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Cat that wets the bed
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---MIKE--- - 14 Jan 2005 00:56 GMT This cat belongs to a friend of a friend. A five year old altered male that pees on the bed. He has been to the vet and was given a clear bill of health. This has been going on for quite a while. My recommendation would be a Feliway diffuser in the bed room. Are there any other suggestions?
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Monique Y. Mudama - 14 Jan 2005 01:19 GMT > This cat belongs to a friend of a friend. A five year old altered male that > pees on the bed. He has been to the vet and was given a clear bill of > health. This has been going on for quite a while. My recommendation would > be a Feliway diffuser in the bed room. Are there any other suggestions? This may be a cop-out, but can they keep him out of the room for a while to help break him of the habit?
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Cat Protector - 14 Jan 2005 02:28 GMT I am going through this issue with my cats. I am not sure which one is laying the marker but I am considering bringing the Rescue Remedy out of retirement. My cats are fighting quite a bit lately so I am not surprised I am finding wet spots on the bed. The problem here is that they are doing it when I am in it and sleeping. I suspect it might be a fight over a spot next to me.
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> This cat belongs to a friend of a friend. A five year old altered male > that pees on the bed. He has been to the vet and was given a clear bill [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > ---MIKE--- Karen Chuplis - 14 Jan 2005 05:53 GMT > This cat belongs to a friend of a friend. A five year old altered male > that pees on the bed. He has been to the vet and was given a clear bill [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > ---MIKE--- My mom had a male that did this. She added a small litter box to the room and it stopped.
Meghan Noecker - 14 Jan 2005 09:01 GMT >This cat belongs to a friend of a friend. A five year old altered male >that pees on the bed. He has been to the vet and was given a clear bill >of health. This has been going on for quite a while. My recommendation >would be a Feliway diffuser in the bed room. Are there any other >suggestions? This won't stop the peeing, but get a vinyl table cloth, and put the fuzzy side up on the bed. Have at least two, so you can recover the bed while cleaning the other one. This will at least protect the bedding, and reduce the frustration.
My cat used to get sick on the bed every time I left for the weekend. It was really frustrating to come home to a messed up bed. This was protected my bed, and she still had something comfy to hang out on.
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Wendy - 14 Jan 2005 10:43 GMT > This cat belongs to a friend of a friend. A five year old altered male > that pees on the bed. He has been to the vet and was given a clear bill [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > ---MIKE--- By clean bill of health do you mean he had his urine tested or just an exam?
Feliway would be worth a try.
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Sherry - 05 Feb 2005 14:56 GMT >This cat belongs to a friend of a friend. A five year old altered male >that pees on the bed. He has been to the vet and was given a clear bill [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > ---MIKE--- Mike, I know this sounds over-simple, but do you think he has tried locking the cat out of the bedroom? Also, it sounds so creepy when I hear about a cat peeing on the bed, because that's *exactly* what mine did with a UTI, and I think CP's cat did too. I wonder if there's something the vet missed. Sherry
Karen Chuplis - 05 Feb 2005 18:15 GMT >> This cat belongs to a friend of a friend. A five year old altered male >> that pees on the bed. He has been to the vet and was given a clear bill [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > wonder if there's something the vet missed. > Sherry I wouldn't doubt it. Besides if it is interstitial cystitis, it won't show anything up. The cat will have recurring bouts that resolve themselves every 7 to 10 days. I would add a Feliway diffuser and begin switching the cat over to a mostly wet high grade catfood and add water bowls around the house. I would *also* try adding a box in the bedroom. If she has carpet, put an office matt in the corner and put a box on that (if she doesn't want it too visible put a decorative screen by it. I would recommend the friend see an all feline vet. I tend to wonder about general small animal vets. They never or rarely seem up to date on the progress of Urinary syndromes in cats.
Mary - 05 Feb 2005 18:29 GMT > >This cat belongs to a friend of a friend. A five year old altered male > >that pees on the bed. He has been to the vet and was given a clear bill [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > wonder if there's something the vet missed. > Sherry The cat psych books say that when a cat pees on a certain human's bed or laundry they are trying to send a message to that person. The message might be, "OW! This urinary tract infection hurts!"
Meghan Noecker - 06 Feb 2005 09:07 GMT >The cat psych books say that when a cat pees on a certain human's >bed or laundry they are trying to send a message to that person. >The message might be, "OW! This urinary tract infection hurts!" When Kira started going in season, she would pee on the bed. I was able to convince my mom that she should be spayed after two heat cycles (for other reasons though). During that time, I covered the bed with a vinyl tablecloth to keep the pee from getting to my blankets. And we had to work on some communication. She originally thought I kicked her out of the room, but it was only off the bed.
She also had spearate anxiety for the first few years, so overnight trips required the bed to be covered. She would vomit and/or have diarhea on the bed (and only on the bed).
Now, Chase sends the true message, or at least he used to. Back when he was a kitten, we had to work out some deals on the kitty litter box. He is pickier than the other cats, so I had to keep it deeper and clean it daily (I confess I was not scooping it that often before). And he also has a preference for fine grain litter.
So, the first time I let it get too bad, he peed on the bed. When I changed it to a pellet litter once, he peed on the bed. That was his way of telling me he didn't like the letter (right back atcha). During that time, he learned that I woudl respond quickly to a threat. So he would go to the bed, meow to get me to look, and then dig like he was about to use the bed. That was enough to send me to the litter box to fix it.
Now, he doesn't have to go to the bed. He can just meow in that same funny way, and I know what he wants. He is 4 now, and only peed on teh bed 3 or 4 times during that first year. But it was enough to properly train me, and he rarely has to remind me now.
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Mary - 06 Feb 2005 17:59 GMT "Meghan Noecker" <friesian@zoocrewphoto.com> wrote in message >
>> When Kira started going in season, she would pee on the bed. I was > able to convince my mom that she should be spayed after two heat [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > changed it to a pellet litter once, he peed on the bed. That was his > way of telling me he didn't like the letter (right back atcha). See, your experience is the same as mine. Even though I do agree that people whose pets do this should have the vet check them, especially since UTIs can be so dangerous, every time my cats have done this it was because they were upset about something. Buddha jumped up on our just laundered duvet and peed just as soon as my husband had gotten into bed--because he had been shooing her down off the bed while he washed the sheets and comforter cover. (He didn't want her black hair on the mattress. I would not have cared and therefore would not have been peed upon! Another point for the less-anal-retentive out there!) She went to the vet and there was no problem.
Gnarly once pooted in the middle of the living room floor while I was IN the living room on the phone with my mother! I was sputtering and gasping while my Mom laughed and said, "She knows how to get your attention!" I was working full time and going to school full time and her box was not clean enough. She went to the vet, and had no health problems at all.
Mary - 06 Feb 2005 18:30 GMT > Gnarly once pooted in the middle of the living room floor That should be "pooed." Kitty farts have never upset me much. :)
Meghan Noecker - 07 Feb 2005 10:40 GMT >> Gnarly once pooted in the middle of the living room floor > >That should be "pooed." Kitty farts have never upset me much. :) I made the mistake of picking up Tiger upside down once, and he farted in my face. Never again. And he had the worst farts.
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Mary - 07 Feb 2005 14:45 GMT > >> Gnarly once pooted in the middle of the living room floor > > > >That should be "pooed." Kitty farts have never upset me much. :) > > I made the mistake of picking up Tiger upside down once, and he farted > in my face. Never again. And he had the worst farts. Aww! They do the cutest things, don't they? ;)
KellyH - 06 Feb 2005 18:33 GMT > Gnarly once pooted in the middle of the living room floor while I > was IN the living room on the phone with my mother! I was sputtering > and gasping while my Mom laughed and said, "She knows how to get > your attention!" I was working full time and going to school full time > and her box was not clean enough. She went to the vet, and had > no health problems at all. One time, my husband had picked me up from work and we both went out to dinner and a movie, making us get home much later than a normal weekday. Dash (RB) was quite unhappy about this. She pulled my husband's coat off the back of a chair, looked right at us, squatted, and peed. From then on, we always made sure to stop at home first if we were going to go out.
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Mary - 06 Feb 2005 18:40 GMT "KellyH" <Kelly@farringtonsNOSPAM.net> wrote >
> One time, my husband had picked me up from work and we both went out to > dinner and a movie, making us get home much later than a normal weekday. > Dash (RB) was quite unhappy about this. She pulled my husband's coat off > the back of a chair, looked right at us, squatted, and peed. From then on, > we always made sure to stop at home first if we were going to go out. lol!! Not funny if it is your coat, but wow, I guess Dash knew how to send you a message!
Meghan Noecker - 07 Feb 2005 10:42 GMT >lol!! Not funny if it is your coat, but wow, I guess Dash knew >how to send you a message! If I expect to be in trouble, I bring treats. If I go out of town overnight, I come home with Kira's favorite treat. She forgives me quickly.
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Monique Y. Mudama - 07 Feb 2005 22:03 GMT >>lol!! Not funny if it is your coat, but wow, I guess Dash knew how to send >>you a message! > > If I expect to be in trouble, I bring treats. If I go out of town overnight, > I come home with Kira's favorite treat. She forgives me quickly. After reading so many stories, I have to say that Oscar is the bestest cat ever. She's tolerant of my sometimes-slack litterbox-changing habits. She has never punished me for being left alone or for changing her litter. She has only eliminated outside of the box when she was very ill or when sheer terror prevented her from approaching the box.
She does seem to leave little poops around the basement, near her litterbox, but I'm pretty sure that's because they stuck to her long fur for a bit before dropping.
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Karen - 07 Feb 2005 22:56 GMT > >>lol!! Not funny if it is your coat, but wow, I guess Dash knew how to send > >>you a message! [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > but I'm pretty sure that's because they stuck to her long fur for a bit before > dropping. Mine don't punish me for leaving them alone overlong, but they do generally throw up. I think they get stressed.
Monique Y. Mudama - 08 Feb 2005 00:13 GMT > Mine don't punish me for leaving them alone overlong, but they do generally > throw up. I think they get stressed. Oscar hasn't thrown up since I switched her to canned and Wellness a few months ago. Well, she threw up once, but that was very clearly because I'd just allowed her to gorge herself on freeze-dried chicken. It was completely different from every other time she's vomitted. Hopefully, I've learned my lesson about feeding her too much of a good thing.
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kitkat - 10 Feb 2005 02:50 GMT >>Mine don't punish me for leaving them alone overlong, but they do generally >>throw up. I think they get stressed. > > Oscar hasn't thrown up since I switched her to canned and Wellness a few > months ago. I would really like to switch the Lunameister to canned/wet food, but she barfs it up pretty quickly. She seems to have SUCH a sensitive tummy. I'd happily take any advice and hints from you wet food pros. It's only from reading here that I am realizing she needs to be switched! Fortunatly, Jasper came to us as a wet food eater. Now, the trick is trying to switch him to a better brand of food. He is a Friskies-in-the-pouch addict...I've been trying to see what he'll take to...i bought science diet, pro plan, and nutro...tried em all. He's not diggin it much. If i mix with the friskies, he'll go for it. Im trying the mix it method, but he REALLY seems to want his friskies. Brat. ;-)
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Karen Chuplis - 10 Feb 2005 03:07 GMT >>> Mine don't punish me for leaving them alone overlong, but they do generally >>> throw up. I think they get stressed. [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] > changing the topic... > pam Luna may just need a higher quality wet food. She must have a sensitivity to something. Check your ingredients and maybe keep a little food log for her. Try to find a food without grains (although if dry food is OK you would not think it was that.) What is the primary protien in her dry food? maybe it needs to be a food that has no beef or fish etc.
kitkat - 10 Feb 2005 04:01 GMT >>>>Mine don't punish me for leaving them alone overlong, but they do generally >>>>throw up. I think they get stressed. [quoted text clipped - 21 lines] > think it was that.) What is the primary protien in her dry food? maybe it > needs to be a food that has no beef or fish etc. She throws up dry food as well...but not as frequently. I currently have her on Whiskas dry...just regular commercial brand cat food. This was actually advice from the vet at one time. She has always been a tiny girl and the vet wanted her to keep weight on. I had her on Eukanuba and the vet suggested a more "fattening" brand of food just to put the weight on. Looking back I question that advice, but I was always happy with the vet. To be honest, it is indeed time for Luna to have a vet visit, so Im thinking I may try a new vet (the one where we had Jasper checked out) since I have moved and this new vet is in my neighborhood. Man, if being a cat mommy is tough, I am a little nervous about being a human mommy some day! :)
Monique Y. Mudama - 10 Feb 2005 05:58 GMT > I would really like to switch the Lunameister to canned/wet food, but she > barfs it up pretty quickly. She seems to have SUCH a sensitive tummy. I'd [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > he'll go for it. Im trying the mix it method, but he REALLY seems to want > his friskies. Brat. ;-) I wish I could help, but Oscar has been unusually tolerant in this regard. She doesn't love wet food, but she'll eat it if that's all she gets.
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kitkat - 10 Feb 2005 02:47 GMT >>>>lol!! Not funny if it is your coat, but wow, I guess Dash knew how to > [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] > Mine don't punish me for leaving them alone overlong, but they do generally > throw up. I think they get stressed. Luna definitely "horks" more when left alone. We call her the horkinator. Silly little girl! :)
Meghan Noecker - 07 Feb 2005 10:40 GMT >See, your experience is the same as mine. Even though I do agree that >people whose pets do this should have the vet check them, especially >since UTIs can be so dangerous, every time my cats have done this >it was because they were upset about something. Yes, in all of my cases, there has been a fairly obvious reason. And with Chase and the box, except for the pellet litter, I could see his point. I was guilty as charged. And I deserved it. he is pickier than the others, but I wouldn't want to use a dirty litter box either.
The pellet litter wasn't my fault - he just didn't like it. And he got his point across. I certainly never bought it again.
I remember hearing a statement in regard to raising children. They all have their own "currency". If you know what motivates them, you can use that to get them to do the right thing, either by having them earn that item, or you taking it away when they do something bad.
The cats know I don't want any messes on my bed. So, my bed is a good place to leave messages. I may get upset, but I get the point too.
As far as the separation anxiety, I think it was more a matter of going to her comfort zone than trying to leave me a message. And I understand that too. I always go to my bed when I don't feel good either. I just wish they could learn to heave over the edge into a trash can like I do :)
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Mary - 07 Feb 2005 14:45 GMT "Meghan Noecker" <friesian@zoocrewphoto.com>
>I always go to my bed when I don't feel good > either. I just wish they could learn to heave over the edge into a > trash can like I do :) Cheeks executed the most amazing projectile vomit *from her cat perch in the window" all the way to the floor and all over a bunch of important papers. (None, of course, as important as she is.) She gets so upset when she makes a mess that as I run for the paper towells I say, "It's okay, don't worry, I'll clean it up!"
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