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KellyH - 14 Jun 2004 16:59 GMT
I have a foster cat, Hushpad, who's been here for about a month now.  She's
ten years old, was just spayed and had dental work done on Thursday last
week.  Hushpad weighs maybe 5 lbs and is a frail little cat.  She's very,
very clingy and requires a lot of attention.  She came from a house with 6
other cats, all in the same or worse shape as she is.

Over the time that I've been fostering her, I've kept her in my foster room,
and periodically one or two of my cats will come in the room to visit.
She's also made a few trips out of the room.  These encounters have gone
well, usually some sniffing, nose-touching, a little hissing with my
not-so-accepting of strangers cats.  Yesterday I let her out of the room for
about an hour.  It was her first trip downstairs.  I wanted to start letting
her out more, so I could observe her behavior with other cats and in a
household better for when I adopt her out.  She spent most of the time on
the couch with my husband and I, then I decided it was time to return her to
the room.

When I took her upstairs, Antonio, my little semi-feral (also a former
foster), was in the room.  I put Hushpad in and worked on herding Antonio
out (I can't pick him up).  While I was doing this, Bartleby (large
all-black, alpha-type, not too fond of stranger cats) was in the window in
the corner, and I didn't see him as not all the lights were on.  Hushpad
went up to him and I'm not sure what she did, but Bartleby turned and
swatted.  Next thing I know, the two are running around the room in circles
chasing each other, making lots of noise and scaring me to death.  I managed
to herd Hushpad into the bathroom, and Bartleby ran out of the room.  I
yelled downstairs to my husband to see if all the cats were down there.  He
said yes, so I let Hushpad back into the room.  Then, when I went to leave,
she flew out of the room like a demon-cat and went after Loki.  I again
corralled her back to the room and closed the door.  About an hour later,
while watching TV, we hear a crash.  We both go up, and the phone was
knocked off the nightstand and poor little Antonio is cowering behind a
chair. Hushpad is hissing.  I get her into the bathroom, and as soon as the
door is open to the room, Antonio flies out and down to the basement.  I
felt so awful that I mistakenly left Antonio in the room.  I triple check
for cats in the foster room, and return Hushpad.

Antonio and Bartleby were on edge all night.  Hushpad is still begging to
come out of the room, but I don't dare let her out.  It doesn't sound as
frightening in text as it was in person, but trust me, I thought one of the
cats would be seriously injured.  I guess this was a classic case of
redirected aggression.  I think I'm going to take a break from fostering
after Hushpad goes to the shelter.
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Annie Wxill - 14 Jun 2004 17:12 GMT
...  I
> felt so awful that I mistakenly left Antonio in the room.  I triple check
> for cats in the foster room, and return Hushpad.
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> cats would be seriously injured.  ...> --
> -Kelly

That sounds scary to me, too, even though nobody got hurt, you don't know at
the time how it will turn out.
Maybe you could temporarily change doors on your foster room to an
inexpensive door with holes drilled or in the bottom part and a couple of
eye-level holes up higher. Make the holes too small for the cats to pass
through, but big enough to see through and maybe touch noses.
You can keep Hushpad in the foster room, yet she can interact with the
others.
Annie
m. L. Briggs - 14 Jun 2004 17:19 GMT
>I have a foster cat, Hushpad, who's been here for about a month now.  She's
>ten years old, was just spayed and had dental work done on Thursday last
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>redirected aggression.  I think I'm going to take a break from fostering
>after Hushpad goes to the shelter.

Purrs for Hushpad.  To have an experience like that so soon after
surgery really mush have upset you (and her).  I hope all is well now,
MLB
Cheryl - 15 Jun 2004 00:23 GMT
In the fine newsgroup "rec.pets.cats.health+behav", "KellyH"
<Kelly@whatever.com> artfully composed this message within
<news:uXjzc.34286$eu.24472@attbi_s02> on 14 Jun 2004:

> It doesn't sound as
> frightening in text as it was in person, but trust me, I thought
> one of the cats would be seriously injured.  I guess this was a
> classic case of redirected aggression.  I think I'm going to
> take a break from fostering after Hushpad goes to the shelter.

Kelly, yes it does, at least to me. Some here might remember my
accounts with a foster cat named Bunny two years ago. It was just
before Shadow got sick and she could have been part of his stress
level rising and getting so sick. She had to spend the entire time
she was fostered here in a back bedroom because each attempt at
trying to bring everyone together resulted in Shamrock, Shadow and
Rudy (another foster) all cringing in corners. She even bit me to
the bone once because while carrying her from one room to the
downstairs, she saw one of the others and freaked. I agree, there
isn't much else that hurts as bad as a very deep cat bite. Some
cats are just not meant to be with others. I felt bad keeping her
in a room all that time, but she had a foreverhome lined up, they
just couldn't take her until they returned from a vacation. You're
the only one who can decide what is best for you, and if you need a
break from fostering, you need a break. If you don't foster, there
are always other things to do. :)

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Kalyahna - 18 Jun 2004 02:02 GMT
> I have a foster cat, Hushpad,

Tad Williams fan? ;)

> who's been here for about a month now.  She's
> ten years old, was just spayed and had dental work done on Thursday last
> week.  Hushpad weighs maybe 5 lbs and is a frail little cat.  She's very,
> very clingy and requires a lot of attention.  She came from a house with 6
> other cats, all in the same or worse shape as she is.

<snip>

> Antonio and Bartleby were on edge all night.  Hushpad is still begging to
> come out of the room, but I don't dare let her out.  It doesn't sound as
> frightening in text as it was in person, but trust me, I thought one of the
> cats would be seriously injured.  I guess this was a classic case of
> redirected aggression.  I think I'm going to take a break from fostering
> after Hushpad goes to the shelter.

My Peaches has this tendency to be the "I'm going to bully you before you
can bully me" type of cat. She was part of a pair over a year ago, but it
was discovered that the other cat was attacking her if she came out of
hiding. I had her in foster care on and off for nearly a year before I
finally caved to the paw-touches and obvious signs of bonding and adopted
the brat.

Anyway - I'm wondering if anything is known of Hushpad's history with those
other cats in her past. If she got along with them, if she was bullied there
and reacted badly when your Bartleby swatted her?

In any event, take the break you need. Some of us can't say 'no,' and suffer
for it. If you're sane enough to take a break, do it! You can talk the rest
of us down when we're on the verge of a breakdown.

~J (3 of my own, 2 adult fosters, and a grand total of nine kittens in two
foster litters taking up bedroom and bathroom)

> --
> -Kelly
> kelly at farringtons dot net
> Check out www.snittens.com
KellyH - 18 Jun 2004 02:32 GMT
> > I have a foster cat, Hushpad,
>
> Tad Williams fan? ;)

Thank you!!  We all had no idea why her name is Hushpad! I just Googled
Hushpad and Tad Williams.  It all makes sense now.

<snip>
> Anyway - I'm wondering if anything is known of Hushpad's history with those
> other cats in her past. If she got along with them, if she was bullied there
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> for it. If you're sane enough to take a break, do it! You can talk the rest
> of us down when we're on the verge of a breakdown.

Unfortunately, there's no way for me to know how she was in the other house.
Megan gave me some excellent advice about putting her on a schedule to help
her be less anxious.  I think the incident with Bartleby was the preverbial
straw for her, and now she needs chill time.  She's been better about being
all up in my face.  She will actually just sit there on my lap and I can
read while I'm visiting with her.

My husband has me on a one foster at a time rule.  I already broke the "I'm
not going to keep any fosters" rule, so I need to stick by this one ;-)

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