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My rationale for adopting and not breeding cats

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MaryL - 13 Nov 2004 16:29 GMT
At one time in my life (while I was still a student, which is a *good many*
years ago), I thought I wanted to get a purebred cat.  I thought I would buy
one once I was established and could afford to buy a "good quality" kitten.
Well, I changed my mind once I began to read about the huge number of cats
that are euthanized every year simply because there is no one to adopt them
(and especially after I served on the board of directors of our local Humane
Society and did some volunteer work at the animal shelter, which exposed me
"first-hand" to the horrors that many cats and dogs face).  I then decided
that I would adopt and save a life rather than buy.  Ironically, I also
learned that mixed-breed cats often have fewer health problems than many
purebreds, especially those breeds where genetic defects have contributed to
problems such as breathing, heart problems, and hip dysplasia.  As a result,
every one of my cats has been a mixed breed -- and each one has been a
wonderful, loving, very special companion.

The motivation for this message is that I just received the latest
newsletter from our local Humane Society.  The newsletter contains both
local and national statistics for last year (2003).  The latest statistics
show than in excess of *FIVE MILLION* domestic animals are euthanized in
animal shelters through the United States each year.  This does not include
those that are "privately" euthanized by owners, and the newsletter did not
break down the data by type of animal.  Our local animal shelter euthanized
3,458 animals in 2003; only 849 animals were adopted, and the local Humane
Society also issued 385 spay/neuter certificates last year.

I may be "preaching to the church choir" in this newsgroup, but if any of
you still keep intact cats with the hope of breeding them (possibly to show
your children "the miracle of birth" and give them the pleasure of watching
cute kittens develop into cats) -- *please* spay or neuter your cats and
adopt instead.  You will be saving the life of another cat or kitten, and
your children will not have to think about the "miracle of death."
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MaryL
(take out the litter to reply)

Photos of Holly and Duffy:
http://tinyurl.com/8y54 (introducing Duffy to Holly)
http://tinyurl.com/8y56 (Duffy and Holly "settle in")

Mary - 13 Nov 2004 16:40 GMT
[...]

> I may be "preaching to the church choir" in this newsgroup, but if any of
> you still keep intact cats with the hope of breeding them (possibly to
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> kitten, and your children will not have to think about the "miracle of
> death."

Nicely said, MaryL. I just wanted to add that fostering a mama cat
and kittens for a local shelter is a wonderful way to enjoy kittens
without contributing to the problem. It is hard to let them go, but
then again, that teaches the children (and others) another lesson:
love without possessiveness: a "larger love," in a sense. (Breeding,
buying purebreds, and declawing, among other things, are practices
that can only be rationalized/condoned when considered with
severe myopia. This nearsightedness is really common in folks for
whom everything is "all about me." I hope your post enables some
people to move to another level and see the Big Picture.
MaryL - 13 Nov 2004 16:45 GMT
> [...]
>>
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> whom everything is "all about me." I hope your post enables some
> people to move to another level and see the Big Picture.

Thanks!  And, you have made an excellent suggestion re: fostering.

MaryL
Orchid - 13 Nov 2004 17:53 GMT
>love without possessiveness: a "larger love," in a sense. (Breeding,
>buying purebreds, and declawing, among other things, are practices
>that can only be rationalized/condoned when considered with
>severe myopia. This nearsightedness is really common in folks for
>whom everything is "all about me."

    Meet Hakaisha (nik.ascendancy.net/fosterpage.html).  I have
two champion alter Bengals -- and Hakaisha, whom we discovered at 8
weeks old, severely malnourished, wandering our neighborhood.  He had
no fleas and no earmites.  The vet says he probably hadn't eaten for a
week or two to be in that condition, but his lack of parasites would
suggest that he had been out and wandering for only a few days at
most.  We've dropped $600 or so on him in vet visits in the last two
months getting him vaccinated, checked over, dewormed, and tested.
He's now our baby boy, and gets the same love, care, and attention
that our Bengals get.

    So tell me again how everything is all about me?  How selfish
and uncaring for domestic cats as species I am?

Orchid
See Orchid's Kitties! -- http://nik.ascendancy.net/bengalpage
Want a Purebred Cat?  Read This! -- http://nik.ascendancy.net/orchid
MaryL - 13 Nov 2004 18:03 GMT
> Meet Hakaisha (nik.ascendancy.net/fosterpage.html).  I have
> two champion alter Bengals -- and Hakaisha, whom we discovered at 8
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>
> Orchid

There are also a number of breed-specific rescue groups for a variety of
purebreds (including Bengals).  This would be a good way for someone to
adopt a cat and save a life, yet at the same time acquire a specific breed.

MaryL
Mary - 13 Nov 2004 18:17 GMT
> >love without possessiveness: a "larger love," in a sense. (Breeding,
> >buying purebreds, and declawing, among other things, are practices
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> So tell me again how everything is all about me?  How selfish
> and uncaring for domestic cats as species I am?

You did a nice thing for Hakaisha, the stray you adopted.
Karen Chuplis - 14 Nov 2004 02:38 GMT
>> love without possessiveness: a "larger love," in a sense. (Breeding,
>> buying purebreds, and declawing, among other things, are practices
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> See Orchid's Kitties! -- http://nik.ascendancy.net/bengalpage
> Want a Purebred Cat?  Read This! -- http://nik.ascendancy.net/orchid

that poor little baby! You can see his head is so much bigger than his body.
I hope he gets healhy. Please update occassionally.
Orchid - 14 Nov 2004 12:43 GMT
>that poor little baby! You can see his head is so much bigger than his body.
>I hope he gets healhy. Please update occassionally.

    He's doing better now (that picture is a couple of weeks old).
He's gone up to 2.5 pounds now (did I say that before?) and he's got
much more energy and is more 'in balance' looking.  Still skinny, but
finally acting like a kitten.
    His legacy of starvation is thankfully not the desire to eat
everything in sight -- instead he gets very very possessive of 'really
good treats'.  We discovered this when my husband gave him three
largish chunks of roast chicken as his treat for taking his medicine.
Hakkai tried to stuff them all in his mouth at once and went a little
nuts growling and swatting at the pieces he couldn't get in his mouth
and hiding them under his body and protecting his food from no one.
He was so upset that he couldn't make himself actually eat his treats.
It was really sad.  We used some long, soothing strokes on him and
talked softly to him and he finally calmed down enough to be able to
eat.

Orchid
See Orchid's Kitties! -- http://nik.ascendancy.net/bengalpage
Want a Purebred Cat?  Read This! -- http://nik.ascendancy.net/orchid
MaryL - 14 Nov 2004 13:35 GMT
>>that poor little baby! You can see his head is so much bigger than his
>>body.
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> See Orchid's Kitties! -- http://nik.ascendancy.net/bengalpage
> Want a Purebred Cat?  Read This! -- http://nik.ascendancy.net/orchid

Ah, that's sad.  That reminds me of tales my father used to tell of some
people who had gone through the Great Depression and then would hoard food
and other items out of fear that there wouldn't be any more.  I wonder if it
would help to dole out treats in small portions until Hakkai learns that he
is really safe and won't have to be hungry any more.  (That last line sort
of reminds me of "Gone With the Wind."   ;o))

Thanks for adopting him.

MaryL
Diane L. Schirf - 13 Nov 2004 18:30 GMT
> I may be "preaching to the church choir" in this newsgroup, but if any of
> you still keep intact cats with the hope of breeding them (possibly to show
> your children "the miracle of birth" and give them the pleasure of watching
> cute kittens develop into cats) -- *please* spay or neuter your cats and
> adopt instead.  You will be saving the life of another cat or kitten, and
> your children will not have to think about the "miracle of death."

There are certainly enough films showing birth beautifully and
graphically that this is a pretty lame reason just to produce excess
cats or dogs.

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Barb - 13 Nov 2004 18:56 GMT
I did go through having the Siamese cats as a young adult and just loved
them so and gave them the best of care.  They lived to 11 and 7 and 3 and
then I had the heartbreak of their losses and at that point I decided to get
black alley cats because I had seen a beautiful sleek black cat running
across a lawn one day while driving.  The black cats have well outlived the
Siamese probably because of no inbreeding and I love them just as much as I
did the Siamese.

--
Barb
Of course I don't look busy,
I did it right the first time.
Mary - 13 Nov 2004 19:47 GMT
> I did go through having the Siamese cats as a young adult and just loved
> them so and gave them the best of care.  They lived to 11 and 7 and 3 and
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>
> --

I really, really want a cat with Siamese coloring and looks.
Not so much the modern super-flat and narrow head,
but the blue eyes and the points and the lovely creamy
coat. I want a cat that looks like this for purely selfish
reasons--they are so beautiful!! When I feel I can take
another cat, I'll get one from a shelter. Happily these
looks appear to occur naturally, which was a surprise to
me. That a Siamese-looking cat could be born of
a tabby mother floored me.
Rhonda - 13 Nov 2004 20:40 GMT
Me, too. Our rescued, pregnant stray was a gray and white tuxedo cat.
Three of her six kittens were siamese. Sadly one was stillborn. Another
one is a lynx (or tiger) point. I have always wanted one of those and
could not believe that one was born in our house! The other girl is
blonde and white, with gray points. She has a couple of white smudges on
her face and pale blue eyes. They are both gorgeous.

I was looking for homes for them earlier this year, but now they are ours...

Rhonda

> I really, really want a cat with Siamese coloring and looks.
> Not so much the modern super-flat and narrow head,
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> me. That a Siamese-looking cat could be born of
> a tabby mother floored me.
Mary - 13 Nov 2004 22:22 GMT
> Me, too. Our rescued, pregnant stray was a gray and white tuxedo cat.
> Three of her six kittens were siamese. Sadly one was stillborn. Another
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>
> I was looking for homes for them earlier this year, but now they are ours...

Lucky you!! Do you have photos posted somewhere?

> Rhonda
>
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> > me. That a Siamese-looking cat could be born of
> > a tabby mother floored me.
Katrina - 14 Nov 2004 01:43 GMT
<snip>
> I really, really want a cat with Siamese coloring and looks.
> Not so much the modern super-flat and narrow head,
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> me. That a Siamese-looking cat could be born of
> a tabby mother floored me.

My first stripey Siamese was from a litter that a classmate's cat had-  
the mother was a calico, as was one of the kittens. The other kittens
were black and white tuxedo kitties, and the one Siamese kitten.  We
took the calico kitten and the Siamese kitten.  When Nosey and Scamper
went to the Rainbow Bridge (Nosey about 3 years ago, and Scamp this
spring), I went to the shelter and found Ming- a Siamese-marked young
(maybe a year?) old nutered male.  About 6 weeks later, my son's
girlfriend (Cassie) showed up with two kittens from a litter born to a
feral mother near the office where Cassie's mom worked.  Both kittens
have striped Siamese markings.  I took the little female (Buttercup),
Cassie had someone else interested in the little male. Like you, I
don't like the body/head shape of the purebread Siamese cat, but I
*LOVE* the dark mask, tail and legs with the blue eyes.  Ming has
another really cute feature- all 4 paws are white.  A Siamese kittey is
really sweet, but a Siamese with white tooties is special.  If you want
to see pictures of Ming and Buttercup:

http://homepage.mac.com/kworley/photos/PhotoAlbum22.html

Katrina
Mary - 14 Nov 2004 02:28 GMT
> <snip>
> > I really, really want a cat with Siamese coloring and looks.
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> were black and white tuxedo kitties, and the one Siamese kitten.  We
> took the calico kitten and the Siamese kitten.

Yow, a STRIPEY Siamese?! Sounds cool.

>When Nosey and Scamper
> went to the Rainbow Bridge (Nosey about 3 years ago, and Scamp this
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>
> http://homepage.mac.com/kworley/photos/PhotoAlbum22.html

ahhh, Gahd, they are beautiful!! Those little white feeties are precious. :)
You're right, very special on a Siamese colored cat. Are your kitties
very vocal as Siamese are said to be, or is this just from the breeder
Siamese?
Katrina - 14 Nov 2004 03:36 GMT
>> <snip>
>>> I really, really want a cat with Siamese coloring and looks.
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
> very vocal as Siamese are said to be, or is this just from the breeder
> Siamese?

Ming is *very* *very* quiet...  he doesn't meow (well, except when he's
on the way to TED).  He makes this funny sound- I've never heard
anything like it from any other cat.  It's not a mrrp?, it's not a
growl, it's something in between.  Buttercup is more vocal, but even
she's not very talkative.  The most vocal cat I've ever had was
Scamper- the calico with the stripey Siamese sister.  Nosey wasn't very
noisey, but Scamp made up for it. She'd wander around the house making
these little noises just like she was talking to herself.  If you
answered her, you'd swear that she was carrying on a coversation with
you.  I think she just like to hear the sound of her own voice.

Katrina
Mary - 14 Nov 2004 16:27 GMT
> Ming is *very* *very* quiet...  he doesn't meow (well, except when he's
> on the way to TED).  He makes this funny sound- I've never heard
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> answered her, you'd swear that she was carrying on a coversation with
> you.  I think she just like to hear the sound of her own voice.

Nice cat family you have there. :) I find the differences fascinating.
My old cat had a silent meow (like "k-k-k-k-" unless she howled
soulfully due to"ohhh noooo I'm gonna hurl!" or later due to senility.
OR if she was afraid or angry, then the lonnnnggg, high pitched whiny
growl.My Cheekyis very expressive and has cries for everything.
Flying by she saysMrrp! in greeting. When she is in an approach/avoid
situation
(say I am trying to catch her to pill her, and I have her shut in a
room, and she wants out and I crack the door and stand there
like, "go ahead, I won't grab you!" Well, she KNOWS I will,
but she wants out really badly, so she makes a teeny, tiny,
high-pitched complaint-- "mooooooooo?" It's very funny.)
Different cries for food and conversation.

Then there is Boo--she is very fat, and she makes a lot of
grunty noises and growls like a dog. If we pick her up when
she is not in the mood, she grunts in disgust, like a human
trying to get out of an uncomfortable position. Then she stiff-arms
you and stares directly at you round-eyed until you put her down!!
Once my husband took her to the vet w/o a carrier, in the car (he
did not know me yet, I wouldn't have let him!) and after the
vet he stopped at a drive-up for fast food and this little
tuxedo glared at the server and made this Labrador
-sized, loud growl!
MaryL - 14 Nov 2004 02:29 GMT
> When Nosey and Scamper went to the Rainbow Bridge (Nosey about 3 years
> ago, and Scamp this spring), I went to the shelter and found Ming- a
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Katrina

How beautiful.  Ming looks like a Snowshoe (a mixture of Siamese and
American shorthair).

MaryL
Katrina - 14 Nov 2004 02:54 GMT
>> When Nosey and Scamper went to the Rainbow Bridge (Nosey about 3 years
>> ago, and Scamp this spring), I went to the shelter and found Ming- a
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> How beautiful.  Ming looks like a Snowshoe (a mixture of Siamese and
> American shorthair).

Isn't he a sweetie?  it was those white paws that got me (well, and the
blue eyes).  He's got the markings of a Birman, but he's a shorthair.  
When he and Buttercup wrassle in the hallway, all you can see is a blur
of brown legs- the fact that Ming has those white paws allows us to see
whose are whose...

Katrina
ceb - 15 Nov 2004 18:34 GMT
Katrina <k_worley@yahoo.net> wrote in news:2004111317423316807%
kworley@yahoonet:

> http://homepage.mac.com/kworley/photos/PhotoAlbum22.html

What cuties!

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
Katrina - 15 Nov 2004 23:53 GMT
> Katrina <k_worley@yahoo.net> wrote in news:2004111317423316807%
> kworley@yahoonet:
>
>> http://homepage.mac.com/kworley/photos/PhotoAlbum22.html
>
> What cuties!

Thank you...  They're very sweet kitties.  I'm really lucky that Ming
adopted Buttercup as soon as we got her and taught her everything she
needs to know about being a cat.  At 4-5 weeks she was really too young
to be separated from her mother, but mom was a feral and was getting
ready to move the litter- the workers at the place who found the litter
decided that they'd better grab the kittens before that happened or
them might not get a second chance.  All of the kittens (6 of them)
were adopted and are doing fine. Luckily they were old enough to eat
canned kitten food and drink kitten formula out of a bowl.

Katrina
ceb - 15 Nov 2004 18:31 GMT
"Mary" <crazyaboutfelines@yahoo.com> wrote in news:0xtld.2894$iI2.111163
@twister.southeast.rr.com:

> I really, really want a cat with Siamese coloring and looks.

My family had a meezer when I was growing up, and she was a very dear girl.
She would always come find me whenever I cried and she would try to comfort
me. And she didn't like anyone outside the family.

My Nickleby was a tuxedo cat, but he was half meezer -- his mother was
Siamese, very beautiful. I felt that he had the meezer temperament
(although he wasn't much of a talker).

There are meezer rescue organizations like this one:

http://www.siameserescue.org/

I considered rescuing one from this place but then I found Rosalie.

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
Mary - 15 Nov 2004 19:36 GMT
> My family had a meezer when I was growing up, and she was a very dear girl.
> She would always come find me whenever I cried and she would try to comfort
> me. And she didn't like anyone outside the family.

I like the term "meezer," very cute!

> My Nickleby was a tuxedo cat, but he was half meezer -- his mother was
> Siamese, very beautiful. I felt that he had the meezer temperament
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> I considered rescuing one from this place but then I found Rosalie.

OMG!!!! I only got to page 2 and I have to stop. I looked under the Virginia
link
and Chacha, Gweneth, and Ullysses are all irresistable! I want one NOW! Poor
Gweneth has a docked tail, I cannot imagine how that would have happened.
Phil P. - 13 Nov 2004 20:21 GMT
> I did go through having the Siamese cats as a young adult and just loved
> them so and gave them the best of care.  They lived to 11 and 7 and 3 and
> then I had the heartbreak of their losses and at that point I decided to get
> black alley cats because I had seen a beautiful sleek black cat running
> across a lawn one day while driving.  The black cats have well outlived the
> Siamese probably because of no inbreeding

Here's a delightful quote from Roger Tabor - an avid cat lover and biologist
that hits the nail smack on the head:

"Moggies, as British cat lovers call non-purebred cats, are good, gutsy
animals that have the best possible pedigree, going back unhindered through
the mists of time. Because of their near-random mating, they have enjoyed
the best possible breeding program for countless generations. Their survival
and subsequent breeding derived from natural selection, favoring functioning
characteristics. It is an unbeatable combination for healthy animals,
producing a natural perfection of design and function."

"A natural perfection of design and function." - that about sums it up for
me!

I gotta laugh when breeders say they're inbreeding to "improve" and
"preserve" the breed.   While they're inbreeding to fix a certain trait
they're also passing on the same set of genes for the immune system from
both parents.  After several successive generations the kittens become
genetically very similar with less vigorous immune systems.  Since all the
cats are so genetically similar, if one gets sick, they all get sick.
That's why we hear of  "epidemics" of certain diseases in catteries.

Instead of preserving the breeds, their paving the road to extinction.  As
the gene pool contracts, so does immunity.

In a few more years, the brachycephalic breeds with the most extreme
conformations (e.g., Persian and Himalayan) won't even be able to breathe.

Phil
Sherry - 14 Nov 2004 00:28 GMT
>I gotta laugh when breeders say they're inbreeding to "improve" and
>"preserve" the breed.   While they're inbreeding to fix a certain trait
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>cats are so genetically similar, if one gets sick, they all get sick.
>That's why we hear of  "epidemics" of certain diseases in catteries.

I've probably told this story before, but Frank was originally from a kitten
mill. He would have been adopted easily, but I *always* wanted a Siamese, and I
took him, rationalizing that all I ever had were emaciated strays and dumped
cats, and I *deserved* this beautiful kitten that I wanted so bad.
I still have him seven years later. He's still beautiful, but he is dumb as a
wooden duck and is susceptible to URI's and eye infections. My moggie cats just
beat him hands-down for intelligence and hardiness.
He's likely very inbred, so that's not saying that *all* purebreds are like
him.

Sherry
Mary - 14 Nov 2004 02:22 GMT
> I've probably told this story before, but Frank was originally from a kitten
> mill. He would have been adopted easily, but I *always* wanted a Siamese, and I
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> He's likely very inbred, so that's not saying that *all* purebreds are like
> him.

Two things:

1. On behalf of wooden ducks everywhere, I protest.
2. Stump-stupid cats can be Buckets of Fun, can't they? :')
Sherry - 14 Nov 2004 02:29 GMT
>Two things:
>
>1. On behalf of wooden ducks everywhere, I protest.
>2. Stump-stupid cats can be Buckets of Fun, can't they? :')

Oh, buckets. He's hiding under the dining room tablecloth as I write. He's mad
because I shooed him off the counter. I like to go in there and say
"Wheeerreee's FRANK?" and watch the big lump under the tablecloth wiggle just a
little bit. He honestly thinks I don't know where he is.

Sherry
Sherry - 14 Nov 2004 02:36 GMT
>>Two things:
>>
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
>Sherry

Have I ever showed you a pic of Frank? Here's a couple.
He has a problem with his tongue. I think it's too long. This is how he sleeps.
http://members.aol.com/sriddles/frank3.jpg
Here's Frank again. He loves doing the Hokey-Pokey. "Put your right paw out..."
http://members.aol.com/sriddles/frank3.jpg

Sherry
Sherry - 14 Nov 2004 02:40 GMT
>Here's Frank again. He loves doing the Hokey-Pokey. "Put your right paw
>out..."
>http://members.aol.com/sriddles/frank3.jpg
>
>Sherry

Woops, wrong addy. Here's the hokey-pokey picture.
http://members.aol.com/sriddles/frank1.jpg

Sherry
MaryL - 14 Nov 2004 03:02 GMT
> >Here's Frank again. He loves doing the Hokey-Pokey. "Put your right paw
>>out..."
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Sherry

That's hilarious.  I love it!

MaryL
Mary - 14 Nov 2004 03:18 GMT
> Woops, wrong addy. Here's the hokey-pokey picture.
> http://members.aol.com/sriddles/frank1.jpg

Ahh, I see! He really is pretty. And he really does have a
problem with that tongue. <G> Maybe he is like Gnarly. I used
to tell her, "you are SUCH A PRETTY GIRL" then under my breath
"anditsagoodthingisn'titcuzyouain'tbreakinganyKittyIQrecords."

I want a cat like this. Wooden-duck stupid is optional, but those
eyes, that fur! Gorgeous. I hope you have him a long, long time.
Karen Chuplis - 14 Nov 2004 05:29 GMT
>> Here's Frank again. He loves doing the Hokey-Pokey. "Put your right paw
>> out..."
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Sherry

He's sooooo pretty. When you are that pretty you don't have to be smart.
ceb - 15 Nov 2004 18:36 GMT
sriddles@aol.comkitty (Sherry ) wrote in news:20041113214023.06731.00000399
@mb-m24.aol.com:

>>Here's Frank again. He loves doing the Hokey-Pokey. "Put your right paw
>>out..."
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Sherry

Oh, I love when they stretch out like that in front of you. He's a cute
one!

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
MacCandace - 16 Nov 2004 02:17 GMT
<< Woops, wrong addy. Here's the hokey-pokey picture.
http://members.aol.com/sriddles/frank1.jpg

Sherry >>

He's darling!

Candace
(take the litter out before replying by e-mail)

See my cats:
http://photos.yahoo.com/maccandace

"One does not meet oneself until one catches the reflection from an eye other
than human."  (Loren Eisely)
Mary - 14 Nov 2004 03:14 GMT
"Sherry " <sriddles@aol.comkitty> wrote> Have I ever showed you a pic of
Frank? Here's a couple.
> He has a problem with his tongue. I think it's too long. This is how he sleeps.
> http://members.aol.com/sriddles/frank3.jpg

Ooo! This is exactly what I want my next cat to look like. Except maybe not
with a problem
tongue. I imagine you have considered the possibility that Frank's tongue is
fine but he just has
not mastered keeping it in his mouth? I understand there are some members of
the British Royal
Family who have that problem too. Frank is much, much prettier. And I bet he
is soft. Is he vocal?

> Here's Frank again. He loves doing the Hokey-Pokey. "Put your right paw out..."
> http://members.aol.com/sriddles/frank3.jpg
>
> Sherry

Hey, that looks an awful lot like the first one. Subtle dancer, ain't he? ;)
Sherry - 14 Nov 2004 04:15 GMT
>Frank is much, much prettier. And I bet he
>is soft. Is he vocal?

His fur is really soft and fine, like angora. It's weird, all the other cats
seized were regular Apple-head Siamese. He was the only one with long hair. I
found out later that there was a few longhairs in some of the litters, and they
were selling them as "Balinese."  He's not as vocal as the old Siamese we used
to have, unless he wants something.
Sherry
Schroedinger's Cat - 19 Nov 2004 05:30 GMT
> >Frank is much, much prettier. And I bet he
> >is soft. Is he vocal?
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> found out later that there was a few longhairs in some of the litters, and they
> were selling them as "Balinese."  

He may well be Balinese.  The kitten mill probably got hold of some
Siamese variants that were being sold as pets...

> He's not as vocal as the old Siamese we used
> to have, unless he wants something.

Most of my Bali's aren't as vocal as the Meezers, even though they are
related to them... maybe the "fluff" acts as a sound absorber?  The
Bali's seem to be pretty laid back compared to pure Meezers, too,
except for my little Twinkle who seems to be a Siamese prima donna in
a fur coat!

Cheers...
Catherine
Phil P. - 15 Nov 2004 11:57 GMT
> >I gotta laugh when breeders say they're inbreeding to "improve" and
> >"preserve" the breed.   While they're inbreeding to fix a certain trait
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> took him, rationalizing that all I ever had were emaciated strays and dumped
> cats, and I *deserved* this beautiful kitten that I wanted so bad.

Look at this knockout:

http://www.maxshouse.com/Ours/Suggie.jpg

I adopted her after she was returned twice for behavioral problems - biting
and extremely defensive.  Her original owners had her spayed (after she just
had a litter) and declawed at the same time...  I don't know which was the
bigger idiot; her owners or the matchbook vet.

> I still have him seven years later. He's still beautiful, but he is dumb as a
> wooden duck

Naa, he's not dumb.  He probably just doesn't give a sh.t!  LOL!  I thought
Jade o' mine was a little slow until I realized she would do what I wanted
if what I wanted was what she wanted... IOW, she does what I want if she
feels like it... not because she doesn't understand. LOL!

and is susceptible to URI's and eye infections. My moggie cats just
> beat him hands-down for intelligence and hardiness.
> He's likely very inbred, so that's not saying that *all* purebreds are like
> him.

I think ferals are definitely smarter than domestic cats and certainly
purebreds.  Titi was feral and she's definitely the smartest in my harem -
but my other ladies are far from stupid.

I wonder if stupidity is inheritable.  I'd bet CP's parents would know. LOL!

Phil
Sherry - 15 Nov 2004 15:02 GMT
>Look at this knockout:
>
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
>Phil

Oh my. What a beauty. Is that a dark spot on top of her head, or is that in the
photo? I'm asking because I had a longhaired cat as a child, pure white, except
for a "smudge" in the same spot. She really has a sweet and gentle look about
her...what's her demeanor like  now after she's been with you?

Sherry
Phil P. - 16 Nov 2004 01:29 GMT
> >Look at this knockout:
> >
[quoted text clipped - 29 lines]
> >
> Oh my. What a beauty.

She acts like she knows it!

Is that a dark spot on top of her head, or is that in the
> photo? I'm asking because I had a longhaired cat as a child, pure white, except
> for a "smudge" in the same spot.

Its either a shadow or dirt... She doesn't have a mark on her coat.  I can't
get a perfect picture of her.  Every time I brush her and her coat looks
really nice, she immediately rolls around on her thistle mat to mess it up.
She's just like women who have their hair styled to look unkempt! LOL!

She really has a sweet and gentle look about
> her...what's her demeanor like  now after she's been with you?

It took about a year for her to completely trust me and feel completely safe
in the house.  I think she was abused or severely punished (same thing).

Now, she's a smoocher - but only when *she* wants.  She still gives me
little nibbles when she's excited from petting, but never hurts or breaks
the skin.  Actually, I kinda like it. Its not over stimulation because when
I stop, she head bunts my hand until I start petting her again.  I think
that may be part of the reason she was surrendered.

She *loves* to play, but she'll stop playing instantly the second she sees
someone watching her.  Either she feels playing is "undignified" or
"unladylike" and doesn't want to be seen playing, or her former owners
yelled or punished her when she played.

She goes wild over the laser light and chases it all over the place as long
as she doesn't see whose holding the pen.  The instant she does, she stops
and just looks at me.  I've never seen a cat do that before.

She sure is a different cat than the "unadoptable" she was labelled.

Phil
Diane L. Schirf - 16 Nov 2004 03:01 GMT
> She goes wild over the laser light and chases it all over the place as long
> as she doesn't see whose holding the pen.  The instant she does, she stops
> and just looks at me.  I've never seen a cat do that before.

Hodge always tries to see where the light is coming from. If he does, he
loses some interest in chasing it. "I'm not that stupid," he must be
thinking.

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Phil P. - 17 Nov 2004 04:19 GMT
> Oh my. What a beauty.

Do you remember little Jade 'o mine from 5 years ago?

http://www.maxshouse.com/Main_Photos+Graphics/JADE-Main.jpg

You should see her now!

http://www.maxshouse.com/Ours/Jade-11-16-4-4-ed-511k.jpg

I have pretty good taste in women, don't I? ;->

Phil
Steve G - 15 Nov 2004 22:37 GMT
(...)

> I think ferals are definitely smarter than domestic cats and certainly
> purebreds.  

For sure - there's no real advantage for a cat, being intelligent in a
domestic environment. Indeed domestication in itself will lead to a
loss of intelligence, or at least some aspects of same. Also
poorly-enriched environments.

Mind you, all depends what is meant by 'intelligence'.

Steve.
CajunPrincess - 14 Nov 2004 08:04 GMT
> > I did go through having the Siamese cats as a young adult and just loved
> > them so and gave them the best of care.  They lived to 11 and 7 and 3 and
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
>
> Phil

I have seen pictures of Persian cats from cat shows back about 60
years or so ago (not exactly sure) before they started to breed them
to have the smushed-in faces and it's astounding how big a change they
have made in the appearance of a large percentage of the breed in such
a short space of time.  The cat in the picture I saw  looked like a
slightly stumpy long-haired cat with a jaw that was a little squarish
but otherwise its face was pretty unremarkable. The face of the cat
from 60 years ago looked nothing like the ones of the Persian's I've
seen in person at cat shows and in people's homes.
Phil P. - 14 Nov 2004 09:02 GMT
> > > I did go through having the Siamese cats as a young adult and just loved
> > > them so and gave them the best of care.  They lived to 11 and 7 and 3 and
[quoted text clipped - 44 lines]
> from 60 years ago looked nothing like the ones of the Persian's I've
> seen in person at cat shows and in people's homes.

Can you imagine what those breeds will look in another 60 years?  providing,
of course they're not extinct.  They probably won't even look like cats -
they hardly look like cats now - although the tail does give them away.
Oops, Manx breeders took care of that feature, too.

Nature's recipe has stood the test of time for millions of years - The
breeders' recipe can't even make a 100 years without actually creating
genetic defects that never occurred naturally in nature - e.g.,
brachycephalic airway syndrome.

Kittens born with certain genetic defects never make it to the auction block
and are quietly disposed of so that the cattery  doesn't get a reputation
for producing genetically defective cats.  Kittens that "don't meet breed
standards" (pretentious and arrogant classification) are classified as "pet
quality"... as if its an inferior "product".

There was book written about 60 years ago about selective breeding for
perfection - but I can't understand it because it was written in German...

Phil
Steve G - 15 Nov 2004 22:43 GMT
(...)
> they hardly look like cats now - although the tail does give them away.
> Oops, Manx breeders took care of that feature, too.

The Isle of Man took care of that feature (though breeders certainly
perpetuated it).

(...)
> for producing genetically defective cats.  Kittens that "don't meet breed
> standards" (pretentious and arrogant classification)

It's a - ideally objective - definition. The value judgement has been
added by you.

(...)

> There was book written about 60 years ago about selective breeding for
> perfection - but I can't understand it because it was written in German...

Do you feel as strongly about non-pets, I wonder. Or is it OK to have
selectively-bred animals if they're just for eatin'...?

Steve.
Yngver - 16 Nov 2004 04:36 GMT
>Do you feel as strongly about non-pets, I wonder. Or is it OK to have
>selectively-bred animals if they're just for eatin'...?

Now there's a good point I haven't seen come up before. Makes me wonder too: is
it okay to selectively breed animals to labor for us? Is it okay for Seeing-Eye
to selectively breed dogs?
Sherry - 16 Nov 2004 04:56 GMT
>>Do you feel as strongly about non-pets, I wonder. Or is it OK to have
>>selectively-bred animals if they're just for eatin'...?
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>Seeing-Eye
>to selectively breed dogs?

This may be over-simplistic, but it seems like totally different purposes... I
am just assuming that Seeing-eye dogs are "selectively-bred" for intelligence,
non-aggressiveness, etc. and animals for food slaughter bred to maximize
quality and quanitity of the meat for processing.  Purebred cats seem to be
bred for whatever trend the judges are preferring to maximize show qualities.
Extreme concave faces, lynx tips, etc. don't seem to have any purpose at all
otherwise, certainly no benefit to either the cat or "society."  Just rosettes
for the breeder and a higher price fetched for kittens.
Or at least I've never heard of selective breeding in cats to create a more
robust, healthy cat, with cosmetic features incidental. It seems that
appearances are the priority.
Sherry
Phil P. - 16 Nov 2004 10:24 GMT
> >>Do you feel as strongly about non-pets, I wonder. Or is it OK to have
> >>selectively-bred animals if they're just for eatin'...?
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> non-aggressiveness, etc. and animals for food slaughter bred to maximize
> quality and quanitity of the meat for processing.

Purebred cats seem to be
> bred for whatever trend the judges are preferring to maximize show qualities.
> Extreme concave faces, lynx tips, etc. don't seem to have any purpose at all
> otherwise, certainly no benefit to either the cat or "society."

With some traits being potentially harmful or lethal for the cats.

Phil

Just rosettes
> for the breeder and a higher price fetched for kittens.
> Or at least I've never heard of selective breeding in cats to create a more
> robust, healthy cat, with cosmetic features incidental. It seems that
> appearances are the priority.
> Sherry
Yngver - 16 Nov 2004 19:31 GMT
>> >>Do you feel as strongly about non-pets, I wonder. Or is it OK to have
>> >>selectively-bred animals if they're just for eatin'...?
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
>With some traits being potentially harmful or lethal for the cats.

So is it okay to breed turkeys so top-heavy they can't ever stand up, because
that benefits "society" in terms of lots more white meat on the plate?
Sherry - 17 Nov 2004 02:11 GMT
>So is it okay to breed turkeys so top-heavy they can't ever stand up, because
>that benefits "society" in terms of lots more white meat on the plate?

Of course not. It's just as wrong as breeding poor little runny-eyed Persians.
It's screwing the poor animals up, in both cases.

Sherry
Phil P. - 17 Nov 2004 03:26 GMT
> >> >>Do you feel as strongly about non-pets, I wonder. Or is it OK to have
> >> >>selectively-bred animals if they're just for eatin'...?
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
> So is it okay to breed turkeys so top-heavy they can't ever stand up, because
> that benefits "society" in terms of lots more white meat on the plate?

....because that benefits *breeders* in terms of more money per turkey.
Yngver - 17 Nov 2004 22:14 GMT
>> >> >>Do you feel as strongly about non-pets, I wonder. Or is it OK to have
>> >> >>selectively-bred animals if they're just for eatin'...?
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
>
>....because that benefits *breeders* in terms of more money per turkey.

Sure, it's completely the fault of the greedy turkey farmers and is not in all
influenced by consumer demand--even though the majority of consumers are not
willing to pay a premium price to buy a heritage breed of turkey.

Actually that is a good argument to support and commend hobby breeders and
heritage breeders--those who are trying to preserve the historic breeds of
domestic animals that are in danger of disappearing due to competition from
factory farming.
Phil P. - 17 Nov 2004 23:33 GMT
> >> >> >>Do you feel as strongly about non-pets, I wonder. Or is it OK to have
> >> >> >>selectively-bred animals if they're just for eatin'...?
[quoted text clipped - 32 lines]
> >
> Sure, it's completely the fault of the greedy turkey farmers

Yup.  Now you're catching on.

and is not in all
> influenced by consumer demand

Consumer demand for bigger turkeys began when the breeders taught the public
they could produce bigger turkeys.
Orchid - 17 Nov 2004 23:53 GMT
>and is not in all
>> influenced by consumer demand
>
>Consumer demand for bigger turkeys began when the breeders taught the public
>they could produce bigger turkeys.

    So, serious question here.  It seems like you oppose all
animal breeding wholesale.  Do you then think we should go vegan, or
go back to hunting as a method of getting meat?  Either way, how does
that mesh with the keeping of pet carnivores?

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Phil P. - 18 Nov 2004 00:14 GMT
> >and is not in all
> >> influenced by consumer demand
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> animal breeding wholesale.  Do you then think we should go vegan, or
> go back to hunting as a method of getting meat?

Wrong on all counts. Either way, how does that mesh with the keeping of pet
carnivores?

Either way, how does
> that mesh with the keeping of pet carnivores?

Ask Yngver, she brought up turkeys - I was talking about cats.
ceb - 18 Nov 2004 17:09 GMT
> Do you then think we should go vegan,

I'm not Phil but wanted to answer this -- I am a vegan.

 Either way, how does
> that mesh with the keeping of pet carnivores?

Good question. I love animals and have a strong need for them in my life.
I am disgusted by their food but feel that meat is a necessity for dogs
and cats -- if they were in the wild they would be hunting and eating
what they caught. And they don't have the ability that humans have to
make objective choices about what to eat.

There are vegetarian diets for companion animals but I have been hesitant
about trying them, especially for cats.

If the whole world (of humans) went vegan tomorrow, I'm not sure what
we'd do about providing meat to companion animals -- maybe more attention
would be paid to formulating an excellent vegetarian diet for felines and
canines.

Anyway, interesting topic -- I think loving animals and becoming
vegetarian frequently go hand in hand, and I'm sure a lot of vegetarians
have the uneasy relationship with pet food that I do -- I'm interested in
what others have to say.

--Catherine
& Rosalie the carnivorous calicohead
Yngver - 18 Nov 2004 17:35 GMT
>Anyway, interesting topic -- I think loving animals and becoming
>vegetarian frequently go hand in hand, and I'm sure a lot of vegetarians
>have the uneasy relationship with pet food that I do -- I'm interested in
>what others have to say.

I agree with you. I'm not a true vegetarian because I do eat seafood once in
awhile, I just don't eat meat. My sister, however, is vegan and she had the
same concern--she considered trying to feed her cats a vegetarian diet but in
researching it learned that cats are obligate carnivores and need meat. She was
not willing to sacrifice her cats' health to her own distaste for consuming
meat, and I agree with that. I think, as with many issues of this kind, you do
what you realistically can do.
Orchid - 18 Nov 2004 20:04 GMT
>> Do you then think we should go vegan,
>
>I'm not Phil but wanted to answer this -- I am a vegan.

    I'm not.  :)  Tell you what, I won't hold your being vegan
against me if you don't hold my onmivorousnous against me.  Deal?  :)

>  Either way, how does
>> that mesh with the keeping of pet carnivores?
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>There are vegetarian diets for companion animals but I have been hesitant
>about trying them, especially for cats.

    And you absolutely should be.  Unlike dogs, cats are *obligate
carnivores*.  They do not digest or utilise plant matter well.  They
are designed to eat only meat -- this is why they have such high
protein and fat requirements.  They are also unable to create
important amino acids and other important compounds (like taurine)
from the food they eat.  They *must* get these things from the meat
they eat.

    My dream cat food (which will probably never be produced) is
ground whole mouse and/or ground whole small bird.  No vegetables, no
fillers, no grain, just the meat, bones, fat, and viscera they are
designed to use perfectly.

>If the whole world (of humans) went vegan tomorrow, I'm not sure what
>we'd do about providing meat to companion animals -- maybe more attention
>would be paid to formulating an excellent vegetarian diet for felines and
>canines.

    Sadly, such is impossible for cats.  Cats are predators and
obligate carnivores, and to try and turn them into anything else is
profoundly immoral.  We need to accept them for the perfectly designed
killers they are.

>Anyway, interesting topic -- I think loving animals and becoming
>vegetarian frequently go hand in hand, and I'm sure a lot of vegetarians
>have the uneasy relationship with pet food that I do -- I'm interested in
>what others have to say.

    I would also submit that one does not need to be vegetarian or
vegan to have a profound love for animals.  :)  Have you thought about
giving any one of the numerous herbivore pets a try?  I used to have a
spayed house rabbit (French Lop, around 20 pounds) who was
litter-trained and had the run of the house.  I loved her dearly and
she was a marvelous, affectionate pet.

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kaeli - 18 Nov 2004 20:29 GMT
>     My dream cat food (which will probably never be produced) is
> ground whole mouse and/or ground whole small bird.  No vegetables, no
> fillers, no grain, just the meat, bones, fat, and viscera they are
> designed to use perfectly.

DIY?  *EG*
You'd need a mighty sturdy blender...

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ceb - 18 Nov 2004 20:29 GMT
>      I would also submit that one does not need to be vegetarian or
> vegan to have a profound love for animals.  :)

No, but vegetarianism is the next logical step after developing a
profound love for animals -- in general, one doesn't kill what one loves.
In my own case, I want very much not to have an adversarial relationship
with animals, thus I have tried to be more peaceful toward them. Thus I
do not eat them. But I have my enormous honking blind spot about pet
food. :)

 Have you thought about
> giving any one of the numerous herbivore pets a try?  I used to have a
> spayed house rabbit (French Lop, around 20 pounds) who was
> litter-trained and had the run of the house.  I loved her dearly and
> she was a marvelous, affectionate pet.

I have thought about rabbits -- I have known really nice rabbits who
loved having their ears scritched. Have you known any to be lap-rabbits?
I would worry about their crazy chewing tendencies, though, if they had
run of the house.

I really love cats and have had them almost my entire life, and I love
dogs too (although Zoe is the first one I've had as an adult). I would
find it hard to live life without them!

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
Phil P. - 20 Nov 2004 06:10 GMT
> No, but vegetarianism is the next logical step after developing a
> profound love for animals --

I developed a profound love for animals over 50 years ago that's still going
strong, and I don't have the slightest desire or guilt to become a
vegetarian.  I think one has absolutely nothing to do with the other.  Your
"next step" seems to me to be off the deep end rather than logical.

> in general, one doesn't kill what one loves.

Your statement implies that anyone who eats meat doesn't love animals, or
they are hypocrites.

Remember this:  Without a diet containing meat in human evolution you would
not have the intelligence to make such an absurd statement.  In fact you
might have been still swinging in trees and have been *food* for the very
animals you love so dearly!

I respect vegetarianism for religious beliefs, but I think vegetarianism for
the "love of animals" --- when eating meat was essential in human
evolution - is a silly cult based on misguided guilt.

If I offended you -- I offended you.  You offended me - and everyone else
who has pets and eats meat..
Diane L. Schirf - 20 Nov 2004 13:31 GMT
> > No, but vegetarianism is the next logical step after developing a
> > profound love for animals --
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> vegetarian.  I think one has absolutely nothing to do with the other.  Your
> "next step" seems to me to be off the deep end rather than logical.

I think there is a seeming paradox -- hunters (represented by the Greek
goddess Artemis and the Roman goddess Diana) are often animal and nature
lovers, and most hunting peoples (like Plains Native Americans) show
tremendous respect for animals -- just as agricultural cultures treated
the land with reverence.

I remember a prayer that went along the lines of thanking my brother
deer for giving his life.

Our problem is that we treat our food animals as commodities and objects
and no longer revere them.

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MaryL - 21 Nov 2004 12:33 GMT
>> > No, but vegetarianism is the next logical step after developing a
>> > profound love for animals --
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
> Our problem is that we treat our food animals as commodities and objects
> and no longer revere them.

My grandfather was a farmer.  He raised cattle and other animals for market,
but he also loved them.  This may seem like a paradox to some people, but he
was far ahead of his times (he died in 1954) in some ways.  For example, he
always planted extra rows of corn.  He said some was for the family and some
was for the birds.  Moreover, he did not resent what the birds took -- he
said they caught so many insects that they were actually contributing to the
family.  Likewise, he attached a bat house to the side of their house.  He
also kept draft horses even after he had tractors.  When he was not able to
plow anymore because of his own age, he insisted on finding a family who
would give the horses good care and he *gave* the horses to them rather than
selling them.  He said the horses had given him many good years, and now it
was his turn to give them a good retirement.  (He and my grandmother were
spending their winters in Florida by that time, so he was not home all year
to care for the animals.)  I can still see him sitting on a stool, milking
the cows -- and squirting some toward cats that would sit in a row behind
him with their mouths open (literally!), waiting for the milk that they knew
would be coming their way.  My grandmother was much the same way.  She
raised a variety of chickens for their productivity (primarily for eggs, but
they also ate chicken), yet she had a genuine, deep affection for them.  On
the other hand, I am sure that neither of my grandparents would have been
able to quite understand my passion for my cats or my paranoia in wanting
them to always be protected.  To them, cats were outdoor animals ("barn
cats") -- well-cared-for, recipients of affection, but definitly not the
indoor-only family members that my cats have become.

MaryL
Sherry - 21 Nov 2004 15:20 GMT
>My grandfather was a farmer.  He raised cattle and other animals for market,
>but he also loved them.  This may seem like a paradox to some people, but he
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
>
>MaryL

That sounds just like my grandparents. They were conservationists, and
environmentalists also, long before those terms became buzzwords. They had a
deep respect for the land and its resources, because their lives depended on
them taking care of it.
Sherry
Cathy Friedmann - 21 Nov 2004 15:41 GMT
> My grandfather was a farmer.  He raised cattle and other animals for market,
> but he also loved them.
<snipped>
I can still see him sitting on a stool, milking
> the cows -- and squirting some toward cats that would sit in a row behind
> him with their mouths open (literally!), waiting for the milk that they knew
> would be coming their way.

My father has talked of doing the same thing (although would've been in the
1920's - early 30's, for him).

 My grandmother was much the same way.  She
> raised a variety of chickens for their productivity (primarily for eggs, but
> they also ate chicken), yet she had a genuine, deep affection for them.  On
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> MaryL

I think this was the norm for the time.  If your grandparents had somehow
continued to live - for another 30 years, say - then their attitudes may've
slowly changed over to seeing cats (well, at least a percentage of them) as
house cats - true pets, Vs. cared-for barn cats.  My parents have had pet
cats for perhaps 25 years now, & my father's said how it would've seemed to
be a rather absurd idea when he was young.

Cathy
MaryL - 21 Nov 2004 16:06 GMT
>> My grandfather was a farmer.  He raised cattle and other animals for
> market,
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
>
> Cathy

You may be right.  We lived in a rural area (but my own mother and father
were not farmers).  At that time, my mother still thought of cats and dogs
as outdoor-only.  In fact, she once said (after we were adults) that she
couldn't understand how all three of her children now thought that cats
should be indoors.  At the same time, any animals we had as pets would be
rushed to the veterinarian if anything were wrong, and that was not the norm
for that area for "pets" at that time.  Years later, when my mother came to
live with me and I was her caretaker, I would find her reaching down to make
friends with my cats.  One of my favorite pictues of my mother is one I
snapped of her, sound asleep with my cat sleeping by her side and my
mother's arm draped over my cat.  So, my mother did indeed grow to accept
that which she would have rejected years earlier (just as you suggested).

MaryL
Annie Wxill - 21 Nov 2004 21:18 GMT
> You may be right.  We lived in a rural area (but my own mother and father
> were not farmers).  At that time, my mother still thought of cats and dogs
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>
> MaryL
When I was growing up, my mother insisted all pets would be outdoors.  I
used to sneak my cat in through my bedroom window, but one day she spilled
the beans by asking to come in when my mother was in my room and I was away
at school.  When I got home, my mother asked me if I had been letting the
cat in through the bedroom window.  Of course, I had to confess and then
promise not to do it any more.
Now that I'm an adult and responsible for a house, I can see my mother's
point.  Flea control was pretty much non-existent then, and litter pans must
have been a real problem before clumping litter. Now we have choices of much
better products.
My grandmother, however, was much less concerned about housekeeping than my
mother was, and even let my uncle's goat come inside and go upstairs to wake
him. No doubt, this contributed to my mother's attitude toward animals in
the house.
It is obvious that your mother cared for your pets because they got good vet
care.  My mother also did the same,  including having both the dog and cat
spayed, which I thought was terrible because I loved puppies and kittens so
much. Now I know she was actually ahead of her time.
When I raised our kids, our pets were family members, and as such, the human
home was also their home.  I also found that my children did not have the
nightmares and sleeping problems I had as a child.  I'm sure having a pet
snuggled up them at night had a lot to do with it.
I'm sure you treasure that photo of your mother with the cat. It is such a
blessing that your mother was able to experience the special closeness of a
cat in her bed, probably at the time she needed it the most.
Annie
Mary - 21 Nov 2004 17:37 GMT
> My grandfather was a farmer.  He raised cattle and other animals for market,
> but he also loved them.  This may seem like a paradox to some people, but he
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> cats") -- well-cared-for, recipients of affection, but definitly not the
> indoor-only family members that my cats have become.

Your grandfather sounds really special, and obviously passed on a lot of
it to you. I have been trying to think of how to articulate my thoughts on
the
vegetarianism topic, but have not really had much luck. A try: prey and
predators are in the natural order of things. Animals eating other animals
is as inevitable as death. Hunters point out that when human "controls"
for animals like deer are removed the overpopulation that happens
causes more problems than regulated hunting. Would the
animal activists/vegetarians have hawks and owls stop hunting
mice and try to make them eat grain instead? Of course not.
Humans are omnivores, but like many creatures they need the
complete proteins found most readily in muscle meats. Combining
plant matter in such a way that one gets enough complete proteins
(with all amino acids present, among other things) can be tricky.
Most people are way too lazy to do this, and so many well-meaning
vegans develop deficiencies and associated health problems.

I love animals, but I crave muscle meats daily. I do care about how
animals raised for food are treated and how they are slaughtered,
but I still want to eat them. I think prey and predators are part of
the natural order of things--not the prettiest part, but still a vital
part.
MaryL - 21 Nov 2004 19:34 GMT
>> My grandfather was a farmer.  He raised cattle and other animals for
> market,
>> but he also loved them.  This may seem like a paradox to some people, but
> he
>> was far ahead of his times (he died in 1954) in some ways. the
>> indoor-only family members that my cats have become.

> Your grandfather sounds really special, and obviously passed on a lot of
> it to you.

Thanks.

> I have been trying to think of how to articulate my thoughts on the
> vegetarianism topic, but have not really had much luck. A try: prey and
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> the natural order of things--not the prettiest part, but still a vital
> part.

This is pretty much how I feel, although (as you said) it is hard to put
into words.  I will not eat certain types of meat if I have knowledge of the
animals being maintained under poor conditions.  For example, I started by
not eating white/light veal (which I love) because of the really terrible
circumstances in which these calves live.  Later, I stopped eating veal
altogether because I had concerns that some of the other calves might have
raised in the same circumstances.  However, I eat beef, lamb, pork, and
poultry (but not fish, because I am allergic).  I also avoid small game
birds.

MaryL
Diane L. Schirf - 21 Nov 2004 19:53 GMT
> I will not eat certain types of meat if I have knowledge of the
> animals being maintained under poor conditions.  

I seek out free-range and organic. It's more expensive, but then it
means I eat less, anyway. I LOVE organic whole milk, by the way. It
tastes like milk. I'd forgotten what milk tastes like. Which is scary.

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Laila - 21 Nov 2004 20:10 GMT
>> I will not eat certain types of meat if I have knowledge of the
>> animals being maintained under poor conditions.  
>
>I seek out free-range and organic. It's more expensive, but then it
>means I eat less, anyway. I LOVE organic whole milk, by the way. It
>tastes like milk. I'd forgotten what milk tastes like. Which is scary.

also, kosher meat comes from animals both kept and slaughtered
humanely.  it's twice as expensive is regular meat, though. :(

-L
ceb - 20 Nov 2004 16:26 GMT
>> No, but vegetarianism is the next logical step after developing a
>> profound love for animals --
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> If I offended you -- I offended you.  You offended me - and everyone
> else who has pets and eats meat..

Gee, you seem a little defensive.

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
Cheryl - 18 Nov 2004 22:57 GMT
> My dream cat food (which will probably never be produced) is
> ground whole mouse and/or ground whole small bird.  No
> vegetables, no fillers, no grain, just the meat, bones, fat, and
> viscera they are designed to use perfectly.

Interesting! Would the mouse be cooked or raw?

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Phil P. - 19 Nov 2004 02:19 GMT
> > Do you then think we should go vegan,
>
> I'm not Phil but wanted to answer this -- I am a vegan.

With all due respect to vegans, humans, as we are today, would not have come
into existence without meat in the diet.   Adding meat to the diet was
essential in the evolution and development of our (larger) brain.
Otherwise,  we would still be feeding cats - but only as their prey!

I hope for your sake there's no truth in the theory of devolution.
Otherwise, pack your loin cloth and get ready for the return trip!

Phil
Steve G - 19 Nov 2004 21:16 GMT
(...)

> With all due respect to vegans, humans, as we are today, would not have come
> into existence without meat in the diet.   Adding meat to the diet was
> essential in the evolution and development of our (larger) brain.

Well, arguments have been made that meat was important in fostering
evolution (see Milton 2003; J Nutr 133: 3886S-3892S, for a review).
Meat was (is) a good food source because it is replete with Much Good
Stuff.

However it was not meat per se that arguably drove evolution, but what
the choice of meat as a food did to humans socially. For example, meat
eating required co-operation within social groups and the development
of tactics for hunting. So meat in the diet led to increased social
behaviour combined with high levels of mobility. These are certainly
evolutionary steps on the way to our current state. When meat was
obtained, it also lessened the need to spend vast amounts of time
foraging for good quality plant foods.

But, today it is irrelevant whether meat was once important in the
human's diet. It is perfectly straightforward to have a healthy
vegetarian diet (more difficult in the case of veganism). After all, we
no longer need to spend most of the day browsing forage. It's all in
tins, today.

Further, there's no selection whatsoever based on diet today. Vegans
get to have sex too, even if it may only be with trees or bearded
people (men and women) in sandals.

Steve.
Phil P. - 20 Nov 2004 01:59 GMT
> (...)
> >
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> However it was not meat per se that arguably drove evolution, but what
> the choice of meat as a food did to humans socially.

Naa, I think it was the higher nutrient content of meat that fueled the
evolution and development of the brain.

"Brain tissue is metabolically expensive, but there is no significant
correlation between relative basal metabolic rate and relative brain size in
humans and other encephalized mammals. ...No matter what is selecting for
relatively large brains in humans and other primates, they cannot be
achieved without ashift to a high-quality diet unless there is a rise in the
metabolic rate. Therefore the incorporation of increasingly greater amounts
of animal products into the diet was essential in the evolution of the large
human brain."

(Aiello, Leslie C. (1995) Expensive-tissue hypothesis: the brain and
digestive system in human and primate evolution. Current Anthroplogy 36(2):
pp. 199)

> Further, there's no selection whatsoever based on diet today.

Too soon to tell.  Maybe in another few hundred thousand years all us
omnivores will be walking around with neck braces while vegans will be
walking on all fours wearing ear plugs.

Vegans
> get to have sex too, even if it may only be with trees or bearded
> people (men and women) in sandals.

There's a very, very funny Vietnamese poem about "mit" (Vietnamese
Jackfruit)  written by Ho Xuan Huong  about 200 years ago.  It was illegal
to write about sex so she developed comical metaphors using fruits and
vegetables to tell her stories.  It loses in the translation - but vegans
should still get a kick out it.  They'll never look at vegetables the same
way again.
Monique Y. Mudama - 20 Nov 2004 04:11 GMT
> Naa, I think it was the higher nutrient content of meat that fueled the
> evolution and development of the brain.

The (seemingly ongoing) question is, with the variety of foods available
in the modern grocery store, can one get the same level of nutrients
from a carefully-planned vegetarian or vegan diet as one can from an
omnivorous diet?

Just to once again butt in on a topic.

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Phil P. - 20 Nov 2004 06:04 GMT
> > Naa, I think it was the higher nutrient content of meat that fueled the
> > evolution and development of the brain.
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> from a carefully-planned vegetarian or vegan diet as one can from an
> omnivorous diet?

I was talking about the roll of meat in the evolution of the human brain.
But to answer your question: on a gram to gram basis, no.  Animal tissue is
much more nutrient and caloric dense than most plant food.  IOW, a person
eating a strictly vegetable diet would generally need to eat about twice as
much food than a person eating a diet comprised of mostly meat -- and still
might not derive the same nutrient level.

In the early stages of evolution, the farther man got from a plant diet, the
higher he rose above the animal.

> Just to once again butt in on a topic.

You didn't butt in - there are no private conversations in newsgroups.

Phil
ceb - 20 Nov 2004 16:29 GMT
>> Naa, I think it was the higher nutrient content of meat that fueled the
>> evolution and development of the brain.
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>
> Just to once again butt in on a topic.

Monique, yes, it is possible to get adequate nutrition from a vegetarian
and vegan diet -- and it is easier now than ever to become vegan without
giving up, say, dining in restaurants.

Human beings can choose how they eat and a vegetarian/vegan diet is
environmentally responsible, compassionate, and healthy. And tastes great!!

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
Monique Y. Mudama - 20 Nov 2004 16:44 GMT
> Monique, yes, it is possible to get adequate nutrition from a vegetarian and
> vegan diet -- and it is easier now than ever to become vegan without giving
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>
> --Catherine & Rosalie the calicohead

A vegetarian friend of mine hiked the Appalachian trail.  (Not vegan.)  She
ate cheese during the colder months, but as it got hotter, the cheese got
really nasty and slimy in her pack.  So she moved on to beans, mixing them
into just about everything she ate.  I assume nuts were a big part of her
diet, too.

She would stare at her non-veggie friend digging into a can of tuna and just
drool -- her body was desperately craving more protein.  I know she considered
going meat-eater just for the trail, but she managed to keep it together the
whole way.  It definitely affected her energy levels, though.  And of course,
some amount of fat is necessary for survival.  Far less than we typically eat,
but some.

I suspect that, the more active you are, the harder it is to go vegan or
vegetarian.

Also, how do you deal with the farting?  Whenever I make a big effort to eat a
lot of veggies, it's embarrassing!

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Phil P. - 21 Nov 2004 21:24 GMT
> Also, how do you deal with the farting?  Whenever I make a big effort to eat a
> lot of veggies, it's embarrassing!

That's something to think about - vegetarians polluting the atmosphere with
all that methane! LOL!
Mary - 21 Nov 2004 22:39 GMT
> > Also, how do you deal with the farting?  Whenever I make a big effort to
> eat a
> > lot of veggies, it's embarrassing!
>
> That's something to think about - vegetarians polluting the atmosphere with
> all that methane! LOL!

Thaaaat's right! They're