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Paul - 07 Sep 2003 18:46 GMT
Hello,

I am not sure if this is the correct NG to post to, but if somebody could
answer - that would be great.

Currently my wife and I are looking for a cat. We have narrowed it down to
either a ragdoll or a siberian. Both seem to be good candidates. Now it's
just a matter of deciding which one. We are usually home 4 or so hours a day
before going to bed ( on weekdays ). On weekends it varies greatly - could
be most of the day, could be just an hour. Our concern is for the cat not to
become reclusive and anti-social. Also I am not a fan of declawing, so if
possible we would like to keep the cat with all 4 sets of claws, but not at
the cost of the furniture.

Basic answers I am looking for :
Will either of the cats be OK with that kind of environment ?
Will either one be easily trained to use a scratching post, and will it
stick to it vs. the furniture ?
How much attention does either one need/want ?
How much attention does either one GIVE ? - I mean, sometimes we just feel
like being left alone - will that be a problem ? ( that happens rarely )

thanks in advance for all the answers.

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Sandra Loosemore - 07 Sep 2003 19:17 GMT
> Currently my wife and I are looking for a cat. We have narrowed it down to
> either a ragdoll or a siberian. Both seem to be good candidates. Now it's
> just a matter of deciding which one.

Is there some particular reason why you want a purebred cat?  Ordinary
cats make fine pets, too, and there are many more of them who
desperately need homes.  Another thing you should keep in mind is that
individual cats, regardless of breed (or not!), have a great deal of
personality variation.  Some cats are total lap funguses who
insistently DEMAND lots of attention, others are happy to be left to
themselves most of the time.  Your best chance of getting a cat with
the personality you want is to look for an adult cat rather than a
kitten, and spend some time with it at the shelter to get to know its
personality before you decide to adopt it.

-Sandra
Gail - 07 Sep 2003 21:55 GMT
I agree.
Gail

> > Currently my wife and I are looking for a cat. We have narrowed it down to
> > either a ragdoll or a siberian. Both seem to be good candidates. Now it's
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>
> -Sandra
~*SooZy*~ - 08 Sep 2003 16:35 GMT
> > Currently my wife and I are looking for a cat. We have narrowed it down to
> > either a ragdoll or a siberian. Both seem to be good candidates. Now it's
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>
> -Sandra

They are obviously after a lap cat because both breeds need lots of
attention, My Ragdolls follow me everywhere, not the sort of cat to have if
you work fulltime.  Ragdolls are an indoor cat they do not defend
themselves.  These people are looking for a particular breed because of its
looks and personality.
Paul - 09 Sep 2003 06:17 GMT
> > > Currently my wife and I are looking for a cat. We have narrowed it down
> to
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> themselves.  These people are looking for a particular breed because of its
> looks and personality.

you are absolutely right. Both my wife and I are interested in a cat that
likes to get and give attention. However, you pointed out the question that
still concerns us very much - how OK are they to be left alone for long
periods of time. We both work, and while she is usually out by 7am and back
by 6pm, I have a very "unnormal" schedule. We also go out, and spend time
with friends, and vacations and such. I know many cats are ok left alone for
days, as long as somebody feeds them and spends a little time w/ them ( we
obviously have friends who would be willing to do that ) - but how good
would it be for the cat ?

thanks in advance.
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Kalyahna - 09 Sep 2003 14:09 GMT
[much snippage]

> you are absolutely right. Both my wife and I are interested in a cat that
> likes to get and give attention. However, you pointed out the question that
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>
> thanks in advance.

If you want a purebreed, please do as others have asked and look at rescues
first. Remember that breed is not a guarantee of personality. It's only a
guarantee of the cat's "look," and that only if the breed standard has been
maintained.
If you've been swayed by suggestions to look at a shelter, then please do
so. Shelter workers and volunteers can often tell you which cats would best
suit your situation and the personality you want.
If you both work full time or have odd hours as your posts suggest, please
adopt a pair of kitties. Preferably already bonded to lessen their (and
your) stress. Like others have said, a pair will keep themselves occupied
while you're away, and if you adopt two that are already bonded, you won't
really have to deal with the whole "intro to new cat" thing on top of the
"intro to new home" thing. Ask shelter staff, and please please please
listen to what they have to say. The prettiest cat won't necessarily be the
right cat for your household (we have a gorgeous all white long haired
boy... who bites. And we have a tiny grey and white girl who has a kind of
squished face and is missing hair on her nose... but named Biscuit, because
she kneads her paws (makin' biscuits!) whenever you talk to her).

And now I'll be the bad guy and say what I hope other people were at least
thinking. If you adopt a cat with claws who proceeds to be a little naughty
and swipe at your furniture... if you're not honestly willing to take the
time and effort to train the cat proper scratching places, then please
please please either adopt an already declawed cat (there are lots of them
out there), or don't adopt a cat. ANY pet should be a member of your family,
not worth less than the couch you sit on.
~*SooZy*~ - 09 Sep 2003 14:50 GMT
Well as a Ragdoll owner I know they really do need loads human love, I would
not advise getting one as you are out the house for long periods of time, I
have 2 cats as I know cats are much happier with a friend to keep them
company, but I do not work out of the home, even though I have 2 they still
need human contact regularly.

At the moment I have my daughters ragdoll here too, as she is working long
hours for a few months,  her ragdoll hates being left alone, my daughter is
out of the house for 6 hours per day and its too long for the cat!  when she
gives up work after christmas she is going to get another cat.
I personally feel a pair of sheltered cats, that have been used to being
left alone while previous owners were at work may be a better idea.

Even if you got a pair of litter mate Ragdoll's which would cost about
?600.00 I still would not advise if you are out most of the time.
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> > > > Currently my wife and I are looking for a cat. We have narrowed it
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> thanks in advance.
PawsForThought - 07 Sep 2003 19:38 GMT
>From: "Paul" paul@NOSPAMPLZ_.COM

>We have narrowed it down to
>either a ragdoll or a siberian. Both seem to be good candidates. Now it's
>just a matter of deciding which one.

I would recommend getting 2 cats and adopting them from your local cat rescue
or shelter.  That's what we did and it was the best decision we could have
made.  Glad to hear your against declawing.  I have a link in my signature for
a great article.

Lauren
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Declawing Info: http://www.wholecat.com/articles/claws.htm
McQualude - 09 Sep 2003 06:07 GMT
Paul spaketh...
> Basic answers I am looking for :
> Will either of the cats be OK with that kind of environment ?
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> feel like being left alone - will that be a problem ? ( that happens
> rarely )

By getting a rescue cat, you can ask these questions about a specific cat.
My cat lived with the adoptive family four months before being adopted out.
They were able to insure the cat was friendly with children and did not
urinate outside the litter box (pet peeve).

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