Since you have serious comprehension problems, let me reiterate:

I never once said I would do what Shelly did--
in other words, contact her employer as she has
contacted Steve's, because she did not like a
Usenet post he made

I was making the simple point that since Shelly
does not like the thought of anyone contacting
her boss over Usenet posts, perhaps she should
think twice before doing it to anyone else.

ESPECIALLY since she posts with her full
first name and last name.

That is all I said.