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Kitty Won't Stop BITING me and CHEWING on fabric!
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Jill - 01 Oct 2004 18:18 GMT Please help! We adopted Roscoe at the pound 3 months ago. He is now 5 months old. He is a very active and healthy little guy, was neutered promptly when we adopted him, has a good appetite and gets lots of play from us and our dog (whom we adopted at the same time). At first I figured the biting was a kitten thing. A play thing. But he WILL NOT STOP. In fact, he seems to have a split personality. It isn't when he's worked up that he bites. It's the opposite. For example, he'll come snuggle and relax for 10 or 15 minutes and then all of a sudden attack my hand or my leg or whatever is closest. He'll latch on and it's hard to peel him off. He has learned to use his scratch posts, uses the litter box, keeps off the kitchen table, and is very, very sweet but this behavior is not getting better. We've tried replacing human limbs with those of stuffed animals. He's not interested. We've tried the squirt bottle. It isn't sinking in.
In addition to this, he has completely destroyed 3 sets of pillowcases. He chews on the corners of them. Someone suggested this may have to do with a definciency in his diet but we feed him a natural and balanced kibble and he only does it while we are in bed at night.
He is a good kitty 90% of the time but I'm afraid we won't be able to have kids around this cat and it might be best to try to find a new home for him now rather than later. He is an indoor cat. Would letting him outside help? We live in an area in L.A. where cats easily become coyote snacks which is why we haven't let him out.
What to do to keep kitty? Or is he Jeckyll and Hyde?
Thanks, Jill
ceb - 01 Oct 2004 19:09 GMT > Please help! We adopted Roscoe at the pound 3 months ago. He is now > 5 months old. He is a very active and healthy little guy, was [quoted text clipped - 27 lines] > Thanks, > Jill Some cats get overstimulated and "attack" after being petted -- when Rosalie does this, I usually yell "no" sharply and sometimes I fuss at her a bit. She has learned just to bat me once with a "soft paw" to tell me she's had enough -- and also over time you will learn the signs of when the kitty has had enough -- usually they get progressively twitchier with their tails before they attack. Getting older will also help with this behavior, so never fear.
Not sure about the weird chewing. One thing might be some extra exercise before bed so that he sleeps at night instead of chewing? Do you have some good interactive toys? Rosie loves the "Cat Charmer" which is a plastic wand with a fleece tail attached -- with a minimum of effort on my part, I can get her running and jumping all over the place -- she really gets a good workout. She's 3 years old -- kittens need even more exercise.
My old cats used to sometimes keep me awake with their nighttime antics -- I was not above waking them up constantly the next day in order to disrupt their rest so that they would sleep the next night.
--Catherine & Rosalie the calicohead
kaeli - 01 Oct 2004 20:13 GMT > Please help! We adopted Roscoe at the pound 3 months ago. He is now > 5 months old. He is a very active and healthy little guy, was [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > example, he'll come snuggle and relax for 10 or 15 minutes and then > all of a sudden attack my hand or my leg or whatever is closest. Are you sure it's really "all of a sudden"? This sounds like overstimulation to me, not play biting. Humans tend to miss kitty signals that say when kitty has had enough petting. Any or all of these signals are supposed to tell you that he's had enough cuddling or petting and that you should put him down or stop touching him: - tensing up - tail twitching - ears start to go back - purring ceases - eyes narrow; pupils may dilate
Try petting him for only 5 minutes and then putting him down while he's still liking it. Repeat later on in the day. Extend time by a minute or so every couple days to increase his tolerance. Also, many cats don't like being pet in one way or another. Watch your own behavior closely as well as everything else, including your cat's body language, your dog's location, noises going on around you, etc, to see if there is a trigger you are missing. Some things are very subtle. Maybe he hates being pet on the left ear, for example (we had a horse like that). My Rowan hates being pet on her tummy. Isis prefers that you don't touch her nose. Jeffrey just wants you to touch him. *g*
He may be responding to something you aren't aware of, is what I'm saying. We're so used to tuning out the common things that it might be something so usual to you that you don't hear it or see it any more. Perhaps a clock that chimes every 15 minutes. Anything at all. Look for the pattern. And look at HIM. He might be telling you something in a way that he thinks is obvious but you think is just something he "always" does.
> We've tried replacing human limbs with those of stuffed animals. He's > not interested. We've tried the squirt bottle. It isn't sinking in. This won't help if it is overstimulation. These are remedies for play biting. If he's trying to tell you to stop petting him, he's not going to nail the stuffy instead of you. He's going to nail your leg or hand. Some cats want to be on your lap, but don't want to be stroked or handled the entire time they're there.
> In addition to this, he has completely destroyed 3 sets of > pillowcases. He chews on the corners of them. Someone suggested this > may have to do with a definciency in his diet but we feed him a > natural and balanced kibble and he only does it while we are in bed at > night. He's teething, more than likely. My Mom has a cat who chewed on things when he was little. He grew out of it. Try Bitter Apple in the meantime.
> Would > letting him outside help? It'd help you not have a cat to worry about any more. ;) LA is no area for outside cats. And I don't think the problem has anything to do with activity levels, anyway.
Obviously, I don't know your kitty, so I can't tell if this is what's going on (body language is SO important), but it's worth a thought or three.
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Jill - 04 Oct 2004 07:07 GMT Thanks for your reply. It was very kind and helpful. Some people can be so rude on these groups--I don't understand the aggression some folks put through cyberspace.
Your suggestion that it might be some sort of stimulation I'm not aware of makes sense. It isn't biting that occurs when we're petting or handling that I'm worried about. It's biting that occurs when he is lying 2 feet from me on the sofa taking a wee doze, and then all of a sudden decides to chomp on my leg. I think it may actually be behavior he's learned from the dog, as the two of them wrestle several times a day. Like maybe if he's sleeping and wakes up and I'm close to him he has some flashbacks and thinks I might try to attack him so he goes in for the kill first. Or something.
I tried adding some bran to his food to get more fiber in his diet and also bought him some cat grass. He ruined another pillowcase last night. Maybe something about the down feathers bothers him, but I more think it's the shape of the point of the corners that it is a suckling thing.
We tried shutting him in the bathroom for 5 minutes last night when he did it but when we let him out he did it again 2 more times. Haven't had a situation tonight--so far.
I'm trying everything I can find. He'll either get better in a couple of months or I'll have to figure out something.
Thanks again.
Mary - 04 Oct 2004 08:12 GMT > Thanks for your reply. It was very kind and helpful. Some people can > be so rude on these groups--I don't understand the aggression some > folks put through cyberspace. Jill. Leave a little snippet of the post to which you are replying. We can't read your mind.
kaeli - 04 Oct 2004 17:30 GMT > Thanks for your reply. It was very kind and helpful. Some people can > be so rude on these groups--I don't understand the aggression some > folks put through cyberspace. It's easier to take out a bad day on people you never see? ;)
Oh, you should really quote part of what you're replying to, because the newsserver doesn't save the old messages for long and I'm a forgetful thing sometimes. *heh*
> Your suggestion that it might be some sort of stimulation I'm not > aware of makes sense. It isn't biting that occurs when we're petting > or handling that I'm worried about. It's biting that occurs when he > is lying 2 feet from me on the sofa taking a wee doze, and then all of > a sudden decides to chomp on my leg. That's actually very telling. Watch him closely for a little while. See if you catch what happens just *before* he does this. It may be that a sound or movement startles him and he bites before he fully wakes up and realizes what he's doing. If he thinks you are the dog, he'll bite much harder. Cats are smart - they learn that people don't like to be bitten as hard in play as other cats and dogs.
> I think it may actually be > behavior he's learned from the dog, as the two of them wrestle several > times a day. Like maybe if he's sleeping and wakes up and I'm close > to him he has some flashbacks and thinks I might try to attack him so > he goes in for the kill first. Or something. He might just think that the dog is interrupting his nap and is pissy about it. *g* Watch him to see if his eyes and ears are a little twitchy before this happens to see if he's dreaming. He may be reacting to a dream, too. You have to narrow down the cause before you can come up with a solution. The solution might be as simple as not letting him sleep right next to human flesh. *heh* The hardest part of problem solving, IMO, is finding out what the real problem is.
> I tried adding some bran to his food to get more fiber in his diet and > also bought him some cat grass. He ruined another pillowcase last > night. Maybe something about the down feathers bothers him, but I > more think it's the shape of the point of the corners that it is a > suckling thing. The latter sounds very probable. Does he have his own stuffed animal? Try getting him a stuffed puppy toy of a similar texture with corners. Check these out.
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> We tried shutting him in the bathroom for 5 minutes last night when he > did it but when we let him out he did it again 2 more times. Haven't > had a situation tonight--so far. Time outs work great for stopping behavior IF there isn't a physical reason for the behavior. If he's chewing because he's teething, he'll do better if you give him an acceptable outlet. My Mom's cat chewed on things for awhile while he was growing up. He grew out of it. I think it's probably just a teething thing. He's right at the age where he'll be cutting his back molars and those are painful. Just like a human baby, they NEED to chew to help the teeth break the gums. Cats just aren't usually as obvious about it as dogs.
Let us know how it goes.
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Mary - 04 Oct 2004 18:51 GMT > > Thanks for your reply. It was very kind and helpful. Some people can > > be so rude on these groups--I don't understand the aggression some > > folks put through cyberspace. > > It's easier to take out a bad day on people you never see? ;) You know, kaeli, this is true. While it is not true that I am less blunt with people face-to-face than online, it IS true that it is easier to do when not looking at the person. I had never really thought of that. I suppose it goes for the telephone too.
Then of course there is the idea that some folks are deserving targets, but that is another issue altogether.
kaeli - 04 Oct 2004 21:05 GMT > > It's easier to take out a bad day on people you never see? ;) > > You know, kaeli, this is true. While it is not true that I am less blunt > with people face-to-face than online, it IS true that it is easier to do > when not looking at the person. I had never really thought of that. I > suppose it goes for the telephone too. Well, I know it's true for me. Sometimes I don't think before I hit that send button.
Plus, I have a scathingly sarcastic, often dry, sense of humor that doesn't translate at all well in type, so sometimes I offend the hell out of people when I actually didn't even mean to. Not that I don't mean to sometimes. *evil grin* I always mean to offend anyone who supports declawing even after they know what it is, for example. If a person thinks a cat is "just a cat" and has the attitude that furniture is more important than the mutilation of the cat, I like to offend them deeply and as often as possible. *LOL*
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Judy - 02 Oct 2004 02:56 GMT > Please help! We adopted Roscoe at the pound 3 months ago. He is now > 5 months old. He is a very active and healthy little guy, was [quoted text clipped - 27 lines] > Thanks, > Jill By the sounds of it, if you have no knowledge about 5 month old cats, you shouldn't even consider having children.
Jill - 04 Oct 2004 06:55 GMT Gee, you're so friendly and helpful. Thanks so much for taking the time to read my message and post a reply not only useful for me but for everyone else reading this. You're obviously someone who not only knows everything one could possibly know about raising kittens and children, but are also incredibly patient, generous, and compassionate! I sure do wish there were more people like you in this world. You're the greatest!
Mary - 04 Oct 2004 08:10 GMT > Gee, you're so friendly and helpful. Thanks so much for taking the > time to read my message and post a reply not only useful for me but [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > compassionate! I sure do wish there were more people like you in this > world. You're the greatest! Who are you talking to?
Wendy - 02 Oct 2004 11:56 GMT > Please help! We adopted Roscoe at the pound 3 months ago. He is now > 5 months old. He is a very active and healthy little guy, was [quoted text clipped - 27 lines] > Thanks, > Jill Pay attention to the cat's behavior. You might be missing signals that he's had enough. If he bites or scratches put him down immediately, tell him no and ignore him.
As for the chewing on pillowcases, if this has started recently it *might* be related to teething. They shed their milk teeth sometime between 3 and 6 mos. old. His mouth may be bothering him and chewing might make it feel better. I have a foster now who didn't lose the milk teeth before the permanent teeth came in. He has duplicates of his canine teeth and his mouth is a little sore as a result.
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Mimi Yeung - 02 Oct 2004 12:16 GMT It so happens I adopted a kitten four months ago and she is now 6 months old, and I suffer from similar problems. She doesn't like petting as much as she loves biting me. When she is bored, she likes "enticing" me into the bedroom by meowing miserably, then she hides herself behind the blankets, pillows or whatever on the bed getting ready to strike. She jumps out all of a suddenly at one of my hands and bites it. To add excitement for her, I would dodge a few times before letting her get my hand. It's all a game and hinting practice she needs instinctively.
This biting actually started soon after I adopted her. It's just that she was tiny then and her bites didn't cause much pain. About two months ago, I began to think it a behavioral problem that needs to be corrected. I tried stopping her in an angry voice and flicking her nose but to no avail, so the only choice I had was give up playing when the biting got serious. Maybe she has learnt from this, or maybe she is maturing, her bites and attacks are gradually getting milder. She seems to be able to distinguish faked cries and real cries of pain. I notice that when she gets really excited, she will hold and scratch and bite the pillow hard instead me.
I actually talked to my vet about this biting problem two months ago when the situation was in its worst, and he said unlike dogs, cats normally prefers using their claws to showing their teeth. The incessant biting is likely to be a temporary behavior caused by teething. This may explain why my kitten is now easier on me now that her teething process has almost come to an end.
So, I believe the biting and chewing and scratching are all aspects of kitties' growth which you can't change and yet need not be worried about. I hope you can clench your teeth in the coming two to three months, trying to minimize your loss by taking all the precautions possible while enjoying the process, like I do. I'm sure when she has grown into an independent big lazy cat, I'll miss those troubled days when she bothered to struggle with me.
> Please help! We adopted Roscoe at the pound 3 months ago. He is now > 5 months old. He is a very active and healthy little guy, was > neutered promptly when we adopted him, has a good appetite and gets > lots of play from us and our dog (whom we adopted at the same time). > At first I figured the biting was a kitten thing. A play thing. But > he WILL NOT STOP. In fact, he seems to have a split personality. It > isn't when he's worked up that he bites. It's the opposite. For > example, he'll come snuggle and relax for 10 or 15 minutes and then > all of a sudden attack my hand or my leg or whatever is closest. > He'll latch on and it's hard to peel him off. He has learned to use > his scratch posts, uses the litter box, keeps off the kitchen table, > and is very, very sweet but this behavior is not getting better. > We've tried replacing human limbs with those of stuffed animals. He's > not interested. We've tried the squirt bottle. It isn't sinking in. > > In addition to this, he has completely destroyed 3 sets of > pillowcases. He chews on the corners of them. Someone suggested this > may have to do with a definciency in his diet but we feed him a > natural and balanced kibble and he only does it while we are in bed at > night. > > He is a good kitty 90% of the time but I'm afraid we won't be able to > have kids around this cat and it might be best to try to find a new > home for him now rather than later. He is an indoor cat. Would > letting him outside help? We live in an area in L.A. where cats > easily become coyote snacks which is why we haven't let him out. > > What to do to keep kitty? Or is he Jeckyll and Hyde? > > Thanks, > Jill
Karen Chuplis - 02 Oct 2004 15:30 GMT > It so happens I adopted a kitten four months ago and she is now 6 months > old, and I suffer from similar problems. She doesn't like petting as much [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > cries and real cries of pain. I notice that when she gets really excited, > she will hold and scratch and bite the pillow hard instead me. That's how they learn. As SOON as biting starts, yell OWWWW and completely stop play and ignore. They learn very quickly that it's not ok to bite. These are solo kitties so they don't have any other way to learn biting hurts as they would if they were playing with another cat. My cats have very soft mouths now. The one I have that does bite (but not hard) is not one I raised but got as an adult. If she bites, everything stops. Even she is learning biting gets being ignored.
Mary - 02 Oct 2004 18:01 GMT > > It so happens I adopted a kitten four months ago and she is now 6 months > > old, and I suffer from similar problems. She doesn't like petting as much [quoted text clipped - 22 lines] > raised but got as an adult. If she bites, everything stops. Even she is > learning biting gets being ignored. Karen is right. The kittens bite you because you have not trained them not to. Period.
Jill - 04 Oct 2004 07:01 GMT Thanks for your reply. Helpful words from your vet.
Mary - 04 Oct 2004 08:11 GMT > Thanks for your reply. Helpful words from your vet. Once again. WHO are you replying to?
Sherry - 03 Oct 2004 08:29 GMT >He is a good kitty 90% of the time but I'm afraid we won't be able to >have kids around this cat and it might be best to try to find a new >home for him now rather than later. If you can't put up with him, really, how can you expect someone else to? He's a baby. You have to teach him. Don't give him *any* attention when he bites. Put him on the floor and ignore him. Never use your hands to play...always use a toy for pouncing and playing. It won't be that hard to train him. And as he matures, grows older and settles down, it will get even easier. You just have to be persistent and patient.
Sherry
He is an indoor cat. Would
>letting him outside help? We live in an area in L.A. where cats >easily become coyote snacks which is why we haven't let him out. [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] >Thanks, >Jill
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