This is kind of a long story. My neighbor has lots of cats, dogs, and
children. I like my neighbor, but I don't like the way he treats his
animals. I'm sure he'd love to do better, but he's poor and poorly
educated. His cats are all indoor/outdoor cats. All of the older ones are
spayed or neutered.
His youngest cat, a foundling, got pregnant this spring. I offered to pay
for spaying her, but he couldn't face the idea of aborting kittens. I tried
to talk to them about the birth, I bought kitten food for Frosty during the
pregnancy, and I prepared a box for her to give birth in. I sat with her
and one of the children while she had the first kitten, in a quiet room away
from all the household noise. I left for a few hours. When I came back,
she had had another kitten, in their living room, with all five other cats,
two dogs, four teenagers, two adults, and a blaring tv all present. I tried
to convince them that the new family needed privacy and quiet, but they
didn't think that they did. There were, luckily, only two kittens.
Three days later they asked me if the kittens could stay at my house because
Frosty kept moving them. (Duh.) I installed them in our spare room (our
two cats are indoor only and one of them is less than pleasant around other
cats.) They've been here for five weeks now. They're healthy, happy, and a
joy to watch. I'm happier because I know they're safe and I can get their
first shots and get Frosty spayed before they return home.
There's just one problem, and I need all the advice I can get. Frosty is a
pure white cat with green eyes. The kittens are both white with blue eyes.
One of the kittens is deaf. The vet hasn't verified this yet - he said not
to make a special trip for that, but she does not respond to sound at all
and her sister does. I told my neighbor she must absolutely be an indoor
only cat - his girlfriend wants to adopt her and will keep her indoors. His
girlfriend is a nice person, but also not very well educated nor curious. I
want to be able to give her as much help as I can with little Sugar. Can
anyone give any advice on deaf kitties?
Thanks,
Susan
Can
> anyone give any advice on deaf kitties?
Yes. Keep them indoors. But since you know so much better than your
slack-jawed yokel neighbours (your implication), why don't you just keep
them or find "well-educated" homes for them. Goodness knows no-one with an
education has ever neglected or hurt an animal.
Susan Garvin - 07 Jul 2004 04:08 GMT
> Can
> > anyone give any advice on deaf kitties?
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> them or find "well-educated" homes for them. Goodness knows no-one with an
> education has ever neglected or hurt an animal..
I meant educated about cats. You mistake your inference for my implication.
I don't characterize people that way; I'm sorry that's a phrase you choose
to use.
Plunk.
Susan
> This is kind of a long story. My neighbor has lots of cats, dogs, and
> children. I like my neighbor, but I don't like the way he treats his
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> Thanks,
> Susan
Hi Susan,
My experience with deaf kittens is limited, but in general, if they
are deaf from birth they do quite well as an indoor kittty. One thing
that I have seen help is for them to have a companion cat right from
the start. Is there any chance of adopting out both kittens together?
One thing I would suggest is to keep them on a schedule so that the
kitten gets used to knowing when to come to eat. Also, with the track
record of your neighbor, I would be inclined to spay the kittens
before placing them. You can just have it done and tell them later.
I'm sure they won't argue and if they do, then you can always place
the kittens elsewhere. From my experience white, blue-eyed kittens,
deaf or not, are easy to place.
Good luck,
-L.
Sherry - 06 Jul 2004 16:12 GMT
>Also, with the track
>record of your neighbor, I would be inclined to spay the kittens
>before placing them. You can just have it done and tell them later.
>I'm sure they won't argue a
I agree with Lyn. Another thing you can do to ensure the kitten's long-term
welfare is to stress to the girlfriend that you are *always* available to take
the kitten back if it becomes too much for her. Tell her that if for any reason
she no longer wants the kitten, to bring it back to you. I don't think it
sounds like a "bad" home. It sounds like the GF is kind-hearted and at least
will make it an indoor cat. If financial difficulty is the only obstacle, you
can offer to help with that, too.
Give her a call after a while. Make sure everything is ok. I've seen people who
have dumped kittens back at the shelter for something as trivial as a flea
problem. You just never know. I sure hope it works out. Thanks for being her
guardian angel.
Sherry
Sherry
Susan Garvin - 07 Jul 2004 04:29 GMT
> >Also, with the track
> >record of your neighbor, I would be inclined to spay the kittens
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> will make it an indoor cat. If financial difficulty is the only obstacle, you
> can offer to help with that, too.
She is very nice, and her other cat is an indoor kitty.
I will take your advice and make sure she knows I'll take little Sugar if
she needs me to. I've kept one of their other cats when he had a broken leg
and needed to stay inside and be quiet. I'm sure she wouldn't hesitate to
bring her over if it got to be too much.
Since the kittens are already seeing my vet, it will be easy to offer to
keep taking them and ease her financial burden.
> Give her a call after a while. Make sure everything is ok. I've seen people who
> have dumped kittens back at the shelter for something as trivial as a flea
> problem. You just never know.
Oh, these folks would never dump a kitten. The mother, Frosty, is my
neighbor's cat because his teenage son found her in a tied-up plastic bag
and brought her home. He's kind of an obnoxious teenager, but he was
outraged that someone had tried to kill a kitten. That's one reason they
have too many pets. :-)
>I sure hope it works out. Thanks for being her
> guardian angel.
Thank you. I'm not being totally altruistic - I get to watch and play with
these unbelievably cute kittens. Sugar hasn't a clue anything is wrong with
her. She and her sister Angel play together quite happily. If anything,
Sugar was a little faster to learn how to eat kibble and to use the litter
box.
Susan,
who wants to point out that a child named these kittens
Susan Garvin - 07 Jul 2004 04:14 GMT
> My experience with deaf kittens is limited, but in general, if they
> are deaf from birth they do quite well as an indoor kittty. One thing
> that I have seen help is for them to have a companion cat right from
> the start. Is there any chance of adopting out both kittens together?
My neighbor's girlfriend, who is adopting the deaf kitten, has an older cat
already. He's a very mellow cat and has responded quite well to the kittens
when he came to visit. I might be able to persuade them to keep them
together, since said girlfriend lives less than a block away, and the kids
from both households would still be involved with the kittens.
> One thing I would suggest is to keep them on a schedule so that the
> kitten gets used to knowing when to come to eat.
Thanks. I'm free-feeding the babies now, but I'm not sure how she feeds
them. I'll pass it along.
>Also, with the track
> record of your neighbor, I would be inclined to spay the kittens
> before placing them. You can just have it done and tell them later.
> I'm sure they won't argue and if they do, then you can always place
> the kittens elsewhere. From my experience white, blue-eyed kittens,
> deaf or not, are easy to place.
Oh, they won't argue. It was a lack of funds and knowledge about cat
biology that allowed this pregnancy. They know now that you really can't
wait.
You're right about the ease of adoption, too. My neighbor was the first
person I've known who had more people lined up for kittens than he had
kittens.
They are adorable.
Susan
> Good luck,
> -L.