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ingrid.seim@gmail.com - 17 Jan 2005 22:17 GMT
I have an angel of a tomcat; he never sprays, never gets annoyed with
me, waits in the window for my return from work and even plays fetch!
I'm strict about keeping him indoors because there are several other
apartment complexes near me (high-density human population) and more
people means more of the rare ones who harm cats. He's athletic, alert,
active and intelligent but here in a major city he's hemmed in by
apartments. He would be a perfect farm cat and he yearns to go outside,
especially when he smells a queen in heat. I'm a firm believer in
feline birth control; no one even wanted my cat before he found and
adopted me.

He must be altered somehow. I hate to have him neutered; I don't want
to change his nature. I'm wondering about a vasectomy for him. I'm
turning over the idea of getting a female cat and having her tubes
tied. They would still have to be indoor cats, but at least the two of
them would have a more normal life than living as eunuchs. I sure would
appreciate hearing what you think on the subject.

Cheers, Ingrid
KellyH - 17 Jan 2005 22:27 GMT
> He must be altered somehow. I hate to have him neutered; I don't want
> to change his nature. I'm wondering about a vasectomy for him. I'm
> turning over the idea of getting a female cat and having her tubes
> tied. They would still have to be indoor cats, but at least the two of
> them would have a more normal life than living as eunuchs. I sure would
> appreciate hearing what you think on the subject.

Are you for real?  If you did the tubes-tied female thing, that would be
unbelievably cruel to the female.  Sex for a female cat is like us having
sex with a pine cone (thanks for that analogy, Phil!)  In addition, the
female would continue to go in and out of heat, putting her at great risk
for cancer and uterine infection.  You can bet your male would start
spraying with her around!

As for the male cat, there really is no other option but to neuter him.
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bee - 17 Jan 2005 23:51 GMT
> Are you for real?  If you did the tubes-tied female thing, that would be
> unbelievably cruel to the female.  Sex for a female cat is like us having
> sex with a pine cone

Why do you assume that a cat doesnt enjoy that ?
I mean, why would a cat not enjoy having some fun ? Wouldnt that be weird
nature ?

(thanks for that analogy, Phil!)  In addition, the
> female would continue to go in and out of heat, putting her at great risk
> for cancer and uterine infection.

So nature made cats getting cancer and uterine infection unless a human
makes them infertile ?
What sense does that make ?

You can bet your male would start
> spraying with her around!

I would bet on that as well..... and bed matresses are a favourite. Which
would probably neuter your social life....

> As for the male cat, there really is no other option but to neuter him.

Thats one thing I always wondered about....why is that the only option ? Why
cant we do something a little more gentle ?

cheers
Mad
KellyH - 18 Jan 2005 00:21 GMT
> Why do you assume that a cat doesnt enjoy that ?
> I mean, why would a cat not enjoy having some fun ? Wouldnt that be weird
> nature ?

Where are these freaks coming from?  Have you ever heard cats having sex?
Does it sound like it's fun?

> So nature made cats getting cancer and uterine infection unless a human
> makes them infertile ?
> What sense does that make ?

No, female cats were designed to go into heat over and over again until they
breed.  Their whole life is designed to be a kitten factory and then they
die young.

> Thats one thing I always wondered about....why is that the only option ?
> Why cant we do something a little more gentle ?

Neutering is a simple operation, if you can even call it that, takes less
than 10 minutes.  It improves the quality of the cat's life.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 18 Jan 2005 00:44 GMT
>> Why do you assume that a cat doesnt enjoy that ?  I mean, why would a cat
>> not enjoy having some fun ? Wouldnt that be weird nature ?
>
> Where are these freaks coming from?  Have you ever heard cats having sex?
> Does it sound like it's fun?

To play devil's advocate: have you ever heard certain people having sex?  Does
it sound like it's fun?  How many times have you heard jokes about little kids
spying their parents "in the act" and thinking daddy was hurting mommy?

>> So nature made cats getting cancer and uterine infection unless a human
>> makes them infertile ?  What sense does that make ?
>
> No, female cats were designed to go into heat over and over again until they
> breed.  Their whole life is designed to be a kitten factory and then they
> die young.

I never did understand the "pinecone" aspect, though.  What is up with that?
Maybe just one of those weird things that, while it doesn't enhance survival,
doesn't hurt it, either?

>> Thats one thing I always wondered about....why is that the only option ?
>> Why cant we do something a little more gentle ?
>
> Neutering is a simple operation, if you can even call it that, takes less
> than 10 minutes.  It improves the quality of the cat's life.

I was going to ask about vasectomies, but it occurs to me that even those are
more invasive than what is currently done.

I suppose you could argue that spaying/neutering humans would improve their
quality of life, too, as they wouldn't be distracted by sexual impulses, but I
don't want to be spayed!

(Note: I definitely believe in altering pets.  I just happen to think it's the
lesser of two evils.)

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Margaret S. - 18 Jan 2005 00:58 GMT
> >> Why do you assume that a cat doesnt enjoy that ?  I mean, why would a cat
> >> not enjoy having some fun ? Wouldnt that be weird nature ?
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> it sound like it's fun?  How many times have you heard jokes about little kids
> spying their parents "in the act" and thinking daddy was hurting mommy?

/snip/

> I never did understand the "pinecone" aspect, though.  What is up with
> that? Maybe just one of those weird things that, while it doesn't enhance
> survival, doesn't hurt it, either?

Perhaps 'pine cone' isn't quite the right description. Might take a look at
some expensive condoms. :) Some breeders induce ovulation with a Q-tip.

Margaret S.
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Cathy Friedmann - 18 Jan 2005 01:04 GMT
> I never did understand the "pinecone" aspect, though.  What is up with that?
> Maybe just one of those weird things that, while it doesn't enhance survival,
> doesn't hurt it, either?

I've read that the barbs aid in inducing ovulation.

Cathy
Mike - 18 Jan 2005 12:58 GMT
> I suppose you could argue that spaying/neutering humans would improve
> their
> quality of life, too, as they wouldn't be distracted by sexual impulses,
> but I
> don't want to be spayed!

Since the testicles produce testosterone, if you were spayed, you wouldn't
have any more sexual urges.

Mike
Monique Y. Mudama - 18 Jan 2005 14:04 GMT
>> I suppose you could argue that spaying/neutering humans would improve
>> their
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Mike

Well, I'm female, and spaying has nothing to do with testicles, and I'm not
sure what Kelly's attribution has to do with any of this.  And you seem to be
repeating the gist of what I just said.  So I'm not sure what you're trying to
add?

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Mike - 20 Jan 2005 18:11 GMT
> Well, I'm female, and spaying has nothing to do with testicles, and I'm
> not
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> trying to
> add?

Sorry, I skimmed the post and missed the point completely...

Mike
Monique Y. Mudama - 20 Jan 2005 18:21 GMT
> Sorry, I skimmed the post and missed the point completely...
>
> Mike

*grin*  It happens.

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Mary - 20 Jan 2005 18:44 GMT
> > Sorry, I skimmed the post and missed the point completely...
> >
> > Mike
>
> *grin*  It happens.

Yep. A hazard of speed reading.
Cathy Friedmann - 20 Jan 2005 23:40 GMT
> > Well, I'm female, and spaying has nothing to do with testicles, and I'm
> > not
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Mike

Ah.  No wonder, then.  'Cause otherwise, I just didn't get that reply....

Cathy
Cathy Friedmann - 18 Jan 2005 21:12 GMT
> > I suppose you could argue that spaying/neutering humans would improve
> > their
> > quality of life, too, as they wouldn't be distracted by sexual impulses,
> > but I
> > don't want to be spayed!

> Since the testicles produce testosterone, if you were spayed, you wouldn't
> have any more sexual urges.
>
> Mike

???  This is not making sense.  Female cats are spayed - removal of ovaries
& uterus, and male cats are castrated - removal of testicles.  Then, I'm
trying to equate this with humans (re: Monique's last statement), & am still
not coming up w/ an analogy.  Yes, testicles can be analogous to ovaries,
re: male/female (technically, a female whose ovaries have been removed has
been castrated), but...

Cathy
Hodge - 18 Jan 2005 13:47 GMT
> I never did understand the "pinecone" aspect, though.  What is up with that?
> Maybe just one of those weird things that, while it doesn't enhance survival,
> doesn't hurt it, either?

It stimulates ovulation.
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Margaret S. - 18 Jan 2005 17:49 GMT
/snip/

> > What is up with that?
> > Maybe just one of those weird things that, while it doesn't enhance
survival, doesn't hurt it, either?

> It stimulates ovulation.

Professional breeders produce stimulate in their cats with a Q-tip.

Margaret S.
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Hodge - 19 Jan 2005 02:22 GMT
> > > What is up with that?
> > > Maybe just one of those weird things that, while it doesn't enhance
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Professional breeders produce stimulate in their cats with a Q-tip.

Could you explain what that has to do with the poster's question about
"enhancing survival"? Q-tips are somehow involved in natural selection
and survival???

;)
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Hodge - 18 Jan 2005 13:46 GMT
> So nature made cats getting cancer and uterine infection unless a human
> makes them infertile ?
> What sense does that make ?

More than you are . . .
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Phil P. - 19 Jan 2005 15:16 GMT
Sex for a female cat is like us having

> sex with a pine cone (thanks for that analogy, Phil!)

I think "pin cushion" would have been a better analogy.

http://www.maxshouse.com/Illustrations/phallus_of_tom_cu_barbs.jpg

http://www.maxshouse.com/Illustrations/Phallus_of_tom_cat%20.jpg

Cats are induced ovulators The barbs on the tom's phallus induce ovulation
in the female.
Actually, the size of the spines on the penis depends on the hormonal state
of the tom.  IOW, the spines increase in size as the male hormone levels
rise and decrease in size as the male hormone level decrease with age.

Phil.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 17 Jan 2005 23:18 GMT
> I have an angel of a tomcat; he never sprays, never gets annoyed with me,
> waits in the window for my return from work and even plays fetch!  I'm
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> normal life than living as eunuchs. I sure would appreciate hearing what you
> think on the subject.

Male alteration doesn't bother me as much as female, because the female
surgery is so invasive.  But either way, I have my pets altered, for the same
reason my indoor cat has tags and an ID chip: you cannot guarantee that they
will never get out.  You cannot know that, while you're slipping in the
doorway, arms full of groceries, the pet won't dash between your legs.  You
can't know that a guest will never accidentally leave the door open.

An example:

Last summer, my inlaws visited.  DH and his dad decided to cook some chili,
and their first step was to sautee the hot peppers.

Hint: spicy peppers + hot oil = pepper spray

They ran to open the doors.  In his excitement, FIL forgot about Oscar and
neglected to keep the screen door on the front of the house closed.  Oscar,
being of at least average intelligence and survival instinct, took the
opportunity to escape the fumes.

Hours later, she was sitting at the front door, waiting to be let back in.
Had it been a warmer season, she might have stayed gone for longer.  Had she
not been altered, I'd likely have been responsible for bringing more unwanted
kittens into the world.

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Meghan Noecker - 17 Jan 2005 23:44 GMT
>reason my indoor cat has tags and an ID chip: you cannot guarantee that they
>will never get out.  You cannot know that, while you're slipping in the
>doorway, arms full of groceries, the pet won't dash between your legs.  You
>can't know that a guest will never accidentally leave the door open.

Eighteen years ago, my mom's cat chewed through a screen window,
jumped two floors, spent the night in the garage, and had 8 kittens.

We never expected her to get out. That was why we had her locked in a
second floor room. We never thought a cat would chew through a screen
window.

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Margaret S. - 17 Jan 2005 23:28 GMT

> I have an angel of a tomcat; he never sprays, never gets annoyed with
> me, waits in the window for my return from work and even plays fetch!

How old is he?

> I'm strict about keeping him indoors because there are several other
> apartment complexes near me (high-density human population) and more
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> He must be altered somehow. I hate to have him neutered; I don't want
> to change his nature. I'm wondering about a vasectomy for him.

Professional breeders get this done. They use him as a 'teaser tom' for
other breeders who want their females kept happy by 'sterile mating' without
pregnancy. :) http://tinyurl.com/6q98w

> I'm
> turning over the idea of getting a female cat and having her tubes
> tied.

A safer alternative to regular spaying is "remove the uterus but leave the
ovaries." This prevents possible future uterus infections, pyometra, etc. If
she's allowed to mate with him, she may go in every couple of months, or
possibly every month, for a couple of days. This is more easily available
from US vets than vasectomy is.

Margaret S.
This subject draws flames on Usenet. Might be safer to continue by email. :)
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zuzu22@webtv.net - 18 Jan 2005 20:23 GMT
Maragaret S. wrote:

>A safer alternative to regular spaying is
>"remove the uterus but leave the ovaries."
>This prevents possible future uterus
>infections, pyometra, etc.

Maybe you should do a little research before you start posting this
idiotic,  harmful garbage. Leaving the ovaries is NOT "safe" and the cat
will continue to suffer through repeated heats, which increase the risk
of mammary cancer and is miserable for the cat and the owner. It also
pute the cat at trick for developing an infection called stump pyometra.
There is no good reason to do this to a cat.

From veterinary partner.com:
"since it is the ovaries that are responsible for the heat cycles,
possible mammary tumor development, and behavior problems, it is crucial
that the ovaries be removed intact"

From Dr. Lila Miller, DVM, ASPCA
"Spaying virtually eliminates the development of pyometras in dogs and
cats. Pyometras are infections of the uterus that can also be expensive,
life- threatening medical emergencies. (If all ovarian tissue is not
removed, a pyometra can still occur in the stump of the uterus that is
left behind. This is commonly known as a stump pyometra."

Megan

                                   
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Monique Y. Mudama - 18 Jan 2005 20:46 GMT
> From Dr. Lila Miller, DVM, ASPCA "Spaying virtually eliminates the
> development of pyometras in dogs and cats. Pyometras are infections of the
> uterus that can also be expensive, life- threatening medical emergencies.
> (If all ovarian tissue is not removed, a pyometra can still occur in the
> stump of the uterus that is left behind. This is commonly known as a stump
> pyometra."

I recognize that humans are not cats or dogs, but why is this not a huge issue
in human women?

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Arjun Ray - 22 Jan 2005 19:12 GMT
> I recognize that humans are not cats or dogs, but why is this not a huge
> issue in human women?

I'd guess it's because human women menstruate, while (AFAIK) female cats
don't.
Margaret S. - 18 Jan 2005 20:57 GMT
The OP was considering "having her tubes tied", ie tubal ligation. If
someone wants an alternative to regular spaying, removing the uterus is
safer than tubal ligation, as I said.

Margaret S.
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zuzu22@webtv.net - 18 Jan 2005 21:33 GMT
>The OP was considering "having her
>tubes tied", ie tubal ligation. If someone
>wants an alternative to regular spaying,
>removing the uterus is safer than tubal
>ligation, as I said.

It's *not* safer, as I said. Recommending a procedure that ensures a cat
a life of constant heats and misery, and puts its health at great risk,
is unconscionable.  We've already been down this road, and if you want
to post your ignorant garbage in ARC where nobody cares and you can top
post to your heart's content, go right ahead. In fact, if you want to
talk cats rec.pets.cats.anecdotes may be just the place for you. You can
post cute stories about how you killed, neglected, abandoned, abused or
tortured your cat and you won't get flamed, but you will get :"purrs"
and "so sorry for your loss" responses.

Posting your nonsense here where you can do real harm if anyone is dumb
enough to believe you is unacceptable. Of course, nobody can stop you,
but it doesn't mean we won't be breathing down your stupid neck at every
turn.

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elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and
splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then
providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision,
raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and
material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his
way."

- W.H. Murray

Margaret S. - 18 Jan 2005 22:03 GMT
> >The OP was considering "having her
> >tubes tied", ie tubal ligation. If someone
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> It's *not* safer, as I said.

I'm not sure how to make this clearer. As far as uterus problems are
concerned:

1. regular spaying - probably safest
2. removing uterus alone - less safe
3. tubal ligation, uterus left - least safe

Do you really disagree with this ranking?

Margaret S.
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zuzu22@webtv.net - 18 Jan 2005 22:18 GMT
>I'm not sure how to make this clearer. As
>far as uterus problems are concerned:
>1. regular spaying - probably safest
>2. removing uterus alone - less safe
>3. tubal ligation, uterus left - least safe
>Do you really disagree with this ranking?
We're not talking about ranking. You offered "spay but leave the
ovaries" as a safer alternative, conveniently leaving out the facts that
show it's not a safe alternative AT ALL.

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"Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one
elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and
splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then
providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision,
raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and
material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his
way."

- W.H. Murray

Margaret S. - 18 Jan 2005 22:55 GMT
> >I'm not sure how to make this clearer. As
> >far as uterus problems are concerned:
> >1. regular spaying - probably safest
> >2. removing uterus alone - less safe
> >3. tubal ligation, uterus left - least safe

> >Do you really disagree with this ranking?

/snip/

> You offered "spay but leave the
> ovaries" as a safer alternative,

Safer than tubal ligation.

> conveniently leaving out the facts that
> show it's not a safe alternative AT ALL.

Not to bog down in quotes, but if there have been any studies of stump
pyometra comparing spayed cats against outdoor "remove the uterus but leave
the ovaries" cats allowed to mate freely, I'd be very interested in the url.

/snip/

> Learn The TRUTH About Declawing
> http://www.stopdeclaw.com

Good luck on that. I hope everyone reads your recent post here about CVMA
and phones or emails them as you suggest.

Margaret S.
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Mary - 18 Jan 2005 21:33 GMT
> The OP was considering "having her tubes tied", ie tubal ligation. If
> someone wants an alternative to regular spaying, removing the uterus is
> safer than tubal ligation, as I said.
>
> Margaret S.

Yes but MARGARET Megan KNOWS WHO YOU ARE!!!

lol
zuzu22@webtv.net - 18 Jan 2005 20:29 GMT
Oh and Margaret S, I know you're Marianne from ARC. There are not that
many people that post so ignorantly on this subject (and others) as you
do.  

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"Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one
elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and
splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then
providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision,
raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and
material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his
way."

- W.H. Murray

Mary - 18 Jan 2005 21:32 GMT
> Oh and Margaret S, I know you're Marianne from ARC. There are not that
> many people that post so ignorantly on this subject (and others) as you
> do.
>
> Megan

Jesus but you are charming. You combine all the characteristics
of a paranoid NetDick with the obnoxious qualities of a
"holier-than-thou" know-it-all.

Whether you are right or wrong, you are still an a.shole.
zuzu22@webtv.net - 18 Jan 2005 23:19 GMT
<whining and complaints about netdicking  snipped>

Ya know, Mary, the people that complain the most about netdicking are
the same ones whose own words have come back to haunt them. For somone
who so adaantly criticizes "netdicking" you do quite the job of it
yourself. In fact, you've shown you'll really go to the extreme:
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"Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one
elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and
splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then
providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision,
raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and
material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his
way."

- W.H. Murray

Mary - 18 Jan 2005 23:56 GMT
> <whining and complaints about netdicking  snipped>
>
> Ya know, Mary, the people that complain the most about netdicking are
> the same ones whose own words have come back to haunt them. For somone
> who so adaantly criticizes "netdicking" you do quite the job of it
> yourself. In fact, you've shown you'll really go to the extreme:

http://groups-beta.google.com/group/rec.pets.cats.health+behav/msg/90f10423dcd611a9

Megan, your panties just stay in a wad, don't they? I admit, I have a
healthy curiosity, and might just Google someone who posts with their
first and last name. What you do rises to another level. You are just
an unpleasant, know-it-all, shrill, holier-than-thou a.shole. You have
no wit, no measurable intelligence, and the entire measure of  your
self worth appears to be caught up in "I know something you don't
know about cats and you have to email me to find out." You are
obviously so unhappy--and I would feel for you, but you have
not quite figured out that you can be a miserable a.shole without
spreading the misery.

Here's a great question for you: if you have so much to share
why not do it here? Why do you insist people pursue some
sort of real-life, personal relationship with you in order to
benefit from your allegedly superior knowledge?  Hmmm?
Steve G - 19 Jan 2005 00:50 GMT
(...)

> Megan, ... You are just
> an unpleasant, know-it-all, shrill, holier-than-thou a.shole.
(...)
> miserable a.shole without spreading the misery.

So, does this mean that you two will no longer be getting together for
your weekly hug and game of cribbage?

S.
Mary - 19 Jan 2005 00:58 GMT
> (...)
> >
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> S.

pfffffft! ahahaha!
zuzu22@webtv.net - 19 Jan 2005 02:16 GMT
<snip typical and predictable projecting>
>Here's a great question for you: if you
>have so much to share why not do it
>here?

When I have time, I do.

>Why do you insist people pursue
>some sort of real-life, personal
>relationship with you in order to benefit
>from your allegedly superior knowledge?

I don't and I'm not sure where you would get such an idea.

>Hmmm?

I do have a lot of things going on and there are times when it's silly
to spend hours or days going back and forth in email or on a newsgroup
to get information/details that can help me help someone when I can
accomplish the same thing in a phone call or two. It doesn't take a
rocket scientist to figure that one out. I've been fortunate to make
some really wonderful friends in the process, but it's not something I
"insist" on. HTH.

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Mary - 19 Jan 2005 02:47 GMT
> <snip typical and predictable projecting>
> >Here's a great question for you: if you
> >have so much to share why not do it
> >here?
>
> When I have time, I do.

What you do is blast in with an occasional, always self-righteous,
half hysterical criticism of what someone else said. For example,
if you were not an a.shole, when I advised the poster to feed
his fat cat what I feed my fat cat and you thought this was too little,
you might have said "You know, that seems like far too little."
Instead, you did your usual Zuzu "oh I am so OUTRAGED"
thing. And you do it to everyone, not just those of us who
have called you the a.shole you are.

> >Why do you insist people pursue
> >some sort of real-life, personal
> >relationship with you in order to benefit
> >from your allegedly superior knowledge?
>
> I don't and I'm not sure where you would get such an idea.

Because you insisted I email you when you commented on
Buddha's diet earlier and there was NO reason for that.

> >Hmmm?
>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> accomplish the same thing in a phone call or two. It doesn't take a
> rocket scientist to figure that one out.

So it is because you find it more convenient. Your telephone must be mighty
quiet.
Usenet is for the exchange of information and ideas. Few people are here to
make
phone buddies. If you care so much about Felines Everywhere, you should not
insist on personal communication--particularly when you spend so much time
coming off as a rabid a.shole.
Cheryl - 19 Jan 2005 03:07 GMT
> Usenet is for the exchange of information and ideas. Few people
> are here to make
> phone buddies. If you care so much about Felines Everywhere, you
> should not insist on personal communication--particularly when
> you spend so much time coming off as a rabid a.shole.

No Mary, all of Usenet is not for exchange of information and
ideas. Have you really read the content of some of the messages
posted here? Some of them are indeed life or death. Do you really
think that just because some of you tell someone to consult their
pets vet about a diet that is killing them that they will actually
do it? I'd bet most will wait until the next time they're forced
into getting vaccinations done. Or something more serious comes up.
If someone is offered help (and the health of living beings is not
a "chitty chat" subject like for example, "post your kitties pics
online so I can see them! *gush* *scream* *squeal*") for *free*,
why is that something to ridicule? Megan doesn't just consult about
diets, she has arranged long distance adoptions when there were no
other choices. Fund raising. Just because you don't "like what she
says" or her "tone", tough sh.t. Sound familiar?  lol  Get over it
or use your killfile.

"Rabid a.shole". Now there is another PKB.  Jeebus. Oh, and nice
backpeddle on the real amount you feed Buddha. First its 1/2 of a
3oz can per day. Then its 1/2 2x per day, then you tell someone
Megan says because they're feeding 7oz per day per cat they are
starving their cat. You really need to make up your mind.

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Mary - 19 Jan 2005 07:35 GMT
> > Usenet is for the exchange of information and ideas. Few people
> > are here to make
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> ideas. Have you really read the content of some of the messages
> posted here? Some of them are indeed life or death.

Think much?

Do you really
> think that just because some of you tell someone to consult their
> pets vet about a diet that is killing them that they will actually
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> online so I can see them! *gush* *scream* *squeal*") for *free*,
> why is that something to ridicule?

You're in trouble, aren't you? Because this post is so divorced
from reality, I don't even need to bother responding to it.

>Megan doesn't just consult about
> diets, she has arranged long distance adoptions when there were no
> other choices. Fund raising. Just because you don't "like what she
> says" or her "tone", tough sh.t. Sound familiar?  lol  Get over it
> or use your killfile.

Saint Megan is also everything I've said she is. A sanctimonious
a.shole who often alienates the very ones she claims to want to
help.

> "Rabid a.shole". Now there is another PKB.  Jeebus. Oh, and nice
> backpeddle on the real amount you feed Buddha. First its 1/2 of a
> 3oz can per day. Then its 1/2 2x per day, then you tell someone
> Megan says because they're feeding 7oz per day per cat they are
> starving their cat. You really need to make up your mind.

You so cute with that lingo. You go, old girl. :)
Meghan Noecker - 19 Jan 2005 07:40 GMT
>No Mary, all of Usenet is not for exchange of information and
>ideas.

Actually, usenet is the best forum for exchange of information. Why?
Because it is archived. When I am looking up a problem, whether it be
a health issue, training issue, or a computer issue, usenet is the
first place I look. I do searches, and if I don't find the solution,
then I ask in a newsgroup.

What else usenet for? Simple chatting? Frankly, mailing lists are
better for that. I find usenet to be more educational and not as
frilly as the mailing lists.

> Have you really read the content of some of the messages
>posted here? Some of them are indeed life or death.

And shouldn't those replies be posted to the newsgroup? How does it
help anybody else if the replies go privately?

Honestly, when somebody finds themself with an emergency, and many
people don't realize it is an emergency; wouldn't it be best if they
did a search and found replies with good information as to *why* it is
an emergency?

Yes, it is good to send the replies via email as well, as the person
may get it faster. But the replies to the group are important too.

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Mary - 19 Jan 2005 02:52 GMT
> I do have a lot of things going on and there are times when it's silly
> to spend hours or days going back and forth in email or on a newsgroup
> to get information/details that can help me help someone when I can
> accomplish the same thing in a phone call or two.

Perhaps if you gave up your webtv unit and joined the world of
personal computer users you might find it more comfortable to
communicate in ways that are convenient for all involved,
Princess I-Am-So-Outraged.

I mean, Webtv? For Christ's sake.
Arjun Ray - 23 Jan 2005 00:57 GMT
> A safer alternative to regular spaying is "remove the uterus but leave the
> ovaries." This prevents possible future uterus infections, pyometra, etc.

Who let this one out of her padded cell?
Margaret S. - 23 Jan 2005 09:40 GMT
/snip apparent misunderstanding/

The OP wanted an alternative to spaying and mentioned tubal ligation. I told
her that non-ovario-hystrectomy was safer than tubal ligation. I did not say
it was safer than spaying.

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Arjun Ray - 23 Jan 2005 15:14 GMT
> /snip apparent misunderstanding/

Un, no.  Unsnip direct quote:

: A safer alternative to regular spaying is "remove the uterus but leave
: the ovaries." This prevents possible future uterus infections, pyometra,
: etc.

> The OP wanted an alternative to spaying and mentioned tubal ligation. I
> told her that non-ovario-hystrectomy was safer than tubal ligation.

That may have been what you meant, but that isn't what you said.  And even
if you had meant that, you are clearly too ignorant to be posting about
such things anyway.

> I did not say it was safer than spaying.

To repeat the direct quote that you want to snip:

: A safer alternative to regular spaying is "remove the uterus but leave
: the ovaries."

You can go back to sleep now.
Mary - 23 Jan 2005 17:41 GMT
> > /snip apparent misunderstanding/
>
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
>
> You can go back to sleep now.

Hey, Arjun, I stayed out of this discussion because I have no idea
about such things. However, I did notice that over in alt.med.veterinary,
none of the vets appear to respond to Margaret. See the thread "stump
pyometra." I wonder if we should try to get one of the good vets
to elaborate on the "teaser tom" stuff?
Arjun Ray - 23 Jan 2005 18:39 GMT
> Hey, Arjun, I stayed out of this discussion because I have no idea about
> such things. However, I did notice that over in alt.med.veterinary, none
> of the vets appear to respond to Margaret.

No surprise.

> See the thread "stump pyometra." I wonder if we should try to get one of
> the good vets to elaborate on the "teaser tom" stuff?

Oh, it happens.  The facts of the matter aren't in dispute: leaving the
gonads (ovaries or testes) intact results in the retention of sexual
*behavior*, simply because the relevant hormones are still being secreted.
The Margarets of the lunatic fringe are quite happy to ignore the medical
evidence of why this is bad.
Mary - 23 Jan 2005 18:55 GMT
> > Hey, Arjun, I stayed out of this discussion because I have no idea about
> > such things. However, I did notice that over in alt.med.veterinary, none
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> The Margarets of the lunatic fringe are quite happy to ignore the medical
> evidence of why this is bad.

Ahh, Gad, I was hoping that wasn't true. How awful.
Arjun Ray - 23 Jan 2005 22:49 GMT
>>> I wonder if we should try to get one  of the good vets to elaborate on
>>> the "teaser tom" stuff?
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>>
> Ahh, Gad, I was hoping that wasn't true. How awful.

Yeah.  Even though breeding is a sickening business, I suppose something
like the use of "teaser toms" to take queens out of heat shouldn't come as
too much of a surprise.

But the "opposite case" - using queens apparently in heat to keep studs
"happy" - is bizarre.  Of course, there may be breeders brainless enough
to be doing this - just look at our dear Margaret's "technical" question
om alt.med.veterinary - but there is no rational principle by which this
couldn't be construed as abuse.  (Not only is the idea of making toms
"happy" absurd - that isn't how their sex-drive works - but deliberately
putting female cats through heat is probably an indication of the lengths
some sickos will go to remain willfully ignorant.)

   
Phil P. - 24 Jan 2005 00:47 GMT
> >>> I wonder if we should try to get one  of the good vets to elaborate on
> >>> the "teaser tom" stuff?
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> like the use of "teaser toms" to take queens out of heat shouldn't come as
> too much of a surprise.

A few years ago we used a vasctomized tom to induce ovulation in cycling
feral females to cut down the estrous cycles and give us more time to TNR
the females.  One tom can take 20 females outta heat in one day.

Although the experiment resulted in less litters and a lot less kittens the
following season we stopped the project at one cat because the surgery
didn't benefit the actual tom.

I wasn't gung ho about the idea to begin with, but the kitten population was
really out of hand and we needed a quick solution to slow down the birth
rate.  The county shelters were killing 3 month old kittens by the dozens.
I would have sold my soul to the devil to stop that.
Margaret S. - 23 Jan 2005 19:04 GMT
/snip/

> > See the thread "stump pyometra." I wonder if we should try to get one of
> > the good vets to elaborate on the "teaser tom" stuff?
>
> Oh, it happens.  The facts of the matter aren't in dispute: leaving the
> gonads (ovaries or testes) intact results in the retention of sexual
> *behavior*, simply because the relevant hormones are still being secreted.

My question on alt.med.veterinary was technical, concerning stump pyometra
and how much if any 'stump' of uterine or cervical tissue actually needs to
be left.

Some people are determined never to have their pet's ovaries removed, no
matter what you say. Their only alternatives are a cat producing litters or
a cat not producing litters but retaining ovaries.

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Arjun Ray - 23 Jan 2005 20:41 GMT
[re "teaser tom" and related abuses]

>> Oh, it happens.  The facts of the matter aren't in dispute: leaving the
>> gonads (ovaries or testes) intact results in the retention of sexual
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> and how much if any 'stump' of uterine or cervical tissue actually needs
> to be left.

No, your question was not technical.  It was nonsensical.

If you had bothered to *read* the thread - comprehension, of course, being
a different matter entirely - you would have been in a position to gather
the following facts:

1.  Pyometra is the result of hormonal activity from the ovaries.  That
is: no ovaries, no pyometra, regardless of how much uterine tissue is
still present after the surgery.

2.  It is rare for all uterine tissue to be removed.  While not stated in
so many words, this is clearly a function of finishing a surgical
procedure quickly and safely.  Trying to remove every last bit of tissue
could be more complication than it's worth.  The anecdotal evidence in the
thread showed a range from the entire uterus being left in to even the
cervix being taken out.

3.  You normally don't go in just to remove the uterus, or parts of it.
Because, Einstein, that isn't the *point*.

   

> Some people are determined never to have their pet's ovaries removed, no
> matter what you say. Their only alternatives are a cat producing litters
> or a cat not producing litters but retaining ovaries.
>
> Margaret S.
Arjun Ray - 23 Jan 2005 20:54 GMT
> Some people are determined never to have their pet's ovaries removed,
> no matter what you say.

Then they shouldn't have pets.

> Their only alternatives are a cat producing litters or a cat not
> producing litters but retaining ovaries.

You can pander all you want to the sappy sentiments of the biologically
ignorant, but spare the rest of us your violence on the English language
by trying to whitewash abuse as "an alternative".
Mary - 23 Jan 2005 21:42 GMT
> > Some people are determined never to have their pet's ovaries removed,
> > no matter what you say.
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> ignorant, but spare the rest of us your violence on the English language
> by trying to whitewash abuse as "an alternative".

Beautifully said.
Margaret S. - 23 Jan 2005 17:50 GMT
/snip/

> > The OP wanted an alternative to spaying and mentioned tubal ligation. I
> > told her that non-ovario-hystrectomy was safer than tubal ligation.
>
> That may have been what you meant, but that isn't what you said.

After you snipped the context, my reply might be misunderstood; please don't
repeat it out of context.

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Arjun Ray - 23 Jan 2005 18:30 GMT
> After you snipped the context, my reply might be misunderstood; please
> don't repeat it out of context.

There is no misunderstanding the plain statement "A safer alternative to
regular spaying is X", for any value of X.  

English, anyone?
Margaret S. - 23 Jan 2005 19:22 GMT
> > After you snipped the context, my reply might be misunderstood; please
> > don't repeat it out of context.
>
> There is no misunderstanding the plain statement "A safer alternative to
> regular spaying is X", for any value of X.  

When the context is an OP talking about alternative Z, then "A safer
alternative ... is X" means that X is a safer alternative than Z is.

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Mary - 23 Jan 2005 19:50 GMT
> > > After you snipped the context, my reply might be misunderstood; please
> > > don't repeat it out of context.
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> When the context is an OP talking about alternative Z, then "A safer
> alternative ... is X" means that X is a safer alternative than Z is.

Are you a breeder?
Arjun Ray - 23 Jan 2005 20:31 GMT
>> When the context is an OP talking about alternative Z, then "A safer
>> alternative ... is X" means that X is a safer alternative than Z is.
>>
> Are you a breeder?

Heh.  No prizes for that one.
Mary - 23 Jan 2005 20:41 GMT
> >> When the context is an OP talking about alternative Z, then "A safer
> >> alternative ... is X" means that X is a safer alternative than Z is.
> >>
> > Are you a breeder?
>
> Heh.  No prizes for that one.

Pllbbbbt!
Margaret S. - 24 Jan 2005 19:26 GMT
/snip/

> Are you a breeder?

No, I am not a breeder.

Margaret S.
Arjun Ray - 23 Jan 2005 20:30 GMT
>> There is no misunderstanding the plain statement "A safer alternative to
>> regular spaying is X", for any value of X.
>
> When the context is an OP talking about alternative Z, then "A safer
> alternative ... is X" means that X is a safer alternative than Z is.

Three dots?

One more time, slowly.  You could have said "A safer alternative is X",
which in context would have clearly meant "an alternative to Z".  But not
only did you not say anything implying "a safer alternative TO Z", you
actually wrote "a safer alternative TO REGULAR SPAYING".

Can you even read?
Margaret S. - 23 Jan 2005 20:55 GMT
/snip/

> > When the context is an OP talking about alternative Z, then "A safer
> > alternative ... is X" means that X is a safer alternative than Z is.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> One more time, slowly.  You could have said "A safer alternative is X",
> which in context would have clearly meant "an alternative to Z".

It did clearly mean just that, in the whole context. Please don't keep
posting your incorrect interpretation. The more posts containing your
interpretation (or a fragment of my original out of context), the more
likely someone might encounter one of them on a Google Groups keyword search
and be misled.

Some posts here show sophisticated use of language. I'd assumed the reading
level would be equally sophisticated. In future I will try to keep my
grammar simpler and more snip-proof.

Margaret S.
Arjun Ray - 23 Jan 2005 21:12 GMT
>> Three dots?
>>
>> One more time, slowly.  You could have said "A safer alternative is X",
>> which in context would have clearly meant "an alternative to Z".
>
> It did clearly mean just that, in the whole context.

Only in your head.  You actually wrote "a safer alternative to regular
spaying".

Twist and turn all you want, but the actual use of the phrase "to regular
spaying" makes nonsense out of all your lame excuses.

> In future I will try to keep my grammar simpler and more snip-proof.

In future, just keep your ignorance to yourself.  Thanks, much.
Cheryl - 23 Jan 2005 22:29 GMT
>> It did clearly mean just that, in the whole context.
>
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
> In future, just keep your ignorance to yourself.  Thanks, much.

Not only that, but she wrote that it was a touchy subject that
would cause flames, and "it'd be safer to take it to email". Sure,
that wouldn't bring on corrections.

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Karen Chuplis - 18 Jan 2005 00:45 GMT
> I have an angel of a tomcat; he never sprays, never gets annoyed with
> me, waits in the window for my return from work and even plays fetch!
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>
> Cheers, Ingrid

I do NOT know why people think neutering will change their nature.
Expecially once they are fully mature. It just isn't so. He will be the same
cat. It is not traumatic for boys at all. Just get him neutered.
Paul M. Cook - 18 Jan 2005 03:09 GMT
> I have an angel of a tomcat; he never sprays, never gets annoyed with
> me, waits in the window for my return from work and even plays fetch!
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> them would have a more normal life than living as eunuchs. I sure would
> appreciate hearing what you think on the subject.

If the cat is sexually mature and has mostly finished growing you won't know
the difference after having him neutered.  Well you will - he'll be just
that much better of a pet.  Trust me, they don't hold it against us.

Paul
Luvskats00 - 18 Jan 2005 08:52 GMT
ingrid.seim@gmail.com
writes
>"I have an angel of a tomcat;...I hate to have >him neutered..."

No need to worry.  You'd be doing him a favor.  Neutered cats have no risk of
testicular cancer, won't be distracted by females in heat, and exhibit very
little - if any - personality change.  Go for it.
Spot - 19 Jan 2005 01:19 GMT
Do your tom cat and any others you get have a big favor.  Get them both
fixed.  It's simple, makes their lives so much nicer, and puts them at less
of a health risk for diseases down the road.  Besides all it takes is one
slip and one of them gets out and you either have a dead cat or a knocked up
cat.  Anyway you look at it getting them fixed helps get rid of the urges to
slip out an have some fun.

Celeste

> I have an angel of a tomcat; he never sprays, never gets annoyed with
> me, waits in the window for my return from work and even plays fetch!
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>
> Cheers, Ingrid
Gail Futoran - 19 Jan 2005 01:57 GMT
As long as he's intact, there's a risk he'll get outside
and get into some serious trouble - fights over a
female in heat, the possibility of exposure to some
nasty virus.

I have always spayed my female cats and have
had my first male kitten neutered, and I've never
noticed any change in behavior.  To me it's both
the sensible and the kind thing to do.

Just my opinion.

Gail
Cat Protector - 19 Jan 2005 04:37 GMT
Get the cat neutered. If you don't and he gets out this world could end up
with another litter of unwanted kittens.

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>I have an angel of a tomcat; he never sprays, never gets annoyed with
> me, waits in the window for my return from work and even plays fetch!
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>
> Cheers, Ingrid
Phil P. - 19 Jan 2005 14:26 GMT
> He must be altered somehow. I hate to have him neutered; I don't want
> to change his nature. I'm wondering about a vasectomy for him. I'm
> turning over the idea of getting a female cat and having her tubes
> tied. They would still have to be indoor cats, but at least the two of
> them would have a more normal life than living as eunuchs. I sure would
> appreciate hearing what you think on the subject.

Ingrid,

I'll take a chance and assume you're serious.

Rest assured your cat will be fine after neutering.  Once the sex hormones
are gone so is the urge.  Your cat will not become frustrated or feel
deprived.  In fact, he'll be a calmer cat.

Phil

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Arjun Ray - 23 Jan 2005 01:02 GMT
>> They would still have to be indoor cats, but at least the two of them
>> would have a more normal life than living as eunuchs.

> Ingrid,
>
> I'll take a chance and assume you're serious.

I had the same doubts.  Where do people get these ideas?  Could they come
from never having seen the feline sex drive in action and what it does to
cats?

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