He loves to sleep on my pillow, as long as he can touch Dmitri while he does so. The butts must touch during all naps.
He's like a bag of beans. When he first arrived, he was kind of skittish, but now I can toss him around my neck, lift him up in the air, do whatever I want. He knows he's safe. He's also very ticklish, but never bites or scratches (unless he's makin muffins, and then he gets a bit carried away). Dmitri is still the local busybody and has to see what the neighbors are up to. He constantly makes a window in the blinds at night so he can see what's going on. Jack isn't that interested unless there are birds to see, but when Dmitri is really into looking outside, he often has to get in the middle of it with his "Whatcha doin? Whatcha doin? Whatcha doin?" Always together! Jack also chatters quite a bit...he's very talkative and always tells me what he wants. (Either food or love...he loves to be cuddled!)
I don't think a day goes by that I don't think about Catharine. I look at Jack's funny smile and hope she knows how happy he is...and how much we love him. He's really a charmer, and has the most wonderful sense of humor. He knows how to make me laugh, and he and Dmitri often team up with silly poses, it seems, just to make me laugh. He loves to make me laugh. My mom says when they're wrestling, they look like two bear cubs.
We moved last year, and they really love where we live now. Lots of windows to watch the birds and rabbits (!) that populate the back yard. Before Jack, Dmitri always tried to sneak out and get outside. Since Jack, he has no interest in going outside....his interest is his brother. I'll never tire of telling everyone how those two adore one another.
I still call them my clones, because they do everything in tandem. They wake up at the same time, sleep together (always have to be touching), and if Dmitri moves to a new sleeping spot, Jack follows right behind.
A year or so ago, I hurt my back and was in pretty bad shape for a couple of weeks. They were both so sweet about it, and there were times I was struggling to walk into the kitchen. They would sit side by side, hand on hand (like they were holding hands), and watch patiently. You could see the concern in their faces, so I was trying to reassure them it was okay. What was amazing was that they cut out their usual behavior of wanting food every two minutes. They never fussed for food, never misbehaved, and tried to entertain me with little shows of leapfrog. It was really sweet. They just seemed to know what to do to make it as easy as they could on me.
So all in all, life is good and they are the two happiest cats on earth. It's as if Jack has always been here.
I hope all is well with everyone and I miss being here and chatting. If anyone wants to email me, you can get my email address from Megan (or find it on the website) I'd love to hear from you.
Juls
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Karen - 03 May 2005 04:49 GMT > So all in all, life is good and they are the two happiest cats on earth. > It's as if Jack has always been here. [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > Juls Amazing!
-L. - 03 May 2005 07:04 GMT zuz...@webtv.net wrote:
> >Juls of Dimitri and Jack > [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] > at Jack's smile. I'll always be so thankful for so many people pulling > together in spirit, and financially, to bring us together. Oh, I remember that story now! I love that story.
I'm glad he's doing so well. :)
-L.
Candace - 03 May 2005 20:04 GMT zuz...@webtv.net wrote:
> >Juls of Dimitri and Jack > > I told Juls about this thread and she asked me to post a message for > her. Wow, what a great post, thanks, Megan. It's great to hear the boys are doing well. So cute.
Candace
Candace - 04 May 2005 02:42 GMT zuz...@webtv.net wrote:
> >Juls of Dimitri and Jack > > I told Juls about this thread and she asked me to post a message for > her. Wow, that was a great message! Thanks, Megan, I'm glad the boys are doing so well.
Candace
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