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-Kelly
kelly at farringtons dot net
"Wake up, and smell the cat food" -TMBG
> You are making great progress! Is she still in the separate room? You
> might want to start letting her out with the other cats. Feral cats usually
> feel much more comfortable when they are with others.
Hi Kelly,
Yeah, "Princess" is still in my guest bedroom - she also has access to the
guest bathroom for a little more space. Sometimes I keep my other two cats in
the front of the house and let Princess have the entire back half of my house
(i.e. the guest bedroom/bathroom and my master bedroom/bathroom). But usually
she is in the guest bedroom/bathroom.
Once a day or so I let my 14 year old male cat, Tiger, in the room with
Princess. Princess adores him! When she sees him on the other side of the
screen door she runs to the door and starts rubbing her entire body across the
screen. Pretty cute. "Tiger" is a gentle old soul, but he doesn't know quite
what to make of Princess. So when he's in the room with her, he sometimes
hisses at her to get some space from her. When that happens, she normally gives
him space by laying down and writhing around a bit on the floor. LOL. So Tiger
doesn't exactly want intimate contact with Princess, but the two generally get
along okay.
I'm mostly worried about my 10 year old female "Linda". She is very
territorial and has been known to get so upset at just seeing another cat
through my living room window that she sprays the window sill - at which time
she even becomes temporarily hostile toward her dear old friend Tiger. Usually
this projected anger for Tiger only lasts a couple of hours and then they are
back to grooming eachother. Linda tries to avoid even looking at the new feral
kitty (Princess) through the screen door but when she does she usually hisses at
Princess. Hmmm. But I guess it's time that the two meet face to face - with
supervision of course. I was hoping that Princess would let me pet her before I
try letting Linda and her meet, but it looks like it may be awhile before I can
pet Princess, so I should probably go ahead and see how she and Linda do face to
face. I'm a little afraid that Princess' feral insticts will kick in if Linda
(my housecat) picks a fight with her and that Princess will end up injuring
Linda. I can't even pet Princess, much less pick her up, so breaking up a fight
may be tough. But I'll be ready to grab Linda if things get ugly!
Thanks!
Brad
Sharon Talbert - 10 Dec 2004 20:58 GMT
I, too, am impressed at the progress you've made with this adult feral.
We've had (have) our share of "retired" ferals, adults who have no good
place to be. Only one absolutely wanted to have nothing to do with us,
and we finally oriented her to our backyard and continue to support her
from there.
Patience is the only trick. And in the case of an adult, time. You might
try offering Princess babyfood (hold the onions) on a long-handled plastic
spoon, to help her begin to associate the Dreaded Hand as a bringer of
good, not evil.
Allowing her more time with your other cats may also help. Sometimes what
works even better is solitude, so you are the only company she has. You
are doing so well on you own, however, you don't really need my advice. I
should be consulting you!
Good luck with Princess, and keep us posted.
Sharon Talbert
Friends of Campus Cats
Seattle
KellyH - 10 Dec 2004 21:08 GMT
> Once a day or so I let my 14 year old male cat, Tiger, in the room with
> Princess. Princess adores him!
This is good! Keep up the interactions with Tiger.
> I'm mostly worried about my 10 year old female "Linda". She is very
> territorial and has been known to get so upset at just seeing another cat
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I'm a little afraid that Princess' feral insticts will kick in if Linda
> (my housecat) picks a fight with her and that Princess will end up
> injuring
> Linda.
In light of this, I would give it a bit before introducing Linda and
Princess. You can try some scent exchanges, like taking a blanket that
Princess sleeps on and putting it in Linda's favorite napping spot and vice
versa. You may want to try some Feliway diffusers around the house before
Princess's "release". What will probably happen, if Linda hisses and
attacks Princess, is that Princess will run off and hide. The
semi-ferals/ferals I've had normally are the ones to back down and seem
confused at the welcome they were given. You also might want to put Tiger
in a room for the first Linda/Princess intro so he doesn't get caught in the
crossfire.

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"Wake up, and smell the cat food" -TMBG
Karen Chuplis - 10 Dec 2004 23:25 GMT
>> You are making great progress! Is she still in the separate room? You
>> might want to start letting her out with the other cats. Feral cats usually
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> Thanks!
> Brad
You might consider a couple of Feliway diffusers. THey are available at
petstores and vets. It seems to help in these situations.