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ceb - 14 Oct 2004 14:05 GMT
Greetings all:

Rosalie is my formerly feral cat who I got last March. She has made great
progress in the time she has been with me and last night she took another
giant step forward -- she jumped up on the ottoman my feet were propped up
on. I have been trying to get her to jump up into my lap (she won't allow
me to pick her up yet) and this was a big step toward that, I think. She
usually lays on the floor next to my chair, but last night she was lying
under the ottoman, and I kept encouraging her to come up, and then she put
both paws up and peeked, and then jumped up! Oh, it may not sound like
much, but I'm sure those of you who have had feral cats will understand.
She settled into kitty loaf position and made blinky eyes at me for a
while, then she had a good wash, then she curled up against my legs.

This was a huge step for her and I now feel that she will definitely find
herself in my lap one of these days!

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
kaeli - 14 Oct 2004 15:09 GMT
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> This was a huge step for her and I now feel that she will definitely find
> herself in my lap one of these days!

That's awesome! Good for you and great for her!

Isn't it the best feeling in the world to win the trust of an animal who
wasn't raised with humans?

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ceb - 14 Oct 2004 15:25 GMT
> <snip>
>>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> Isn't it the best feeling in the world to win the trust of an animal
> who wasn't raised with humans?

Yes, it feels kind of amazingly good! Thank you for your nice post.

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
Priscilla H Ballou - 14 Oct 2004 18:05 GMT
kaeli <tiny_one@nospam.comcast.net> quoth:
>Isn't it the best feeling in the world to win the trust of an animal who
>wasn't raised with humans?

George MacDonald said something like, "It is a greater compliment to be
trusted than it is to be loved."

People who work with ferals really understand that!

Priscilla
dgk - 14 Oct 2004 15:30 GMT
>Greetings all:
>
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>--Catherine
>& Rosalie the calicohead

Excellent news. I've never had a feral but knowing how weird my
non-feral cats are I can appreciate the progress.
ceb - 14 Oct 2004 16:15 GMT
> Excellent news. I've never had a feral but knowing how weird my
> non-feral cats are I can appreciate the progress.

Thank you! I know... they are mystifying creatures at times...

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
Barb - 14 Oct 2004 15:53 GMT
How wonderful.  Your post was at the top of my incoming and it was such an
upper.  Best to you and Rosalie!

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ceb - 14 Oct 2004 16:19 GMT
> How wonderful.  Your post was at the top of my incoming and it was
> such an upper.  Best to you and Rosalie!
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Of course I don't look busy,
> I did it right the first time.

Thank you! I appreciate the good wishes!

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
Mary - 14 Oct 2004 16:02 GMT
> Greetings all:
>
> Rosalie is my formerly feral cat who I got last March. She has made great
progress in the time she has been with me and last night she took another
giant step forward -- she jumped up on the ottoman my feet were propped up
on. I have been trying to get her to jump up into my lap (she won't allow
me to pick her up yet) and this was a big step toward that, I think. She
usually lays on the floor next to my chair, but last night she was lying
under the ottoman, and I kept encouraging her to come up, and then she put
both paws up and peeked, and then jumped up! Oh, it may not sound like much,
but I'm sure those of you who have had feral cats will understand.  She
settled into kitty loaf position and made blinky eyes at me for a
> while, then she had a good wash, then she curled up against my legs.

This is GREAT! I love the way you put it, "blinky eyes" I can just see this.
Hope she keeps warming up you are clearly winning her trust.
ceb - 14 Oct 2004 18:26 GMT
> This is GREAT! I love the way you put it, "blinky eyes" I can just see
> this. Hope she keeps warming up you are clearly winning her trust.

Thanks, Mary.

What does everyone else call "blinky eyes" -- you know, when they sit and
look at you and kind of slowly squeeze their eyes shut and then open them,
and do this repeatedly? I read once that you should do it back, as it helps
with bonding to your cat.

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
Mary - 14 Oct 2004 18:49 GMT
> > This is GREAT! I love the way you put it, "blinky eyes" I can just see
> > this. Hope she keeps warming up you are clearly winning her trust.
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> and do this repeatedly? I read once that you should do it back, as it helps
> with bonding to your cat.

I read that it means they love you.
Rene - 15 Oct 2004 20:01 GMT
> > This is GREAT! I love the way you put it, "blinky eyes" I can just see
> > this. Hope she keeps warming up you are clearly winning her trust.
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> --Catherine

Kudos to you and Rosalie! To answer your question, I've always called
it "scrunching." Because they sort of squint and crunch their eyes
together. Yes, I will scrunch back to the cats. I've heard it's
supposed to be a sign of trust and comfort.

Rene
> & Rosalie the calicohead
ceb - 15 Oct 2004 21:07 GMT
rschweitzer@kalmbach.com (Rene) wrote in news:26e632a6.0410151101.15923494
@posting.google.com:

> Kudos to you and Rosalie!

Thank you!

To answer your question, I've always called
> it "scrunching." Because they sort of squint and crunch their eyes
> together. Yes, I will scrunch back to the cats. I've heard it's
> supposed to be a sign of trust and comfort.

Scrunching! That's cute!

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
Dick Peavey - 16 Oct 2004 13:21 GMT
> Kudos to you and Rosalie! To answer your question, I've always called
> it "scrunching." Because they sort of squint and crunch their eyes
> together. Yes, I will scrunch back to the cats. I've heard it's
> supposed to be a sign of trust and comfort.

Hmm. I didn't know about scrunching. I'm going to try it, thanks.

--
Dick
Mary - 16 Oct 2004 15:23 GMT
> > Kudos to you and Rosalie! To answer your question, I've always called
> > it "scrunching." Because they sort of squint and crunch their eyes
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> --

I read in several cat books that when cats squeeze their eyelids together so
that they kind of meet in the middle of the eye (instead of a regular blink,
if that makes sense) that it is the highest compliment. I also read that
when they like you they do that thing where they stretch and extend one paw
and flex it. Buddha was in this house for over a year before she did the paw
thing. She started with one, now she does two. It is like a greeting, the
little head goes down, the ears go back, and then the paws extend one at a
time. Like "Nice to see you, so, how you doing?" :)
Dick Peavey - 16 Oct 2004 19:16 GMT
>> > Kudos to you and Rosalie! To answer your question, I've always
>> > called
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> at a
> time. Like "Nice to see you, so, how you doing?" :)

Interesting. Once I leaned over past Squeaky to get his food while he
was on a ledge in front of me. He reached his paw and touched my cheek.
Just that. As if he was curious about my face and wanted to touch it to
see what it was like. There was no aggression in it.

--
Dick
Priscilla H Ballou - 14 Oct 2004 18:04 GMT
ceb <ceb4v@virginia.edu> quoth:

>This was a huge step for her and I now feel that she will definitely find
>herself in my lap one of these days!

I definitely get it!  Very good news.

Priscilla
ceb - 14 Oct 2004 18:27 GMT
Priscilla H Ballou <phb@shell01.TheWorld.com> wrote in news:ckmbir$pug$6
@pcls4.std.com:

> I definitely get it!  Very good news.

Thank you, Priscilla. I'm feeling really happy about it.

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
KellyH - 14 Oct 2004 19:20 GMT
> Priscilla H Ballou <phb@shell01.TheWorld.com> wrote in news:ckmbir$pug$6
> @pcls4.std.com:
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> --Catherine
> & Rosalie the calicohead

I get it, too!  I do a lot of socializing for shy/semi-feral kittens, and
every little step they make is amazing.  I was very proud of my little
Antonio for his progress.  He went from hissing at me to finally letting me
pet him.  I was so happy when he stopped running away as I approached.
Toffee, who came to me as a shy cat, also used to run when approached.  She
would back away from hands, but loves to be petted with feet.  I used to
think she just didn't knead, but a couple months ago, after being here for a
year, she started kneading on me!  She also didn't used to be a "bed cat"
but now she's in bed with us every night.
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ceb - 14 Oct 2004 20:04 GMT
> I get it, too!  I do a lot of socializing for shy/semi-feral kittens,
> and every little step they make is amazing.  I was very proud of my
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> on me!  She also didn't used to be a "bed cat" but now she's in bed
> with us every night.

It is incredible to see their progress -- and Rosalie often has this air
about her as if she is thinking "I didn't know you could LIVE like this"!
She was pretty suspicious of the whole enterprise at first -- especially
the dog -- I don't think outdoor cats have very good relationships with
dogs, mostly.

Sounds like Toffee is doing great! I hope Antonio returns soon!

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
rinn - 14 Oct 2004 18:55 GMT
That is a great feeling!  One of our cats we've had for 3 years. Has never
sat on our laps and it's only been within the last 6 months that we can pick
him up and walk maybe 10 steps before he protests.
Much to my surprise he has jumped up on my lap twice in the past month!! My
husband and I are amazed (and my husband is very jealous!!)

> Greetings all:
>
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> --Catherine
> & Rosalie the calicohead
ceb - 14 Oct 2004 19:26 GMT
> That is a great feeling!  One of our cats we've had for 3 years. Has
> never sat on our laps and it's only been within the last 6 months that
> we can pick him up and walk maybe 10 steps before he protests.
> Much to my surprise he has jumped up on my lap twice in the past
> month!! My husband and I are amazed (and my husband is very jealous!!)

That's great! I do hope someday to pick Rosalie up... I know there are some
cats who never really enjoy that, though. Sounds like your little guy is
doing great.

--Catherine
& Rosalie the calicohead
Priscilla H Ballou - 14 Oct 2004 20:07 GMT
ceb <ceb4v@virginia.edu> quoth:

>That's great! I do hope someday to pick Rosalie up... I know there are some
>cats who never really enjoy that, though.

Indeed.  My Benjamin, who is thoroughly socialized, just doesn't like
being picked up.  He'll drape himself over my lap, snuggle down next to me
on the sofa or curl up on my reclining form, monitor my bedtime ablutions,
and wake me up in the morning, but let himself be picked up?  Nope,
nossir, no way, Jose!

Priscilla
Dick Peavey - 14 Oct 2004 21:02 GMT
> Greetings all:
>
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
> find
> herself in my lap one of these days!

Keep up the good work! It's something wonderful when you get positive
responses like that.

--
Dick
 
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